Since Zhou Pinzheng came back last time, I don't know what I said to my mother-in-law, but she continued to appear like no one else. Although everyone lives as usual as if nothing happened, Yang Xiaobei knows that there is a thorn in each of their hearts, and once there is another problem, it will erupt.

Regarding this point, Yang Xiaobei reflected deeply - why did her mother-in-law form such a character?

In the first half of her life, she had no way to participate, and she had no way to know her previous temperament. But there is one thing that has changed the mother-in-law's personality a lot, and that is the early death of her husband. When he was in the prime of life, he got a sudden illness at the age of about 50, and he left in about a month.

The blow came so suddenly, that the Zhou family couldn't recover for a long time. Especially her mother-in-law, she has been dependent on her husband all her life, and basically has never worried about big or small things at home. Suddenly, her husband was gone, her two daughters were married, and she had only one adult son who depended on her.

But Zhou Pinzheng was rebellious and disobedient, and her mother-in-law fell into a mixture of emotions, such as entanglement, hesitation, responsibility, and panic. Over time, they are a little nervous, and people who want to control everything, but can't control anything, are easy to become paranoid.

For example, the marriage of a son, and the raising of a grandson. Sometimes it's not that she can't understand the child's reason, but it is her approach that is opposed, out of the secret mind of "brushing up on the sense of existence", she will oppose because of opposition, and in the end it becomes not against it, but insists on doing it, not wanting her child to subvert her idea.

This kind of performance is precisely a manifestation of insecurity. Since her retirement, her mother-in-law has been living alone most of the time. She doesn't have many friends, and her spiritual world is not rich, except for her parents, there is almost nothing worth paying attention to. The children don't need her anymore, and if there is anything, they will be notified directly, which makes the old man extremely lonely. Yang Xiaobei thought, maybe what her mother-in-law needs is not to listen to her, but to respect?

For this question, she also went to the eldest sister - the young lady is completely unreliable, and every time she comes back, she asks for something and asks for it, just don't make a mess. The eldest sister said, "My mother was very cowardly when she was young, and she didn't dare to speak out when she was bullied in the factory, and she was still the leader of the unit that my father went to." And after her father died, maybe it was because her mother was strong, she chose to be strong, but it was a little too much. ”

The eldest sister can understand her mother's change, but even she can't accept it. If the old lady in the past was cowardly and anxious, now she is unreasonable. Even as a child, no matter how much she told her, she just wouldn't listen.

The old man is old, and there are always some minor problems. Zhou's mother has rheumatism, which is still an old problem left over from work. The seizure is painful, but once it is cured, let her take medicine for treatment, it will be beaten to death, and every time it can make the eldest sister angry enough. But the next time it hurts, we have to toss everyone back - again and again, and again.

Maybe she thinks she's okay and doesn't bother the children and keeps a strong appearance in front of them. In fact, she didn't know that usually everyone could take her off days to see a specialist and do physiotherapy, but once she got sick, everyone had to take turns to take care of her, which was more troublesome?

The eldest sister is very reasonable, she said to Xiaobei, "You have been with your mother for a long time now, her character is like this, you have to take more responsibility, don't take her words to heart." Don't worry, even if you make trouble, I will understand!"

Yang Xiaobei smiled bitterly, "Where will I have nothing to quarrel with her! It's just that sometimes it really doesn't make sense, and if you don't quarrel, you can't do it!" Is she boring or sadistic? She fights with the old man every day, but sometimes she really can't cry or laugh.

The last time I ate braised pork and had diarrhea, it was actually the third time! The first time I happened to eat a lot of fruit sincerely, Yang Xiaobei thought that the fruit was not fresh, and he didn't think of the top of the dish. The second time, Chengcheng had diarrhea again, and the only food he had eaten together was braised pork, so Yang Xiaobei said to his mother-in-law, "The child's stomach is not suitable for being so greasy, don't burn it in the future!"

Who knows that the mother-in-law scoffed, "Which of our babies here didn't grow up eating braised pork?

But Chengcheng didn't grow up here, but Chengcheng hasn't gotten used to thick oil red sauce yet...... Blame me? How is it possible? Impossible! I've never heard of eating braised pork to have diarrhea, you must have eaten something else for him......

couldn't communicate, so Yang Xiaobei had to unilaterally control the child's diet. But the mother-in-law actually took advantage of her going out to secretly give the child food, and after being caught, she said that the child was hungry and panicked, and she did it deliberately to see that the child was pitiful...... But Chengcheng is the most obedient, so he won't ask for it knowing that he is forbidden to eat.

Of course, he's still a kid, and it's normal for him to not be able to control his mouth in front of food. What's more, there is a grandmother who encourages him to eat, and the result is ...... Later, the child also knew that he was wrong, and he had diarrhea and a sad face, and apologized to himself. But that's not an apology.

If it's something else, forget it, but it is related to the child's body, so Chengcheng suffered such a big crime, which is what Yang Xiaobei can't stand the most. Obviously, she had already raised the question, but her mother-in-law just didn't believe it, so in order to show that she was right, she specially made it for the child to eat. Even if Chengcheng had diarrhea later, it turned out to be a problem with braised pork, but she still didn't bow her head, "It's all the fault of outsiders, obviously others eat braised pork well......"

Yang Xiaobei is so angry! Peanuts are not poison, seafood is also a delicacy, but some people can be in danger of their lives when they touch it! Individual differences, environmental differences, everyone has something different, and it is her fault that Chengcheng can't eat braised pork?

The vegetables I usually buy are either washed casually, or washed vigorously until the greens turn into rotten pickles...... If you can't finish eating, you can't throw away even if you want one, and you can't waste it if you keep it for the next day. If you have rotten fruits, you have to dig up the bad ones and eat them, not throw them away...... It's all hard days, and it's understandable to be diligent and thrifty, but now you don't need to save so much!

When food and clothing are not a problem, the first thing to consider is health. Even if it is in the "field" in the mother-in-law's mouth, the unfinished meals of the day will be given to cats and dogs or as pig food. Sometimes Yang Xiaobei wants to scare her, saying that the big city is good, what about the people in the city?

My mother-in-law has always said that it is a shame to waste food. There is nothing unhealthy, several children have been raised like this, she has eaten overnight meals all her life, and she has not heard anything wrong? Yang Xiaobei was speechless, except for passive resistance, there was really no way to reason with her - could it be that scientific experiments, or through decades of practice to prove it? Isn't that nonsense!