After listening to her husband's words, Xing Yanfang stopped talking, although it made sense, but it was not the same as reality at all, Yuan Weihua was born as a teacher, and he had a kind of arrogance of a literati in his bones, and he was later transferred to work in the Enterprise Bureau, which has been done for decades. Because he is not sophisticated, does not understand the way of officialdom, does not flatter and tends to be inflammatory, and has a stubborn personality, he works against the leader everywhere, which can be called a plug in the leader's heart, and how can he be reused by the leader. He has never been mixed with an official and a half-job, and he is still a small office clerk, and is nicknamed the five most people by his colleagues, that is, the oldest, the most qualified, the lowest status, the most work, and the least salary.

For this matter, I have to talk to him less, let him learn more about the way of officialdom, there is a way to know the practice of the person is Junjie, to adapt to the trend of the times, which leader is unwilling to listen to good words, can not always come by his own temperament, no matter what he does, he will admit death, and he will not admit defeat after hitting the south wall and hitting the north wall, no one will like such a person, and he will suffer a big loss sooner or later in the long run. He always dismisses it, thinking that his approach is always right, Maitreya Buddha manages the mountain gate, puts the radio in the bed and enjoys himself, now this is very good, as the saying goes, no official is light, what is the benefit of being an official, worry about the effort, not to mention, and often the object of being targeted, not to be a little worse. In order to be an official, he jumped up and down to pull relationships, searched his intestines and scraped his stomach, and deceived his subordinates for personal gain, intrigue and exclude dissidents, formed gangs and factions to build confidants, fought openly and secretly with smiling faces, and bent his knees to endure his voice.

It's too tiring to live like that, I don't have to worry about being an ordinary employee, I don't have to worry about everything, and no one can say anything about eating with my salary, not to mention that I have a good life, my family is harmonious, I live and work in peace and contentment, I am healthy, my wife is gentle and my daughter is filial, rich or poor, and happiness does not depend on money. Luxurious and tranquil, the rich are brilliant and the poor are also elegant, this life does not seek merit, but seeks no fault, in some places I am not as good as people, but in some places people are not as good as me, more than the upper than the bottom, the contented are often happy, but only by him.

It's been like this for a lifetime, what is the result now, although I don't have to worry about eating and drinking, and the days are barely passable, but the children's affairs have made them very sad, and many of the children of employees in the bureau have taken care of and arranged work, but it can't be done to him, and he found the director and said that there is no indicator, and now it can't be solved at all, and the back road is blocked in one sentence, and there is no room for relaxation. How can other people have indicators, but it doesn't work for him, obviously deliberately embarrassing him, indicating that he didn't do a good job in interpersonal relations before, and always thought that he was great, but now he has no way, he has to watch others stare dryly, if he had been close to the leader before, there would not have been such a situation, and he asked someone to find a relationship to find a job for his child, and his energy was not wasted, and there was no result.

Looking for a job can't be done by Yuan Yuan herself, the only hope is to be admitted to the civil service, and the hope is so slim, my sister said it well, what are you doing now without a strong relationship will not work at all, even if no one is admitted to dredge, there will be no good results. Life in the world is really difficult, as if standing at a crossroads, left is not right, in the end, which way is right, people can't choose. Thinking of this, Xing Yanfang couldn't help sighing, what else can I do now, I knew why I had to do it today, I always couldn't let go of the teacher's stinky shelf, I was conceited and high-minded, uninhibited, and hated, no one helped him at the critical moment, if I had lived a little earlier, my daughter might have already gone to work, and I wouldn't have worked for someone at this time, so they would have to worry about going out early and returning late all day.

Until now, I still don't recognize my head in my heart, and I am good at drilling the tip of his horns, not as sleek as someone else, but I say my own big truth, which is really infuriating, but there is no way to take him, he has been such a character all his life, as the saying goes, it is easy to change his temperament, and it is impossible for him to change. When persuading others, they will say that when they encounter things, they want to open up a little, see a little, be tolerant, understand more, be less persistent, and be less entangled, and if they can think like this, maybe they will feel better. A philosopher once said: If you have a good attitude, your mood will change with it. When you have a good mood, your attitude will change. With a good attitude, habits change. With good habits, personality will change. With a good character, life will change. Only with a good life can we truly have happiness. To have a good attitude, you must think about everything.

Anyone can say these words, and they are even better than this, but when they really encounter something, they don't know what to do, just like now, for the sake of her daughter's future It is difficult for her to grasp, Yuan Yuan is very happy to be admitted to the civil service, and she has a bright future in this life. But if you can't get into the exam, you can't face how to develop in the future, you can't work for an individual for a lifetime, and if you fall in love and get married to Li Jinghe, you can find a good job, after all, it is a job that relies on others, and you don't need others to say it, you will feel inferior. How will her father-in-law and mother-in-law treat her after passing the door, especially in such a cadre family, she is a person who manages people in the unit, and she will meet any kind of person, and she must have extraordinary skills. Can Yuan Yuan adapt after getting married, it is a baby bump in the eyes of her parents, she is afraid of breaking it in her hands, and she is afraid of melting in her mouth.