Chapter 151: Ruthless
Whether a man asks a woman, or a woman asks a man, how many male (female) friends she (he) has had before her, no matter how you answer, it is wrong.
Therefore, when the painful Hu Xuan questioned, Li Jiaming remained silent. Of course, this doesn't mean that he doesn't want to explain, it's just that he can't help it, and it's useless to explain it at this time. He didn't want to bring Hu Xuan here, but she wanted to follow, and when she came, there was such a problem, which was really a blessing. The casino will be disappointed, and if the mall is too smooth, there will be trouble in other aspects.
"You say, you say!"
When she was on the tip of the bull's horns, everything she said was wrong, but this is not wrong, let Li Jiaming say it? When he got along with Melissa, he didn't know Hu Xuan, and he didn't immediately decide to accept her after getting along, so logically speaking, it was not wrong at all.
Seeing that Li Jiaming was silent, neither arguing nor explaining, let alone admitting his mistakes, he didn't even look angry and anxious, and he was as calm as usual, and the heartbroken Hu Xuan suddenly understood. In this man's heart, he is just an object of marriage, with good looks, good education, and good personality, not her Hu Xuan can also be Zhang Xuan and Zhao Xuan.
Wrong, I was wrong, four years of bitter love in exchange for a possible marriage, not a little bit of his feelings!
Sadness turned into anger, Xuebai's face suddenly turned red, Hu Xuan screamed "Break up!", and then got out of the car, slammed the door and left.
This is the end of this? Li Jiaming, who had cultivated to the top of Mount Tai and still did not change his color, couldn't help but be stunned when he looked at his distant back. By the time he reacted, the angry Hu Xuan had already gotten into the taxi and disappeared from view.
It seems that it is not what I imagined. She doesn't value her achievements, fame, social status, or even wealth very much, but she values herself as a person.
Chasing?
It's useless, a heartbroken woman can't be chased back, and even if they are together, there will be a thorn in their hearts that can't be pulled out. It was only at this time that Li Jiaming regretted that he had missed another excellent girl.
Slowly drove the car back to Google's parking lot, Li Jiaming, who had the same expression, returned to the office to continue working, he is no longer a young man who regards love as a day, in terms of psychological age, he is already a mature and calm middle-aged old man.
Ask yourself, from another point of view, her questioning is not wrong, in this relationship, she really has never loved from beginning to end. Since she can't give others what they want, breaking up may not be a good thing, at least she can find what she wants in the future, instead of wasting her good years on herself.
That's it?
That's it, what if you don't count?
When Melissa, who was not guilty, came to ask about the situation, Li Jiaming replied like this, and asked rhetorically: "Marissa, are we friends?"
"Ming, the problem is not with me."
As soon as the words came out, Melissa, who was arguing, immediately knew what the problem was, and the problem really was with herself and Larry, and hurriedly opened the office door to scan the reception room outside.
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Melissa, who was only a little guilty now, pointed to the corner that was blocked by the potted plant, and said apologetically: "When I told you to go to the meeting, Larry said a few words to me here, and Larry knew about us, she must have heard it." β
When did you have more pots of stuff? Americans will appreciate that?
Li Jiaming glanced at the Japanese-style bonsai, and was sure that Larry's bastard was playing tricks, but Melissa explained: "Ming, you misunderstood, Larry wanted to use your reputation to open up the market, and deliberately asked people to decorate the reception room more Chinese." β
Reasonable, messing up his own business, it's not good for Larry, everyone has been friends for five years, and they all know what kind of personality Melissa is. is still cocooning himself and teaching an apprentice with all kinds of means, but he inadvertently pits himself.
"Ming, in fact, this is a good thing, if you can't give her feelings, then you should let her go. β
"I know", Li Jiaming smiled bitterly, not caring about the directness of his old lover.
"Actually, I can see that she is not suitable for you."
Nonsense, Li Jiaming said angrily: "Marissa, are we friends?"
The relationship between the two is very special, they can comfort each other when they need each other, but they only treat each other as friends, Melissa tapped his heart with a white finger and reminded: "Just because we are friends, you have always had a person in your heart, but you don't know it." If you can't let go, you'll never find love. β
Got a guy?
Perhaps, Li Jiaming was silent. I have let go of Liu Shasha, but I will unconsciously use her to compare the women who appear next to me. Melissa can attract herself, in addition to physical needs, perhaps in terms of self-reliance and strength like her, which is also one of the reasons, otherwise it is impossible for a relationship to last for four or five years.
Seeing that her friend was silent, Melissa saw that it was still early, and said a few more words out of intimacy.
"Ming, I don't know about your Chinese culture, but I think there are some things that should be interconnected. If I were you, I would fight hard, and even if I failed in the end, I would not regret it. β
This time, Li Jiaming really smiled bitterly, and said with a wry smile to his friend and lover: "Five years ago, I broke up with Vicki because of her, and I also had a fight with someone. It didn't work, she had a knot in her heart that I couldn't untie. β
The past is unbearable, ten years ago, she made her father disgraced, and from that moment on, the two of them were impossible.
Melissa didn't ask about his personal privacy, and Li Jiaming had no intention of confiding in the past, so he began to discuss business again after returning to the office. Larry is a bastard, seeing that he and Hu Xuan are not in the right situation, he immediately arranged for Melissa to be in charge of contacting HH and Hanhua, making it clear that he wanted to get the source code in advance, at least not later than Yahoo, he really did everything.
It's good, I'm not afraid of god-like opponents, I'm afraid of pig-like teammates. The more that bastard is, the better he will be in this fucking world, and the greater the return on his investment.
After Li Jiaming once again showed Melissa that he would treat everyone equally, he said half-jokingly and half-seriously: "Marissa, am I very cold?"
Just broke up with his girlfriend, and he can still be so calm, and even work normally, it is indeed a bit cold, but Melissa mocked: "Ming, you are too hypocritical, you don't love her in the first place." β
"Ok, in other words, you're cold-blooded, doesn't she deserve your sympathy?"
"No, love is her freedom, not love is your freedom. If love is to distinguish between right and wrong, it is not love. β
This is the cultural difference, everyone is an adult, and they should all be responsible for their own choices, so Li Jiaming has no guilt.
After negotiating the business, Melissa also showed the gossip side of a woman, and asked curiously: "Ming, what do you Chinese people think?
"No, we're more about responsibility."
The words are insincere, the truth is: if you want to maintain a relationship, you must first make sure that you have enough resources and energy to continuously give the other party what they want, this is Li Jiaming's real idea. He is unlikely to fall in love with a woman again, because his mental age makes him no longer believe in love, and the best way to maintain a stable relationship is to meet the needs of the other person in terms of material and social status, which he constantly provides.
Therefore, Hu Xuan's departure will not make him sad, at most he regrets that he missed a woman who really loves her, but that's all.
There is little willow blowing on the branches, what is the next sentence?
There is no grass at the end of the world, if he insists on saying that there is any emotion, maybe he can breathe a sigh of relief. Hu Xuan's biological father's political position was wrong, the two separated and she took the initiative to break up, which solved a lot of trouble for him.
Cold!
But Li Jiaming doesn't think it's wrong, this society is inherently cold.