Chapter 68: Rebellion
readx;? He Ning and Tang Li could hear that the "Congcong" mentioned by the old couple was obviously their daughter, that is, Ma Jingwei's ex-wife, who had been dead for many years, and there was a portrait in the living room to mourn him. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info
He Ning decided to try to communicate with the second elder of the Hao family, so he opened his mouth and said to them: "Is your daughter's name Hao Cong? We also heard Ma Jingwei talk about the previous marriage between him and your daughter, and I feel that the accident has passed for so long, and Ma Jingwei is still very sad about your daughter's death. ”
"It has nothing to do with us whether he is sad or not," Hao Rui's mother suddenly turned gloomy when she heard Ma Jingwei's name, "How can he be pretended to be sad?
"Don't be angry, on the other hand, if it was Ma Jingwei who had an accident, would you let Congcong not remarry for the rest of his life and be widowed for Ma Jingwei for the rest of his life?" Although Hao Rui's father mentioned this ex-son-in-law, his face was not very good-looking, but his attitude could be more objective than his wife.
Hao Rui's mother was told by Hao Rui's father, glared at him a little aggrieved, and said angrily: "Of course not, what an excellent girl my Congcong is, marrying him at the beginning is already regarded as a blessing that he has cultivated in his previous life, what else does he want? Even if he died at that time, he should have snickered!"
"Alas...... You......" Hao Rui's father felt that what Hao Rui's mother said was actually unpleasant and a little unreasonable, but considering the pain of losing his daughter, he only sighed and couldn't bear to blame.
"Did Hao Cong have a good relationship with Ma Jingwei before his death?" Tang Li was silent for a long time, and suddenly asked.
"Come, sit down and talk," Hao Rui's father saw that He Ning and Tang Li came today to understand the situation, and it was not because Hao Rui had done any appalling bad things, so even though it was mentioned that his daughter who died early would be a little heavy, the whole person was more or less relaxed, and he also realized that the four people were standing in the living room, and hurriedly beckoned them to sit on the sofa next to him.
After sitting down, Hao Rui's mother looked reluctant to mention Ma Jingwei, and it seemed that she still had a deep resentment towards this ex-son-in-law, so the person who answered Tonic Li's question could only be Hao Rui's father.
"How to say it, when our family Cong Cong wanted to marry Ma Jingwei, our old couple resolutely did not agree, how to say the conditions of our family, compared to the above, more than the bottom, quite passable, although we have two children in the family, but Cong Cong is the boss, we put the most thoughts, hope that the son will become a dragon, hope that the daughter will become a phoenix, parents hope that their children have the best home in the whole day," Hao Rui's father recalled the events of the year, and he was also quite sad," Congcong has been very smart since he was a child, he studied very well, and never let me and her mother worry about it, other parents are also worried about whether their children will fall in love when they go to school, which affects their studies, neither of us has been worried, and she often has a little boy write a note to her at that time, Congcong never paid attention to it, just devoted himself to studying, and then was admitted to a key university very smoothly. At that time, we also had a good arrangement, that is, the son of an old classmate of ours, a few years older than our family Congcong, when Congcong was admitted to a key university, the child had already been admitted to a graduate school, and it was also a key university, which was better than Congcong's school, and he also planned to follow his supervisor to study abroad for a doctorate after graduating from graduate school. Our old classmate is very familiar with us, and the relationship in the past is also very good, he has such a meaning, I think that Cong Cong is beautiful, good at learning, and he is a family who knows the roots, and wants to match two children, make a pair, and we also have a family or something, we two think about it, the boy is also a talent, and there is no need to say more about other aspects, this is a very good thing, so I agreed. ”
"If Congcong was really with others at the beginning, maybe where to enjoy Qingfu and live a good life now, this child, people have a lifetime of worry, but in the end the boat capsized in the gutter, and made a little temperament......" Hao Rui's mother listened to her wife tell what happened at the beginning, and she also felt a little depressed and sad, she opened her mouth with red circles under her eyes, and her voice was slightly choked, " That Ma Jingwei, is a nerd who can only die reading, no talent at all, at first Cong Cong came back to tell us that she had a boyfriend at school, we also thought, if the child really found a love match, then we can't beat the mandarin duck, after all, Cong Cong's school is still very good, and those who can be admitted there are not ordinary people, and they must be very good young men, only to know later that Ma Jingwei is not Cong Cong's classmate at all, and the school is not, but it is close to the school, run to Cong Cong School to play, see what classmates are still doing, and I met Cong Cong, and then I began to stalk Cong Cong, my stupid daughter, from childhood to adulthood, he has spent his mind on studying, and he has no sense of precaution at all for Ma Jingwei's scheming stinky boy, and he has come and gone on his way, and he has to be with him. Back home, we told her to introduce a very good boy to her to know, she was good, she refused to see, and then said that we were coaxed to go out to meet with others, that boy really fell in love with Cong Cong at a glance, especially like her, but Cong Cong, a stupid girl, told people directly, saying that she has a boyfriend, and will not consider others. ”
"Don't say that, doesn't this also mean that our daughter is more single-minded and orthodox. Hao Rui's father felt that his wife's wording was not so good, so he opened his mouth to correct it, his daughter was no longer there, and he didn't want to belittle or discredit his daughter's image when talking about the past.
"Then if it looks like this, Hao Cong and Ma Jingwei had a very deep relationship at the beginning, very good!" He Ning couldn't help but sigh when he heard this.
