283.Baby Contest (II)
Although Feng Zilong's family is not from the countryside, his understanding of the countryside is much deeper than that of Zhao Min, he said that living in the countryside is far more difficult than in the city, because although there is no pollution and the air is fresh, but because of the adherence to thousands of old traditions, living there is particularly depressing and cringe. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info What he said is the truth, because rural people are much more conservative than urban people, it's not that they don't know how to open up, it's that they don't want to be completely open, there are some deep-rooted things, it's not that change can be changed, even if it is to change, it will take several generations of efforts to do it.
Zhao Min naturally understands this.
Not to mention, let's take men and women as an example, after more than 30 years of reform and opening up, there are still some rural people who adhere to this backward stereotype and bad habit, saying that boys are more important than girls, why do you say that? Because a boy is incense, and a woman is outside, it is better to have one hundred and eighty daughters than to have a boy. I don't know how many families have divorced this concept, and I don't know how many like-minded couples have to break up and find another place to parasitize.
Although there have been fewer people fleeing the famine or hiding in the mountains and old forests to give birth to boys in recent years, there are still there after all. I don't know how many years it will take to get rid of this bad habit and eradicate it.
Zhao Min, who originally talked about the economy, once he opened the conversation box in this regard, he would talk endlessly, and he would not even finish several lectures. And the students also love to listen to this kind of words, especially what they don't understand is that being a woman is already sad, but once a woman marries a man, the man says that he wants to give birth to a boy, and the woman can't give birth, the old woman who is a mother-in-law will be the first to attack, and then the mother-in-law dies, and the woman who can't give birth to a boy will be the mother-in-law, she will immediately forget the bullying and insults she suffered back then, and begin to concoct her daughter-in-law in the same way.
Pathetic Chinese woman!
Chinese women grew up in this kind of disliked and disliked women.
It can be said that a large part of Chinese women are sad all their lives, although some of them do not worry about food and clothing, and live like dogs, but their hearts are still sad.
Take the couples since the implementation of the family planning policy, especially those who eat the national food, some of them have given birth to daughters, their hearts are willing, but they are struggling to make a living, and they must not temporarily grieve themselves not to give birth, once the policy is opened, some people can't wait to start the great plan to create people, sadly, when the country is not allowed to give birth, he wants to give birth, but when the country liberalizes the policy, he can't give birth. What a tragedy!
There is also a kind of sadness, that is, those who gave birth to a boy before and wanted to give birth to a girl, but they wanted to give birth to a boy, and vice versa. In any case, one of the things that Chinese like to do the most is the baby birth competition, your family will give birth to three, his family will give birth to five, like a rush, you don't let me, I don't let you, you want to give birth to everyone, that is afraid of that!
There was once such a story in the countryside, about a couple who gave birth to a litter of seven children in ignorance, and the staff of the township family planning work went to their homes to catch them and went to the township for surgery, but when they arrived at the person's house, they only saw a broken room, which did not block the sun during the day, and did not cover the rain on rainy days. The cadre was so angry that he turned around and went out, and the other cadres asked him if there was anyone inside, and he told them to see for themselves, and when they went in, they saw the same scene—
It's the age of gods, and there are still such poor people!
It's a story, a true story.
This story takes place in the late nineties of the last century, in a particularly remote and impoverished poor ravine.
When Zhao Min finished telling this story, some classmates let out an incredible sigh. I can't live anymore, why do I have so many children? Next, Zhao Min said that the reason why rural people like to have children is that there is no electricity in the countryside at that time, and there are no modern household appliances such as televisions, people go to bed after eating, those couples have nothing to do in bed, so they have to do that thing for fun, over time, giving birth to a child is as simple as peeing, giving birth to five or six or seven or eight children is not a difficult thing for rural women, in the words of rural women, what is there to be afraid of giving birth to a child, isn't it just a big?
For urban women, this is simply incredible, but in the countryside, it is a casual thing, it is really the two heavens of urban and rural! The city must have a child in the hospital, and the scene is particularly grand, what seven aunts and eight aunts, aunts, two aunts, three aunts, and aunts are all here, grandmothers and aunts and aunts Bi Chen, just drove to the hospital, just Zhen, testing, busy for three days and three nights, when the noise is exhausted, a new little life will Shanshan come to this world......