Chapter 1012: Between Relatives
He nodded affirmatively, and said in his heart: "Therefore, in this case, there is only one way to resolve this problem. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info In other words, it is more appropriate to find orphans. It's just that the number of post-candidates this time is not too many. There are only more than ten people, and there are only more than 20 people who survive. Out of the twenty-odd people, one orphan is to be chosen.
Isn't it as difficult as buying a lottery ticket to win the lottery? After all, there are very few orphans in the current Federation. Even if there are really orphans, the ability to grow to this extent must be related to the adoptive parents. How can it be all on your own? This is not the period of ancient earth civilization.
If it was in the time of our ancestors, it would have been possible. After all, in those days, there were more wars, and a lot of wars meant that it was different from the past. In ancient times, there were many orphans because of war. The frequency of wars has led to the death of a large number of young men and women before they have time to raise their children.
As a result, there are more and more orphans. Although at that time, our ancestors were very benevolent and already had orphanages to adopt those children, but because of the limited manpower and the war, there were relatively few orphanages, and there were more and more orphans.
In the end, there are still a large number of orphans who cannot enter the orphanage. Then their fate was a little miserable in the end. Those who are lucky can grow up in panic smoothly, and those who are less lucky may starve to death early. But even the lucky orphans don't grow up to be productive.
This is not to say that the orphans are not qualified. It's not that those children don't have the desire to learn. On the contrary, the orphans have a greater desire to learn than the children who grew up in normal families. It's just that orphans don't have the opportunity to go to school. Because it costs money to go to school.
It's a miracle that they've grown up well. And how could there be a chance to pay the tuition again? If you can't pay the tuition, then you can't go to school. And there is no way to go to school, which means that there is no way to accumulate knowledge, and if you can't accumulate knowledge, how can you have a deep understanding of a subject. The inability to gain a deeper understanding of knowledge leads to low cognition.
If a person's cognition is very low, then there is no possibility of success. This was the sorrow of orphans in those days. It's also something that can't be avoided. Of course. Some lucky orphans may have been able to enter school halfway through to stealing or other reasons.
However, in fact, they may not be able to persevere when they enter school. It can even be said that they do not enter the school, at least they still have a huge desire for learning, and they still have a great interest, even a desire, once they really enter the school, they may have a strong aversion to learning.
This is not rhetoric, nor is it a dream, nor is it nonsense, but a fact. Because, when they can get the money, they are definitely not the most suitable for studying at about seven or eight years old, they should have reached their teens or even twenty years old early. At such an age, I still have to study with first-grade children.
If learning can keep up with what hasn't been said, at least then they have comfort in their hearts, and just comfort builds confidence. This is essential for a child who is learning. It's just that what if you can't study so smoothly?
For example, after class, I was ridiculed by seven or eight-year-old children and became more inferior, isn't that bad? This kind of thing is definitely going to happen. Because, not every student in a classroom can be a child who has received a good home education. Even if you receive a good home education, you may not be a good student.
Students will always have a rebellious mentality when they are young. Once those rebellious minds are in trouble. Then, something terrible will happen. They will bully other weaker students in the same way as those who do not have the quality. Those orphans are relatively old, but regardless of their age, their physical fitness may not be much better than that of seven or eight-year-old children.
Even if they're tall, it doesn't matter. Because, the long-term flow and hardship have long made their bodies thin and weak, like a very thin toothpick, which seems to be very long, but can be broken with a light force. This is not the case with children who don't have to worry about food and clothing.
Don't look at their young age, but when they really bully people, even many adults are not their opponents. The reason is simple. They ate well. Since childhood, he has received the best nutritional nourishment, so if the two sides really fight, the loser will definitely be an orphan.
And the orphan is already very inferior, he suffers a lot in learning, and he feels that he is too stupid, which will make him ashamed of himself. If he suffers another loss in the fight, he will fall into an inescapable despair. Such emotions will cast a huge shadow on him in the rest of his life.
Therefore, the reason why orphans are unproductive is not because their qualifications are not good, but because the environment is not good, and everything is the fault of the environment. If the situation is completely reversed at this time. They were lucky enough to pick up the treasure early, get together enough to study, and enter school early when they were seven or eight years old.
Although they still can't learn a lot, compared to other students, even if they have poor academic performance, or even fall to the bottom of the class, it doesn't matter. As long as his classmates accept him and are willing to play with him, it is the best turnaround.
That will relieve the unhappiness in his heart, and all the frustration he has suffered because of his studies will slowly dissipate. However, if it is not enough for his classmates to accept him, if he wants to make his academic performance better and better, he also needs a good teacher who is more important. If the quality of the teacher is not good, it will be a disaster for him.
After all, whether a teacher is good or not will determine whether a student is accomplished or not. This is critical. A good teacher can make children understand that good or bad academic performance does not determine the future, and there is no need to be discouraged when learning poorly, and there is no need to be proud of high learning. This is something that needs to be taught patiently. But if you meet a teacher with poor quality, it's bad.
