Chapter 11: Confinement

The child was carried out, the mother took the baby, at that moment a little trance, "what a big doll"! The mother hugged it, Qian Shiyuan walked over, looked at it confidently for a while, the mother leaned sideways and wanted to hand the child to him, Shiyuan staggered, waved his hand, and said that he didn't dare to hug it. www.biquge.info He said, "I have already called my mother to come to the hospital, maybe on the way, mother, you can pick up the child, I will wait here." Mom walked and watched, her heart was very happy, and when she met her father at the staircase, the two old men commented on the child's appearance, "You look very similar to his father, hey, this Yu Yue also said don't give birth to a single eyelid, the more afraid she is, the more she will give birth to a single eyelid, fortunately it is a boy, and the single eyelid is handsome." ”

Walking upstairs, Shiyuan's mother was already standing at the door waiting, and her mother handed the child to her, "The big fat boy who is nine pounds and three pounds is a big fat boy, and she was born." Shiyuan's mother involuntarily left tears, like beads with broken threads, Yu Yue's parents glanced at each other, and then walked into the room together, made up the small bed, and put the child inside, the more everyone looked at it, the more they liked it. Yu Yue's mother asked her father to return to the delivery room, always worrying that her child was inside, and she almost had an accident after such hard work. The mother walked to the balcony and called her father-in-law who went out to work, "I gave birth to a son...... It's a son, nine pounds and three, very big, with a good face, a pointed head, and so hard...... I didn't have a smooth delivery, and I still had to ...... section after a few days of pain" Yu Yue's mother heard her mother-in-law on the phone, "It turns out that she has a grandson and is excited to shed tears." The mother walked in, and while closing the thread, she was embarrassed to explain to Yu Yue's mother, "It's so hard to give birth to such a big child, it's painful for her, it hurts like that, it turns out that such a big child is bumped in it, it's enough, oops, I can't help but cry when I think of this, being a woman is bitter, how can a man understand"? Yu Yue's mother was dumbfounded when she heard this, and secretly worried about whether Yu Yue's emotional intelligence could deal with this shrewd mother-in-law.

The operation inside was very smooth, I was scared of what a big deal it was, and I thought that I would go to a big hospital outside for a minimally invasive operation after I was free, but the more I didn't want to leave a scar, the more I couldn't do it, and I knew that I would have to have a caesarean section at the beginning. When she came out, Yu Yue was in a coma, and Shi Yuan asked the doctor, "What's wrong with her?" The doctor said, "It's okay, maybe I'm faint from hunger"! Yu Yue's eyes couldn't open, but her ears could hear clearly. Two or three people carried Yu Yue to the bed together, someone pricked a needle in her hand, she slept for an unknown amount of time, her whole body was cold, she could feel that she was constantly trembling, and finally opened her eyes, she saw everyone surrounding the small bed next to her, "Ah, it's her own child!" A warm current of happiness flowed through her heart. Finally Shi Yuan found that she had woken up, it turned out that he was sitting at the head of the bed, he asked with concern, "How are you?" Do you want to drink some boiling water?" Yu Yue asked hard, "Is there any problem with the child?" Shi Yuan replied, "Very good, more than nine catties, very big, everyone came to see this big child, I knew that the error of the doctor's prediction was so big, I should have had a caesarean section in the first place." Yu Yue thought for a while, "Is it a man or a woman?" Shi Yuan was stunned, "Son, thank you, wife! You don't know in it, hey, yes, yes, I'm tired and dizzy." The mother put the child next to Yu Yue, and Yu Cheng came, taking pictures with his mobile phone. After filming, Yu Cheng took the child and held it in his arms, touching it here and there, and couldn't put it down. Shi Yuan smirked there, still not daring to hug it. After a while, Qian Xiaoying walked in with a bottle of things, "Look, the cut teratoma is this, now the potion is a lot bigger, the hospital has taken it for testing, it will take a few days to know, it must be no problem." After a while, Yu Yue fell asleep again, it was too cold, she always woke up again and again when she fell asleep, and she was accompanied by nightmares, too weak. When I woke up, the place where the urinary catheter was inserted was still painful, hey, the level of this hospital, it must be that the urinary catheter is not well inserted, and it hurts when I move it.

The baby has been vaccinated, and there is a series of newborn examinations, and after coming back, he can only drink milk powder, the book says that the newborn is about 30 ml each time, and then slowly increases, but Qian Xiaoying is full of a large bottle every time, not to mention 90 ml, Yu Yue expressed concern, Qian Xiaoying said, "How can such a big baby not give him food, where is that little bit enough to eat, and he will be hungry soon." Yu Yue still asked them not to feed so much, and Shi Yuan came over and said, "You take care of yourself first." Qian Xiaoying said to her mother, "You have to eat more to get rid of the poisonous gas, otherwise many children will turn yellow in the back, and jaundice is very troublesome." Shi Zhai and his wife also came, Shi Zhai was very happy to see his nephew, and his envy was overflowing, Fangfang joked to his mother, "Yo, my mother doesn't even have a foot pain if she has a grandson, Dorisso." The mother smiled awkwardly and said nothing, and the parents looked at the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in disbelief.

