For dreams that are difficult to achieve for a while, the best way is to wait in forgetting, to come, to be lucky, and not to complain, instead of constantly being disappointed in the mind and lingering, and wait until the day when it is truly realized, but also to calm down and tell yourself that this is what you deserve for your efforts. Qian Shiyuan once said, "Without the support of your parents, you can't buy it."

Yu Yue smiled but didn't answer, she said in her heart, "If it weren't for the constraints of my parents, I would have gone out to rent a house a long time ago." It's because they don't want me to be so embarrassed, so I have compromised with you so far, but I didn't expect you to be tough to the end. ”

After the deposit was paid, Yu Yue's heart settled.

As soon as she had a room, Yu Yue was no longer anxious, because she knew that she would have to leave this place of right and wrong sooner or later, so her heart involuntarily let go. Behind the seemingly impersonal nature of many things, it is actually self-protection after the vicissitudes of life. Most of the girls who grow up in happiness are as gentle as jade. If one day she changes, it can only mean that there is too much gap between her life and her life. Some women complain that their husband's friends and family don't respect you, and that's because your husband doesn't respect you, so others dare to step on you. If you want to gain true dignity in life, you must start with self-esteem, and only a woman who loves herself can be cared for.

Yu Cheng was busy before his wedding. It is really not wrong to say that the people of the Qian family are "people of right and wrong", they are sabotaging everywhere, destroying harmony, and jumping off the beam like a clown. But at the moment when people are doing happy events, something is happening again.

On the day of the wedding banquet, Yu Yue handed over the person to Qian Shiyuan, and he had to go to Zhang Luo Zhang Luo, and when it was time to eat in the evening, Qian Shiyuan came over first, saying that Rong Rong asked his grandparents to bring him to eat, and Yu Yue didn't say anything.

When he arrived at the table, for some reason, Rong Rong suddenly screamed uncontrollably, and rushed out of the dining room crying with his face covered. Yu Yue went in when she heard the sound, Rong Rong saw her mother and rushed into it desperately, hitting and bumping, her emotions were very out of control, Yu Yue couldn't hold him anymore, and Qian Shiyuan, who came out with her, pointed at the child and scolded, "I'm spoiled by you! It's so unruly, I don't know how to respect my elders." ”

The child's crying eyes stared at Qian Shiyuan, "I don't want you as a bad father, I don't want you as a bad grandmother." ”

Yu Yue understood three points in her heart, she said to Qian Shiyuan with a gloomy face, "What is the occasion today?...... Forget it, what are you supposed to do. Get away from me. ”

Qian Shiyuan went in unhappily.

finally stabilized his son's mood, and Yu Yue knew what happened. It turned out that the child was beaten in order to make room for his mother. The mother-in-law took the child to sit down, and the child saw that the mother had not come over, so she was afraid that the mother would not have a place to sit, so the position next to her would not be given to the grandmother to sit anyway, and the grandmother was eager to let the relatives and friends of the Yu family see how the child was taught to the child at this moment. So, that pitiful expression was immediately in place, and the whole face was embarrassed into two words, "grievance", the second aunt next to her was already angry with Rong Rong, and as soon as she saw Qian Shiyuan coming over, she fanned the flames vigorously. The two old women hit it off, but they got along quite tacitly.

It's a long story, last time the second aunt's grandson Qiqi played with Rong Rong, the two children fought over things, Qiqi was two years older, and there was no room for the small ones. The second aunt watched from the side, and did not stop it, this scene was seen by Liu Jingfang who went to the toilet, she was about to say, "Why don't you drink the child's ,......", this is not said completely, the beaten Rong Rong bit Qiqi, Qiqi screamed, the second aunt reacted, and immediately shouted everywhere with a bullied look, Liu Jingfang said, "The big one beats the small one, you don't stop it, now the small one fights back, you are screaming, how can you do this, adult." ”

The second aunt's family is already at a loss, and it is difficult to argue about anything, but she has a grudge in her heart. Later, the two children played chess, Kiki was defeated and retreated, and the second aunt's family was anxious to give the child a head, so she had to teach the child how to play, but Kiki just didn't listen, and finally lost a mess, and the second aunt's family hated iron and steel. Seeing Rong Rong's domineering appearance of resolutely not letting his grandmother sit down, the anger in his heart came again, and when he saw Qian Shiyuan, he fanned the flames, "Your son, it's time to educate him well, there are no elders in his eyes." ”

Qian Shiyuan couldn't stand the agitation of others, he was already angry, this handful of oil was just poured on the gas head, and he didn't hesitate to split his head and cover his face, in front of more than 20 tables of guests, there was no occasion at all.

