On New Year's Day, Yu Yue told everyone the news, Qian Shiyuan didn't look too happy, and his mother was overjoyed when she heard it. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info Yu Yue really hopes that the attitude of these two people will be reversed. At the dinner table, my mother excitedly listed all kinds of precautions, and asked Yu Yue to go home to eat every day, "Your mother-in-law came to live in the city, and there is no way to grow some vegetables, raise chickens or get some nutritious, green food for you to eat, you, fortunately, it is close to home, otherwise how can there be such good conditions to eat farm food? Shi Yuan echoed and did not forget to explain, "Ah, there is no way, the two brothers can't be so balanced." I want my parents to work hard to take care of Yu Yue, it's inconvenient for me in the countryside." Dad looked at him, "If you have time, you have to come up more to accompany Yu Yue, take a walk or something, don't always stay in the countryside and find someone to chat and play mahjong if you have something to do." Shiyuan still has to fight, "No, it's inconvenient to come up in the countryside, and it's not good to always take other people's cars." I'll talk to the Registrar's Office next semester to see if I can take care of it. “

Shiyuan said, "The wife of Teacher Wang of No. 2 Middle School, who went to the countryside together, is also pregnant, and she got pregnant after several years of marriage. Let's go to his house and sit down, and you two pregnant women can talk to each other. The two of them went to Mr. Wang's house several times, and every time Shiyuan wishfully went to find someone to drink tea and chat, he couldn't help but compare with others, but Yu Yue was like sitting on pins and needles. Mr. Wang's wife's cultural quality is not high, but the family background is okay, the father is in the middle of the power company, and then the family is in the power company, this Mr. Wang is the lowest income in the family, ridiculous teaching industry, nominally the greatest profession under the sun, but everywhere is not as good as people. Not only that, Mr. Wang is also a phoenix man from the countryside, and his family is still in the countryside. His wife grew up in the city, and although the family conditions are good, the rural accent does not change, and the atmosphere of the countryside is quite strong. Every time Yu Yue and the others go, Mr. Wang's wife always brags intentionally or unintentionally, "I am used to eating people, I am used to using people, I ask him to buy a car and not go, everyone knows how to enjoy life, I don't know what he thinks." Teacher Wang smirked embarrassedly as he looked up at Shi Yuan and his wife. Chatting and chatting, Mr. Wang said that he often rode a motorcycle from the countryside in the middle of the night to accompany his wife, and sometimes his wife wanted to eat something, and she had to get up in the middle of the night to cook. The more Yu Yue listened, the more unpleasant it became, and when she thought of Shi Yuan's cold treatment of her after the "fake pregnancy" incident of her last cold, it felt like she had decided that she was infertile, and Yu Yue had entered a cold palace. He doesn't know how to hide his emotions, and if he is unhappy, he must make his relatives unhappy, otherwise it will not be enough to show his authority. After learning that this time it was really pregnant, Yu Yue was only happy once that day, and then she was depressed in the midst of gains and losses, she wrote in her space log: "Men can be very free at any time, in fact, they can never share the joys and sorrows with women, even if the legend is a good man, the natural difference in body has determined that men and women are both unified and opposites. used to advocate a saying, who said that if a woman wants to be independent, she doesn't want a family. But now I'm afraid, if I really want a family, I'm afraid it will be difficult to be independent. Especially in extraordinary times, you can't help but rely on each other. Sometimes I am very annoyed, why is it not independent enough? Who is called in the extraordinary period, it is difficult to be independent~~~ It is a matter of two people to bear together, but in fact, it is a woman who carries it alone. Sometimes, he can be very annoying, but you have to control your emotions, you know, it can be very tiring, but whoever calls us women, the responsibility of being a mother is greater than the sky. He can take it for granted that your most important thing is your family, but you can't just have family, work is the key to eating. He can not be bound by the family and think that it is a matter of course, but you can't, who told the womb to rest on the woman?"