Since the next day, many relatives have come one after another, all of whom have come to see the children to pack a greeting gift. Shiyuan's aunt came to see the child, and sat there with the two sisters-in-law and chatted, "I'll do the math for you, your grandson, who was born in Mao Nian Mao and Mao Shi, is very different from your Shiyuan's Ji Xiao, don't call him Dad, Tai Chong." The mother frowned, and her heart was full of anxiety. The doctor made rounds and the first thing he said when he walked in was, "You had too much blood yesterday, and you had a total of six or seven hundred milliliters, so you should rest well." After looking around for a week, he looked at Yu Yue and his family very dissatisfied, "The child has to be put together with his mother to be close, he is going to start breastfeeding, and he will return to milk without doing anything, so many experienced people don't know how to teach how to feed the child." Yu Yue slept most of the time, sleeping unconsciously, and felt uncomfortable when she woke up, and began to leave a clear nose, it should be a cold and cold, sweating all over her body, and the stool could not be discharged, but the lochia was dripping, and she was dirty bed after bed. The child was hugged to Yu Yue's arms, but he refused to suck milk, every time he wanted to suck, sniff ****, and didn't know where to enter, he was so angry that he always turned his face away, cried and made trouble, tried several times and failed, so he had to pick up the milk powder and brew it again.

On the third day, it began to rain when the sky was not beautiful, and the bag could not be washed and dried. When the doctor made rounds in the ward, he said, "How do you cook, the tampons are rotten, how can there be such a pad?" and straightened the tampon, Yu Yue groaned, "It hurts, it hurts, the place where the urinary tube is inserted is too painful, you can help me remove it!" The doctor replied, "You can take it off, but it will be harder for you to get up, go buy a urinal." Qian Xiaoying walked forward, "Doctor, can you see if the child will be yellow? Our county hospital has a special jaundice value, why doesn't your hospital even have this equipment?" Her questioning tone made the doctors frown, and one said casually, "You have to take him to swim more, and it's good to exercise more." "On this day, the child went to take a bath, and the doctor who helped around came to see the big baby curiously, oops, the three sets of newborn clothes prepared were too small, but fortunately it was summer.

Gao Caihong walked in with her mother holding the child, she was Yu Yuefa Xiao, her mother Aunt Wang was also Yu Yue's mother's best friend, when Yu Yue came to this hospital, the ward was still a private room arranged by Gao Caihong and asked her husband to find someone, the conditions were very good, two beds with balcony bathroom, people with children at night have a place to sleep without being too tired. The three of their mother and daughter walked in, just Yu Yue half-hunched over there to try to feed, the urethral has not been pulled out, and it hurts to move it, Yu Yue is lying there tired and sweating, the action is really clumsy, the child is not cooperative, the crying is shocking, and the family members in the surrounding wards are curious to come and help come up with ideas. Suddenly, someone said, "Are you used to drinking the bottle and refusing to suck breast milk?" Everyone was silent for a while, and Aunt Wang said, "Let Rainbow try it, her milk has been drunk." Yu Yue's mother handed the child to her, the rainbow lifted the blouse and fed, the baby did not resist at all, and when he saw the **** of dripping milk, he went in and sucked hard, he was really hungry, the expression of sucking milk was extremely focused, it seems that the child is born to suck milk, it should be Yu Yue's posture that has a problem.

After a long time, the nurse came to pull out the urinary catheter, and Yu Yue no longer understood when she inserted it, but when she pulled it out, it was terrible. Anyway, there is one less burden on my body, and I tried for a long time before I can pee again, but the pain is that I still can't pass the stool, and I can't eat anything in the backlog. In the past few days, I have to have an all-round father, and the logistics work is carried down by one person, and I have to run back and forth three times a day to kill chickens and fish and deliver food, and the key is to go to work, busy like a dog. Parents are not hard-working people, as long as they do their best, they will do their best, and it is also to see if Shiyuan's family is not the same. Usually the mother and Shi Yuan are there, Shi Yuan is clumsy and doesn't know how to take care of people, Qian Xiaoying comes over every day to take a turn, Shi Zhai and they come once and disappear. The mother and mother-in-law are responsible for taking care of Yu Yue's mother and son.

