283.Baby Contest (I)
From knowing Feng Zilong to the present, Zhao Min has not found that Feng Zilong has ever been jealous, as if he is born with a vinegar immunity, whether it is that man dangling in front of Zhao Min, he is like he has never seen it. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
Zhao Min once asked him if he hated her for associating with other men, and he said that a person has a person's freedom, and no one can interfere with the freedom of others, because as soon as you interfere with the freedom of others, others will not be free, and you yourself will be bound by all kinds of constraints, just like the action and reaction of force, while you bind others, you also bind yourself.
It is not easy for people to live in this life, there is no need to impose everything on themselves, especially two people who love each other, but also know how to let go of each other, do not restrain everything, a person has a person's self-knowledge, some things you don't say, the other party also knows how to cherish, sometimes it's not good to say it.
Zhao Min agrees.
It is precisely because Feng Zilong is open-minded, generous, and funny, and never cares about what Zhao Min does, what he should do, and what he should not do, he will always have a mentality towards her.
If you don't cherish such a good man, you will regret it for a lifetime.
Therefore, although she had to deal with Ouyang, Hua Jianguo, Qiu Xingwu and others as soon as she carried Feng Zilong on her back, she only thought of Feng Zilong alone.
Feng Zilong is the person she is sure to marry.
The person you want to marry is different from the lover, the lover is to play with it, and the person you want to marry is to live a lifetime, or you can say that the lover is like a seasoning, and it is quite fresh to change the taste once in a while, but it will not work after a long time, but the one you want to marry is like a staple food, you have to eat it three hundred and sixty-five days a year, otherwise you will be hungry......
As a woman, it is Zhao Min's blessing to meet an excellent man like Feng Zilong. Whether a woman is happy or not in this life does not depend on her birth and subsequent efforts and dedication, mainly depends on what kind of man she is looking for, if the man she is looking for is particularly good, and he understands women very well, is considerate of women, and treats women well, then it is difficult for her to be unhappy in this life, on the contrary, there will be endless suffering and difficulty.
Suffering and hardship, it is a woman who is not happy at all and cannot get rid of nightmares in her life.
A woman who is accompanied by suffering is prone to sorrow and aging. It is because the overdraft of heavy physical labor has made their youth complete their mission one or two decades ahead of schedule, and a woman who is only 40 years old looks older than a woman in her 50s or 60 years in the city.
Therefore, Zhao Min felt that she was very happy - because she had Feng Zilong by her side, one of them. The second is that she got rid of the countryside. The hardships of the countryside are not experienced by urban women at all.
Zhao Min, who was admitted to the city from the countryside, knows the hardships and difficulties. Although the way of life of rising and sunset has changed with the entry of modern household appliances into the countryside, the vast majority of rural people still adhere to the stereotypes that their ancestors have adhered to for thousands of years. What can you do if you don't stick to the old rules? As long as you live in the countryside for one day, you have to abide by the rules of the countryside, and if you have to go to harvest rice the next day, it is impossible for you not to sleep in the middle of the night or even after the night, and you have to drink half a pound of soju or jump on the di, if you do this, then the rice will only rot in the field. And neighbors will point at your back and scold your ancestors, saying that you are not a ghost or a ghost to learn from a city person, which is purely a model of a ruined son.
Zhao Min, who is from the countryside, naturally does not forget the hardships and hardships of the countryside, so although she now belongs to the rich class, she never spends food easily. Because she had been hungry, she knew that a grain of food was not easy to come by. Including eating in a restaurant, she still can't see anyone ordering a large table of dishes and leaving without eating. Especially when teaching students who can come from rural areas, she wants everyone to remember the difficulties and hardships of rural life, cherish the study time in front of them, study hard, and learn a little more cultural knowledge while they are young.
Students also like to listen to her talk about this, because whether they are students from the city or from the countryside, they all know from the textbook that the grain described in "hoeing and harvesting" is not easy to come by, and cherishing the grain will cherish the labor of others. In fact, both urban and rural people must understand the importance of cherishing grain, and no matter how developed a country's industry is, if agriculture cannot keep up, then the country's development will not last.
Because the prosperity of industry is based on agriculture, the foundation does not exist. Industry naturally does not survive for long. For Zhao Min, who studies economics, he knows the truth contained in it.