"This is the reason, but after all, they are still young, they have just entered the society, and they do not have a certain economic foundation, where can they adapt to it, such as the situation of their family, they always feel that it is not suitable. ○" Lin Lan said.

"Your concept is still very old, the conditions are almost something, we didn't come from that time, as the saying goes, cherries are delicious, trees are difficult to plant, flowers do not bloom without hard work, and happiness will not fall from the sky. I think happiness is to compare, because happiness is relative, it is to be compared to feel it, the rich people who are rich and clothed every day are also unhappy, so the necessary conditions are still needed, the simplest example, when people are hungry and cold, if they can eat a hot and full meal, they must feel extremely happy, which shows that the basic conditions are still there, but they do not have to eat abalone shark fin to feel happy and satisfied. Chen Zhenyao said.

"At that time it was different from now, we can only rely on ourselves to struggle, the child has that prerequisite, why not fight, marry someone like him, my heart is unwilling. Lin Lan said.

"As I said just now, life is wonderful because of struggle, and with struggle, life will fly, and with hard work, life will be beautiful. Grasp every moment and every minute of life, strive for success, fight for success, be the best version of yourself, move forward towards our goals, and make life better, more fulfilling and shining, then go to struggle and struggle. Chen Zhenyao said.

"It's easy to say, how old is she, she is still a child in our eyes, and we can't let her suffer so much. Lin Lan said.

"It is precisely because they are still young and in their fiery youth that they will have a good space for development. Since ancient times, heroes have come out of youth. Because it is a tribute to youth. A kind of song for youth. Youth does not give up. Youth is invincible. Youth is not stubborn, not extreme, not conservative, not rigid times. Chen Zhenyao said.

Life sounds like such a sacred and energetic term, some people say that every life is an angel created by God, and these little angels indicate that they exist in this world when they fall to the ground, and this world has become different because of their existence. The angels will do everything in their power to prove that their existence is not purely to add to the world's population, but to make this otherwise colorful world more attractive because of their efforts. Maybe there is such a thing as fate in the world, but it is really necessary to listen to fate in this way, once people's lives should be bound by the four words fate, then life will lose the meaning of existence. When a person sighs that it is destined for the setbacks he has suffered, he does not know that a dazzling spark has burst out in a corner of the world, which is the spark of miracles, miracles need to be created, and the creation of zào needs to be struggled. Struggle is the eternal and unchanging law of life.

"According to what you said, let's just leave them alone. I'm not ruthless. Lin Lan said.

"It's not about ignoring them, it's about guiding them correctly, increasing their social experience, and giving them more confidence to struggle. Instead of trying to create an environment for them to enjoy, then we are very wrong, and we can pull it when necessary. But I believe that with the personalities of the two of them, life must be better than ours. Chen Zhenyao said.

"You're just making fun of yourself, and you're full of fantasies about them. Lin Lan said.

"Trust your children, their minds are more open-minded than yours, although there will inevitably be some setbacks in life, after the storms, they will eventually get better and better. Chen Zhenyao said.

"I'm not an unreasonable person, and I know my daughter's thoughts, but I just feel that my daughter is a little wronged, what will others say. Lin Lan said.

"After a bit of ordeal, you'll understand, and so will they. Chen Zhenyao said.

"I always feel that I should create a comfortable environment for my children, which is their happiness, and I should not give them any burden. Lin Lan said.

"Only through the wind and waves can you feel true happiness, true happiness cannot be described, it can only be experienced. The deeper the experience, the more difficult it is to describe, because true happiness is not a collection of facts, but a continuation of a state. Happiness is not given to others, it has nothing to do with what others say, the important thing is that your heart is full of happy sunshine, that is, happiness is in your own hands, not in the eyes of others, happiness is a feeling, this feeling should be pleasant, make people feel comfortable, sweet and happy. Chen Zhenyao said.

In the morning, Xu Feng drove to the bus station and called Qiu Weiqiang, who had already arrived at his old place. After a while, Chen Zihao and they drove over, Qiu Weiqiang saw Haha Yile and said: "This car belongs to you, I thought you two would go to work together, but I didn't expect you to wait for us again." ”

"She went to work on the shuttle, so I'm waiting for you, and now the car is back to its owner. Xu Feng said.

