Xu Feng had just returned home and received a call from Wei Dahai, Li Jinghe's family was going to the door to thank them, and when they had time, they agreed to go. … , Xu Feng wanted to refuse, although he promised Li Jinghe, he didn't have the same knowledge as him. But it hurt him too much, and the knots in his heart were difficult to unravel, and it was still a little unhappy to see him. Thinking that his parents also insisted on coming, they were so old, this face is not easy to refute. So he told Wei Dahai that he would go back after work tomorrow, and in the evening he invited guests and went to the barbecue square to eat together, and then told his parents that Li Jinghe's family would come over tomorrow night

"Isn't it just a blood transfusion, it's not a big deal, as long as the person is good, there is no need to be so polite, I have to come home," Xu Wanshan said.

"This is also true, as well as the previous relationship between you and Yuan Yuan, it is inevitable that there is something in your heart, since the matter has passed, you don't have to come to the house to have this intention. Qin Yaru said.

"They had to come, and I was too embarrassed to refuse, especially his parents, who agreed to them out of politeness. Xu Feng said.

"Come on, let's welcome. Xu Wanshan said.

"I'll have dinner at home tomorrow night and treat them well. Qin Yaru said.

"No, let's go to the barbecue square tomorrow night, it's convenient to talk there, after all, Yuan Yuan is present, home."

I will feel awkward when I eat, so I still go to the barbecue square to eat, and it seems more lively when there are many people. Xu Feng said.

"That's fine, after all, the two of you have had such a relationship, and it is inevitable that you will be a little uncomfortable to meet. "Qin Ya

Ru said.

"So let's go to the barbecue square and eat at home is troublesome. Or go to the barbecue square to save trouble. What's more, the faithful have already agreed. If he is in charge of this, just eat at his place, and he will take care of it. Xu Feng said.

"I don't have a problem, as long as you're happy. Xu Wanshan said.

"Mom told you something. Qin Yaru said.

"What's the matter?" Xu Feng asked.

"Chen Fei has already recognized the door, and the next step should be to handle your marriage. Qin Yaru said.

"We're just getting started, and we're still early in getting married. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"That's not fast, we need to get ready. Qin Yaru said.

"Your mother is in a hurry, wishing you would get married tomorrow. Xu Wanshan said with a smile.

"You're not in a hurry. I'm more anxious than I am. Qin Yaru said.

"It's not a matter of urgency, when will it be returned. Xu Feng said.

"That's sooner or later, our house is too small, you don't have a place to live when you get married, you don't have the ability to buy a house, you can only come. Qin Yaru said.

"As I said, you don't have to take care of the marriage, we are responsible for ourselves. Xu Feng said.

"How can you have such great ability, and you don't work for a long time, you can't do it alone. Now we have an idea, I don't know if you want to do it. Qin Yaru said.

"What do you think?" Xu Feng asked.

"The first two days, I went to Sister Wang's house. In order to expand the usable area, the courtyard was sealed as a living room, and then the door was opened separately to solve the problem of children's marriage and residence. I'm fine, I'm going to go with your dad again today, in order to solve the problem of where you get married and live, I'm going to decorate it like her house, and I don't have to live in an upside-down room, and I can't see the sun all year round, which is not good for my health. Qin Yaru said.

"How much does this cost?" Xu Feng listened and felt that it was a solution, with his current conditions, it was unrealistic to buy a house, and it would be a matter of many years before he wanted to buy a house, at least for the time being, he didn't have that idea, in this case, it would be okay to improve the environment, but I don't know how much it would cost.

"It takes about 30,000 yuan, you don't have to worry about this, the money is not enough to ask your aunt to borrow, she has agreed, if you think it is appropriate, let's start decorating immediately, save time and worry." Qin Yaru said.

"Okay, let's do it, but you don't have to worry about this matter, I'll do it myself when the time comes. Xu Feng said.

"What do you want to do?" Qin Yaru asked.

"Don't ask, I'll do it then. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"What can you do?" asked Qin Yaru.

"I can find my eldest brother-in-law, he has a lot of waste decoration materials, we can use waste, that will save a lot of money, it is economical and affordable, why not." Xu Feng said.

"This is a solution, then listen to your opinion, how to decorate to you, we will pay for it. Qin Yaru said.

"You don't have to worry about it, just wait to live in a bright new house. Xu Feng said.

