Human affection is a saw, pulled back and forth.

In the countryside, weddings and funerals are very important, but they don't pay much attention to second marriages, and the key is human affection. Relatives and friends to help, gifts, will be a little bit of a favor, the first marriage has been a favor, a gift, the second time is equivalent to others to get cheap, themselves suffered. Therefore, people who marry for the second time are generally very cautious and will not send out invitations and invite ordinary relatives and friends.

The Li family is a small family from outside, and there are not many clansmen in Chongxiang except for their in-laws, and the clansmen who cultivate water are also negligent because of the distance, so Li Chuanlin's marriage is very low-key. No matter how low-key it is, you have to prepare what you should prepare, at least the seven concubines' mother's family and the neighbors of several nearby housing farms will still come to drink and say goodbye.

Early this morning, amid the shouting of the children reading, Li Jiaming's uncles had already gotten up to grind beans and beat tofu. Tofu, rice crackers, meat, these are the three major dishes of wine in the countryside, rice crackers were made yesterday, the meat was also ready, and now only fried tofu is missing.

It's good to have a man in the family, fifty catties of beans and wait for the children to finish breakfast, and they have turned into white soybean milk, and they start to cook in the pot.

After the children finished breakfast, the three youngest were shooting balls, hopscotch, and skipping rope in the sun-grain flat, waiting for the shuttle bus from the county seat to Chashan and the port. Ye Ye (father), uncle, uncle, aunt, brother, sister, they will all come back today, they will definitely bring a lot of delicious food, fun, beautiful flowers, they can't wait, they don't even watch TV, they would rather play games in the cold and dead people's sunning and wait, just to see them for the first time.

"Sister Jin, will my yes (Dad) come back today?"

"Will be back for sure!"

The little sister looked disappointedly at a distant Changhe van, and said hopefully: "Well, I miss me."

The delicate Manmei hugged her sister's little head and comforted: "Sister, the third uncle will definitely come back, and he will bring you a mother back." ”

The little sister who has always been envious of others having a mother laughed, and Li Jiaming, who was cleaning the windows on the hanging tower, felt a sour feeling in his heart. I am right, aside from my father's happiness, mother's love is always what my little sister desires the most, as long as the future aunt treats my little sister well, I will serve her with filial piety.

Seeing that Li Jiaming was stunned, Mao Yan next to him suddenly felt uncomfortable, and he was ordered by his cousin for two years, and he began to understand many things slowly. If you want to replace yourself, your mother is gone, and yes has found a stepmother, how can you not get over the hurdle in your heart.

"Brother Jiaming"

With a long sigh, Li Jiaming threw down the rag in his hand and left, the thin dog just wanted to say something, but was kicked back by Mao Tong, and when he heard the footsteps downstairs, Mao Tong, who was already as tall as an adult, scolded in a low voice: "Don't trouble Jiaming these days." ”

"Third brother?"

"You know what a fart! In the past few days, Jiaming has avoided everyone every day and gone to his mother's grave. If Aunt Hongying is gone, would you like Uncle to find you a stepmother? ”

Li Jiaming went downstairs and began to accompany his little sister to hopscotch, and the strength under his feet was either big or small, which made his sisters laugh.

"Brother is so stupid, a little strength!"

"The fifth brother is stupid, he won't do this!"

The little sister's silver bell-like laughter blew away Li Jiaming's sadness, and Niu Pi said: "Cut, I am jumping less, jumping a few more games, I guarantee that I am better than all of you!" ”

"Okay, we'll let you practice three sets first!"

The cousin who was making fruit buns in the room heard the laughter outside and was surprised: "Sister Gui, Ming Yan usually does this?" ”

Sister Gui, who was already able to help adults with her work, whispered: "Sister Honghong, I didn't do it before, but I will, as long as Wenwen wants him to play with him, he will play with him." ”

"That?"