"That's not necessarily, it's not crying and insisting on it, it must be because of deep feelings, and it may be rebellious. Hao Rui's father sighed again, mentioning his dead daughter, his sigh seemed to be unstoppable, "Congcong has been very well-behaved and sensible since she was a child, and her mother and I are also very strict with her, for example, when she was young, the homework of any course should not have the phenomenon of scribbling, if there are traces of alteration on it, no matter how late it is, her mother will also ask her to tear it off and rewrite it again, in order to develop a good habit of being meticulous in her work or not doing it." From childhood to adulthood, Congcong has to ask whether it is a big or small thing, her mother has to ask and help check it, from which dress to wear the next day, to what major to apply for when she takes the university entrance examination. No matter how smart a child is, he is a child after all, he is young, his mind and thoughts are not mature enough, and he has enough social experience to support him, and his decisions are often inconsiderate and inconsiderate. But when I was young, it was okay, as I got older, Cong Cong began to become a little rebellious, the more we didn't allow her to do anything, the more she wanted to do something, when she was admitted to college, we asked her to apply for another major, but she secretly replaced it when she applied for the exam, but fortunately, the exam was not bad later, so there was no big regret. ”
"So what do you mean is that the reason why Hao Cong chose to be with Ma Jingwei is because you don't look down on Ma Jingwei and oppose them being together, so she wants to be with Ma Jingwei even more, and if you want to match her with that young talent, the more she will object, the more she will avoid it?" He Ning asked. As Hao Rui's parents said, this kind of rebellious process, He Ning has not experienced much, probably because the personality difference between Father He and Mother He and the second elder of the Hao family is still very big, compared to the second elder of the Hao family, Father He and Mother He can be regarded as very democratic personalities, and they will check for He Ning in key matters, and let He Ning make decisions on his own in small matters, even if he hits a wall, it will not be too much damage, and he can just eat a trench and grow wise.
According to He's father's words, the road that people have to walk in their lives is long, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of potholes, there are many forks and dead ends, no matter how rich the experience of parents is, the distance that can accompany their children is still less after all, if the "crutch" plays too conscientious, once one day can not continue to support on the side, then the children who have long relied on crutches will not even be able to walk independently. All in all, people should experience small setbacks and suffer small hardships in their lives, so that they can continue to mature, and they will not suffer big losses when they encounter major events and serious situations, just like people need to be vaccinated.
Hao Rui's mother nodded: "Yes, but not all because of this reason, rebellion accounts for most of it, she felt that she was not small at that time, and she was about to graduate from college, so she was anxious to get rid of my control, and wanted to pursue what autonomy and freedom." Part of the reason is also because Ma Jingwei has the spirit of a villain, bent over, open-minded, and can do whatever it takes to achieve his goal. He estimated that he also knew very well that if it weren't for the fact that my Congcong was too simple, a girl with such good conditions as Congcong would not have been able to look down on him, so he would have stalked Congcong to death, even deceived him, and pretended to be in love, so that Congcong was moved all of a sudden, just thinking that this man was really good to himself, he didn't think about it at all, the so-called good, there is no meaning at all, a man who wants ability or inability, and who wants economic conditions and no economic conditions, will only say some cheap love words, only do laundry and cooking, and it is impossible to make the other half of his life happy, to put it bluntly, it is not what a man should be!”
"So, Ma Jingwei was indeed very good to Hao Cong at the beginning, right?" Tang Li worked hard to remove the subjective emotions of Hao Rui's parents and extract some valuable information from them.
Regarding the sentence he summarized, Hao Rui's parents had no way to deny it, and they both nodded.
"Since Ma Jingwei is indeed good to Hao Cong, and Hao Cong was also moved by his pursuit and care, and you later made a final compromise and agreed to their marriage because of Hao Cong's insistence, how did you come up with this speculation that Hao Cong had to be with Ma Jingwei out of rebellion?" He Ning asked, she was afraid that this statement was just a one-sided statement of Hao Rui's parents because of prejudice.
"How can you say that......" Hao Rui's mother seemed to hesitate, after thinking about it, she did not immediately answer the question raised by He Ning, but opened her mouth and asked, "What is the reason why you came here today? Otherwise, you can give us a little bit of the truth, is it that my son Hao Rui went to find Ma Jingwei again and made trouble at Ma Jingwei's residence?"
"Yes. He Ning nodded, she was not completely lying to Hao Rui's mother, although this time they came over not entirely because of this incident, but Hao Rui went to Ma Jingwei's house to make trouble, which is also an indisputable fact, but he was not Ma Jingwei himself, but Ma Jingwei's current parents-in-law.
As soon as she heard this, Hao Rui's mother's face also became a little more solemn, and she wanted to bargain, but now she couldn't say those words, obviously she realized that her son must have done something, the police didn't say, and she couldn't easily guess, but it was obvious that if she didn't cooperate with the investigation, it was likely to have an adverse impact on her son.
"I'll just tell you that," she hesitated, but she still spoke, "Congcong didn't directly say anything to us that he regretted or didn't regret, but I am her mother, and I can feel that with the completion of my studies and the beginning of my job, the people around me can slowly see the level of whether they are capable or not, and she may realize that her original choice was too impulsive." What Ma Jingwei does at home, if you follow the standards of a nanny, then he must be qualified, but in terms of social role, he is not good at all, he has no ambition, and he has put all his hopes on us since before he got married, just waiting for us to dredge up, he doesn't even have the idea of fighting with his own skills, he is completely a person who does not learn and does not seek progress. (To be continued.) )