Bai Guo felt that she didn't look like the lady she knew at all, let alone the master who loved his wife like his life.

"Madam, the promise is the promise, but it is unknown whether the promise can be fulfilled. To put it bluntly, even if the lady can do it for the child, the master may not be able to fulfill the promise. If something happens to you, he will definitely be in pain, and after arranging the little masters, he will definitely go with you. ”

If it was in the past, Bai Guo might not dare to say such a thing to Yan Shunhua, even if he really thought so in his heart, but it was impossible to sue him, it was the following offense.

But after getting along for so many years, as a personal maid, she has truly understood that Yan Shunhua really doesn't care much about these trivial words, even if it is offensive words, she can always laugh it off.

"Haha, you also underestimate your master, Shen Jingyuan is not such a fragile person. He, if he puts me first, he will be anxious about what I am anxious about, and if he doesn't put me first, then the child must be his first. So no matter how you look at it, he will definitely live. ”

Yan Shunhua really didn't worry about this, Shen Jingyuan, as a man, if there was no way to protect his wife and live strong for the sake of the child, she would look down on him when she died, because in addition to being a husband, he was also a father, and he couldn't live purely for himself.

At first, he said that the core of the family lies in the harmony of the relationship between husband and wife, and then he said that children are more important and that they need to live for them. Or is it that Madame herself doesn't know when to do it, so she's telling me?"

Bai Guo felt that it was very possible, because the lady she knew had never been an old stubborn who would not change forever, and the way to deal with various problems was different, even if it was to deal with the same problem, with the change of time and different circumstances, it would also adopt a different way than before.

Yan Shunhua laughed.

"You, you, what am I telling you for? And it can't bring substantial benefits, why should I bother with that tongue? If I offend Shen Yan, it will annoy Shen Jingyuan.

Now that you have no in-laws and no children, it is the easiest time, take advantage of the fact that there is nothing to do in the house, go out for a walk, deepen the relationship between husband and wife, and increase some knowledge, isn't it?

Being a wife and being a mother are two completely different things, and when you have children, you will know that no matter how big or small, you need to make certain trade-offs, sometimes it will be as you like, sometimes as your husband wants, sometimes as your children want, but no matter who wants it, you can't hurt the other family, it's just who gets more, who gets less.

At home, you don't pay too much attention to justice and wrong, whether you do it right or wrong, you have to accept it, don't complain, and don't feel wronged.

If you don't train yourself, it is very likely that when the children come in the future, as they grow up, you will feel that your husband and children have taken up too much of your time, so that you have no personal time at all, and you will always live for your husband and children, so where are you?

What is the most precious thing about a person? is her life, and her life is ultimately the sum of the time she has.

Even if one can live to be 100 years old, excluding the four hours of sleep every night, excluding the trivial daily tasks such as eating, drinking, and Lazar, counting two hours of time, it means that people only have 50 years to do things when they are awake.

And in these 50 years, we have to subtract the first ten years of inaction, and the next ten to twenty years or so because of old age and illness, I can only stay at home or even lie on the hospital bed and wait for people to serve and be unable to do things, so when I calculate it, there are only twenty or thirty years of time when I can really do things.

As men, they need to study, practice martial arts, go out to parties, practice, be officials, and fight, they have more time for themselves to realize their ambitions, and the time left for their families is actually very small.

As a woman, when she was young, she would also learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and if she was four or five years old, she would start to help with housework, and even learn how to do farm work, learn how to serve people, and when she reached the age of marriage, whether she was born rich or noble, or had no power or power, she would be married off and live in a new family. The first priority is always to spread out the branches of the husband's family, take care of the family and raise children, and consume most of his time.

If you devote a lot of your limited time to your husband and children, like ordinary women, you will always have to rely on them for your life. Even if you can survive without relying on them, emotionally, you will always be dominated by them, and once they have an accident, or they abandon you, it is equivalent to the collapse of the pillars that build your happy life, and your whole person will collapse.

Because the reason that supports you to live is not yourself, but someone else, whether it is your husband or children, who are just outsiders relative to yourself, that's why you ask such stupid questions.

No matter how much Shen Jingyuan and I fall in love with each other, we will not die of martyrdom because of the other party's first step. We love each other as much as we love ourselves. We love each other as much as we love ourselves. Everything we do for each other is ultimately for ourselves.

So to put it bluntly, he was so good to me, not because of me, but for himself, in order to fulfill his own love for me. I reciprocated him with the same kindness, not because of him, but for myself, for the fulfillment of my own love for him, and that is why I was so kind to him.

In a word, the reason why we are the people we are today, and what we do, whether it seems to be for our partners or children, for our families or for our country, is ultimately for ourselves. ”

Bai Guo was stunned by her words, obviously unable to fully understand her final point.

"Madam, why do you think so? You are not a selfish person, what you do for the master and the young masters, out of your love for them, it is they who fulfill it, how can it be said that it is for the sake of perfecting yourself?"

Yan Shunhua touched the bridge of his nose.

"I thought you'd understand. Okay, what I said was indeed a bit rappy, but Bai Guo, if you can't immediately react to what I'm talking about, it means that you are not deeply influenced by me, if Wanwan is here, she will definitely smile and immediately agree with my point just now, instead of being puzzled. ”