"A person's momentary mistake cannot become a spiritual shackle that this person carries for the rest of his life, since that page has become history. ∏∈, one should not erase one's entire life because of one's momentary mistakes, allowing people to make mistakes, and at the same time allowing people to correct them. Therefore, there is no need to hold on to the pigtails, and it is necessary to put it to death and then quickly. At this point, as Zhao Benshan said in the sketch, change and re-offend, and then change it. Wang Liyun said.

The things we have done, the people we have met, all the joys, sorrows, and joys will be condensed into a very sentimental word, that is, the past. Whether it is gain or loss, success or failure, whether it is happiness or pain, it is all gone, and you can only reminisce, but you can't go back. But sometimes, we can't get along with the past, indulge in aftertaste, and decadent in the past. Life should move forward and liberate yourself from the past, so that there is a way under your feet.

A happy person is not free from troubles and pains, even those troubles and pains that others do not understand and have never experienced in their lives. It's just that I have more openness, I am good at grasping my emotions, and I can straighten out this complex mood when I am sad and painful, and treat the unsatisfactory and unfortunate things that life gives me with a calm state of mind. It is often said that the world is unsatisfactory out of ten. But interestingly, if you look closely, it is not difficult to see that what is desirable is not necessarily reasonable, and what is not desirable is sometimes reasonable. What is not good is not necessarily a bad thing, and what is good is not necessarily a good thing.

"I hate the kind of people who are unfaithful to love, but they are heinous. Li Ying said.

"Everything must be divided into two, everyone has his certainty, not only the dark side. There must also be a sunny side. Being able to save people shows that his essence is not bad. You can't forgive him because he's wrong. Wang Liyun said.

To tolerate him, to understand him, to consider his problems from his point of view, he is not necessarily conscious of making mistakes, but by the circumstances at that time. When we tolerate others, we are also tolerant of ourselves, because we ourselves need to be tolerated by others. Giving others understanding and tolerance is equivalent to giving others a hope, and we are leaving a way out for others as well as for ourselves. Therefore, when we make mistakes, we should tolerate them, understand them, forgive them, and not be unforgiving.

"It's not that we have to be unforgiving. It's that he doesn't have any reason, this is a big question of right and wrong, no matter what the reason, he can't do something like that, it's too hurtful, how can he say forgiveness and forgive. Li Ying said.

"Of course, we must be reasonable in dealing with others, but we must not be unforgiving. Wang Liyun said.

Leave a little room for those who offend you, not only will you not suffer, but you will also have unexpected surprises and touches. Everyone's values and life background are different, so it is inevitable that there will be disagreements in life. Most people are once caught in the whirlpool of struggle. I couldn't help but get agitated. On the one hand, for the sake of face, on the other hand, for the sake of profit. Therefore, once it is reasonable, it will not spare people, and it must force the other party to withdraw his troops or surrender. However, while the unforgiving will make you blow the horn of victory, it is also a prelude to the next battle. Because although the other party was defeated, he naturally had to get it back for the sake of face or interests.

This is a bit low, after all, he failed Yuan Yuan, and he couldn't get over this energy in his heart. Li Ying said.

These are two different things, be reasonable and forgiving, give each other a step down, say a few words, and get mutual understanding from both sides, this is the joy of all. Wang Liyun said.

As the saying goes, you have to be forgiving and forgiving, give the other party a way out, give the other party a step down, and leave some face and foothold for the other party. It's not that hard to do, and if you can do it, you can do it a lot of good for yourself. If you are unforgiving, once you make the other party cornered, it is possible to arouse the other party's will to survive, and since it is to survive, it is possible to do whatever it takes and reckless of the consequences, which will cause harm to yourself. Give him a way out, and he won't do you any harm.

Even if someone else is at a loss, when the reason is already clear, he will be grateful, and even if he doesn't, he is unlikely to be your enemy, this is human nature. Besides, this world is very small, but it has changed a lot, if one day the two meet again, if he is strong and you are weak, think how he will treat you, be reasonable and forgiving, and also leave a way back for yourself.

"In that case, I also agree with her to go, regardless of previous suspicions, and go generously. Li Ying said.

Yuan Yuan nodded when he heard this, although Xu Feng did something sorry for her, but he rescued Li Jinghe, he can forgive him for this, don't worry about his past.

"After listening to your words, I am much more cheerful, and I will go with Jinghe tomorrow. Yuan Yuan said.

It is right to think of it this way, the sky is wider than the sea, and the human heart is bigger than the sky. Wang Liyun said.