Listening to the child tell what happened, Yu Yue was angry, but she had to put down the blame, comfort the child first, and then just hold the child and wait for him to finish crying and calm down. She took her children to another table to eat, and she was twenty meters away from her mother-in-law and husband, out of sight and out of mind.

After the wedding banquet was finished, Yu Yue took the child back tired, and when the child fell asleep, Yu Yue spoke.

"Qian Shiyuan, you disappointed me too much......"

Before he finished speaking, Qian Shiyuan waved his hand, "You dote on the child too much, he just wants to teach him a good lesson, I will beat him when I come back, if I don't fight, I can't do it, there are no elders in my eyes, and I don't have education!

"In his eyes, there are no elders, you all know that you have to love your mother, you have to get a place to take care of her first, why can't Rong Rong leave a place for her mother? You have to have empathy! Maybe the child's attitude is not good, maybe the way is wrong, at least you must affirm that his starting point is good, you don't ask indiscriminately to beat people, and there is no occasion, whose face do you lose?"

"Hmph, I'll educate my children, so as not to be taught badly by you, what's the use of people who don't even want grandma!

"Then who told your mother that she doesn't know how to reason with her child? If the child doesn't let her sit, she won't sit? Who does she have to stand there and play for? What an angry person! Rong Rong is a reasonable child, what's wrong with him leaving a place next to his mother? If you are an adult, you have to know how to coax, can't you find three empty seats? Even if you meet the child's idea, what will happen if you leave me one more? Why don't you compromise for the child's love? She just likes to pretend to be pitiful on occasions when there are more people, as if she is angry with her daughter-in-law every day, pretending to be pretending. “

"Don't over-interpret it, that's your idea, my mother is not as complicated as you! “

"She's such a person, she likes to preset bad people, her heart is very dark, she feels terrible to live with her, she is always a negative emotion, and there is no good person in her eyes and mouth. ”

"As long as you are human beings, we are not, I am a father, don't I even have the right to teach my children?"

"Teaching a child is a beating for you. ”

"There's nothing wrong with that, you can't do it if you don't fight. It's better than spoiled. ”

"The children who come out are hateful and hostile in their hearts, just like you, and everyone looks like your enemy. ”

"You don't do much, your college entrance examination score is only the second, and my farmers have also cultivated me as a college student, and I am still the first. “

"To add, you're going to Ben Yi after a year of tutoring!"

"You added 20 points to go to the master's university!"

Yu Yue looked at him with disdain and didn't say a word.

After Yu Cheng's marriage was completed, the father and daughter hurriedly paid the down payment, and waited for the cousin to send back a sum of money, both of them wanted to pay a little more for the down payment, so as not to make the mortgage pressure so great.

It's another year of summer vacation, Rong Rong strongly asked to learn to paint, Yu Yue signed up in the interest class, although far away from home, but also every day under the scorching sun without hesitation. For two and a half hours in the morning, Yu Yue would go to a tea bar with a good environment, and seventeen or eighteen-year-old middle school students would come and go every day. Sometimes you run into your own school, sometimes you come from another school, don't ask people how to know which school those students are from, this is a test of eyesight. Yu Yue has been a teacher for so long, and the students from the school of which level can almost be identified at a glance. Sit down in twos and threes, ask for a cup of tea, take out books, and do their own homework, which is most likely from a good school. Occasionally, I met a sweet student couple, who were not frivolous in their words and deeds, and asked questions while asking questions, which were basically from good schools, and they all regarded the tea bar as a study room. But the same seventeen or eighteen years old, the same three, three, two, two, the same order for a cup of tea, some are playing poker together, smoking cigarettes together, and making loud noises together as if no one else is around, so there is no need to say more. The same summer vacation, where to spend the time, the future days will definitely tell you.