All students will feel that grades are everything. Just as there was a riot caused by money in ancient times, in which our ancestors believed that money was everything, not a quality. It seems that everything except life cannot be bought with money. It was a time that could not be looked back on.
In those days, history had some clear records that everything was determined by the amount of money. In other words, in that era, there was no more etiquette, righteousness and shame, and there was no affection between people. Only all transactions. Or rather, a calculation of more money or less money. Everybody is calculating others.
The same is true between loved ones. The elder brother calculates how much money his younger brother makes, and how much I can get out of it. The younger brother calculated that he had earned so much money, how to find an excuse to give less to his brother. And the sister of the family is calculating when she can cheat her brother's share of income into her own pocket.
As for what my sister is calculating, she is trying to cheat the money out of her sister's pocket and into her own hands. And my mother is calculating how much money my sister has and how she can cheat it all. In this way, you can give the eldest and second children pocket money more generously in the future.
And the father of the head of the family is also calculating all the time. It's just that the content of Dad's calculations is different from the rest of the family. Because, dad needs to earn money to support the family. Therefore, it is impossible for him to calculate his relatives, he calculates how to cheat the money out of his superiors, the more the better, the faster the better.
And his boss is calculating how to cheat the money out of his boss's pocket, and the more the merrier. As for his boss, of course, he will not be uncounted. If he doesn't count, then he's a fool. Because, in those days, no one wanted to be a fool.
To put it simply, in those days, there were no more gentlemen in the world. Everyone is a villain. Because, if you want to be a gentleman, you will be ridiculed by everyone at that time. Moreover, there is no future, if you want to be a gentleman, first of all, it will be difficult for you to live at home.
Your parents will reprimand you or even beat you for wanting to be a gentleman. That's what they're going to teach you. Kids. How can you be so naïve? Do you think the world is beautiful right now? Wrong. The world is not good at all. You have to remember. I ask you to remember. This is not my request, nor is it your parents' advice, nor is it a suggestion.
Rather, it is our command. Do you understand? You must remember that this world is very ugly. The only reason why you think it's beautiful is because the world makes you see its beauty. In other words, the world is deliberately trying to make you think it's good, but it's just an illusion.
Do you understand the illusion? It seems that you still don't understand it. Kids. Mom and Dad have been teaching you for so long, why don't you get the hang of it? Do you know how worried we are? But, fortunately, you haven't gone out yet. If you let you go out like this, you're in trouble.
More importantly, you need to understand a truth. We don't let you out to hinder you, or harm you, or ruin your future, but instead, we're doing it all for your own good. That is, if you understand the truth of this world, then you can get out.
At that time, we won't stop you anymore. Do you understand? It still doesn't seem to be. That's okay, Mom and Dad have time to teach you anyway. I'm starting to give you a good lesson now. Do you know why the world is so good for you?
Because, if you had known the ugliness of the world early on, you would have been full of despair of the world. And a child is the hope of our future and the hope of all mankind. There is absolutely no room to lose hope. In order for us humans to survive better, we must ensure that you can grow up healthily.
However, no matter how healthy your growth is, there will be setbacks and bad things will happen. It's inevitable, just like the sky always rains, it can't always be good weather, right? When you were a kid before, the thing you thought was beautiful was a sunny day.
And from now on, anything you experience will be cloudy and rainy. If you're unlucky, you might even get into rain and snow. All in all, your good days are over. This is the first thing Mom and Dad want to tell you. Then, what Mom and Dad are going to tell you, you can't trust what the other person says when you meet anyone in the future.
It's going to be a test for anyone, and you can listen to it the other way around, but you can't just come and listen to it. See? It seems that you still don't get it. Then Mom and Dad will tell you what the reason is. Because, people outside are not related to us as relatives.
And it is precisely because it is not a family relationship, so if someone outside harms you, there is no loss if they cheat your money, and they will not feel distressed for you, but will be happy, or even laugh at you. This is the outside world. It's completely different from the world at home.
As for classmates, it's the same. Strangers can hurt you. can pit you. Or even sell you. Classmates will too. And, in comparison, it is less difficult for your classmates to do this to you. Because, they will take advantage of the relationship with you as a classmate. If you are unguarded because of this, you will easily believe your classmates.
Then you will be the unlucky one at that time. No one will help you if you talk to anyone. The reason is simple. They, like those strangers, are not related to you by any blood. Therefore, it is the same for them to help anyone. And you are the one who is being bullied, which is equivalent to the weak.
Why should I help you? If you help the weak, you are the enemy of the strong who bully you. So, in order to calm things down, you will not have any good results by making a report, but will only put you in a more unfavorable situation. Teachers will hate you, let alone classmates.
As for those who have bullied you, who are being proud, they will only continue to bully you even more. Even the despair that drives you out. Do you know why? The reason is simple. They understood a truth. There are no terrible consequences at all in the future after bullying you, and there will be no punishment, so why not continue to bully you?
No one will care about this anyway. They will become emboldened. And you will become isolated. You're going to think about resisting, aren't you? But do you think it's useful? Kid, don't be naïve. Useless. It's useless for you to resist. Because, you are only one person, and there will be more and more people who bully you. You are outnumbered. ”