In the evening, Yu Yue insisted on getting up to defecate, and after three days, she was irritable as soon as the poison gas was heavy. Shi Yuan helped her get up, it didn't work again and again, and it took Yu Yue several times to drain it, oops, this backlog of stool was blue and black, smelly and hard, it was terrible. Yu Yue wanted to be embarrassed, insisted on not letting Shi Yuan in, but just asked him to bring a stool, so that he had a support when he got up.

On the fourth day, these days also happened to be the beginning of school, and Shi Yuan was also assigned as a homeroom teacher, so he was simply useless, and he came every day to accompany him, and he couldn't do more practical things. The child is more yellow, just sleeping, and not active. Yu Yue didn't know the bottom in her heart, she just wanted to listen to the doctor. My body is still very weak, and I will wake up after sleeping for a while. Qian Xiaoying still asked the doctor in the same tone, and what was even more exaggerated was that she seemed to know better than the doctor, and she always hinted that she was in the county hospital from time to time, and the doctors pushed the boat, "Otherwise, you should go to the pediatric department to ask." Yu Yue is angry in her heart, she is so capable and can't help me arrange for me to enter the county hospital? Isn't it just a registration? I can't recognize all the words after graduating from junior high school, and the tone in front of the doctor, as if I graduated with a doctorate, is really a villain's rampant appearance. This Qian Xiaoying couldn't help but say that she picked up the child and went to the outpatient clinic, and the mother and daughter followed as soon as she saw it, and the mother and daughter had a tiger face, as if they were facing a great enemy, and their movements were in full swing, and her footsteps could be heard in the entire corridor, and everyone who didn't know thought something big had happened. Walking to the corner, I just bumped into Yu Yue's mother coming back from washing clothes, "Where are you going with the child?" Qian Xiaoying replied as she walked: "Go ask about pediatrics!" Yu Yue's mother immediately sank her face, "You don't need to create tension to do anything, what do you let Yu Yue do?" After entering the room, Yu Yue told her what happened, crying while talking, Yu Yue's mother was trembling with anger, "Hey, you should listen to the doctor's advice here, the doctor didn't say, you have to force people to make a statement, and besides, our detoxification here is generally to drink seven-star tea, look at her just now, I am afraid that the world will not be chaotic!" At this time, Aunt Yu Yue walked in, saw Yu Yue crying with tears on her face, and hurriedly asked what was the matter, Yu Yue's mother said it again, and she was unforgivable." These people are really hypocritical, I'm afraid that I won't be able to do something, you see what we Yu Yue are scared of, uneducated and strong, making waves, not taking the emotions of pregnant women into account at all, that is, asking the doctor to pay attention to his attitude, look at the appearance of that straw bag!" Big things should also be more steady, not to mention that jaundice in children is a normal thing, what are you afraid of when people are in the hospital?" while comforting her niece, "Don't cry, crying in the confinement will break your eyes, and the tears will be enough when the wind blows in the future, let them go, don't spoil your mood." At this time, Shi Yuan walked in and asked where the child was, Yu Yue rushed at him: "Your sister took it to ask the doctor, it's really impossible to do without her!" Shi Yuan was said to be able to? He immediately fought back, "It's good that people have the heart to take care of your business, and if you don't know how to thank you, you have to talk so much, it's miserable if no one cares about you, it's really a dog biting Lu Dongbin." I should have asked, and I asked about the insurance point. After saying that, he turned around and left, Yu Yue had nowhere to vent, so he could only sulk alone, and wrote it down in the space talk: "I am with a group of ignorant and fond of fuss all day long, I don't know how to pretend to understand, listen to the wind is rain, and I also specialize in turning nothing into something and turning small things into big things, sooner or later I will go crazy!" Qian Xiaoying looked at the three of them with a gloomy face when she came back, and immediately understood, and her tone softened," I asked several doctors, all of whom said that they would be hospitalized, and now they will be transferred to the pediatric department on the second floor, I will clean up some of the baby's things, and wait for the mother-in-law to also take Yu Yue's, she will go down to feed. After saying that, Qian Xiaoying also put it away and turned out, and as soon as she walked out, she just happened to take a look with her mother, the two exchanged glances, and her mother walked in, "Fortunately, Qian Xiaoying is here, she knows better when she works in the hospital, you see, the pediatric doctors all asked about it, and they all said that it was better to be hospitalized." The three of them didn't care, Yu Yue's mother didn't have time to talk about it, she got up and packed up her things, no matter what, she couldn't separate mother and son. At this time, the nurse walked in, "Where's the baby, do you want to take a bath?" The nurse asked, "Oh, what is the measured value?" The mother was stunned, "I don't understand, so I said I was going to be hospitalized." ”

