Some people are very lucky, born in a family without worrying about food and clothing, life seems to be very smooth, do not have to go through ups and downs, spend their lives in peace, such people are a minority after all, they also have many misfortunes and troubles in life, but people don't know, people do not live in a vacuum, it is impossible to have smooth sailing and everything goes well. The fate of more people is always joking with their lives, saying that "the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, strain their muscles and bones, and suffer their minds." "Seriously use it on ordinary people, press down the suffering together, strong people see that it is the hope ahead, only cowardly people will see many difficulties, what are you afraid of when you are young, you don't suffer when you are young, and when you are white, you only regret and hate. Time is fair to everyone, without a trace of mercy and tolerance, the same is a short few decades, when time slides through the platform of years, leaving traces of either happiness or pain. Looking at whether it is cost-effective to endure hardships when you are young or cost-effective to endure hardships when you are too late, and compare the hardships with the life in the army, the PLA has been training hard for several years, and I don't know how much blood and tears it has paid to become a steely soldier, and the suffering suffered by ordinary people is unimaginable. Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, no one has any reason to say that they should enjoy it, and those who are unwilling to endure hardships are clearly afraid of hardship.

"What you say is a big truth, as parents should create a good living environment for them, instead of being in adversity all day long, making them feel unhappy for the rest of their lives, and no parent wants to do this. Xing Yanfang said.

"Adversity will give people a valuable opportunity to hone themselves, and only those who can stand the test of the environment can be regarded as truly strong. Yuan Weihua said.

Since ancient times, great men have been indomitable spirit, struggling from adversity, successfully completing their historical mission, encouraging children to bravely accept failure, children in the process of growing up, will inevitably encounter some difficulties and failures, parents need to let children anticipate future difficulties, because every time you do unknown things or adventures, you will encounter many risks, difficulties and changes. Whether a child encounters temporary failure or adversity in the process of growing up, it is a normal thing. As the saying goes, "Failure is the mother of success." "There is no failure, there is no experience and lessons learned from failure, and there is no success. Today's parents should also educate their children correctly and objectively, that is, "failure is not necessarily the mother of success." "Failure is failure, and if the child shakes his head and shrugs his shoulders casually after failure, and only has an indifferent attitude towards failure, then he is likely to have failure ahead of him.

There is a story about a man on foot who fell because the road was uneven, and he got up, but after not taking a few steps, he accidentally fell again, so he fell on the ground and did not get up again. Someone asked him, "Why don't you get up and keep walking?" and the man said, "Why should I get up if I still fall when I get up? Such a man must have thought him a ridiculous man, because he was so frightened that he did not dare to get up again and go on, and he would never reach his destination. A toy called a "tumbler" has the center of gravity underneath, so no matter how much you push it or poke it, as soon as you let go, it will immediately stand upright again, so it will never lie down. This is how life is, and it is only through constant suffering that one becomes stronger. There is much more to learn from failure than from successful experience, and this is the difference between failure and success.

"Anyway, I can't talk about you in this regard, but I look at the reality, you see that the person who has a little ability does not send his children to work in a good unit, and none of them send their children to self-employed people to work, which is also the difference between people. Xing Yanfang said.

"What you said is only a superficial phenomenon, many people's children are working for individuals, are they not a big development, there is no place for use, they have not found their own space for development, give full play to their wisdom, become the pillars of society. Yuan Weihua said.

"You also look at how many migrant workers end up unemployed, so that they have no means of making ends meet, and we have to think about our children," Ms. Xing said.

"In this fast-moving society, each of us, including our children, will encounter all kinds of pressures and unexpected difficulties. Yuan Weihua said.

"What you said is unrealistic, which of the children of officials today does not have a good job, how good they say at the conference, they have to rely on their own hard work to open up their own big career, but none of them work for individuals like our children. Xing Yanfang said.

"I have just said, this is just a very small individual phenomenon, most people are not relying on their own hands to start a business, although they have gone through a lot of hardships, their life is not a good and happy, life has ups and downs, there are losses and gains, the key depends on how to grasp yourself, be kind to give up, know how to cherish, do not give yourself too much constraints, to know how to bear fruit from labor, is the sweetest fruit. Yuan Weihua said.