No matter how tormenting life is, how compressed it is in a small world, the space of thinking is unlimited, and the vision of the soul has no fences, it is incomparably broad, and it is allowed to gallop. Come and go freely, and the charm of life is precisely here. Stand tall, just. Red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple, colorful life, all kinds of different colors. Sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty, five flavors, each with its own good. Joy, anger, sorrow, sorrow, fright, seven emotions, inexhaustible. People always hope that their life will be smooth sailing, but in fact, a smooth sailing life does not exist in reality. Even if you really have zài, if there are no setbacks in your life, it will be too monotonous, too boring and too boring.

We must have a tolerant heart, a big belly that can tolerate things, and things that the world can tolerate. Maybe it's not a big thing in the world, but it's also a small thing around you. You can't be selfish and calculating. Gains and losses are a common thing in life, and there is no need to deliberately force them. Suffering from gains and losses will only perpetuate the troubles of life. People will always lose something while gaining something, and gain something while losing something, and losing and gaining are always balanced.

Learn to forgive, people inevitably make mistakes, don't punish yourself for the mistakes of others. Try to love the world and don't be hateful, otherwise it will be a sea of suffering. Learn from the Buddha, compassion, wisdom, smile. When faced with confusion and helplessness, quietly give yourself a smile, give yourself a smile, and have a calmness. Have a smile on your own, face hardships bravely, have a smile on your own, and be kind to yourself.

Back at home, Li Jinghe was waiting for Yuan Yuan, and when he saw her come back, he said gently: "Don't you feel a little embarrassed, you really don't want to go, I'll go with my father, they won't blame you." ”

During the meal, when his father proposed to go to Xu's house to thank him, Li Jinghe's mother-in-law's expression was unwilling for Yuan Yuan to go with her, but it was not easy to say anything in person. Yuan Yuan sent the second elder home and didn't come back immediately, it must be for this matter, otherwise he wouldn't have gone for so long.

Li Jinghe also had his thoughts in his heart, although Xu Feng agreed to accept his apology, but he didn't know what he thought in his heart. After all, I have hurt him many times before, and it is inevitable that I will have thoughts about him, and it is difficult to predict what kind of words he will say. Afraid to say what happened before, Yuan Yuan would definitely not be able to accept it, and remembered the dream he had that day, leaving him for Xu Feng's affairs, which was the last thing he wanted to end.

"I've thought about it, no matter what he did to me before, after all, the matter has passed, and I saved you again this time, and I should thank him, let's go together, and we can also show our sincerity. Yuan Yuan said.

"I'm afraid that you will be difficult to accept, so don't force it, I'll explain it to my parents, and they won't blame you. Li Jinghe said.

"You can understand my feelings, this is very touching, I am not the kind of unreasonable person, let's do our best, as for what he thinks, don't care, maybe make incomprehensible behavior, I will definitely not go to my heart, I will face it calmly. Yuan Yuan said.

"My dear, you're so good, I was very worried at first, afraid that you wouldn't be able to turn around. Li Jinghe said.

"Am I the kind of stingy person, I still understand the truth, why do I make you feel embarrassed, let's go with my parents. Yuan Yuan said.

"The matter was settled, and I immediately called the sea and communicated with him about when they would go. Li Jinghe said and dialed Wei Dahai's phone, explained his meaning to him, and made an appointment with Xu Feng, and their family went to the door to thank him.

"I'll be in touch with him right away when I have time. Wei Dahai said.

"Okay, I'll wait for your call, and let me know as soon as there is news. Li Jinghe said.

"I'll call him in a moment, and you wait for my call. Wei Dahai said.

After a while, Wei Dahai called, and he had already told Xu Feng that he would wait for them at home tomorrow night, and at first Xu Feng said that there was no need, don't take this little thing to heart, and repeatedly explained that this was the Li family's heart, and he agreed.

"You go with me tomorrow, after all, there is such a relationship, it is inevitable that it will be a little awkward to meet, you can go with us and have something to say, otherwise you will feel embarrassed. Li Jinghe said.

"Okay, tomorrow I will go to serve you, and I am very happy to be reconciled, and I will not be sorry for that. Wei Dahai said.

"Oh. Li Jinghe said.

He agreed. Yuan Yuan said.

"Yes, it will be more convenient to go to Xu Feng's house tomorrow night, and it will be more convenient for the sea to accompany us. Li Jinghe said.

"This is the best, if you encounter an embarrassing situation, he can also say a word at that time, no matter what, as long as you can achieve your goal, it doesn't matter if you are wronged, whoever makes him your savior, it is not too much. Yuan Yuan said.

"The sea has always had a good relationship with him, and he doesn't embarrass us. Li Jinghe said. (To be continued......)