Once, several students got together to drink tea, chatted about filling in the volunteers, and looked forward to the appearance of college life, which made Yu Yue very infected, and couldn't help but "eavesdrop" on their various plans, and smiled silently in her heart. A burst of smoke came from the smell, and there were no boys for a long time. Following the smell of smoke, the two girls at the other table were spitting out smoke as if no one was around. Hey, also seventeen or eighteen!

The results of the college entrance examination came out, Qian Shiyuan's class took the exam very well, he was a very hard class teacher, so the students also worked hard. In the end, the general ones have become dark horses. In a good mood, in the middle of the night, the third watch pulled Yu Yue out to eat crayfish. Life is always in the smoke of gunpowder, and it will be tiring. Without those trifles, they can be dashing.

accidentally ran into a colleague again, and a female teacher also joked that Qian Shiyuan said that she knew how to love his wife, hey, Yu Yue sighed in her heart.

The time for the annual re-inspection is also scheduled for the summer vacation, and Yu Yue, who originally decided to do ** reconstruction, had to put the plan aside for the time being. If you don't have money in your pocket, you have to have a priority in what you do. This year's summer vacation is unusual, just ten years after Yu Yue graduated from university, the school has a tradition of holding a class reunion, her class estimates that more than 20 people can be present, Yu Yue is sure to attend, she hopes that everyone can see themselves in good shape. Taking this opportunity, Yu Yue brought her son and husband, it was not easy to come to the provincial capital, Yu Yue went to the class reunion by herself, and asked her husband to take his son to the museum, which was a good arrangement. The magic of the class reunion is that ten years have passed, and when we get together, we are still the same you and me. If it weren't for the fact that the provincial city was so hot that it couldn't be stunned, the family of three planned to stay for a few more days before leaving, Tian Fan, the best friend in college, invited Yu Yue's family to the beach to play, and there was another male classmate in the class and the family, and the three families played very relaxed for a few days.

When classmates have the opportunity to get together, they must be tempted to dig out their hearts, and they have no scruples about speaking, Yu Yue told Fan Fan about the situation in the past ten years, and when she said this, she was like going through her own life, and it was also to cheer up her future, she needed people's support too much.

Fan Fan said, "You have always been a very energetic girl in my eyes, you have always been beautiful, the beauty is in that kind of enthusiasm for life, you are too thoughtful and assertive, I have always regarded reading as a process of finding a job, and you are really detached, you really care about the country and the nation, care about social issues, sympathize with the weak, you are simply pretending to be a woman, your analysis and insights on various issues are too unique, I will never forget you." Especially at work, that kind of passion is difficult to imitate, maybe that's it, you're too idealistic, too unmaterialistic, I don't judge your husband well, but I've always felt that a woman like you should marry into that kind of family that has no worries about food and clothing and is enlightened and democratic, you are suitable for big things, and trivial things will make you tired. I was so sad when I knew that you had a physical problem that year, but now I am immediately relieved to see your state, this is like your style, you are not such an easy woman to defeat. ”

Yu Yue hugged Fan Fan, "China's state of the ass determines the position, and the industry is too closed, in the past, politicians and teachers were flowing with each other, and intellectuals who have been used in the world abound, but now, teachers can only talk about righteousness and reason on the podium, and talk about politics without practical experience, who listens?"

Fan Fan nodded, "I'm going with the flow, hey, there is still the task of giving birth to a son, we here, without a son, we can only continue to give birth." Many of the local male teachers in the school have resigned, so how can such a small salary be enough for a man to support his family? ”

"Hey, there is no dignity for those who are teachers, and those who do evil show off their might. The two friends sighed, but they didn't realize that it was already late at night. Life is actually a process of "waiting for death", the magic is in this "waiting" word, how many people live their own wonderful life in this journey, if blindly entangled in this "death" word, then what is the meaning of coming to the world? Chicken soup for the soul can not drink too much, we must learn to stew. So, if a person wants to get out of the spiritual dilemma, decisiveness and action are the key.