Shi Yuan was busy helping Mr. Wang explain, "How can it be so easy for us people who have struggled in the countryside to buy a car, and everyone in the family depends on us!" His wife interjected, "We have already lightened the burden on them, and my father's house was transferred to our name and they didn't make any money." Shi Yuan catered to: "That's that, if you rely on your own little salary, how can it be so easy to buy a house in the city." Your father is so good!" After speaking, Shi Yuan's face was filled with an expression of hatred that iron could not become steel, and he even said to Yu Yue, "Teacher Wang's life is good, how many years of struggle less, and your father-in-law has helped you solve the biggest thing, where can you find so many upside downs?" His wife hurriedly answered, "That's it, I also said that the salary of undergraduates is much lower than that of our secondary school graduates, what can I do with that little money!" Yu Yue listened to the conversation between Shi Yuan and Teacher Wang's wife with a little disgust, and felt that the air was very heavy, and they were all thinking about the gains and losses, and the cheesy and old-fashioned atmosphere permeated the faces of the two of them. From their conversation, Yu Yue felt that he was the position won by Shi Yuan, and his feelings were also an excuse, a part of his plan, and once he couldn't control or didn't cooperate with his ideas, he would be constantly sarcastically mocked, and the more he was like this, the more Yu Yue resisted.

Shiyuan is still like this every day, in addition to going to class when he was in the countryside, he was playing cards and drinking, and when he returned to the city, he was impatient to accompany Yu Yue for a walk, pushing people to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and then he would find others to play as soon as he finished eating, and when it was time to eat, he consciously returned to his father-in-law's house. Parents gradually gave birth to a lot of dissatisfaction, "You see, the virtues of the countrymen have been completely exposed! Where do they know how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, where do they take women giving birth to children seriously, for them it is like hatching eggs, how bad is the atmosphere in recent years?" Those rural people wandered around in order to give birth to a son, fled from place to place, gave birth to a large number of men and women, procrastinating, and some of them could not give birth to sons to send their daughters away, or sell them to others, oops, in their eyes, where is life, it is a tool, born and passed on to the next generation, and if there is a profit, it will be rewarded, this is a kind of transaction. Where is there family affection at all?" Yu Yue was noncommittal, and in the process of understanding for a period of time, he found that Shiyuan and their family had a bad atmosphere, he had an uncle who gave birth to seven daughters and a son, all of whom were born in hiding in Tibet, except for one who died young, the remaining four were given away, leaving two daughters and the youngest son by his side. There was also a cousin who gave birth to four daughters and a son, and sent two away, leaving two daughters and the youngest son by his side. In a cousin who works in the township health center, it stands to reason that he can only have one child, but he doesn't know how to give birth to three children, the first eldest daughter gave birth to an only child certificate, the second daughter was born to give to relatives to raise, and finally gave birth to a son, since he was a child, he taught his mother to call his aunt, and the people around him, including those in charge of family planning, know that this kind of thing is only useful for honest people, and those who are clever know how to exploit loopholes, so that in the end, decent people will suffer, and they can only spread their grievances to the government。 Shiyuan disagreed, "It's even more hopeless for rural people to have children if they don't have children, you see, if you have a few more, there will always be one useful." "Hmph. Then let the useful one be buried with the whole family!" Yu Yue said coldly. Shi Yuan jumped up, "Damn, how do you understand the pain of rural people, they are destined to die of hardship and poverty for the rest of their lives, and you can enjoy it?" Yu Yue was still cold, "Hardship and poverty are all different from person to person, and there are so many rural people who rely on their own struggle to change themselves first and then change their descendants." Shi Yuan suddenly smiled, "My dad is not like this, he got rich first and then helped his sons do so much. Yu Yue was silent, and a disdainful smile appeared on the corner of her mouth.

