Chapter 69: Selfishness

readx;?“ Is this your own guess, or did Hao Cong have any more euphemistic expressions?" After listening to Hao Rui's mother's words, Tang Li felt that she didn't say anything substantial, and to put it mildly, she still had a lot of dissatisfaction with Ma Jingwei, and these many dissatisfactions seemed to be from her subjective point of view. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

"My own daughter, I know, there are some things that I don't need her to say very bluntly, I can understand. "Hao Rui's mother seems to be a relatively stubborn person, and in the face of Tonic Li's question, she is also a little unhappy, and she is also very firm in her opinion, which is a little unquestionable." At the beginning, Congcong was too simple, she felt that people were kind to her, and she took care of her a little more in life, which was what she wanted most in her life, plus she was angry with us and didn't want us to arrange her life, the excuse is to accommodate Congcong and let her be closer to her mother's house, but after he came, he waited for us to arrange a job for him. ”

"Ma Jingwei's work, didn't you make arrangements because of the transfer of the work of the person you can entrust or for some other reason?" He Ning thought that there was something else in the middle that they didn't know about.

Hao Rui's father shook his head: "Actually, that's not the case, that's the excuse we used to prevaricate Congcong and Ma Jingwei, we just didn't want to do it for him." At that time, Cong Cong was given * medicine by Ma Jingwei, so he wanted to be with him, Ma Jingwei seemed to think that he ate Cong Cong to death, so he could call our family and use our resources with confidence. At that time, we were also quite angry, and felt that no matter what, we had to let Congcong come to our senses and see how she was blinded, for such a man who was nothing, and her parents who were thinking about her like this. So we kept looking for excuses to drag on, originally thought that Ma Jingwei couldn't find a suitable and good job, Congcong would dislike him and break up with him, but I didn't expect my stupid daughter to take the household registration book and get the marriage certificate with him because we talked to her too many times. ”

"What else is there to say about this, this matter must have been instigated by Ma Jingwei, Congcong has been so obedient since he was a child, do you think it is possible for her to come up with such a rebellious approach by herself?" Hao Rui's mother will still have some hatred when she talks about this matter after many years, "Ma Jingwei just thinks that as long as he and Congcong are married, we will have no way to take him anymore, how can we let him get his wish, so the work cannot be done for him, and he must be stuck." I want to take a look, poor couples mourn everything, guarding such a man who has achieved nothing, how long can Congcong be obsessed. Later, sure enough, after a few years of marriage in a blink of an eye, without our help, Ma Jingwei was so half-dead and stuck in his broken job, but his ability level was average, and his heart was quite high, although that school was not a key school, but he worked hard, and he would not achieve nothing, but after he got there, he looked half-dead, and he didn't put his mind on serious things at all, nor did he think about changing the situation by his own efforts, he wanted to rely on others to climb to the sky one step. ”

"Did Ma Jingwei and Hao Cong have conflicts because of this incident?" asked He Ning.

"That's not true, even if we don't help him, he can find Cong Cong, it's a matter of green smoke from the ancestral grave, and Cong Cong's work is better than him, how can he have the confidence to lose his temper and make trouble with Cong Cong?" Hao Rui's mother said, It's a long time before Congcong is a little unbearable, she is a girl, and she works very hard and is very strong, but her husband is not a good material at all, and she relies on her to support her at home and abroad, no problem a day or two, what is the power of love, but after a long time, anyone will feel very tired. Especially after getting a little older, the people around me are basically in love and married and settled down, the husband of other people's family has good economic strength, the job is very capable, and the future is bright, only her, her husband can't do anything except go home from work to wash and cook, and the days go by, Cong Cong also feels that his face is not light.

This is also a coincidence, here Congcong and Ma Jingwei are getting more and more powerless, at this time, the boy who I worked hard with her father to help her match also returned to China, graduated with a doctorate, and found a particularly good job, because my parents are in China, so in order to facilitate care, I decided to run at home and abroad, with a high salary, a person may have a higher income than our whole family combined, Ma Jingwei is in front of others, it is really a sudden comparison of nothing, and it is not enough to carry shoes for others!"

"Don't talk about others, he has no fate with our family, what do you mention him for. Hao Rui's father sighed heavily, "What's the use of saying that no matter how good others are, now Cong Cong is gone......

Hao Rui's mother once again red-eyed: "That's why I feel sorry for my poor daughter! Who made her not listen to persuasion at the beginning, she said that she didn't listen to the old man, and she suffered a loss in front of her, what a big loss she suffered, and she had a chance to correct her mistakes, but the result was ...... When something happens to her, there's nothing left......"

"Do you mean, Hao Cong was already planning to separate from Ma Jingwei before his death?" He Ning was a little surprised, when they learned about the situation with Ma Jingwei before, they had never heard of such a turn.

She didn't say it explicitly, but she was also very dissatisfied with Ma Jingwei later, thinking that he was too hard at work, and she complained a lot when she came back to her parents' house. I think this is already a kind of change, you must know that in the past, no one in our family was allowed to say a word about Ma Jingwei, and she was going to lose her temper when she said Congcong, and then she couldn't help but complain about Ma Jingwei in front of us, I knew that she must have come back to her taste and awakened a little. Hao Rui's mother dipped the back of her hand in the corner of her eyes, "It's a pity that God is too ruthless and didn't give Congcong a chance to make a new choice, so he let her go in such a daze." ”

"Since Hao Rui has such a good relationship with his sister, what kind of attitude did Hao Cong have when he was going to marry Ma Jingwei?"

Rui Rui was supporting the two of them together. Hao Rui's mother replied.

"In other words, Hao Rui likes Ma Jingwei more, so he supports them together?"

