Chapter 261 Preparation
Qiao Lan leaned on Li's mother's shoulder, with a coquettish look on her little daughter's face, "I know my mother's hard work, I won't learn from a small family like Zhang's, and Weizi will not be less of him, including the industry we will struggle for in the future, Weizi can also take it if he likes it, brother-in-law is right, I will also have children in the future, I can't wait for my child to grow up and need Weizi to take care of it, I won't do such a careless thing, don't worry." Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć ļ½ļ½ļ½ļ½ā
"Well, it's good that you understand this truth, and you have to keep it in mind. Why can't I tolerate Zhang's with your grandparents, because she has separated your brothers and sisters from our hearts, this is the main problem, a few clothes and a few pairs of shoes are not a thing, she is not worthy of being an eldest sister-in-law, she is too selfish and lonely, and locks everyone out, you have to keep in mind. A family is not only your small family, but also brothers, sisters, relatives and uncles, who will accumulate virtue and blessings for their children in the future. ā
Mother Li taught her daughter earnestly that the days before the child got married were numbered, and she must be taught to not let her repeat the mistakes of the Zhang family, it is said that the Zhang family is also a decent person, but the child himself spoiled himself, who can blame him.
"Well, I remember it in my heart, and I won't forget it. Qiao Lan nodded very seriously.
I also feel that what my mother said is right, people here have an unusual sense of belonging to the family, and they can even give up their wives and children for the sake of the family, which is not something that has never happened. For modern people, it is simply incomprehensible stupidity, but in this era, the huge family even makes the yamen have to avoid three points, if something happens to the child of the family, the family can deal with it personally, as long as the yamen is informed.
There is almost no way for the people here to survive without the family, as long as you go to other places, as long as you know that you are the one who has been expelled from the door wall by the family, no one wants you, they will stay away from you, and even the imperial examination will shave you off, and the influence of the family is far more far-reaching than she thought.
Their Lijia Village is equivalent to the family surnamed Li, the village chief and the elder people have a high right to speak, if anyone does something to lose the surname Li, the villagers will rebound and ask to blast out of Lijia Village, so as not to bring their own family, which is completely different from the mood of modern people watching the play on the wall.
Qiaolan also came here to understand why she can have a female household, the most important reason is that her grandfather has a little prestige in the village, and he is very fair and just, and second, she has a little ability to be regarded as a long-faced child, so the village chief agreed to her to set up a female household, otherwise the village chief does not agree, you don't want to set up, this requires the village chief to come forward and issue a one-word document.
This reminds her of some modern news, especially human trafficking, why can't it be found out when sold into a mountain village, because people in a village are covering for them, and communication in mountain villages is not very convenient, and the entire four miles and eight villages do not cooperate in handling cases or even cover up and hide, and they can't be found for a while.
Although it is a negative example, this is the real fusion centripetal force.
"Mother, what kind of daughter-in-law do you think my second brother should find?" Qiao Lan chatted with Mother Li and remembered the matter of the second brother.
The eldest brother is out of play at the moment, but the second brother will also get married, sooner or later.
Mother Li raised her head and thought about it, "I think the average girl, your brother probably can't look down on it, he has been running outside for a long time, and he will be wild when he grows insightful, and the village girl is illiterate and probably doesn't like it, otherwise he won't look down on Xiuhua, you don't know when he is stupid, it's just that he can't look down on it and simply pretend not to know." I guess he wants to find someone who thinks you can talk to him like this, so he can't look down on Zhao Daniu at all. ā
"Then will he live in the city in the future?" Qiao Lan tilted her head and asked her mother, in fact, she wanted to ask her mother if she could give it up?
"Are you afraid that I can't bear him, in fact, I can't bear it, but the child always has his own ideas when he grows up, and he really has the ability to be a father and mother who won't stop him. What's more, my son is still my son, and he can not honor me. In fact, I still hope that they will live separately, just like our family and the second uncle's family, not far away but independent, so that those who are not far away can get along well. ā
Although Mother Li has little culture, life has endowed her with the same wisdom, and the hardships of life have made her see more thoroughly than others, which is probably why Mrs. Li loves Mother Li alone and maintains Mother Li, she can be called a qualified sister-in-law, mother, wife and daughter-in-law.
Mother Li is like the most indispensable lubricant of the Li family, and the Li Qingshan brothers may not be so close without him, but with Mother Li, many things can be passed smoothly without estrangement. It seems that Mother Li seems to have been a loser in life, and she has paid far more than Zhao's, but she has also got a lot of things that Zhao's can't get, the husband and wife have rarely blushed for many years, and they are also a rare loving couple in the village, and her mother-in-law has never been embarrassed and protects her everywhere, and she is the only one in the village.
There is no time when the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the second kiss does not teach you two sentences, but Mother Li is rare, and Mrs. Li pulls a face very few times, and the general reprimand is that Mother Li is soft-hearted and suffers, and the old lady is strong all her life and can't see her own people suffer, and she is very good at protecting her shortcomings.
It's Aunt Zhao, Mrs. Li didn't plan too much for her, but she only cared about Mother Li, and even arranged her life in a hundred years, whether it was stable or not, and all unfavorable factors should be eliminated in advance, even if it was her mother.
Who can arbitrarily say that Mother Li is unhappy?
Qiao Lan thought of this and smiled again, "That's right, if my brother learns well, it's not something that can't be thought of opening his own pharmacy, I think my brother should find a girl from a big family in the city, at least a girl who is literate and hyphenation, gentle and polite, and the husband and wife will be Qin Se and Ming, and the girl from a small family seems to be too unknowledgeable like Xiuhua, which is really inappropriate." ā
"Well, you're right, I've also found out that life is getting better and better, and the people we come into contact with have changed, which sometimes really doesn't seem appropriate. But your second brother is a person who has an idea in his heart, and he still has to ask him about this family matter, otherwise it will be in vain if he is not beautiful, I am afraid, but I can't be like your eldest brother anymore. Mother Li sighed again.
"Well, I'm looking at it more, maybe others can still introduce it, anyway, I'm not in a hurry now, when my brother really has a successful career and can be in charge of himself, then there will naturally be a sharp-eyed person who will take the initiative to deliver the message, do you say?"
Mother Li smiled confidently again, "That is, when our family had a good life, your eldest brother was handed over by someone else, and there were many girls who introduced others, I don't worry about my son getting married." ā
"Mother, you are awesome. ā
"Uncle, Uncle, are you there?" Xiao Lingzi ran back.
Mother Li and the two went out of the door, and Mother Li asked, "It's still early, why did you come back?
"No, the store is not busy, Xuewen and Shou are busy, Haizi is in front of the food to collect money, I am idle, come back and talk about Lanzi to make braised pork. ā
"Oh, yes, make the braised pork, I've got the ingredients ready, let's take the meat, and we're ready to wash." Qiao Lan heard that this was the right thing.
Hua Yurong said
Today continue to 10,000 words, ask for a monthly ticket, thank you for the monthly ticket and reward, thank you very much, I am dizzy with code words, I didn't go to the elders to worship the elders in the old age at home code words, I didn't pull a day, I really had a good time this year.