The process of pregnancy is very difficult, Yu Yue's physique has always been bad, in the first few months, she shivered every day, her cheeks and lips were not bloody, and it was useless to wear any clothes, and then it rained for a few months, and the annoying people were restless, sometimes they vomited after eating, and then they were very greedy, and the first prenatal examination said that the blood sugar was 6.5 exceeded, Yu Yue was frightened, but she didn't expect the doctor to look relaxed, "After the year, many people have failed to pass the index, you can come back for a re-examination next week." After a week of blood drawing, blood sugar 6.02 was within the qualified line, Yu Yue breathed a sigh of relief, and Shi Yuan looked disgusted. She especially hated Shi Yuan's sophisticated expression, such an attitude made Yu Yue feel that she was just a fertility tool and was extremely disrespected. He still lives a decadent life every day, except for playing cards, he can't help but go around to promote his little achievements, as if pregnancy and childbirth are Yu Yue's own business. His so-called achievement is to guide others to see him as a rich second generation, the level is more high-end than the son-in-law in the city, he has a little money in his hands, and there is a little rumor of lending everywhere, which is convenient for everyone to borrow money, which is nothing more than calculating some interest, and everyone is win-win. What Yu Yue dislikes the most is this kind of unclear situation in terms of funds, and has repeatedly suggested that he and his father should be clearly separated in this regard, and not live in a daze. But Shiyuan just refused to listen, his reason was that if he didn't get stuck with this money, he would be taken away by his younger brothers and sisters, and his brother's character was too unreliable, and when the money was lost, he threw people to me, I took this money to develop, my parents sit and wait every year to enjoy the money, how happy is it? Yu Yue "snorted", "I'm not happy when they are happy, why should I live this life of worrying and fearing, and I won't make money myself?" There are many self-made people, why do you owe others for no reason, it's not that you can't get by, the salary of two people is enough to live a small life. Shi Yuan pointed at Yu Yue, "You think beautifully, if my parents didn't buy a house, where would it be so easy for you to buy a house, take a mortgage and raise a child?" Yu Yue was not convinced, "You don't want to be so good at taking credit, let's not talk about how you cheated at the time, it was not a difficult thing to buy a house, and the house price had not risen at that time? Who are you fooling with the current market? Besides, my parents can't afford to buy a house, I don't know who said it at the time, what kind of bride price is it, anyway, the house was bought for them, and the result is not even yours!" Shi Yuan's voice became louder, "My parents are not dead yet, you start to think about other people's property, ******!" Yu Yue was so angry that she couldn't speak, that night, she wrote in her diary: "The most struggling part of breaking the cocoon into a butterfly always suffocates many people to death." Painting the ground as a prison, it's basically the current state of life, and I don't like this, but vaguely, there is a kind of masochistic pain. Closed time and space, so that you can't see the road ahead. When will the sun shine? Almost blackened my eyes. If there's no better option, just go with the flow. Insincerely, speechless. When the desolation is so desolate that there is nothing to say, it is time for everything to be sober. I would like to be a tea leaf, soak my own leaves in boiling water, slowly exude the fragrance, and stretch my life. But in fact, I am a bridge, and I can dismantle it after others have used it, and what remains after the dismantling of eight pieces is my heart that has been broken again and again. The most patient is the word helplessness, beating the chest and crying is useless, it is better to cheer up, laugh at life, and continue only the strongest strength, suffering is also over, happiness is also over, why not laugh at life?"

The humid weather, the depressed mood and the abnormality after pregnancy, Yu Yue's body began to be unbearable. First of all, the two breasts began to itch incomparably, and the most painful thing was in class, and I was so itchy that I wanted to reach in and scratch it a few times. Then the breast enlargement during pregnancy was a bit exaggerated, and Yu Yue was afraid that her image would be indecent, so she tried her best to strangle her bra. Gradually, Yu Yue felt a hard lump the size of a bean when she took a bath, and Yu Yue told the doctor about the situation during the prenatal examination, and the doctor touched it and said indifferently, "I started to secrete milk during pregnancy, maybe you have a little lump, oh, look!" The doctor squeezed Yu Yue's **** hard, and there was really white milk flowing out. "There will be a little special reaction during pregnancy, don't worry about him, and it will return to normal when he is born. The doctor comforted her as he washed his hands. When she came out, Yu Yue was relaxed, and the feeling of being a mother was getting closer and closer, and this joy was only experienced by those women who have been mothers.

The nightlife in the county town is quite bustling, and the biggest advantage of finding that public officials have a lot of free time, and it is enough to walk in the evening. Sometimes I complain about the low salary, but when I think about playing while others are still working overtime or watching the store, I feel content. More time has many benefits for future family life, such as parent-child relationships. Can't wait to see the baby, always feel that ten months is a long time, counting the days every day, sometimes I feel panicked, when this time, I found that there is such a person in the world who knows you better than my husband, that is, the child who is connected with your blood day and night, the baby can feel your mood. Your happiness or sadness can be worn to the baby for the first time, and sometimes the baby responds very fiercely, so that you dare not continue. Little life is very beautiful, sometimes you dance as soon as the music is played, sometimes you pat your stomach for a long time and don't dump you, sometimes the baby is more excited than me when I see the highlights on TV. Waiting is really a thing that requires wisdom, and when you think of these after many years, what kind of sweet smile will it be? During pregnancy, Shi Yuan was still about to leave, Yu Yue made it clear that he needed his company very much, but Shi Yuan seemed to be a wake-up call to Yu Yue's most neglected precautions, and he was the most arrogant at this time. He sometimes said viciously, "If you give birth to a daughter, my parents don't want you", or he will say directly, "Hey, if you give birth to a daughter, the land in the countryside will be given to Shi Zhai and their future sons, anyway, we have no chance to give birth, and the property of the Qian family is not given to outsiders", and sometimes it is inexplicable, "It's good to have a daughter, there is no pressure, you can play and eat if you want." Yu Yue knew that he was too entangled, and he didn't have the strength to argue with him. But Shi Yuan really didn't know how to advance or retreat, he had to get Yu Yue's concession in words before he would give up, Yu Yue didn't know what kind of answer he wanted, in fact, there would be no answer at that time.