In the morning, Xu Feng came to the bus station to wait, and Cheng Li and Chen Jie arrived successively. Chen Zihao drove to the airport and recruited

Called a few people to get into the car, and on the way, Xu Feng said that Li Jinghe's family would come to the house at night to thank him. has promised them, Chen Zihao and Qiu Weiqiang happened to be not on duty tonight, and invited them to participate as well, Chen Zihao promised that there would be no problem, and he and Qiu Weiqiang would go together in the evening.

"Let Chen Fei go at night, it is more convenient to have her to speak, so that you will not be a little embarrassed to meet Yuan Yuan. Chen Zihao said.

"I can, let Yuan Yuan you mix no worse than anyone else, I can't let her look down on her. Cheng Li said.

"That is, compare yourself with her well, so that she can understand in her heart what kind of person Xu Feng is, not as he imagined. Chen Jie said.

"It's not to compete with her, I'm afraid that Li Jinghe will be careful, Xu Feng and Yuan Yuan will shake hands and make peace, it is inevitable that there will be some contacts in the future, I am worried that he has ideas in his heart, so that he also has a girlfriend, Li Jinghe will naturally not think about it elsewhere. Chen Zihao said.

This is also true, Li Jinghe's heart is not big, and it is inevitable that he will have some ideas. Xu Feng said.

He still dared to think that if it weren't for Xu Feng's big measure, not worrying about the past with him, and accepting his apology, it would be tantamount to giving him a lot of face, otherwise where would he have the opportunity, and he would not answer him for bullshit. Cheng Li said.

"You shouldn't be polite to such a person, without a little kindness, it's a shame to associate with him. Chen Jie said.

"Coming and going is like the wind, dreaming without a trace, thinking of the deep and shallow edge, all like this, or smiling lightly, and changing with the fate for a full heart. There will always be many people in life, some people come and go, some go and return, some people are close at hand, some people are far away in the world, some people pass by, and some people go all the way. In any case, it is inevitable that the sadness will be scattered at the end of the song. Countless encounters, countless partings, this is life. As for how many people we met, no one knows and no one cares. Chen Zihao said.

"Life is like this, it is inevitable that there will be bitterness and bitterness, the tortuous life is the perfect life, without the wind and waves, you can not show the true color of the sail, without twists and turns, you can not taste the fun of life, we have to face it calmly. Xu Feng said.

"Don't bring up the previous things again in the evening, so as not to cause unpleasantness. Chen Zihao said.

"I know this, and I won't say a word about the past. Xu Feng said.

"This is too cheap for him, and I will spare him in a few words, if I will never do it. Cheng Li said.

"When the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people are observed, there are no friends. But you can't take it too seriously and admit it. To err is human. Therefore, when getting along with others, we must understand each other, be considerate of each other, and be forgiving and forgiving. Chen Zihao said.

"You can't accommodate such people, otherwise you will think that you are a bully. Even if you don't say it to your face, you have to make it clear to him in the future, don't treat anyone as a fool, and you must eat it in the light of the loss, you can't be so confused. Cheng Li said.

"Don't treat others as bad people, treat each other with sincerity, which is the right attitude. It is necessary to believe that people are inherently good, and that people are like this, and the social atmosphere is good. Chen Zihao said.

"Xu Feng just has a good heart, so he suffered this big loss. Cheng Li said.

"In interpersonal communication, everyone will encounter things that will suffer, and it is inevitable that there will be a lot of grievances, how to deal with this. Chen Zihao said.

If you take revenge and aggressive behavior against the person who has been hurt, then the bad form will expand, and eventually there is a high probability of a negative sum game. On the other hand, if you approach things with an open-minded mind and treat others, you will gain the respect of your opponents and turn things around for the better. Forgive people and forgive people, now this sentence has become a wise saying for dealing with interpersonal relationships, there must be room for doing things, others make mistakes and don't beat people to death with a stick, try to forgive where you can forgive, and give him a chance to be a new person.

"And Yuan Yuan, this is their first love, what will they think in their hearts. Cheng Li said.

"Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy, and because you have been hurt, you will not be friends, you can only be the most familiar stranger. I have loved and known, and I have been drunk and drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately. Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not. What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have, and what you have is not necessarily what you really engrave in your heart. Chen Zihao said.

Many times in life, you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach. What is needed most is to understand that giving up and blessing, loving and being loved, are all things that make people happy, and don't let these become painful. Now that I have experienced it, after many years, I hope that it is a good memory to think about it occasionally. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, smart people know that they want to be happy, cherish the people you love and love you. (To be continued......)