"Oh, you mean Brother Jiaming beat us, right? Don't blame him, that's because we don't know how to play, **** knows how to play, and I don't know how to read. ”

"Oh", the cousin agreed, and did not believe what the sisters in the village said, saying that the cousin was so evil that he would beat his younger siblings at every turn.

"Sister Honghong, do you recognize my Sister Lan and Sister Guohua?"

"I recognize, Xiaolan is two classes higher than me, and Guohua is two classes lower than me."

"Hehehehe, last time Sister Lan wrote back, saying that she was angry with her brother Junling. Introduce him to a girlfriend, I don't know how neat (pretty) she looks, she is still a high school student, sitting in an office in a factory, but he sat there with a red face and a swollen neck all night, and he didn't even dare to say a word. ”

Li Xiaolan used to be the king of children in elementary school, not only the girls were afraid of her, but they were also afraid of her, the military followed her behind her ass, of course You Xiaohong recognized it, and he was also very neat (beautiful). You Xiaohong's impression of the military is very strange, she looks so neat, she usually doesn't make a lot of noise like a girl, she blushes at every turn, and she is often scolded by Li Xiaolan so bloody. Later, Li Xiaolan went home after graduating from elementary school, and her cousin Li Guohua became the king of children again, and even her two cousins who were in the fifth grade were afraid of her, and the military was scolded by her every day.

"Cut, isn't the military brother timid, the military brother drives a big car, will he be timid? Sister Lan said that in the first half of the year, the military brother was playing outside, and on the road he encountered someone riding a motorcycle to rob Sister Lan's necklace, he not only chased the two people but also helped the public security catch them, and the public security also sent a pennant to their factory. ”

"Huh?"

You Xiaohong had worked outside, and she knew how powerful people were to rob things on motorcycles, but she didn't expect the military to be so bold.

Gui Mei said triumphantly: "That is, Brother Junya doesn't know how good he is to his own people, Brother Jiaming said that Brother Junyan usually doesn't want to worry about others, and he will come forward at a critical time!" ”

The two were chatting while wrapping the fruit, and most of the time it was Gui Mei talking about how good her brother was in the army, which was a task arranged by her brother Ming.

Li Jiaming, who is playing with his sister in the sun-dried valley, knows too much about the relationship between men and women, and in his opinion, love strips away the romantic appearance, which is actually a kind of technical work. Brother Junhan doesn't understand these things, so help him himself. Girls, they are always unassertive, more emotional than rational.

The first element of a woman's attraction to a man is appearance, temperament, and then personal quality, personality, etc., and when it comes to the object of their affection, men will not feel that they are pretending to be ...... to show their best side to each other.

Girls are completely different, although they are very concerned about their appearance and temperament, but more importantly, the boy's sense of responsibility will be good to her. The reason why some bastards who don't have much in appearance and temperament, let alone personal qualities, can deceive so many girls is because they will use clever words and flatter girls from time to time, so that girls believe that they will be good to them, and for a lifetime.

Brother Junhan is not good at words, but introverts are more careful, as long as they look at the right eye, he doesn't have to worry about the next thing. Rural girls are not more practical than city girls, who like to listen to sweet words at the same time. What's more, Brother Jun's brother is indeed handsome, and his first impression on the girl must be very good, which is enough to make people ignore his bad words, and then there are people next to him who keep saying good things about him, and if it is not good, it will become good, so don't say that he is good enough.

"Brother, you're stepping on the line again!"

"Huh?"

Li Jiaming, who was not concentrated, was stunned for a moment, and hurriedly looked down to see that his foot had stepped on the line again.

"Fifth brother, I'll help you jump!"

It was the playful Manmei who pushed her brother away, and Li Jiaming also happened to hold her little sister and explain some things in her ear again. The relationship is paid by both parties, and I don't care about Aunt Zhang, but the little sister longs for maternal love, so she has to have a sweet mouth, and people will slowly treat her as their own daughter.

It's not a worldly experience, it's a skill and wisdom of life.