At this time, Yu Yue thought about his choice like never before. Marriage is not an exciting game, a ridiculous journey or an adventurer's paradise, at least, in the eyes of many, you can't afford to play at all, because you can't afford to lose. People are the products of different environments, life is inertia, people who are not in the same world will never be, rather than two people have to suppress their own truth to accommodate and adapt to each other, it is better for everyone to breathe a sigh of relief, strangle it from the beginning, don't forget the essence of life for the sake of temporary freshness. Life can't afford to toss, feelings are like this, the more glue it is, the more cold it is in the end. Marriage may be an art, but life is definitely a technical job, and most people don't have such sublimation. In the face of such an unclear small family model, Yu Yue felt that she had done her best, she had endured too much and accommodated too much, so she wanted to prove that her choice was not wrong for her anger, but she was really tired and didn't want to quarrel over ********trivial things, and she didn't want to see this Qian Shiyuan who "put on the face of the person and put down the dog face" again, that kind of model of "putting on the face of the person and putting down the dog face", that kind of model of one set of people in front of one person and one set of others is really not what I am used to. After tossing and turning for many nights, Yu Yue thought of the word "divorce". She had a showdown with Shi Yuan, and Shi Yuan asked casually, "What about the child?" Yu Yue gritted her teeth, "Then don't let him be born, the province will face the two of us, and it is best for everyone to be clear." Speaking of this, Shi Yuan began to be a little nervous, he knew that Yu Yuelai was real, as before, crying and swearing. Then take out the righteousness of two people in the same unit to take care of the overall situation, and know it with emotion and reason. Yu Yue was unmoved, Shi Yuan took out the killer feature of the child, he knew where the weakness was, she must be reluctant to have a child.

Yu Yue's surrender was indeed because of this new life in her belly, it had been almost four months, she couldn't do this, and she was sad and scared a lot. Yu Yue is easy to get angry, before pregnancy, she often had nosebleeds as soon as she ate something, she was afraid that she would not be able to keep the child, she was often restless, and Shi Yuan didn't know how to care about people, and often yelled, transferring her patriarchal ideological pressure to Yu Yue, causing her to be even more afraid. Fortunately, since she became pregnant, Yu Yue has never had a nosebleed again. Yu Yue often begged him in a low voice not to return so late, at least he couldn't leave her alone at home every day, and at this time, she couldn't get a little care from Qian Shiyuan, so he walked away. Yu Yue felt terrible alone in the huge house, and he was always so weak that he had nightmares, he couldn't help but call Shi Yuan, he either didn't answer and pressed it directly, or picked it up and went to Yu Yue, Yu Yue felt very undignified at that time, because everything Shi Yuan did was in front of at least three people, which made Yu Yue's face nowhere to go. The hottest one even broke his mobile phone, and when he waited until 1 o'clock at night, he called him twice and refused to go home, Yu Yue locked him out, but what about driving him out? This is not her own home after all, and she has no confidence to drive him out. There is a saying that is true, in the emotional world, whoever is more serious than whoever lives more painfully.

