Bai Guo thought for a moment before nodding.

"It is possible for the lady to do this, but it is unlikely that the slave or maid will do so. If Bai Cao also became a parent, she would definitely want to run out. ”

Yan Shunhua hummed in agreement.

"Bai Cao is braver than you, and a girl who practices martial arts is always different from a person who has no power to restrain a chicken. Time will heal all the pain, don't worry too much, maybe in a few years she will have a new spring. There are thousands of good men in the world, and there are always more people who will impress her.

As for your words, or that sentence, I am very supportive of you going out.

Shen Yan followed Shen Jingyuan to the south and north, and it would definitely be no problem to protect you. I've always been in the house, and my time alone is limited, and the speed of emotional growth is also limited. Although Shen Yan is a reliable man, you are also a stable woman, the two have a certain emotional foundation, and they will definitely be responsible for each other's small families, and they will not look at the opposite sex next to them.

But things in the world are so wonderful, and sometimes, there are really accidents that befall you. If you are prepared before then, the deeper the relationship, the less likely a bad accident will happen, and even if it does happen, the chances of solving the problem will be greatly increased.

Don't look at me and Shen Jingyuan's life after marriage seems to have always been so sweet, in fact, we have known each other for a lot longer than you know, far more than you think. ”

In the time that she has been more than ten years, in Shen Jingyuan, it has been a relationship for more than 20 years, and the relationship between the two of them has long been as stable as a rock.

Each other is already sure of each other, knows what the other person thinks, how they will react to what kind of things they encounter, know when to show support with practical actions, and when they just need to watch quietly from the sidelines, let the other party deal with it themselves, rather than meddle indiscriminately.

When Bai Guo heard this, he couldn't help but feel a little uneasy.

"Madame, have you heard something? If you can, can you tell me? Shen Yan is empathetic? There are new and better people like him? He has reached the point where he doesn't even bother to cover up?"

The corners of Yan Shunhua's eyes twitched, and he hurriedly waved his hand.

"No, I'm just saying maybe, to tell you that there are no absolutes.

Women can naturally be independent, with your mind and ability, you can be single and unmarried for the rest of your life in our house, and live a worry-free life. As long as you like that kind of life, Shen Jingyuan and I will not force you to get married. It's the same for other people, as long as you really like to be single and don't want to get married, we won't ask you to get married.

But since you have chosen to get married, and although you have affection for each other, you still stay by my side and Shen Jingyuan more after getting married.

The longer the newlywed couples spend alone, the faster the relationship grows. You have passed the stage of newlyweds, and now the relationship is more like a trickle.

However, Baiguo, let me tell you, if the relationship reaches the stage when the still water is deep, there is naturally nothing wrong with the long flow of water, and there is basically no need to worry about anything, because the couples who can reach that stage have long been no longer simply lovers, but also relatives, real soul mates, and indispensable and irreplaceable existences for each other.

You and Shen Yan have not yet reached that stage, you have just experienced the stage of newlywed Yan'er, and now you are still in a period where you know each other a little and are quite familiar with each other, but in fact you are not able to understand it in all aspects, of course there is a tacit understanding, but the real harmony has not yet come.

Once you have a child, most of your attention will be shifted to the child, and your curiosity about each other will be greatly reduced, or at the very least, the process will be greatly slowed down.

You're old, but you haven't had children yet. Needless to say, I know you're always ready to give birth to a new life. But Bai Guo, before becoming a mother, set aside some time for your husband, and more importantly, for yourself as a wife, to have a good time in the world of two.

I can assure you that according to the hearts of the two of you, once the love is strong, even if there is a woman who makes Shen Yan's heart and a man who makes you feel like you in the future, you will subconsciously exclude them.

You will truly be one husband and wife, and think about each other first in everything you do, even if the child is born, you will pour your parental love into the child, but you will never put each other behind the child, you will always keep the most important and first position for each other

。 The cornerstone of a true family is a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, not a close relationship between parents and children, and if you want family happiness, then don't forget to put your husband first in your heart, both now and in the future. As long as the relationship between the two of you is strong, your family relationship will be rock-solid. ”

Yan Shunhua said so much in one breath, and Bai Guo was very surprised when he heard this.

"Madam, the slave knows that you have a good relationship with your master, but if you say something offensive, the slave has always thought that you pay more attention to the little masters. Because in the past few years, you have spent more time on parenting, and your relationship with the master is still the same, but there is not much interaction.

Don't you often tell your children that if you had to choose, you would always save your son when his husband and son were in danger?"

Yan Shunhua smiled slightly when she heard this.

"Bai Guo, you should really go out for a walk with Shen Yan, even if it's just for a few months, really.

Between Shen Jingyuan and me, we have reached the stage of an old husband and wife, and we know each other's way of speaking and behaving. We are adults, and adults mean that we are responsible for what we have said and done, and we are parents, and we are also responsible for what our children say and do before they reach adulthood.

If there is danger, whether it is Shen Jingyuan or me, if we have to choose, we will consider the safety of the children first, which is undoubtedly a thing. If the other party has a case, no matter how heartbroken we are, we will live to ensure that the children can be protected by their father or mother until they are old enough to protect themselves.

Once they can leave our wings and be free to choose their own direction in life, then we have fulfilled most of our responsibilities as parents. At that time, whether we go or stay, it is our own choice. This choice also includes the method of martyrdom.

Of course, I discussed this topic with Shen Jingyuan, and both of us agreed that if they left before each other because of an accident or illness, then the other person must live. Even if you live for your children, you have to strive to live for a few more years, until the depression in your heart dissipates, and you are painful and happy step by step, and you live to the time when your hair is gray. ”