Transferred to the pediatric hospital, Yu Yue walked in and saw the nurse pricking the needle, she asked the family members to help stabilize the child's limbs, and pricked her head down, Yu Yue couldn't stand it and kept crying. The baby's struggle is very strong, the nurse has been pricked for a long time, just got it, the clumsy father accidentally ripped it off, the baby had a convulsion, cried, blood flowed half of his forehead, and it was too late to wipe it, Yu Yue felt a pain in his heart, and he scolded Shiyuan angrily. The baby got into the "oven" to shine blue light, while still dripping, looking at the baby's helpless appearance in the box, Yu Yue was so sad and helpless. At this time, the pediatrician walked in and asked the family to go out, and Se Won went out, and when he came back, he said, "A thousand yuan is gone again." Yu Yue was surprised, "What's the matter?" Shi Yuan looked helpless, "That doctor may have done his own business, let us buy albumin, one will cost more than three hundred." It's not good if you don't buy it, I'm afraid you won't take care of it. Yu Yue's heart is stuffed, "The hospital is really dark!" Yu Yue talked to the nurse about the child in his free time, saying that the test value was 220, which was indeed the standard for hospitalization. Hearing this, Yu Yue's heart was not so awkward, and she was more comfortable. The parents who are the most tired in the past few days haven't called a word, but my mother has been screaming there all day, either dizzy or foot pain...... Se Yuan felt sorry for her and always told her to go back to sleep. Dad is kind, a few days ago he brought food to the hospital and always brought everyone's food, how tired he was, on this day, Shiyuan finally found out with his conscience and said, "Dad still don't bring so many people's food, it's difficult to serve, you just help manage Yu Yue, I can play fast food with my mother outside." Dad wanted to say something, but Mom tugged at the corner of his clothes.

In the past few days, Yu Yue's milk is not much, and the mother is afraid that the child will be wronged, so she is anxious to get up and buy a lot of green onions outside, saying that it is used to promote milk, and later everyone knows that scalding the green onions with boiling water, and then using a towel to warm the breasts. In the past few days, Yu Yue's breastfeeding action has become more skillful, but there is not much milk and needs milk powder to assist. After three days of blue light, on the fourth day, my mother couldn't hold on anymore, and begged the doctor to say, "Doctor, you see that the child is almost better, can you let us be discharged from the hospital?" It's been ten days before and after, everyone is very tired, can you discharge us from the hospital and let us go home? The doctor saw that the baby had subsided, and then looked at the group of people, and nodded. Shiyuan went to go through the discharge procedures, and his father took the initiative to go to Lido to clean up, and the whole group came home. Put the child away, Yu Yue fell asleep, she was still very weak, everything in front of her was confused, black and white, standing still fluttering, always feeling like she was going to fall. But fortunately, she is forgetful, and she is really a passable woman.

The mother-in-law greeted very politely: "The in-laws don't need to have food on both sides, let's eat together here." Yu Yue's mother hurriedly replied: "No, it's so close, I will come up often." The mother said embarrassedly: "Hey, I can't kill chickens, I can't kill fish, Shiyuan hasn't done ......" Yu Yue's mother grabbed the words: "Then who do you usually do this?" The mother replied: "I will order the work in the field, usually her father-in-law does it, and it is only available during the New Year's holidays, Shi Zhai will also kill fish, he is not good to call him to do business, Xiaoying seems to have killed, she is busy with work and it is not easy to ask her to do it, I don't dare to kill, I don't dare to look at it." Yu Yue's parents listened in shock, thinking, "This tone is as if he is the best person in the world." It's the same as not saying it, my father-in-law is in the field, so it doesn't mean that they have to do it again. Hey, what kind of family is this? People from the countryside don't know anything, that's reasonable? It's just the beginning. After thinking for a while, Yu Yue's mother said helplessly, "I'll come up every day to help cook." His dad still has to go to work, no way. ”

On the way back, Yu Yue's mother was indignant: "My daughter is really blind, what kind of family did she find? Rural people are not like rural people, they can't say anything, since they won't come to the city to do anything? Do you cause trouble to others? Who in our generation can't do this or that? Will be looked down upon." You see, Yu Yue is pregnant, has she ever eaten a chicken, has she ever made a spoonful of ginger candy, has she ever bought a fish, hmph, she has never even heated the pot at home! This is really easy for grandparents to do. We didn't fall for her, and we said it nicely, and we ate together? Hmph! We just want to use our labor to make cows and horses for her. ”

Dad echoed and said, "It's really not decent, I haven't seen such a bad peasant woman in the countryside for so many years, she has a good mouth, she speaks well, and she doesn't have any practical action, no wonder people are looked down upon by the family and village." It's annoying to be a person like this for a long time. You see, a family is not like a family, each with its own calculations."