Yu Yue sometimes feels that she can't hold on anymore, she feels like an unattended orphan, and her joys, sorrows, and sorrows seem to have nothing to do with others. Shi Yuan's family is too indifferent, knowing that Yu Yue has been pregnant for a long time, they just ask, such as whether your appetite is good? What is the reaction? What nutritional products do you need to eat? Yu Yue has eaten at his mother's house for so long as if he has nothing to do with his family, and the family's "normal heart" is too typical. Relatives said, "It's too easy for their grandparents, they just have to wait for birth." "There is a local habit of giving pregnant women special tonics, almost from the beginning of pregnancy, the in-laws of the family have to make wine, make ginger candy, and raise chickens, which is the local rule of birth. But throughout the whole process, my mother-in-law kept saying that she didn't understand this, that she couldn't do it, that she hadn't heard of this, that she didn't know about it, and she just said that I didn't have this custom to seal my mouth. In short, she didn't prepare anything, and she was reluctant to buy two sets of children's clothes, so she said, "I don't know what you young people like, I'm afraid that I won't buy it well." Yu Yue didn't expect her to do anything, she just didn't have this heart, she really didn't understand what they were thinking? said that she would come down to take care of Yu Yue two months before giving birth to a baby, Yu Yue's body was too inconvenient, and she often couldn't sleep well with a big belly, but in the end it was still over, she really didn't understand, since she couldn't do it, why did she keep talking about it, and she escaped only when she was in battle, and she didn't even have an explanation, as if she had never said this. Yu Yue was unhappy in her heart, muttered two sentences, and attracted Qian Shiyuan's abuse, saying that Yu Yue was careful, stupid and stupid, and people took anything seriously. Yu Yue is honest and honest, treats people and things simply and directly, and refuses to talk about things that he is not sure of, and even many things are done with great difficulty, and he does not like to invite credit. Due to the lack of methods and courage to face problems, when the discomfort is unbearable, he will only cry behind closed doors. When I'm in a bad mood, I hope someone can hand her a tissue and help her wipe her tears, and even he can do nothing, just sit next to me and feel sorry for me. But every time I am stupidly expecting and stupidly disappointed. She always closed the door in her heart, not only isolating Shiyuan, but also the whole world. She began to be afraid... I am afraid to face the world of three people in the future, and I am also afraid to face the life of a large family in the future. The time is approaching, and the problems are increasing, and I just feel that I can't fight alone. It's hard to be a woman, and it's all bitter in the heart. When you die, you may not know what you have sacrificed?

In April, I made a special trip to Xinhua News Agency in the provincial capital to take graduation photos, and I was half dead. Complaining about traffic all the way is really incompatible with the local economic development. coincided with a special situation, my husband had to accompany me all the way, it was only five months at the time, and my body was not too heavy, but both of them were too optimistic about the situation, and they always thought that April must be the off-season, and the train tickets must not be difficult to buy. It was easy to get to the train station, and the result was that there was no lower bunk only the upper bunk, and we knew what it meant to be blind self-confidence, and when we saw that the waiting workshop was already overcrowded, we knew that China's economic development speed had already exceeded your imagination, and the floating population had increased greatly, and it was no longer the scene when we were in college a few years ago. But it was raining that day, and I didn't want to go anywhere, but fortunately, I met Liqiu in the waiting room, and everyone came together to take graduation photos. I made a mistake again, blindly optimistic about the good side of human nature, I always thought that someone would be willing to change a bunk with a pregnant woman, but it was easy to get on the train, my husband asked several people, no one was willing, no one was bad for changing the bunk for a few dollars, everyone wanted to be comfortable. It's also my luck, I saw a bunk without the owner, directly upside down to sleep, preconceived and said, to Zhangping Station, the owner of the bunk came, my husband hurriedly told the situation to someone, the flight attendant also came to intercede, that person is also refreshing, or there is no way, anyway, the bunk is occupied by me, and now I agree to change the position, my husband is grateful, it is a solution to my personal problems. When I arrived at the train station, I took a car for more than an hour to reach Xinhua News Agency. As soon as I got out of the car, I vomited wildly, and that day I vomited more than I had in the previous five months. It took ten minutes to take the photo, and after coming out of the Xinhua News Agency, I almost collapsed, and when I saw that photo, I was startled, basically like a female ghost. Comfort yourself in my heart, our mother and son are in this photo!

