Xu Feng returned to the room and remembered the words of his parents, this is really a thing., marriage is a big deal, his own ideas are good, he has to rely on himself, and he doesn't have to worry about his family. This is just his own thoughts, although Chen Fei also said on the road just now that the old man has worked hard all his life, and he should enjoy the blessings of Qingfu, and he can't let them work too hard, and rely on themselves. In the end, whether it is true or not, women have a good face, especially marriage is a lifelong event, who doesn't want to marry in a beautiful way, how can the wedding be too shabby, it is impossible to do a pomp like his family, it can only be simple. Whether a simple wedding is acceptable or not, people's concepts have changed, but some secular things are still difficult to change, and whether the rumors can be accepted.

It's nice to say now, but when the time comes, will you quit it? And even if she agrees, whether her parents can pass the hurdle, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, who don't think about their children. Get everything ready, and you can live a comfortable life after getting married. But he knew the situation of his own family, he couldn't come up with any money for the marriage, and he couldn't let the old people get any more money, and they didn't have any money in their hands. In the future, find an opportunity to talk to her about his thoughts and opinions, hoping to be the same as what he thinks, which is what he expects.

Knowing that her daughter went to Xu Feng's house, her father Chen Zhenyao and her mother Lin Lan were waiting at home, Lin Lan guessed what the Xu family would be like. In the past, I only heard my daughter say how good Xu Feng was, but I didn't know anything about the situation at home, so how could I not worry about it.

"Don't think about it, as long as the two love each other, it doesn't matter if the family conditions are good or bad. Chen Zhenyao said with a smile.

"That's different. Who doesn't want a better family. That way, we can also worry about it. Lin Lan said.

"I don't think so. Family conditions are secondary, the main thing is character, marrying a good guy is better than anything else. Chen Zhenyao said.

"Good people and good family conditions, that's what I think in my heart. Lin Lan said.

"It can't be too idealistic, no one can be perfect, the world needs to be opposed, where there is light, there must be darkness, and where there is yin, there is yang. If there are advantages, there must be disadvantages, and only to adapt slowly. Don't think too much, just go with the flow, not to mention that both of them have jobs, so you don't have to worry about life. Chen Zhenyao said.

"I'll come later, I'll ask her carefully, I also have a bottom of the situation. Lin Lan said.

"You, you always can't hold things in your heart, you can't wait to come back now, you have to let people talk a little more. Chen Zhenyao said.

"Don't you care? I'm more anxious than I am, I just won't say it. Lin Lan said with a smile.

Chen Fei returned home. When the couple saw her come back, they looked happy, knowing that they were very satisfied, Lin Lan hurriedly asked about the situation, and Chen Fei answered truthfully, the two old men had a very good temper, and the dinner at night was very rich, and they were also very satisfied with her. Lin Lan asked about the housing situation again, and learned that she lived in two bungalows, and said: "The conditions are a little worse, they don't even have a place to live when they get married, with their current conditions, it is impossible to afford a house, is it too crowded to live together." ”

"The conditions are not very good, we can take our time, the house will have it, there will be a qiē. Chen Fei said with a smile.

"Silly boy, it's not easy to say, have you considered when you can afford to buy a house with your two salaries? Lin Lan said.

"Don't worry, we both have jobs and regular incomes, and we can take out a mortgage in the future, and it won't take many years to pay it back. Chen Fei said.

"It's better to have a ready-made house, so how many years do you have to struggle, maybe you won't catch your breath for the rest of your life. Lin Lan said.

"As long as the relationship between the two is good, these are not problems, who did not struggle by themselves. Chen Zhenyao said.

"Dad is right, as long as we work hard, our lives will be better. Chen Fei said.

"It's too financially tiring, and you have to be mentally prepared. Lin Lan said.

"I know this, as long as people are good, I am happy, I am ready to endure hardships, and I am not afraid of how much hardship I suffer. Chen Fei said.

Lin Lan had nothing to say, her son was determined to talk to Xu Feng, although she had some thoughts in her heart, but she was happy, and it was not good to splash her cold water, so she would be unhappy, it would not be early, and she would have to go to work tomorrow, urging her to rest quickly.

When the couple returned to the bedroom, they naturally talked about their daughter, and Lin Lan said what she meant. I thought that Xu Feng worked in a commercial bank, graduated from college, and his daughter was still a classmate, so they knew each other better, and their own conditions were very ideal, so they agreed to have a relationship. I didn't expect the family conditions to be like this, there are only two bungalows, my parents are laid-off workers, and the conditions at home are too poor. The old couple has no regular income, and only relies on car repairs and odd jobs to make a living.