Bidding farewell to Tian Fan's warm hospitality, everyone went home.

Knowing that Shiyuan still didn't understand the fact that his parents-in-law had bought a house, Yu Baoping was shocked.

"Why don't you tell your husband about such a big thing, it's not right for you to do this. “

"Ahh “

Yu Baoping was very dissatisfied with his daughter's quibble, "Don't be forceful, it's been almost two months since we bought our house, and he doesn't know that he is a husband?"

"Don't make me mistake, he didn't buy it from me, it was my parents. When I come back from the re-inspection, I will renovate and move out. “

"Ah, that's how you plan to do it? I help you buy a house because I want you to be less burdened, not to let you be willful. “

"If you want to say it, I don't want to tell him. “

Yu Baoping was helpless about his daughter's toughness and willfulness, and he could only swallow the consequences of spoiling.

Then on the opportunity to go back to his parents' house for dinner on the weekend, Yu Baoping told his son-in-law about buying a house, and Shiyuan looked at Yu Yue in shock. Yu Yue glanced at him and didn't speak.

"Dad, I'm embarrassed by you like this. My future plans will be disrupted by this. “

"Don't be rhetorical, you're not planning to buy a house at all. Yu Yue interrupted him

"I also want to build a house in the countryside so that they can have a place to live in their old age. “

Yu Yue couldn't help but interrupt again, "Don't repeat the old topic, they can't go back not because they don't have money to build a house, it's because Shi Zhai needs their help." “

"The grandchildren are all grown up, so they will always be free by then. Don't I plan to be my son?"

"Your brother and sister finally got pregnant and took it away, is it possible that I have to wait for her to have a second child when I buy a house, and I have to wait until it is a son?"

"Why are you doing this to me, am I treating you badly?"

"If I treat you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you're long gone, I hope you understand that I've endured for you for many years, do you think if you weren't there I would be willing to stay with your parents or your parents would be willing to stay with me, I don't want to, it's not for you, then why can't you do it for me?"

"My parents don't care, they have to be with their son and daughter-in-law when they are old, and when we move away, they can't see their grandchildren and can't enjoy the joy of family. “

"Don't talk about your grandchildren! Ask yourself what they did? If you get along, I don't care, the point is that you can't live together. I don't like people to lie on my bed at every turn, how can I be a mother-in-law who always burrows into the bed of my son and daughter-in-law? I don't like the bad habit of going on a rampage without knocking on the door, I don't see anyone unseemly, but I just don't like others to get to the bottom!"

Seeing that the more her daughter talked, the more excited she became, Yu Baoping was afraid of recalling the past and quarreling and hurriedly came out to mediate. "Okay, don't turn the old things out. It's good to live separately from the elderly. There are benefits to keeping a point distance. “

Seeing that his father-in-law was openly standing aside, Qian Shiyuan was helpless, so he had to throw out a sentence, "I don't have the money to decorate." “

"I didn't ask you to pay for it? I didn't agree to buy a house, I still hope that you will pay for the decoration? I have as much as I want? I don't want luxury. Just be able to stay."

"Hmph, I'm out for daily use, so you save private money. “

"You paid for the groceries, but you didn't give it to your mother. Didn't you say that all your money belongs to your parents? In this case, what does your money have to do with me? Just your mother, she never buys good food, I buy all the good food, what happens to you who usually raise your children? I am responsible for food, clothing, and entertainment. Why don't you say that your mother embezzled her son's money and hid it in her private house? I have a job and go out to work part-time, you go out and tell everyone that I have to rely on you if Yu Yue has no money, who do you think will believe it? I don't care that you are kind to give all the money to your mother. “

"Then you go grocery shopping!"

"Who are you scaring about? I'm in charge of her absence. She doesn't do anything here, she will only have more spare time to find trouble. ”

"Why do you think so badly of people? Respecting the old is your duty, why don't you want people to cook for you, you can't serve her old man?"