The defense in June was another hard journey, which was really a toss-up. I booked my train ticket ten days in advance, and I was sure to go this time. It's not raining, but the sun is shining, and I vomit all the way to school. What is not very convenient is that the tutor was hospitalized, and the two hurried to Xiehe to visit him, admiring his professionalism, explaining over and over again, and doing everything very seriously, but unfortunately the disciple is not angry, and the strict master still can't produce a high apprentice. The physical examination is the easiest job, I don't need to have an examination, just pass, at this time I know the benefits of pregnant women! The defense in the afternoon is also smooth, and the judges are quite satisfied without too much difficulty. I went to the tutor at night, a bunch of words to sign, a bunch of comments to write, and the tutor had to dictate my husband's transcripts, and I didn't go back until more than 10 o'clock, and I almost collapsed. What's more prostration is that the wallet can't stand the toss, and the money from the small county town is used in the big city to know how bad it is, and the casual ones are above 20, and our salary really can't stand the cost. It is said that it is more than 1,000 reimbursements for research funds, but in fact it is far from enough for us to toss this trip, and the most important point is that I am in a very gray mood now, I can hardly see where the hope is, and I don't know what way out I will have when I go to graduate school. Many of our classmates have gone out of graduate school, which is completely decoupled from the rating, and their salaries have not increased. At this time, I was very envious of the salary system of the mining company in our hometown, on top of the basic salary, there was another set of salary system, according to the education to increase the salary, junior college 300, undergraduate 500, graduate 1,000. If our school also presses this, wow...... That's cool, at least it makes people feel that reading some books is still a little useful. The last day was a bunch of forms to hand in, and I went to my girlfriend Xiaohong's house in the afternoon, I couldn't go when she got married, so I congratulated her in advance, and it was not easy for her. Speaking of which, when the undergraduate was recruited, we were all depressed, and we went around in a big circle or returned to the starting point, and the things that we disdained had to fight hard in the end, maybe this is fate. The place where the dream begins, it's a bit mysterious. The next birth of a baby is another hurdle, every woman has to go through, I hope everything goes well. When they went home, the two went to the city to take a four-dimensional photo, saying that the baby was relatively big, but the development was okay, Yu Yue saw the baby's appearance for the first time, I don't know why, she thought it was a boy at a glance.

It was very hard to get pregnant in the late stage, the fetus was large, and it was very hard to conceive, when I was more than six months old, I just took a shower and came out, I don't know if the air conditioner was too cold, and it didn't take ten minutes for Yu Yue to start angina, and for a while, the reflection was sore in the shoulders and back, and then the face was red, and the breath began to tighten, Yu Yue seemed to call Shiyuan to save his life, Shiyuan was also frightened this time, both of them were inexperienced, and they didn't know how to use medicine, because it was the first time to commit this kind of pain, and they didn't know it was called angina pectoris, Yu Yue thought of myocardial infarction, and was painful and afraid, she said Shiyuan could take me to the hospitalShiyuan was stunned for a moment, comforted her and said, you lie down, I will help you rub it if you are uncomfortable, Yu Yue has been in pain and can't sleep, she feels that she can't breathe, she is getting shorter and shorter, she is tired and confused after a long time, and her heart is sometimes sober, thinking, "If you go like this this time, you will really be destroyed to death, and I am so unwilling in my heart." Shi Yuan helped Yu Yue massage his shoulders until he fell asleep, and was woken up by Yu Yue, she said that she was too uncomfortable, Shi Yuan vaguely promised, "I will go to the hospital if it hurts tomorrow morning." Yu Yue didn't have the strength to speak, and thought to himself, "It's over, I'm going to die in his hands now! Tossed in the middle of the night, and didn't get up until noon the next day, exhausted. Thinking that I had to go to the doctor and ask, when I told the symptoms, the doctor said, "You have a cold."

The summer vacation happened to be the last two months of pregnancy, Yu Yue's reaction was very big, often in labor, the pain was very strong, and when she went to check it, she said that it was not yet a plate, just a false contraction. Once Qian Xiaoying invited Shi Yuan and them to eat at home, and after the meal, they chatted and had a dispute, Shi Yuan said vigorously that if he did not have a son, he would have no hope, and he would live in vain, while saying as if he had foreseen the result, Yu Yue was very disgusted, and he scolded Yu Yue in front of everyone, saying that she had a brain disease, and Chinese who did not want to have a son, what is wrong with wanting to have a son. Yu Yue scolded angrily, "You just have a sick brain, what is the use of saying every day that you want to have a son, anyway, it is your decision, you are so repeatedly entangled so that you don't let people live? After speaking, Yu Yue left Qian Xiaoying's house while crying, and Qian Xiaoying chased after her and sent Yu Yue home on a motorcycle, while explaining their family's backward thinking and the abuse she suffered as a daughter in this family. Halfway through, Yu Yue's stomach hurt, and it hurt until she was home, Qian Xiaoying thought she was going to give birth, and hurriedly called Shiyuan and Yu Yue's parents up, Yu Yue was sweating profusely, and several people analyzed whether it was really coming, after all, there was still more than a month before the due date, and it didn't look like it. About half an hour, the labor pain ended, Yu Yue fell asleep tired, and everyone left.