Yu Yue's mother immediately said: "That's not, you see that the bag hasn't dried up in the rain for a few days, if we hadn't said that we were going to buy a new bed but were afraid that it would not be clean directly on the baby, her mother wouldn't dare to ask Shi Zhai to borrow a bed, and it would not have been returned." The baby's injection got the blood on the quilt, what else did her mother say?' Oh, I stained someone's quilt, and I have to buy a new bed when the time comes. "I've never seen a damn like this, I can't find a second one in the world with lanterns! Not to mention that a little blood stain will be washed in half and a half, even if the brother dislikes you as a mother, you should stop it, she actually stabbed the fire, who is happy to hear this kind of thing? You see Yu Yue's brother and daughter-in-law, that is, she sarcastically mocked her mother-in-law in public, saying that she usually pretended to have a sore foot, so she dared to do it, but it was good, the house-mother was still taboo with her, and she didn't know how to refute no matter how wronged she was. Ay. ”

Dad answered: "Shiyuan can't do things, it's really a poor man raising a petite son, and his family style is not right." The two shook their heads and sighed.

Don't look at Yu Yue's parents, who seem to be very resolute, how can they be willing to let their children be taken care of by no one to take care of them? Put away the disgust with her mother-in-law's family, and go to work early every morning, killing chickens and stewing soup to change diapers, and her mother doing some auxiliary work, washing and scrubbing, etc., and it can be regarded as a perfect match after ten days. On the day of the Twelfth Dynasty, I had to prepare red eggs and red envelopes to send to my relatives, and I was very busy. Shiyuan had just started school, and he basically didn't have time at home, and he didn't endure hardships, so he shouted tired first when he got home, so that everyone didn't dare to ask him to work. At night, his mother accompanied him at night, and after being with him for several days, Yu Yue couldn't bear it, so he sent his mother home to rest, and called Shang Shiyuan to accompany him at night, and he had to make milk powder at night. Se Won is impatient, stupid and rude, and sometimes makes milk for the child to drink without trying the water temperature, and everything depends on feeling. Once Yu Yue was not at ease, he tried it, but it was still very hot, and he was angry, and scolded him for a long time, "You are evil! He is a life, you can't try it, and he won't say anything when he drinks it, it's too cruel! What will happen if you wait a little longer? Cry and cry, he is irritable, you can't be irritable, it is better to take care of it carefully than to be hot, there is no patience at all." ”

After more than ten days of confinement, the lochia under Yu Yue's body still continued to flow, and the amount was very large, she couldn't help but want to go out to bask in the sun, but when she stood up, she was still dizzy, there was not much milk, and she was still weak. There are lumps on both breasts, but Yu Yue always feels that the lumps on the left are not the same as those on the right, they are hard and hard, and they are getting bigger and bigger. At this time, Yu Yue didn't care about the abnormalities of his body, and it all came down to "reaction". Mom has been worried more than once, from pregnancy to now, from not touching to touching clearly, my mother urged several times to go to the city to check again, but the machine always felt bottomless, especially after giving birth to a child and began to breastfeed, the lump not only did not disappear but increased. Yu Yue is also a habit of procrastination, especially when she goes to the hospital, she has long been afraid of the boredom of crowding and endless waiting, as if everything can be delayed, plus she can't take the car, and her mother is nagging, "What if you go to the city and don't have to wait for a few days to check it so quickly?" You must go to the B-ultrasound after the full moon re-examination, otherwise I will not worry. β€œ