"Use your brain before you say that!"

Yu Baoping impatiently planned two people. "Okay, okay, just don't use the money indiscriminately, what's the point of fighting for this? You won't be fooled when you buy a house, you can decorate it after you think about it, and don't make trouble again." ”

There was nothing to say all the way, Yu Yue ignored him for several days, Qian Shiyuan asked several times if he really bought a house, or was it just a reservation? A strong nagging asked Yu Yue to retreat, saying that he would not decorate his father-in-law's house, he could not explain to his parents, and the things of the Qian family could not be given to people with foreign surnames. Yu Yueying didn't bother to respond to him, no matter how soft and hard he was, he was verbose. When I couldn't help it, I scolded directly, "I've been in your family for seven or eight years, and the money has been spent in this family, has anyone thanked me? Is anyone grateful for supporting your parents with you? How many things in the family are bought by me, and your parents are not using them? Why should my money be given to your family as a matter of course? I have raised a bunch of white-eyed wolves. Besides, of course the house my parents bought for me to live in has to be renovated by myself, is it possible that I will continue to gnaw at the old one?

"Your parents are too good to write their daughter's name, and now we pay for the renovation of your parents' house. If you have your name, I will definitely help you decorate. “

They also hope that Yu Cheng will have the ability to buy a house, not to be crowded with his parents, and to become a child who will not grow up, and will have no sense of responsibility after a long time. Besides, it's my decision not to write my name, why should I sign my name, I'm not so stupid, I have basic legal knowledge! Your parents' house won't sign our name, and let me provide for them for nothing, how fine! Hmph. “

"Their situation is different, they even paid for the renovation of the Lido's house. “

"What did your father say before marriage, saying that he would change his name to our name and transfer the ownership, but it was over, I didn't care, but when I was sick, how did your family treat me, I was very cold, I am not greedy for your house, I just want to have my own home, I don't want to face them all day, I have been waiting for so many years, just for you to say that I want my safety period to pass, now that the safety period has passed, you should always have confidence, but you are still delaying, you have no sincerity at all. “

"Don't be so careful, they won't give the house to anyone else. “

"House, I didn't have any idea of it, and if it weren't for so many things happening, I would never have thought about the question of ownership. For so many years, I have supported him and the two elders with you, they are always at ease, you think about it, for so many years, their house has been waiting for appreciation, and our efforts for this family have become "consumer goods" consumption, I originally didn't care, even the burden was recognized when I married you, but I don't want to admit it now, why? Just because they and I are not a family at all, when I have an accident, push me out, who do I expect? I owe them by nature? Ah? They make me insecure, then I can't be caught. “

"You are on the line, life is like war! I can't live with you, I can't explain to my parents!"

"Don't be sentimental, I didn't ask you to come out to live with me, I will only bear a heavier burden if you come, and the affairs of the whole family will be brought to my life. ”

"Isn't that a divorce?"

"Almost, it's just a lack of a card. If you have a certificate, I will agree to sign it. “

"Damn, I go through old accounts every day, as if everyone owes you! My parents have no obligation to be good to you!"

"And vice versa. “

"I didn't count on you, did I use your money to support my parents?"

"Hmph! You all have the same idea. Your mother, in the past few years, has always given me all kinds of 'feudal dross' ideological education, and always borrowed other people's words to express it, no one is more shrewd than her, what to say, 'There is a quarrel with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law does not want to live with the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law will reply to her, 'I don't live with you, I live with my son, I don't use your money, I use my son's money.'" I was just listening to other people's business, and if she came to me now, I would answer her, 'Then what is your son's marriage, why should the family live together.' ’

"That's the case, they just don't have money, you have to admit it! It's not as good as your life, the system is unfair, it's just that honest farmers like my parents are suffering.

Yu Yue listened to the word "honest", and couldn't help but despise it in her heart, and she didn't argue with him about this. "It's one thing for the system to be unfair, but it's the problem to be lazy and lazy through the unfairness of the system!"