Two weeks before giving birth, my mother came down from time to time to take a look, but after doing housework for a few days, she cried out in pain, and caught Yu Yue chatting with her when she was reading a book now, and the topic was nothing more than how miserable she was in confinement before, and she had to wash the whole family's clothes, wash out the arthritis and **** sagging, and she was scolded by her husband and father-in-law all day long...... Yu Yue is really not a very patient person, she has a lot of things to do, she likes to have high-quality communication and conversation with friends, colleagues or strangers, not gossip, she will not spend too much time on housework, except for occasionally cooking to enjoy the beauty of cooking, the general housework is done by the machine. Yu Yue was very afraid of her mother's rummaging around at home to do housework, and tried to wash all the clothes before she came. Once, without consent, he opened Yu Yue's closet without permission, then took out a denim jacket, and said to Shiyuan while unfolding it, "Your wife doesn't know how to do housework, how will I take care of you in the future, you see, the clothes can't be washed, and they are washed piece by piece, what does it look like." After speaking, I took it to the laundry pool and soaked and rubbed, but the more I washed it, the thinner it became, and in the end I was empty, and I didn't forget to explain after drying the clothes, "Wow, your wife doesn't know what dirty things she gets, and she can't wash them off no matter how she washes them." At that time, Yu Yue was still in graduate school, and she didn't think of this coat for a long time after returning home. Yu Yue couldn't react for a long time, "This washed white denim never fades, the color is white enough." The mother looked disdainful, "I don't know what clothes, one is deep and one is shallow." She immediately understood that this peasant woman had never seen a whitewashed style! Touching this "FUN" top that had been washed thin after wearing it a few times, Yu Yue was speechless. She felt that she was very miserable, with such a husband who didn't know how to be tender, and a sick mother-in-law who had never seen the world and was still self-righteous. I am very disappointed in such a family, I don't have a sense of belonging at all, and that family mother, all day long, deliberately said that Fangfang is like heaven and earth, she is the queen mother, she doesn't have to do anything, Yu Yue is not stupid, of course she knows what the purpose of her mother's words is, but is it necessary to compete or expose every detail? Yu Yue feels that she doesn't have that much spare time, she likes to be happy and let her go.

On the fourth day after the due date, Yu Yue saw that she was red, but unfortunately she saw that the water was broken, because it was really not red. She quickly picked up the phone and called Shi Yuan to go home, Shi Yuan rushed upstairs in two steps, and her first reaction was not to call her father-in-law and mother-in-law, but to dial 120 directly, and the county hospital responded that she could not stay in again, and called the Chinese medicine hospital to pick it up. When I arrived at the Chinese medicine hospital, Shiyuan reported the information to my parents-in-law, and when I arrived at the hospital, the doctor said that he was red, not so fast. At this time, Yu Yue's parents spoke, "Let's go home, I think it's safer to go to the county hospital, the doctors there have more experience, this kind of thing, safety first." Shi Yuan looked unhappy, as if he was denied by his father-in-law and mother-in-law again, he insisted on his opinion, "It doesn't matter, the doctors in the Chinese medicine hospital will definitely be able to handle this kind of thing, and the doctors in the county hospital may not be better than the traditional Chinese medicine hospital, just like the teachers of the first middle school and the second middle school, in fact, they are about the same level." Mom couldn't let him come at this time, insisted that she would go to the county hospital to compare insurance, saying that she was born in the county hospital when Yu Yue was in the county hospital, and now after 30 years, it is not as good as before? Shi Yuan reluctantly, "We countrymen all give birth in the traditional Chinese medicine hospital, and Yu Yue has to adapt to it when she marries a countryman." Why can't she!", and then without saying anything, he signed the family notice. Mom and Dad are still looking for someone to help contact the bed, and Shi Yuan's "final word" makes the second elder very dissatisfied. Yu Yue was in pain for the past two days, and she didn't have time to care about their disputes, her parents gave in, no matter what, just ask for peace, don't make trouble for their daughter, and since then they don't mention it anymore, and concentrate on helping to give birth. After reading all the information and doing a basic examination, the doctor said to Yu Yue, the child is about seven and a half pounds, "Do you want to have a natural birth or a caesarean section", Yu Yue thought about it, try it naturally. She thought in her heart that a woman had to go through that pain in order to be satisfied. The next night, Sewon asked his mother to go home and rest, and when there was news, she was informed that her mother-in-law was too busy to answer, leaving her parents busy there. Mom whispered to Dad, "Oh, don't expect other people's sons to worry that we can't stand it, his mother will be tired, we won't be tired, who will have grandchildren?"