On this day, the mother was in Yue's room, the child was asleep, the two mothers and daughters were watching and talking, Yu Yue handed the mobile phone to her mother, "Look, Fangfang sent me a message." Yu Yue's mother picked it up, Fangfang said a lot of bad things about their family on the message, what countrymen are very good, unreasonable, say one thing and do another, Qian Xiaoying went everywhere to say that her mother was tired and sick for her daughter-in-law or something, said that the son should be paid for labor services, said that the mother-in-law has no obligation to give her daughter-in-law confinement, and has no responsibility to take care of the child, Fangfang said after the message, "Isn't it just to get into the unit and become a contract worker?" After listening to two sentences of more modern concepts, I took it out and bragged, this kind of thing has long been strange to people with a bit of culture, and I don't know what the following is, so I take it out and talk about it everywhere, if I am sick, I ...... it" Yu Yue's mother sneered, and asked Yu Yue to put it away, don't look at it with Shi Yuan, Shi Yuan's idiot will only make things bigger, just say what people like to say, and people naturally know what they want. You can't deal with this kind of family problem yet, so don't make a fuss by yourself when the time comes. Yu Yue agreed, saying that Qian Xiaoying's mother and daughter had a problem with their character, one thing in front of them and another behind their backs, saying bad things about Fangfang in front of them, that expression and demeanor could send people into the eighteenth layer of hell, but on the surface, they could even giggle with her, and they really couldn't get used to it. As he was talking, the mother and son outside suddenly quarreled, and the mother and daughter inside originally wanted to pretend that they didn't hear it, but the louder they became, especially Shi Yuan's voice could be heard clearly behind closed doors, "What is my current situation, I myself am exactly when I want to use money, how can I have money?" Then I couldn't hear my mother's reply, and after a while, it was Shi Yuan's voice, "Why do you say this, how much I put is taking risks, and it's not money falling from the sky, don't accompany people to drink tea and chat to understand the situation, can you put it indiscriminately?" I didn't open the faΓ§ade to do ......", Yu Yue's mother went out to see what was going on, and as soon as she walked out of the door, she suddenly screamed, and Yu Yue was so shocked that she got up and went out to see. Everyone was stunned for a moment, only to see the mother lying on the ground in front of the door, her eyes closed, and there were words in her mouth. Shi Yuan rushed over to hug his mother, the mother screwed on the ground and couldn't hold it, and then the saliva kept flowing out of the mouth, this time the three of them panicked, Shi Yuan picked up the phone and called Shi Zhai, Yu Yue called the mother while extremely disgusting, Yu Yue's mother stopped Shi Yuan's hard pull, and said calmly, "If you don't know what the situation, don't move her easily, in case she can't move." After waiting for a while, Shi Zhai came, he casually picked up his mother and went to the room, Shi Yuan was weak and didn't dare to be verbose. The mother and daughter stayed there for a moment and were speechless! Dad followed up and asked what was so serious as soon as he entered the door. At this time, Yu Yue's mother and daughter reacted, "What's the matter?" Shi Yuan said, "My brother called my mother and said that the uncle of Yucun wanted to borrow 30,000 yuan from him when he bought a hook machine, but he didn't have so much around him, and asked if there was any money at home, and my mother came to ask me, I told her that I didn't have any cash, and when I was so busy, where was I in the mood to take care of their affairs, I couldn't figure out my own affairs, and the child had to keep some money wherever he came out, don't ask me for money!" She was not happy, saying that her uncle should have supported her in his career, but it was rare that everyone had opened their mouths, and even if they borrowed usury, they had to take out the money! I was already very popular, and when others borrowed money from Shi Zhai, they would return it if they had no money, so why should they push things home? The parents who made it were not good to behave, and they also said that I would take the money and put it in two cents, and even if it was seven or eight cents at home, how much risk would I have to take? When I make money, I can say that I will pay them back if I lose money, and I will pay it back to them. As he was talking, someone knocked on the door, Yu Yue walked over, as soon as the door opened, it was Qian Xiaoying, Yu Yue was just about to speak, Qian Xiaoying's face sank, and she instantly "scratched" down, and then tears were like broken beads, and scolded while walking, "Mom and Dad have cultivated you in vain! Talk to your mother and shout, unfilial son! Your parents are tired to death for your affairs, I hope you can read a little alone to help the family, and know how to be reasonable, but the result is worse than being uneducated." White-eyed wolf!" Qian Shiyuan didn't dare to respond, he sat there obediently and was taught, he was most afraid that people would say that he was unfilial, this was his weakness, it was like choking his throat and dying. The more Yu Yue and the three of them listened, the more unhappy they became, but it was not easy to intervene in other people's housework, and it happened that the child was crying, and the three of them went into the room to cook. As soon as the door was closed, my father asked, "Why don't you mother and daughter persuade you?" and let things develop?" The mother replied, "We don't know what happened, and suddenly the mother and son started a fight, and I thought it was just a quarrel, but when I found something wrong and wanted to go out to persuade her, I happened to see her mother taking off her apron and muttering, 'I'm not here with you anymore, I'm going back to the country' and went to open the door, and suddenly turned around and went to the ground by herself." She didn't faint or be angry. I said that I would go back to the countryside and probably regret it, so I fell there and found a staircase for myself. However, Qian Shiyuan's temper is too bad, no matter how he says it, he can't yell at his mother so much, there are no rules. Yu Yue was breastfeeding, but she didn't come back to her senses in the thrill just now, where had she ever seen such a scene? Not to mention her, she hadn't even seen her mother? The only one of the three people who understood was probably only his father, who was doing paperwork in the village when he went to the countryside, and he had seen a lot of scoundrel peasant women like this, and he knew how to use coaxing, but it was too late to say anything now. Dad understood what happened, he walked out, Qian Shiyuan sat alone in the living room, hesitant and helpless smoking, Dad sat down and said seriously, "Don't force the truth that doesn't make sense, the right thing will become wrong, and an attitude can make things worse." Good things, if you can't speak, you will be very passive. You look at the current situation, it's just boring for yourself, you have a hard time with your mother, and it's wrong for you to go there. Sometimes the best rejection is silence. If you have to chase a result, you just need to say 'yes or no', the more you explain, the more troublesome it is, your mother is not educated, the more you say, she may not be able to keep up with your thinking, but it is easy to think crookedly. Shiyuan nodded, obviously remorseful, "Me and my mother, in fact, I don't know much about her, unlike my younger brother who basically stays at home, and knows more about her physical personality, I came out to study at the age of thirteen, rarely go home, and basically work during the summer vacation, we don't have much communication, she has been under a lot of pressure all her life, she is living for others, and she is not happy." I can't stand her cold words, saying that I feel like I've embezzled money, I just can't stand this tone. My brother is the same, if someone else borrows money if you don't want to borrow it, you can give it back, why do you push it to the family? Saying that, Yu Yue walked out, she saw that the chicken soup was still on the table, took the chicken leg in her hand, and made a bowl of chicken soup for the mother to send in, the door opened, Yu Yue saw that the faces of the three people were ugly, the mother's mental condition was fine, sitting on the bed with a look of grievance, was chattering and complaining, Shi Zhai sat next to the mother and listened silently, but with a serious expression, Qian Xiaoying came to open the door, and was a little surprised to see the chicken soup, and took it after speaking. Yu Yue was inconvenient to stay there, turned around and walked to the living room, Qian Xiaoying followed after her, and as soon as she sat down, her face immediately pulled down, "My parents have suffered all my life for our three sisters and brothers, and now I can't even hear a good word when I am old" As he spoke, tears burst into tears and stayed, "Our three sisters and brothers, you are the most comfortable, you don't have to do anything, just because you are better at reading, you are still a gentleman, you have no self-cultivation at all, if you want to replace me, I will beat you to death with a stick." Dad didn't want to see these words, got up and left with Yu Yue's mother, but they were still not very at ease with Yue, so they went back to the room with Yu Yue to see the baby, Dad said to Yue, "You, don't mix with their family's affairs, it doesn't matter what your mother says in the future, whether it sounds good or not, I think your mother is not a good talker, one cry, two troubles and three hangings, this is the character of gambling and forcing people to obey, you don't confront her face to face, don't be ruined by her reputation at that time." Yu Yue nodded in agreement, feeling very uneasy.

