Chapter 1231: Intimacy
Shen Jingyuan was also a little helpless about this.
"Daddy is afraid that you will be difficult to be a man, and I am also afraid that I will be caught in the middle.
In fact, after getting along seriously, the father-in-law and mother-in-law from Liyang are not unreasonable people, especially after Qiliang was born, the mother-in-law was obviously much happier. It's perfect for my father and mother to come at this time, even if it's for my sake, if you are good to your father, your mother-in-law will not complain. The father-in-law is even more not, he has always been full of good feelings for the people in Yanjia Village, and he can talk to his father. ”
Yan Shunhua stretched out a finger and poked him in the shoulder.
"What can you do about it? If I don't be tougher, I doubt that my father and mother will come in their lifetime. They are all sixty years old, and after a few years of grinding, they will be seventy or eighty years old, and the eldest brother has such a simple temperament, he will definitely not agree to let the two old men travel a long way to the capital. ”
"Well, if that time comes, let's find time to live for a period of time every few years. It is always difficult for the elderly to leave their homeland, and it is normal for people to do so. If they really don't want to come, we can't really force them to go north. It's good if they are happy, but if it makes it difficult for them to do it, even if we are kind, we are not filial. ”
Shen Jingyuan patted her on the back and tried to coax her, "You are filial, your father and mother know it." It's not necessarily that they don't want to come, and it's not necessarily that they don't want you to do your filial piety. But a lot of times things don't go their way, you know that, they know that better.
At that time, I insisted on not remarrying, and my deep-rooted reputation for the daughter of Xilong Yan has spread all over the country. Although she is still nominally remarried to the Yan family, she is the girl of the Yan family in Liyang. My father and mother may not have come to settle in the capital because they were all thinking about us, but also partly because they were worried about the relationship between the Xilong Yan clan and the Liyang Yan clan.
Because of the cousin, Brother Yong'er and Brother Zheng'er, the Xilong Yan clan has been famous in the world for more than ten years, and the days are thriving, the people in the clan are thriving, and the children who study and practice martial arts have children with excellent potential, and development and growth are just around the corner.
In contrast, Liyang Yan looks much weaker.
There are three people in this generation: Yan Qiyue, Yan Qipan and Yan Qiliang, you can be regarded as marrying into a high-ranking family and giving birth to four sons-in-law, so you are the biggest confidence of their family today.
But in the end, you are a daughter's family, you are already a Shen family, in the final analysis, the biggest confidence and reliance of the Liyang Yan family in the future will have to fall on Yan Qipan and Yan Qiliang brothers. Only when they grow up and have a future can the Liyang Yan clan see the dawn of slowly becoming stronger. ”
In fact, she didn't understand what he said, it was because the contrast between the two families was too obvious, and the Liyang Yan family was currently too weak, which set off the Xilong Yan family was too strong, so once she made some kind of emotional inclination, Yan Yucheng and his wife were probably somewhat uneasy.
It's impossible for them to accept, and it's probably hard for them to understand, and it doesn't matter if they're reasonable people by nature. Since she survived as Yan Qiyue, then she is a person of the Liyang Yan family, whether it is emotional or intellectual, she should unconditionally stand on the side of the Liyang Yan family first, otherwise, it is impossible for anyone to understand.
What makes her entangled is that to this day, she also recognizes herself more as the Yan Xiaoya from Yanjia Village. Maybe it's because Yan Shengguo and they are the first to accept her, the soul of another world, maybe it's because she has lived with them for a long time, maybe it's just because she prefers the mountains, the water, and the people there, so even if she rarely dreams of her parents, once she dreams of it, it must be Yan Shengguo and his wife standing on that side of the land.
She rarely thinks of her former parents, most of the time, when she mentions her parents, the first thing she thinks of is Yan Shengguo and Yan Liu, and then after seeing Yan Yucheng and Yan Zhang, she will remember that this is also her father and mother.
She has completely accepted this new pair of parents, but in her heart she will unconsciously leave her closest feelings to Yan Shengguo and Yan Liu. Even if she is taking care of Yan Yucheng and his wife in recent years, she has actually taken more care of Yan Yucheng and his wife and got along more, but this does not prevent her from missing and admiring Yan Shengguo and Yan Liu's family in private.
Yan Zhang once complained to Yan Yucheng, saying that he felt that his daughter's head injury must not have been completely healed, otherwise how could she not be close to her parents like an ordinary daughter? Although it is good to the family, there is always a sense of politeness in it.
When Yan Yucheng chatted with her in private, he picked up this and joked about it, saying whether she had offended her mother. Otherwise, how could Yan Zhang be regarded as an outsider?
Yan Yucheng is a man in the end, and he is not as careful as a woman.
He could see that Yan Shunhua was in love with her two younger brothers, but he didn't notice that she was not close enough to her parents. There is a difference between the relationship between an adult daughter and her father, and between an adult daughter and her mother.
The former will be different from men and women because of age, so they will abide by etiquette more, as long as they are respectful in their words, they will not see much bad on their faces. The latter is different, the mother and daughter who are really close, even if both parties are dying, the daughter is still the child in the eyes of the mother, and she is a vexatious existence that can be coquettish and cry and laugh at will.
Yan Shunhua is more than respectful to Yan Zhang, not close enough, and there is not much difference between his mother and his father. This is what makes Yan Zhang feel confused and helpless.
If it weren't for the fact that the interaction between Yan Shunhua and Yan Qipan and Yan Qiliang was a real brotherly intimacy, I'm afraid that Yan Zhang's would have to live with his heart all the time. Because I also saw this point that my husband also saw, Yan Zhang will be really relieved now, a few years later.
It's just that if Yan Shengguo and his wife appear at this point in time, once she sees the difference between Yan Shunhua and them, she will immediately confirm herself, and then find suspicious points, just like Yan Erya's appearance was very easy to arouse her suspicions.
A woman's intuition in some ways is unmatched, just like a natural skill unique to gender that a man can never match.
"I'm just not reconciled. You know. Without my father, I would not have been able to get to where I am today.
When I first came to Daqing, I was actually very indifferent, and I looked at everyone who talked and laughed, but in fact, no one could touch my heart. I'm like a hedgehog, I usually look kind, but once I really come into contact, I will find that I have thorns all over my body, and whoever gets close to him will be injured.
But at that time, even if my father and mother had doubts, they still accepted me unconditionally, and even my grandfather, who confirmed that I had a problem, believed me and told me that since I came to the Yan family, she was a girl from the Yan family, and she had been surnamed Yan all her life. ”
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