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People who have watched the movie have gone in with a smile and come out crying, but the reaction from the outside world to this film has been mixed.

Sure enough, people of different eras have different feelings when watching this film.

In the previous life, many years ago, this film can be said to have swept the country and received applause again and again, but in this era, it is mixed.

Although the moviegoers all burst into tears after watching it, they are very ambivalent about what this movie expresses.

This time, Zeng Hua, known as Ye Qiu's royal film critic, changed his previous praise with a little criticism.

Zeng Hua: "Whether "Mom Loves Me Again" is a good movie, I don't know, yes, I don't know, to be honest, it's very contradictory. ”

"This film seems to be about great and selfless maternal love, but it turns out to be not. ”

"First of all, I have to say that I have watched this film several times, and every time I will cry into tears, crying, crying because of Xiaoqiang, crying because I feel sorry for Xiaoqiang, but it is not for Qiuxia. ”

"Isn't it weird? No, it's not strange at all, I'm a little annoyed by the character of Qiuxia, this mother, yes, a little annoyed. ”

"In order for the child to have a better and brighter future, in order to let the child grow up in the so-called sound family, Qiu Xia gave up Xiaoqiang, Xiaoqiang is only a few years old, hearing Xiaoqiang crying and begging for his mother, my heart is broken, the irony is the song "Only Mom is Good in the World", why is it ironic? Because, this song interprets how irreplaceable and important the mother is in the child's world. ”

"The absurdity of human beings lies in the selfishness that exists in their genes. Qiu Xia's love for Xiaoqiang can make her leave Xiaoqiang firmly, just to let Xiaoqiang have a great future and then usher in a happy life, so as a mother, she naturally has no regrets. If you think about it this way, it seems that really, her decision was great, but is it really the case?

In my opinion, no, she is making a huge sacrifice for the sake of the child, and she makes herself happy for the sake of the child's future happiness.

But she has always just stood in her own position, but has not considered for the child, has not considered the child's thoughts and wishes, this, in the current society, is universal, we as parents always hope that their children are the best, hope that their children will become dragons, human nature, but always blindly impose their own ideas on children, is it really for the sake of the children?

A child, leaving his mother who gets along day and night, throws himself into a strange environment, and his mind is full of his mother's attitude of rejecting him. According to Xiaoqiang's age, he will not know the deep-seated reason, and can only guess that he has lost his mother's love for some reason. So the voice of "Mom, you hit me, as long as I am with you, you can beat me" is so tear-jerking and shocking. To a certain extent, it can also prove how huge the mental blow that his mother gave to Xiaoqiang. ”

"Doesn't Qiu Xia know that Xiaoqiang's happiness is not to go to a famous school, eat delicacies from the mountains and seas, and wear high-end brands. His happiness is to live in his familiar environment, get along with his mother day and night, and it would be even better if he had a father. Mother's happiness is to see that Xiaoqiang can have a great future, and this may not be Xiaoqiang's happiness. So my mother sacrificed Xiaoqiang's happiness in exchange for her own happiness, which is not selfless, but selfish. ”

"Of course, when Xiaoqiang was unconscious, Qiu Xia finally woke up, but by mistake, she stumbled and fell, crazy, I don't know what Ye Qiu thought when writing the script, Qiu Xia is crazy, just crazy, we can imagine what she would do if Qiu Xia wasn't crazy, she will definitely get the child back, right?"

It's just that there is no if, she woke up too late, that's why there is such a tragedy. Xiaoqiang has no favorite mother, just like the song sings, a child without a mother is like a grass, maybe Xiaoqiang does have a good future, but there is no doubt that Xiaoqiang without a mother, how can he be happy?

"So the only value of this film is to provide the world with a negative example of selfless love, and this child performed very well, he played a child-like life around me, of course, maybe this is the original intention of this film, I hope that after watching it, it can give everyone an inspiration, when deciding the future of the child, you can think more from the child's point of view, maybe everything is different. ”

Of course, controversy and controversy naturally have support and rebuttal.

Famous film critic Xiao Xiao: "I took my son to watch a movie yesterday and cried a lot, this is undoubtedly a good film, at least it touched many people." There is not a single person in the theater who is not red-eyed. ”

"Mother, as an ordinary, ordinary person, has done something extraordinary. In October, she conceived and gave birth to a son, and a person worked hard to pull her son to school, and educated her more sensible than the children of a good family, how difficult it was, and then for the happiness of her son, she actually endured the pain of cutting her love and sent her dependent son back to his father's side, which required a lot of courage. Faced with the choice to return halfway and ran back to see her son, she taught her son a hard lesson, and in the face of the contradictions in her heart, she decisively chose her son's happiness and future. What a great mother who is willing to give everything for her son, even her life. ”

"Don't say that the mother is selfish, think from Qiuxia's point of view, think from all the things before, perhaps, the child is very happy with the poor mother, but how long can this happiness last? ”

At school, Xiaoqiang was ridiculed as a child without a father, other children wore new clothes, carried new school bags, and ate delicious food, but what Qiuxia could give Xiaoqiang was nothing but maternal love, she couldn't give Xiaoqiang any material things, or even a complete family. ”

Maybe Qiuxia's approach is inappropriate, but as a mother, after experiencing bitterness again and again, after seeing her son become more and more sensible, her heart is like a knife, she feels sorry for the child, gave birth to him, and brought him into this world, but she can't give him the best, she can only let the child suffer with her. ”

Qiu Xia's mental journey, from the beginning of toughness, no money, no life, as long as the child starts, Xiaoqiang is everything to her. ”

But when I saw Xiaoqiang being ridiculed for not having a father, seeing Xiaoqiang being ridiculed for wearing ugly clothes, and seeing Xiaoqiang holding back tears and asking himself why he didn't have a father, Qiuxia was shaken. Is your persistence right? Is it really good for Xiaoqiang?"

When Xiaoqiang had a high fever and did not go away, but Qiuxia could only kneel and bow to God and pray, was she really stupid? Is she stupid? No, with Qiuxia's conditions, she couldn't afford to send Xiaoqiang to a big hospital for treatment. So she faltered again. ”

"Xiaoqiang is Qiuxia's heart, there is no doubt about this, otherwise, she would not be in a daze after sending the child away ruthlessly, holding the pillow that Xiaoqiang slept on. She refused Xiaoqiang, and even drove Xiaoqiang away, her heart hurt more than anyone else, but she still did it, when Xiaoqiang was in a coma, the pain suppressed in Qiuxia's heart finally broke out, she regretted it, but ......"

As a mother, Qiu Xia may not be good enough, but you can't deny that she is selfless, all for Xiaoqiang, for her heart, to be able to live better, not to be sad for new clothes, new schoolbags, no longer to be ridiculed for being a wild seed without a father. Yes, maybe she is selfish, but this is the selfishness of a mother's love for her son, and she is selfless, because all this is not for herself, her own heart hurts more. ”