The father-in-law who was far away in Gansu knew about this and said, "If you are at home, you have to support it, and now when the two sons are using money, they can't borrow it." Since then, the mother has even talked about her illness, she will feel empty if she doesn't say anything for an hour, so Yu Yue learned the habit of leaving as soon as she saw her open her mouth. Qian Xiaoying bought some supplements from time to time, and taught her mother in private, "Don't be so polite to them, you can eat whatever Yu Yue eats, and your body needs to be supplemented." Yu Yue is most afraid that Qian Xiaoying will bring her children, and she always has to take some things with her when she leaves, boxes of milk at home, some trinkets, and the big doll that Yu Yue's students gave to the baby, her children will not take it privately, and will always take what she wants and say to Yu Yue: "Auntie, I like this thing so much, can you give it to me?" Of course Yu Yue doesn't care about the child, she usually nods her head and agrees, but she always feels a little awkward in her heart, feeling that she seems to be too good at talking, and she feels like she is being held hostage. Children naturally have the shadow of adults, in the past, Qian Xiaoying always liked to rummage through Yu Yue's wardrobe, take out what she liked to try on, while flattering Yu Yue and saying that she had a good eye, and at the same time hoped that Yu Yue could send one or two to herself. Although Yu Yue has a kind of joy of being affirmed in her heart, this feeling is not unusual, her dress style has always attracted much attention at school, sometimes Yu Yue's praise of her colleagues' clothing will make the other party ecstatic, it seems that being appreciated by Yu Yue itself represents an elegant quality of dressing. The wardrobe is not expensive, Yu Yue pays attention to clothing and accessories and people's social status, economic conditions and education level in line with this concept, since he is a teacher, he has to behave in the world. It is often a bargain to wear out of the royal sister style, people are not slaves of clothes, temperament cultivation is the most important decoration, a woman who looks good in everything must be a woman who has a full understanding and recognition of herself, and she will know what she is suitable for if she loves herself. Qian Xiaoying doesn't understand this, her personality determines that her temperament can't wear Yu Yue's clothes, the denim skirt that she just arrived wears on Yu Yue is refreshing and pleasant, and when it comes to Qian Xiaoying, she can't fit into the round chisel and is out of place. But she still asked for it, Yu Yue really didn't want to spoil a good dress, so she somehow refused to agree, just smiled. Qian Xiaoying also knows how to find herself under the stairs, "Then you can help me look on the Internet and buy one for me when there are still times." Yu Yue agreed to help her search, but there was no same yardage, Qian Xiaoying smiled awkwardly, "When you don't wear it in the future, I'll wear it for two days." "Yu Yue didn't know that this was a retreat, what people wanted to hear was your 'regression', but the honest Yu Yue agreed. After this incident, both the mother and Qian Xiaoying saw the simplicity of the silly girl, "She doesn't understand the world at all." Since then, the two of them have had a little frivolous thoughts, and they have no scruples about speaking and doing things.