"That's not it, Rui Rui's relationship with his sister is indeed very good, that kid ...... There is a little problem in the mental aspect, others communicate with him or something, sometimes it will be a little difficult, he will lose his temper or something, but as long as Cong Cong tells him something, no matter what he says, he has a very good attitude, never loses his temper and is not angry, and he is very obedient. So basically, what Cong Cong likes, he will follow what he likes, and whoever Cong Cong likes to be with, he will also unconditionally support his sister. ”

"Speaking of which......" He Ning made a guess based on Hao Rui's mother's statement, "Before Hao Cong was alive, Hao Rui and Ma Jingwei got along well, and the conflict between them was completely because Hao Cong accidentally drowned, so Hao Rui couldn't accept it, thinking that Ma Jingwei killed his sister?"

"Yes, that's the case," Hao Rui's father affirmed her speculation, "Because the relationship between Rui Rui and Cong Cong is so good, he can't stand this blow all of a sudden, he feels that his sister was killed by Ma Jingwei, because Ma Jingwei took Cong Cong out to travel, he took people out, but didn't bring them back......"

Speaking of this, Hao Rui's father also choked up slightly, he took a deep breath and didn't continue.

"Hao Rui's suspicion of Ma Jingwei, is there any basis?" Tang Li asked.

Hao Rui's mother looked at Hao Rui's father, Hao Rui's father also looked at his wife, both of them shook their heads, Hao Rui's mother said: " At that time, the police over there also went, saying that Cong Cong may have been drowning suddenly because the water was too cold and caused leg cramps or something like that, and he lost his mind after drowning, and he scratched and kicked out of the instinct of survival, Ma Jingwei himself didn't know how to water, in order to go into the water to save Cong Cong, he was almost dragged and drowned by Cong Cong, and his body was said to have been scratched and scratched by Cong Cong and suffered a lot of injuries, and he was not very sober when he was pulled ashore, and later heard that he vomited a lot of water out, and poured it back in one breath, and it was fine. My family is smart and smart......"

She couldn't say it anymore, she hid her face with her hands, whimpered and cried, Hao Rui's father was also sad to see her crying so sadly, but he still had to grit his teeth and insist, and whispered a few words to comfort her.

Although He Ning and Tang Li still had questions to ask, they didn't say anything more when they saw Hao Rui's mother so sad, and gave them a little time to adjust their emotions.

Perhaps from the very beginning, Hao Cong's persistence and the obstruction of the second elder of the Hao family were not pure in purpose, right?

At first, Hao Cong and Ma Jingwei were able to come together, there must have been a time when they were tempted, but they may not be so deep that they don't marry him, if a woman really loves a man to the core, she must have a more thorough understanding of this man, and if she has enough understanding, she will naturally not have remorse and resentment because the other party has not met for a while, even in the eyes of others, no matter how unpromising this man is, nothing can be done, she can still find the shining point in him.

Judging from the various things about Hao Cong and Ma Jingwei described by the second elder of the Hao family, at least from He Ning's personal point of view, she felt that Hao Cong's persistence was not so much because of love, but because of her belated rebellion. As a good girl, she has been strictly controlled by her parents since she was a child, from childhood to adulthood, whether it is in life or study, everything about her has been planned by her parents early, this kind of conformity, the slightest sense of restraint that cannot be overcome, gradually made Hao Cong feel dissatisfied and depressed, so that she desperately wants to break free from this bondage and restrictions, and wants to make her own decisions.

Maybe there has been no other opportunity before, but the diligent pursuit of Ma Jingwei, who has just moved his heart, because he has achieved nothing, whether he has a family background, whether he has a beautiful academic background, so he can't get into the eyes of his parents at all, and his parents, like everything else over the years, don't need to ask for their own opinions to make arrangements for themselves - blind dates with young talents. So such an incident just stimulated Hao Cong's long-suppressed rebellious feelings, she broke out all of a sudden, began to rebel, began to rebel against her parents, the more her parents strongly opposed, the more she had to insist, forcing her parents to make concessions and compromises.

In fact, from the perspective of a bystander, Hao Cong's original struggle and persistence are not so much for the sake of love, but rather that what she wants is just a victory, a time to make her own decisions, no longer need to be at the mercy of her parents, like a puppet to live the victory, as for which aspect of this victory is related, Hao Cong didn't particularly care at the time, it just so happened that the emotional matter became such an opportunity, so love also became a shield for her to pick up. Or maybe even she herself may not have realized that she had wrongly regarded her rebellion against her parents as a persistent love for Ma Jingwei.

In the same way, the second elder of the Hao family refused to help Ma Jingwei again and again, refused to pave the way for him, and forced Ma Jingwei to reveal his character shortcomings of not wanting to make progress, and being lazy and hardworking, it seems that he wants to force Hao Cong to recover his senses, face up to his relationship with Ma Jingwei as soon as possible, don't continue to stumble, and be able to get lost as soon as possible, but in fact, they probably also have the kind of small abacus unique to parents.

I don't know if it's because Hao Rui has some mental problems, so the two elders of the Hao family put all their hopes on Hao Cong at the beginning, and they worked hard to plan for Hao Cong, the purpose is to hope that Hao Cong can live the way they want and realize the perfect life in their minds.

Just when everything was going well, something went wrong on Hao Cong's side, disrupting their plans.

From the old couple just recalled how they worked hard to suppress Ma Jingwei and forced Hao Cong to wake up, and finally Hao Cong really began to have resentment and regret, the second elder of the Hao family had the attitude of secret joy and pride, He Ning could almost conclude that for the second elder of the Hao family, this confrontation with his daughter, in the final analysis, it is more important for them to prove to their daughter that their decision is the most wise and correct, and going against the will of their parents will definitely not have a good result. (To be continued.) )