Although Xu Feng is good, he faces the reality after getting married, no money is not good, the pressure can be imagined, these have to be considered, based on this psychology, Lin Lan is a little dissatisfied with this family business. said: "You should put your stakes in a good position with your daughter, and you can't make a decision with a hot brain." ”

"What, you regret it a little?" Chen Zhenyao asked with a smile.

"It's not my family, and I'm not the kind of person who hates the poor and loves the rich, but the conditions are too poor, and it's not ordinarily bad, if Chen Fei passes the door, how much suffering she will have to suffer, my heart is not good. Lin Lan said.

Chen Zhenyao smiled slightly when he heard this, and said: "The family conditions are not very good, and there are some difficulties economically, but this is also temporary, and it will slowly get better in the future." ”

"That's what I said, but the reality is like this, the family conditions are too unsatisfactory, what kind of can't I find with my daughter's conditions, a good guy has it, why do you have to ask for it, anyway, I'm a little unsatisfactory. Lin Lan said.

"Feelings are a matter between two people, as long as the two are willing, we can't mix blindly. Chen Zhenyao said.

"How can this be mixed blindly, living at home, economic conditions are the foundation, no matter how good the relationship is, it can't be eaten, and it is she herself who suffers in the end, I will talk to her about it when I find an opportunity. Lin Lan said.

"You don't know the child's temper, why will she turn back on what she recognizes, I forget it, Xu Feng is a good child, go with her, we can't interfere too much." Chen Zhenyao said.

"This is not child's play, what to do after getting married, she is emotional, and she can't follow her in everything. Lin Lan said.

"I have real feelings for Xu Feng, I won't listen to your words, then she will be unhappy. Chen Zhenyao said.

"It's okay if you're not happy, marriage is a lifelong event, you have to help her take care of it, you can't follow her temperament. Lin Lan said.

"I don't agree with your idea, although the family conditions are poor, but his parents are very good, this is rare, after marriage, there will be no anger, and it is better to live a down-to-earth life than anything else. Chen Zhenyao said.

"But that won't be happy, how can I feel good about living a hard life every day. Lin Lan said.

"Happiness is not something you want to come, let alone waiting, you can earn it by yourself, and you have to rely on yourself to struggle. Chen Zhenyao said.

"In short, we can't let our children suffer that sin, so you can bear it, and I can't bear it if you give it up. Lin Lan said.

"Happiness is a very big and broad concept, there is nothing like this, that is happiness, that is the setting of unhappiness, uneven polymorphism is the source of happiness, because everyone has their own happiness, what is happy for you is not necessarily happiness for others, even if the same person has different happiness in different stages of life and different circumstances. Chen Zhenyao said.

"But this day is not ordinarily difficult, when will they run to the end, how can I have no thoughts in my heart, and my heart is a little blocked when I think about it. Lin Lan said.

"In a person's life, he always has to run and fight for many goals. Chen Zhenyao said.

In work and life, we must continue to strive for progress, although we do not seek the best, but seek ourselves better. In the work, we should continue to accumulate experience and innovate methods, but seek to improve the work. It is impossible to be a child forever in life, it is impossible to rely on parents for a lifetime, you always have to make a living independently, and you have to fight for your dreams. After the dream is realized, you will find that there are many beautiful things waiting for you, and that is why you struggle, this is the reason for struggle, and this is the happiness of struggle. A person at work will inevitably encounter setbacks in life. People who don't know how to struggle will always fall into the pit of frustration, do nothing, and let themselves fall into a trap, which is a person who fails.

Those who struggle will always try to climb out of this pit, will always stand up, and will always enjoy the sun again. Looking back on their struggles, they will find that they are wonderful because of their struggles. A person is to fight to overcome setbacks, even great people can not be smooth sailing, and no one can be born to sit back and enjoy it. People have to experience setbacks again and again, constantly fall down in setbacks, and constantly struggle to stand up, which is the purpose of struggle.

"It's not easy to rely on personal struggle, we are not just accurate, we need to pay too much hard work, I don't want my children to suffer so much. Lin Lan said.

"The brilliance is behind the struggle, and the purpose of the struggle is to overcome setbacks and enjoy life. This is the wonder of struggle, in the struggle can not feel fatigue and hardship, to fight more and more courageous. Chen Zhenyao said. Life is inherently fragile, but with ideal support, life can become strong. We must grow up in the wind, rain, thunder and lightning, struggle in the ups and downs and mud, and forge ahead in the stormy waves. I believe that a beautiful life is a raging fire and a song of triumph that resounded through the sky. (To be continued......)