"Let's go, let's get in a car. Qiu Weiqiang said and got into the car.

"How was it, I was very satisfied with my parents yesterday?" asked Qiu Weiqiang.

"Very satisfied. Xu Feng replied.

"I guess it's also satisfied, anyone like this girl will be satisfied. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"But my mom still has some concerns. Xu Feng said.

"What's the matter? I have already entered the house yesterday, which is enough to prove that I am sincere to you, and what else is there to worry about. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Worried that the conditions of our family are too poor, and I am afraid that she will be wronged when she enters the door, my father wants to take out a loan to buy a house for us. Xu Feng said.

"What do you think?" asked Qiu Weiqiang.

"I sued them, I have to do it myself, my parents have bothered a lot for me, and now that I have found a job, how can I use them as my heart again. Xu Feng said.

"It's right that you can think like this, it's not easy for parents in this life, you have to rely on yourself, and you will be happy only if you get it through your own struggle. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"I also thought about it a lot last night, and I want to make it clear to Chen Fei. Xu Feng said.

"She should have no problem and will agree with you. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"But I'm also worried about whether her parents will have too poor conditions for our family after all. Xu Feng said.

"There is no need to worry about this, you can communicate with them more in the future, they are all reasonable people, and they will not embarrass you in this regard. Qiu Weiqiang said.

In life, it is impossible to satisfy everyone, even if everyone praises a good person, there are also people who slander it. Even the bad guys that everyone hates, there are also people who praise them. It's all about how you do it and how you do it. Life is about knowing your worth, what you can do and what you should do. If you do well in one area, you will be done, and no one will care about you in other areas. It will become everyone's example, everyone's goal, everyone's value, and everyone's object of emulation.

"But I'm worried that someone will talk about it, especially the situation in her family, which is much better than ours, and I'm afraid that she won't be able to withstand so much pressure, so I have to consider this. Xu Feng said.

"Don't care what others say, stick to what you think you should insist on, don't be afraid of the ridicule of others, and strive for success so as not to lose the courage of a man. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Don't let the cool breeze blow from others affect your itinerary, don't let the suspicious gaze of others sway your thinking, and don't give up your goal because of the dark arrows shot by others. When you reach the top of the mountain, all the qiē is at your feet, and the feeling of being at the top of the mountain is so good. The admiring gaze cast at you will make you proud. The shortcomings of yourself, that is the platform on which you take off, treat it correctly, it is the power, the power that makes you fly high. All the processes and details of life are unique, you treasure it forever, and if you miss it, you will never return it.

"To tell the truth, I am very touched to be favored by a good girl, but sometimes I also feel a little inferior, and I always feel inferior to others. Xu Feng said.

"People live for themselves first, not for others, not for the sake of being appreciated and praised by others. Qiu Weiqiang said.

People should live authentically, live freely, live sunshine, and live themselves. There has never been a perfect person in the world, and anyone who is praised, admired, and emulated has shortcomings, flaws, and even great mistakes. But none of this is enough to affect their greatness and exploits. Because their success in one aspect is enough to make people ignore some of their mistakes. Just as the sun is bright enough to hide its sunspots, the moon is bright enough to hide its ugliness, and the beauty is bright enough to make people ignore their imperfections.

In order to cater to the so-called popular taste, social value, and the trend of the times, they often lose their own pursuit direction, give up their judgment of the world, suppress their boiling feelings and infinite creative power, and gradually evolve into a so-called perfect person without personality, vitality, and expertise. It not only hides its own shortcomings, but also compresses its own advantages, both catering to the preferences of others and consuming its own wisdom. In order to be cheaply recognized and praised by others or society, he has lived a life that is not himself.

In fact, to get the recognition and admiration of others, not by pandering, not by pandering, not by giving up on yourself, but by insisting on yourself, to create a new world, to create a success. The world is big, and everything has a long and short time. It is precisely because there are strengths and weaknesses that the world will be lacking. It is precisely because of these shortcomings that the world will be so wonderful and life will have a thousand tastes. It is precisely because of the lack of life that life has a lot of flavor. (To be continued......)