In the following days, the mother and son were safe and sound, the days were as usual, Shiyuan also learned to kill chickens with Yu Yue's mother, and soon the matter of the full moon banquet was put on the agenda. Due to the hot weather, everyone uses cotton yarn diapers instead of diapers, so they change a lot of times every day, "for their children, it is willing to work hard", Yu Yue quickly learned to change diapers.

More than 20 days when the moon banquet, Yu Yue and the baby at home, when he fell asleep, Yu Yue got up to the study, "Wow, it's been a long time since I went online", rare relaxation, Yu Yue was happy, suddenly the baby screamed, Yu Yue reflexively jumped up and rushed into the room, only to see the baby's hands up and his eyes opened, but he didn't cry, Yu Yue gently patted him, muttered to himself, and the baby fell asleep again. Yu Yue was frightened by this, and obediently went to bed with the child, "Maybe it's a nightmare, it is said that the baby's dreams are from the previous life, what did he see?" Yu Yue lay on the bed and guessed endlessly, "It is said that people meet each other because of fate, husband and wife are fate, and they will not get together without fate; The Buddha said, 'Confess it.'" Don't worry about it, since we walk together, learn to be tolerant. Only by learning to adapt can we understand each other." Knowledge, sometimes in life does not necessarily show its power, only the energy generated in adversity is incredible. When they got home, Yu Yue knew that he had fallen asleep unconsciously, and Shi Yuan had already come in to see their mother and son, and when he saw that they were all sleeping, he closed the door softly. Yu Yue came to his senses, and heard that they seemed to be talking about things outside, their voices were high for a while and low for a while, and it took a long time to realize that they were opening red envelopes, "Are you so anxious? It's too late to look at it in a few days, besides, this is a matter between the two of us, how can we still show it to the whole family? Qian Xiaoying and Shi Zhai haven't left yet, yo, Qian Xiaoying is still singing tickets, why is this Shi Yuan so brainless, why do we have to explain our family's human relations to them?" The more Yu Yue thought about it, the more unhappy she became, but they were already happy to dismantle it outside, and if they rushed out at this time, they would basically be the target of everyone, and they would become unreasonable even if they were reasonable. Yu Yue thought about it, and forgave him this time, and when he came in, we had to talk about it well, so as to avoid this kind of thing from happening again in the future.

Everyone played until late before they dispersed, Yu Yue had just put the child to sleep after feeding and changing diapers, Shi Yuan walked in, holding a gift book in his hand and putting it in the drawer, Yu Yue glanced at it, and said faintly, "Don't show your own affairs to everyone in the future, especially this kind of human relationship, why let everyone know how much affection we have with whom." They don't show us what they do. He suddenly turned around and pulled down his face and rushed at Yu Yue: "You just take care of the children and yourself, you still have to point fingers at me like this, you have to say whatever a man does? Our red envelopes also have the favor of my parents, so don't give it to others? In the future, they will also return the favor of others." Yu Yue was robbed of this white, and the Zen that she wanted to be light and light just now was immediately dissipated, she lowered her voice and said, "Can you be quieter, I finally put people to sleep." We also have my parents' favors in the full moon wine, why don't you say it? We also dismantle it in front of everyone, fortunately, our family is a heavy gift, otherwise who do you humiliate to show it? Will we give them less of your parents? When we have time to tear it down, we can give him as much as we want, don't you even have this trust?" Yu Yue's "truth" seemed to be an aggressive questioning in Shiyuan, not to mention that she really revealed that the essence of the matter was the mutual distrust between their families. Qian Shiyuan threw down the gift book, "You city people are treacherous, nothing can be told to others, let me tell you, my family is my parents, brothers and sisters, don't want to destroy, people in the city are so stingy that the brothers will be divided, the mother and son are out of harmony, relatives don't move around, and no one takes a step forward when there is something, I don't want my family to be like this in the future." Yu Yue looked at him with a brutal face, for the sake of the child, she shut up, and if she fought for the death of the yuan, it would only get louder and louder, and he didn't care about the occasion.

On the thirty-fifth day, Yu Yue's students wanted to come to see the child, and Yu Yue saw that the child was shaved by the nurse when he was shining blue light, which was really unpleasant, so he picked up the baby scissors and shaved the child's full moon head. More than 20 students came to the crowded living room, Yu Yue only brought their homeroom teacher for half a year, and next semester because of pregnancy, someone else took over, but he was still a subject teacher, how to say, everyone got along for a year and had a lot of feelings. When she came out, Yu Yue was still dizzy, mainly because of Shiyuan's reception.

The forty-day confinement finally passed, and the family happily took the child back to her parents' home, and the mother's family was also waiting for it.