"Your heart is too hard, your mother can play at home when she retires in her fifties, why does my mother have to die of exhaustion!"

"Not comparable. “

"Hmph, you just look down on people in your bones!"

Yu Yue was too lazy to respond, every time she was fighting, she would be tired.

When I was talking to my father in my spare time, Yu Yue said, "I don't want to work to make money, forget it, I can't get used to this all day long, I look down on that, what is it who is going to sweep the floor, how to shame the child's face when I go to scavenging, I say it over and over again, every time I finish speaking, she will look at me and respond, she is just to brainwash me, and want me to affirm her thoughts, so that she can be lazy and lazy." But this really doesn't fit my values, I can only remain silent at most, but unfortunately his mother is too strong, at least twenty times in front of me, I finally can't help it. I replied, 'Labor is the most glorious, and I don't think these old men and women are dishonoring their sons and daughters, but they are winning glory for their children and using labor to reflect their social value.' ’“

Yu Baoping laughed, "Can your mother-in-law understand what you said, haha." “

"I don't care if she understands it or not, she can't understand it no matter how popular I speak, and even if she understands it, she will deliberately distort it, it doesn't matter. “

"It's also said that if you don't do it, forget it, and make irresponsible remarks about people who are willing to do things. “

"yes, you have to talk a lot. “

Always compete with peers, and don't talk about the short and long with fools. A person's maturity is determined by experience and critical thinking ability, and has nothing to do with age. The best love in the world is not to be in love with each other, but to be tacit. But most of the time it's just a bowl of chicken soup, and people need to face it. People's pain does not come from loss, but from the loss of what was once good. People are strong, not because of their personality, but because no one can rely on them. People are lonely not because they are waiting, but because they don't know what they can wait for. The beauty of people is not that no one appreciates it, but that there is no one who appreciates it.

Such a serious illness, Yu Yue is like a mirror in her heart, a person, as long as it is valuable, her contribution will be valued, on the contrary, her contribution is like repaying debts, so it is a matter of course. Therefore, we must learn to accept, to accept the accident, to accept the apostasy, to accept the hard work but not to be rewarded, to accept the cruelty of the world and the inadequacy of human nature, but to accept it without compromise.

People who have many scruples will fail, and the rules and regulations will constrain their thoughts and actions, and they will not be able to achieve themselves if they fulfill the great righteousness???? Instead, you will do it in a chic way to change, and in the end you will find an unknown self.

The property fee began to be calculated after the house was bought, and Yu Yue's purpose in buying the house was not to demonstrate, nor was it all for self-comfort, she really wanted to change her life, for herself and for her future children. A resentful woman is not a good thing for a family, and it is more important than anything else to change your current situation in time. When the mother was there, she was always unaccustomed to Yue's way of educating her son, and in her opinion, women should serve men. The truth of male dominance and female dominance is not wrong, but the mistake is that many women think that the main body is dependent on men, and gradually lose the light that women should have.

Men and women, there is only a difference in the division of labor, and there is no difference in rank, not to mention, modern women wear many hats and work harder, women in the old society can ask men for money with peace of mind, if women do not have the ability to survive and are naturally abandoned, many are hurt and self-deprecation, thinking that they can't keep up with the times is a sin, as everyone knows, men have changed their minds, will let you and him get farther and farther. Women, if they do not live as a "social" role, but only a "mother", then the children may abandon you in the end.

It is difficult for a woman who is brainwashed by patriarchal ideology, does not regard herself as a person from her heart, does not know how to fight for equal rights, and is obedient to the truth, it is difficult to teach a truly thoughtful and moral person, and in fact, foreign countries have also proved that the happier the mother, the more the child can speak well, will be able to deal with interpersonal relationships, and be emotionally sound. This pattern is especially evident for the son. Therefore, the more oppression and exploitation of women, the more they are cocooning themselves. After all, Qian Shiyuan's family is an outdated old-style family relationship, carried away by today's money-first vanity, and instead of insisting on the benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith that should be adhered to, it continues the narrowness and arrogance that should not be in the thinking of small farmers. Women are the objects of destruction in his family, and women, in turn, try to perpetuate this pattern in a way that oppresses women. Yu Yue knows this better than anyone else, so many years of literary and historical skills have brought her not only profound knowledge, but also the development of critical thinking ability. Breaking through this predicament, Yu Yue thinks that she seems to have traveled to the May Fourth period and has a ???? Unruly fighting spirit.

