Yang Xiaobei felt a headache. She is not an emotional expert, and she can't find an effective way to solve it, so she can only use stupid methods...... See the move! She has time anyway, right?

It is foreseeable that for a long time in the future, I will have to fight with my mother-in-law and strive for the goal of harmony and unity. For example, now – "Mom, the fish you bought today is so fresh!" "Not really! If you want to talk about seafood, I still have experience. I don't think you can even tell the difference between the types of hairtail fish, right? Zhou's mother said with a slight expression.

Yang Xiaobeimer. Isn't it just a long, silver-gray sea fish? She all looks the same! But my mother-in-law can distinguish the East China Sea hairtail fish, the South China Sea hairtail fish, the African hairtail fish, etc., and she always says, "Nong doesn't understand, it's not easy to buy blindly, the East China Sea hairtail fish is the best, and the others are different!" "Well, the devil knows what's the difference between these are all the same long ribbon fish?

Chengcheng likes to eat hairtail fish and hairy crabs. Now is the time to eat these, and the family buys more, and my mother-in-law is so picky! Or, "I bought the wrong fish and was slaughtered by others!" “。 Either "hairy crabs are not fat, they are all empty shells!" A look of disgust.

No matter how capable Yang Xiaobei is, he really doesn't understand these fresh seafood that his hometown doesn't have. She knows how to eat it, what kind of delicious it is, and how to burn it. But when she arrived at the vegetable market, there were all kinds of varieties on the stalls, which could make her faint in minutes. At this point, the mother-in-law who can live naturally has a wealth of experience and a reason to dislike her.

"You don't have these good things in the inland places, so naturally you can't tell them, it's okay, buy more, just shop around." This is the progress of my mother-in-law now, I know that I don't say "outsiders" in front of my daughter-in-law, but instead say "you guys" or "mainlanders", I don't know if I have watched too many Hong Kong dramas.

Different regions, food styles vary greatly, if the fishery resources of the East China Sea have not been exhausted on this side of Puhai, the most abundant is seafood, then the hometown is the proudest is the mountain treasures. All kinds of wild mushrooms and wild animals are delicious, and it can't be said which one is more noble, besides, can she fight with her mother-in-law for this? I had to be taught to say, "I know, I'll learn more in the future." ”

The daughter-in-law was obedient and willing to follow her own learning, instead of starting to argue unconvincingly, this attitude made Zhou's mother very satisfied, and she became more and more pretentious, "Look at this big hairtail, the eyes are big, black, the meat is thick and the tail is short, it is the big hairtail in the East China Sea, and the meat is the most tender and delicious." The eyes are red, the tail is long and thin, it is a South China Sea hairtail fish, and the meat is a bit firewood, which is not delicious......"

And this kind of statement? Yang Xiaobei never knows how to cook hairtail, he used to see the finished product served on the table in the restaurant, there is no head and tail, who knows what is the East China Sea and the South China Sea? There are also hairy crabs, "nine females and ten males" she knows, what green shell and white belly, golden claws and yellow hair, in her opinion, are all the same!

"Tsk! How can it be the same? A good clear water hairy crab has a hard leg when pinched, and there is no meat if it is soft. The navel eyes have to be bulging to be strong, and the golden-clawed and yellow-haired ones are the clear water crabs, and it's not good for people to give you hairy crabs......" The mother-in-law said that Yang Xiaobei was in a fog when she heard it, and the whole person was not good.

It's just a bite to eat, where does it come from so much? Puhai people are really good at making a dojo in a screw shell, and they can make a debut in anything. If this is in our hometown, as long as it can be eaten, what kind of breed does it matter? Isn't the silver krait and the cauliflower snake the same pot of stew? I didn't think there was any difference in the taste of different types.

Well, maybe our people in the inland areas are living a little rough? Yang Xiaobei has lived for decades in his two lives combined, and for the first time he began to doubt it. To be honest, she has always felt that there is really a big difference between a few years of red wine, where coffee and so on, if she really wants to say, the world of rich people is too desperate to understand, right?

Anyway, she doesn't know how the rich live their lives now - just a few hairy crabs are desperate, can they live a good life? Sure enough, the world of rich people makes people tremble!

I don't understand it, but Yang Xiaobei has a good attitude and studies seriously, which has been praised by her mother-in-law. As long as she doesn't fight her, she is still happy to have a good relationship with her daughter-in-law. After all, she is also old, and once she is unhappy, she will be flustered and short of breath, besides, her daughter-in-law and her son are foreign aids, hum!

Speaking of it, I am angry, I have worked hard to pull the eldest son, and as soon as I get married, I have a daughter-in-law and forget my mother. This is probably the most sad thing for parents in the world, right? Obviously, he is his closest person, but now what people care about most is his daughter-in-law, alas!

Especially Zhou Pinzheng, now he is quite prestigious, but this kind of prestige is really unbearable on the old lady. Let's just talk about last time, Chengcheng had diarrhea, obviously it was not his fault, but as soon as he stared, he was inexplicably weak-hearted, so he had to promise not to be angry and continue to come over to help take care of his grandson.

Thinking about it, Zhou's mother's anger came up again, but seeing her daughter-in-law respectfully following her to do things, she was embarrassed to say it - we are not unreasonable people, right? The children can't do without themselves, the daughter-in-law doesn't understand anything, and the grandson is pitiful and has just returned from the countryside...... If you don't look at the point, what will you do when the time comes!

Thinking about it like this, the anger was suppressed again. Calm, calm! I have to keep an eye on it all the time to rest assured, if I lose my temper, I am embarrassed to come to the door next time, and I want my son to come to invite me in person, if this is always the case, I don't have to let my daughter-in-law see the joke!

Yang Xiaobei didn't know that she was immersed in dealing with the hairtail, and her mother-in-law's mind turned back and forth, struggling left and right on making things difficult for her daughter-in-law and cooperating with her daughter-in-law, and finally came to the conclusion of living a good life. If this was in the past, she would have started to talk cold for no reason, she couldn't listen to it and started a cold war or a hot quarrel, and finally broke up unhappily......

A woman's heart is much more fickle than the weather, let alone a menopausal old woman. But this also reflects a problem from the side - Yang Xiaobei's recent strategy for her mother-in-law has been quite effective, at least she has learned to weigh the pros and cons and can think!

The secret lies in one word - coax! No matter what your mother-in-law says, don't refute it head-on, and you can't completely overturn her opinion. It's about compliment, recognition, first 100% agreement, then a compliment, and finally a little opinion...... At this time, often the mother-in-law was embarrassed to say no, and she came according to Yang Xiaobei's idea half-pushed and half-on-the-spot.

In fact, every time my mother-in-law hardens up and does not compromise, it is when she is most insecure. Maybe it's the fear of being rejected by the children, or maybe the feeling of ignorance or not keeping up with the times will make her mentally unbalanced. But if on the other hand, you approve of her, and when you need her, why should she oppose you?