"But my heart can't bear it, we have loved each other for many years, and it is cruel to disappear in the blink of an eye, God is too unfair to me, and he is deliberately playing tricks on me. Xu Feng said.

"People don't love you anymore, you're just wishful thinking, it can be said that you are self-inflicted, and unrequited love kills people. Li Yan said.

As the saying goes, if you have a fate to meet thousands of miles away, you don't know each other if you don't know each other, it's not that you can't run away, it's not that you can't get it, it's useless if it's not your forcible request, and what you force to come will only hurt yourself deeper. Don't think about it in the past and in the future, think about your future and take a good look at yourself, so the hard road has not come the same, and the road in the future can also pass, as long as you don't give up on yourself, a qiē will be fine, don't die to drill a thing, see that the heart is very relaxed.

Xu Feng lit a cigarette, his brows were furrowed, his face was full of pain, the days of falling in love with Yuan Yuan were his best times, he felt extremely happy at that time, it was the happiest moment in his life, and he couldn't let go of disappearing in the blink of an eye, especially when he heard that Yuan Yuan was getting along with another man, thinking of the two of them, and the affection between me and me, his brain was very chaotic, and he felt even more uncontrollable.

"Life is originally very dull, real love is not together, no matter whose love the result is, it just depends on how you run in and face it, not the kind of dead and alive love in bubble dramas, Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are just a legend of love, are you watching too many idol dramas or romance novels, if you care about this kind of thing, it will seem that you are very unattractive, a big man should be able to afford to put it down, not like you are obsessed and in a daze. Li Yan said.

Seeing Xu Feng's expression in a daze, Li Yan was very angry, enlightened for a long time as if he didn't say anything, it was really incorrigible, although he was pretending to be a woman in his heart, it was difficult to accept it, and people could understand it, after all, it was just the past, as a man, you can't be trapped in emotions, otherwise it will ruin your life, poured a cup of cold water and splashed it on Xu Feng's face, he was clever all of a sudden.

"Sue you Xu Feng, give me a job immediately, I don't need a cowardly man like you here, but a real man, where to fall down and get up, otherwise you will achieve nothing, cheer up and be a big man." Li Yan said loudly.

This cup of cold water made Xu Feng a little sober, he was a little excessive, Li Yan talked to him for so long, but he still didn't turn the corner, he was trapped in emotion and couldn't pull it out, so that he was obsessed, Li Yan said it well, when a relationship comes to an end, you have to let go even if you can't let it go, because it's a matter of two people, not one person can decide, and you can only hurt yourself by holding on to it in the end. Feelings can't be sought, it's destined by God, it's the fate of the previous life, and it's not okay to not believe in some things. So when love comes, love happily, and walk away frankly if you don't love, so that each other remembers that you once loved, and there is no need to torture yourself so much.

"Manager Li, I was wrong, I shouldn't treat myself like this. Xu Feng said.

"You are a selfish behavior, no matter what you did before, she must have a reason for leaving you, she has the right to choose love, who to fall in love with is her freedom, not imposed on a certain person, if you change you, it is you who abandoned her, have you ever thought about her feelings, so you can't be too selfish, think about yourself and others at the same time, including love, this is the code of life. Li Yan said.

Xu Feng looked at Li Yan, although his words were very mean, but they were very reasonable, not to mention that he was sorry for Yuan Yuan, there was no reason to complain about her, he should secretly bless her.

"If you are a man, you should not be bound by the personal feelings of your children, and men are very unproductive like that. Li Yan said.

It's easier said than done, but it's not impossible to achieve, first of all, you have to meditate on yourself, know yourself very well, and then try to forget about it, do what you like, try to let other girls into your heart, men don't want women is nonsense. But to be domineering, to be ruthless to yourself, to forget jì, you must forget jì, a happy life is the right way, there is always a distance that is difficult to cross between the ideal and the reality in life, romantic love and cruel reality are always difficult to reconcile, as long as the youth is shining with brilliance, there will be a beautiful love coming. As long as you don't lose your enthusiasm, you will have the hope of happiness, go with the flow, don't go around yourself into a dead end, emotional things, think in a bright direction, go through twists and turns and hesitation, only then do you know what you want and how to choose. Thinking in the direction of reality, we must also learn to be able to afford to put it down, devote ourselves seriously when we have a fate, and turn around gracefully when we don't. The choice of different periods of life is different, in the big stage of life, you must play your own role, you must be worthy of yourself and others, you must insist on love, if you really have no love, you must give up decisively.

"I now fully understand that I will deeply reflect on my past, and I am very grateful for your sincere words, otherwise I will still fall into the strange circle of feelings. Xu Feng said.

"What I said just now was a bit excessive, but your expression worries me, I can still do a good job that way, I have to say something radical, and I hope you can understand. Li Yan said. A person's mind determines the height of his life. What kind of mind a person has in the world directly determines what kind of life he has. The world is as big as the heart. If you can't break the barriers in your heart, you won't find a sense of freedom even if you are given the whole world. Only by maximizing one's mind can a person see more and more wonderful things and gain more beauty than others.

"Your words are sincere, they are of great benefit to me, and I have a great understanding, please rest assured that I will take good control of myself and will not affect my work because of this. Xu Feng said.

"You are not in a good mood, it is about to be lunch time, take a good rest at noon, recuperate, start work in the afternoon, you can also take two days off and come back to work to relieve your depressed mood. Li Yan said.

"No, I'm on duty at noon, you're working hard these days, and it's not interesting to stay at home, it's better to have a good time." Xu Feng said.

After lunch, at Xu Feng's repeated insistence, Li Yan agreed to let him be on duty at noon, so that he could have a good chat, save him from thinking about nothing, and tell him not to have psychological baggage, and to do his job well.