In Qian Shiyuan's view, the house is Yu Yue's oath to "get out of control", and everything is not going well, and he is doing everything possible to find trouble. Yu Yue seems to be more confident, and in line with the principle of seeing out of sight, she moved out directly and lived back to her parents' house. Liu Jingfang was more sensitive, "Hmph, that person, when I saw the day of the retest, my intestines began to knot again!"

Yu Yue only booked his own ticket in a fit of anger, but Qian Shiyuan was very calm, and decided that Yu Yue couldn't leave him and didn't dare to leave him. On that day, Yu Yue packed up and set off without saying a word to Qian Shiyuan, Qian Shiyuan realized that something was wrong, and he had to follow, he didn't believe that Yu Yue only set a ticket for one person, he expected that Yu Yue was playing with his temper. Qian Shiyuan was dumbfounded when he got on the car, he really didn't have his share, and he encountered a typhoon, the guests of the first two days were piled up on that day, and they couldn't make up for the tickets, Qian Shiyuan was driven away in the middle of the night, and stood alone in the hard-seat carriage all night. The next day, Yu Yue felt that the punishment was enough, after all, people also came, so he forgave him. Qian Shiyuan thought of the last free trip to Hong Kong, and then thought of buying a house, knowing that his wife was really an "iron lady" who said everything and did what she said.

Come back all well, and the days are looking forward. When school starts in September, the craziest thing is to change your academic qualifications. Why did the things that I should have done after graduating from graduate school five years ago been delayed at this time? It is said that there is a "living treasure" with a strong inferiority complex that is hindering it. Five years ago, Yu Yue was full of interest and took the documents to the financial office to keep the bottom in order to increase the salary, and this "living treasure" at home began to pour cold water, saying that Yu Yue is a graduate student who is a half-way monk, who will admit it? There are more than a dozen masters of education in the school, who do you see have increased the salary? I have asked Accountant Huang a long time ago, and he said that you are useless, a master's degree in education, and it is worthless. Yu Yue was not a "unit skewer", and when she heard her husband say this, her heart was half cold. The next thing is to give birth to a baby and get sick, and all kinds of contradictions are entangled...... It wasn't until five years later that a document in the city said that government agencies and institutions would increase academic salaries in the future, Yu Yue carefully studied the document and found that he was actually a full-time graduate student. At this time, Qian Shiyuan couldn't help but despise it, Yu Yue couldn't say anything, to say that Qian Shiyuan Yu Yue five years ago still had some prestige in his heart, Yu Yue at this time understood that his own things were still good to do. ran to the Education Bureau and the Civil Service Bureau, and was laughed all the way, "It took five or six years to change my academic qualifications, and I received a lot less salary, which is really open." Yu Yue spread her hands helplessly, and then responded self-deprecatingly, "People are stupid and have no wealth, hehe." ”

Experience the worst to enjoy the best. In life, all suffering will not be in vain, and all blessings will not be in vain. Let's go over those things that "speak coldly", "fall into the well", and "turn your face and don't recognize people", it's not to forgive mistakes, but to forgive human nature! After all the struggles in life, Yu Yue gained a strong self, and also understood that real strength is not to conquer something, but to be able to bear something. Bear all the pain and suffering that life gives you, accept your truest face and current situation, no matter how fate arranges, you can be back to the original self, so you are a strong you.

Action is always more attractive than longing. The Buddha said that suffering is the essence of human life, and when you feel that it is very hard, everything is right. The wish will come late, but persevere, and it will not be absent.