Soon after the mother-in-law left, Yu Yue's labor pain began to be obvious, the frequency became higher and higher, the interval was getting shorter and shorter, and the pain was not known for how long, the nurse came to check the opening of the uterine opening, and every time she was rude, she shook her head every time, and she had to throw off a sentence when she left, "It's still early, and it's only one centimeter open." "The pain was more than one o'clock in the middle of the night, Yu Yue rolled in pain, every time the pain seemed to be **** and the urethra were about to burst, Yu Yue could clearly feel that the child was rushing out, but the child's strength was really inversely proportional to Yu Yue's physical fitness, after a long time of pain, she felt that she had no strength, and she had given up her desire to give birth naturally, she asked Shiyuan to call the nurse and said that she wanted to change to a caesarean section, and the nurse said to Yu Yue, "You are so tall, you gave birth by yourself, it will be easy to do when the uterine mouth opens, it's still early, don't be so squeamish!" The mother flushed brown sugar water to refresh Yu Yue, and the nurse touched the uterine opening, "It's only three centimeters, now I will send you into the delivery room without family members, the doctor for cesarean section is different from the doctor for natural delivery, and it will take an hour for the cesarean section doctor to be ready, you have been in pain for so long anyway, and you won't come out if you work hard." The next Yu Yue was still in pain all the time, the hemorrhoids were also squeezed out, and the person was so tired that he was paralyzed there, and he didn't know what the child had experienced inside. At this time, her mother told Yu Yue to get up and walk around, which may be conducive to the opening of the palace entrance, Yu Yue walked around the corridor, grabbing Qian Shiyuan's hand hard every time she hurt, Qian Shiyuan knew that she must be in pain to death, but she still couldn't imagine it, there is a word called empathy, but in fact, only people with the same experience can say the same feelings. Yu Yue felt that she was going to give birth anyway, otherwise she felt that the child would not be able to be saved. The nurse impatiently pushed Yu Yue into the delivery room, at four o'clock in the morning, when Yu Yue pushed into the delivery room, in addition to the heart-rending pain and the cold air in the delivery room, it would be despised to shout pain here, "That woman doesn't hurt when she gives birth, she has to pass this hurdle if she is a woman!" , Clean up the pubic area to prepare for smooth delivery first, after the artificial water breaking, the uterine opening was only six centimeters, the machine was desperately prompting the lack of oxygen, until the doctors and nurses found out that they were nervous, Yu Yue was from the delivery room to the cesarean section when it was already more than five o'clock, she was in a coma and was pushed away. The caesarean section was done by another doctor on duty, she was also woken up by the nurse, and when she learned that the situation was not good, she immediately got up to prepare, she pushed Yu Yue awake, "The anesthesia will be injected into the backbone later, you must not move." Yu Yue didn't even have tears to cry, she moaned and replied, "Hurry up, please, it hurts too much! The doctor replied, "Open it and we'll all check it, and we'll take it out for testing." You can rest assured. The needle was injected into the backbone, the pain of drilling the bone, the anesthetic worked quickly, Yu Yue's lower body was unconscious, and the person was very tired with her eyes closed, but her brain was still awake, she felt that the doctor had opened the mouth, and then pushed the child out of the conscious abdomen, and the crying was particularly loud at the moment of coming out, Yu Yue woke up immediately, and her heart was very excited, and then Yu Yue heard the doctors and nurses shouting, "Wow, what a big baby!" Yu Yue tried to keep herself awake for a while, and waited for the nurse to weigh the baby, "Nine pounds and three eh, wow!" Yu Yue was startled when she heard this, the nurse wrapped the child, hugged it and put it face to face with Yu Yue for a while, Yu Yue wanted to ask if it was a boy or a girl but immediately ran out of strength.