"Xu Feng, are you stupid, don't drill the horns, feelings are not something you can get if you want to, every qiē depends on whether you have fate, you will naturally be together if you have fate, you will naturally be together if you don't have fate, even if you work hard, it's in vain. Li Yan said.

"Have you ever fallen out of love. Xu Feng suddenly said this.

"This hasn't happened, except for the daughter-in-law who hasn't been in contact with other women, I think but there is no Yanfu. Li Yan said with a smile.

"Then you are the happiest person. Xu Feng said.

Back to the branch, Li Yan and Xu Feng chatted alone for a long time, and he said a lot of sincere words, falling out of love is not painful, in fact, it is normal to fall out of love, if there is no sadness in falling out of love, there is probably no taste in love, when you fall out of love, there will be a kind of regret, there is a sense of loss, thinking that the grapes in your hand will be lost, but because of the loss of this bunch of grapes, you will find better grapes on the way forward. Others are waiting for her to change her mind, hoping that one day she will come back to her side, but that day may never come, and they will finally watch her and another person go.

Some people will say I love you and hope that her person will be happy, but she may think that leaving you is also a kind of happiness, at this time you may have doubts in your heart, thinking back to the sweet words you used to be together, thinking that she once said to you that you are the happiest person in the world, but that was in the past, not representing her current thoughts.

You think she is cheating on you all the time, cheating on your feelings, in fact, she has always been very loyal to you, when she loved you, she was with you, and now she doesn't love you, she is gone, there is no greater loyalty in the world. If she no longer loves you, but still pretends to be very affectionate to you, and even marries you and has children, that is the real deception. Some people will think that all the feelings they have invested are in vain, but in fact no, your feelings are never wasted, and there is no question of compensation at all, because when you give your feelings, she also gives you feelings, and when you give her happiness, she also gives you happiness.

Love is a right, it is your right to love her, but it is her right to love you or not, and you want to deprive others of the freedom to exercise their rights when you exercise your rights, this is unfair to love, it is a great selfish act, and it is also a blasphemy against love, you may feel pain for her, pain for her? Her life may be very good, it is better to say that you are suffering for yourself, obviously for yourself, but still under the banner of love, this is also a blasphemy of love, sometimes people will make mistakes at the beginning, if you can bring her happiness, she will not leave your life, know that no one will run away from happiness.

Some people want to be abandoned, feel very inferior and helpless, at this time you can only have pride, not inferiority complex, to remember that being abandoned is not bad, for example, someone in the store to see a set of noble suits, can be described as love, the salesman asked him if he wanted, he said the texture is too poor don't, in fact, he has no money in his pocket, you are this abandoned suit. Time is the greatest mentor of man, countless people who have been tormented by broken love, it is time that has helped to heal the wounds of their hearts, and re-chose the lover of their dreams, and finally they all enjoyed the joy of the world that should belong to them.

In fact, you should thank the person who abandoned you and bless her, because her abandonment makes you understand what kind of person you are worthy of love and how to cherish the person you really love. Because of the harm she does to you, you will be more mature, because she gives you a loyalty, gives you a new opportunity to find happiness, people in love have to go through many love journeys, and there are many ways to express love. However, no matter what kind of love, missing is one of the beautiful and warm scenes, even if it is a couple or marriage partner who has been in love for many years, when the two parties are not together, they may wish to miss each other more, and pass on care, love and warmth to each other, so that the garden of love is full of flowers.

Love is undoubtedly a surprise and pleasure for everyone, people in love will feel the scene of grass dancing and stream singing, the sky is bluer because of love, and the water is sweet because of love. But at the same time, love is also a hardship, as people often compare, love is like looking for a black cat in a dark room, often not found. Some people have the intention to plant flowers and flowers, some people have no place to find them when they step on iron shoes, some people look for her but can't find her, and some people are ecstatic but find it plausible. Love is so hard that one can say that God rewards hard work, but love is often an exception. The first psychological preparation you need to make when you enter the world of love is to embrace love with a long vision and be ready to accept the test.

Broken love is the interruption of the love process, is frustration and loss, objectively the expression of broken love is the separation from the person in love, subjectively the lovelorn is sad, melancholy and even despair and other traumatic emotional experiences, in action often expressed as indifference, depression, irritability, evasion or attack, strict zhòng hurting others, self-harm or suicide. The blow of falling out of love is that one is to passively give up on the person who loves it, and the other is to hurt one's self-esteem. Giving up the object of one's love is pain and misfortune, but living with someone you don't love for a lifetime can only be a disaster, and if you can't be happy with each other, breaking up is luck in itself. Even if you think that love is a failure, it is only an emotional frustration, not a failure in life, more importantly, love is a purely personal psychological emotion, which has almost nothing to do with people's self-esteem, love is an emotional experience, self-esteem is a value experience, and the two are not on the same platform at all.

Lovelorns were originally in pursuit of beautiful love, but in the end they were bound by love, and every time because of pain and give up their responsibilities to themselves, some lovelorns are depressed, decadent and negative, because of lovelorn and lost their enthusiasm for life, but they don't know that although love is an important aspect of life, but not all. At the same time, love is the behavior of two people, each of whom has a moral responsibility to each other, the lover cannot be forced, not entangled, and the refuser cannot ignore the other person's feelings and be rude or even rough. It is also important that everyone's life not only belongs to themselves, but also to their own family and society, in order to grow up, parents work hard, teachers carefully cultivate, and society fully supports, all of which need to be reciprocated wholeheartedly.