I didn't officially talk to my father-in-law about the house, because the house was not bought by Shiyuan and Yuyue, and it was not a good thing for my in-laws. Speaking of Yu Yue's parents' house, that is, the house of her in-laws, Yu Yue didn't want to say it, because she was afraid that they would stop the decoration and prevent Qian Shiyuan's intervention, Yu Yue also wanted to make the final effort, and she didn't give up completely on Qian Shiyuan, she hoped that Qian Shiyuan would at least be clearer about her family responsibilities after the established facts, and more importantly, Yu Yue didn't like a broken home, although the child couldn't remember his father enough, but it was not the ultimate reason.

At the end of the year, in order to save money, I didn't look for a decoration company, I just spent money to find someone to design it, and the next thing was for Yu Yue to slowly explore by himself. The weather was so cold, she still went to supervise the work every day, and the construction site was a mess, which seemed to her to be a field of hope.

At five o'clock in the morning, Yu Yue suddenly woke up and heard her mother get up and walk to the kitchen, and after a while, the sound of an omelet came out, "Let's boil eggs again today." She thought to herself, and went back to sleep. At seven o'clock, Yu Yue woke up his son, packed up and prepared for breakfast, and found that there were only porridge and dried bean curds and pickles, "Uh, I heard you were frying eggs, and I thought the noodles were dry." Yu Yue blurted out. At that moment, Li Yonglan's face was very unsightly, she didn't answer, trying her best to pretend that she didn't hear. Yu Yue also suddenly understood at that moment. Li Yonglan was very nervous, and explained that he was steaming medicine, so he put a few ribs, and he was afraid that the smell of medicine would blow into the living room, so he closed the door. Yu Yue just listened in a daze, seeing that her daughter-in-law didn't react, this shrewd old lady said more and more, "Isn't it just more electricity and more water, it doesn't cost much." Yu Yue never understood why she explained so much, why she had to talk about money every time, she didn't have the heart to listen to it, let alone care about these trivial matters. An unexpected early awakening made Yu Yue accidentally discover the little secret of his mother's mother and understand the sorrow of a rural lady under the fence.

In Yu Yue's eyes, this rural granny is a spreading strangulation banyan, always showing weakness, good at confusing, constantly eroding the newborn family, and the only way to fight is to hide, not giving her any chance to entangle. The earliest Yu Yue was not like this, she thought about helping this old lady fight against the old forces, fight against the deep-rooted patriarchal ideology, and even thought about teaching her to read and write and withdraw money from the ATM, but every time the mother complained, as long as Yu Yue proposed a relevant solution, the mother immediately changed a person, and N looked at this "unenlightened" with disdainful eyes 's daughter-in-law, she said so much so that Yu Yue should endure and accept it as a daughter-in-law, but Yu Yue's indignant attitude every time made this old lady feel out of control. Yu Yue is also gradually sobering up, not every woman has her own height, so don't complain about others' ignorance, and don't expect others to stand at the same height as you. In fact, the height of a person determines her knowledge. After that, Yu Yue's complaints to her mother became more and more careless, and her mother said too much and felt very crazy when she saw that the other party did not respond, and always complained about her daughter-in-law's indifference in front of Shi Yuan, and Shi Yuan recognized Yu Yue's arrogance and unkindness.

Everything is moving towards what they want to live, and in the process of pursuing their own happy life, the father-in-law chose to destroy, Qian Shiyuan chose to escape, and Yu Yue chose to face it, and the mother's family chose to support. Qian Shiyuan often couldn't figure it out, and always said, "Why can't my 160-square-meter house keep you? I didn't cheat, and I accompanied you when you were sick, so why am I sorry for you?" I'm responsible enough for you!"

At this time, Yu Yue no longer wanted to argue for herself, she just listened most of the time, and was too lazy to respond. Some people, some words, say too much is not helpful. It's better to let him slowly realize himself. You must know that a self-reliant person will never emphasize the "responsibility" of others to her, she will only care about the "sincerity" of others.

I am very grateful to my relatives and friends who listened to my inner voice in the most helpless and confused time, and I want to thank the books I have read and the dramas I have chased.

It is said that when a person is reborn, his soul is full, and in the process of growing up, his soul is slowly lost. After death, the soul will follow the footprints of its previous life and go back to collect its lost fragments.