"You used to be a little too arrogant, always self-righteous, and didn't take others seriously, so you will suffer a big loss sooner or later. Malan said.

"My sister-in-law is right, it's better to be a little more restrained, and you must not be too rampant. Chen Zihao said.

You have to leave some leeway in everything you do, so that you can turn around calmly, and you can't say anything or do everything. Don't forget to leave a step for people when you refuse, a little more love in your heart, a little more surprise in life, and everything is only seven or eight points away from good fun. The mouth is stubble, it is not necessarily a good thing, black is black, white is white, hard arguments will only make people. Keeping some words is a strategy and a realm. Laughing and scolding leisurely, speaking tactfully, not tearing down the stage and not revealing the shortcomings. Don't be quick with your tongue for a while, a beast can't speak if he has a long tongue, and a man can't say it if he has a short tongue. It is best not to use disgusting sarcasm, not only to bend and stretch, but also to know when to bend and when to extend, and cultivated people will not talk about themselves casually.

You can't be too arrogant, and you can't be too sharp at any time. Pride falls at the threshold, modesty travels all over the world, and words are worth a thousand gold, arrogance loses life, Sensei throws himself into stone, Hugh compares others to thatch. You can't make enough money at one time to do business, you must distinguish which is more important than sesame and watermelon, greed is endless, don't indulge, always think about the interests of others first, and you can't make a big deal by eating alone. Don't be in the limelight and don't be too eye-catching, otherwise you will easily become the target of public criticism. No one likes to be pointed at him, so he should be good at hiding and waiting for the opportunity. It's not wrong to show yourself, the key is to have a degree, it is stupid to deliberately express yourself, remember not to be humorous, and don't look for other people's shortcomings in order to show off your strengths.

Give people face, you will have face, give face to people is to give people a generous gift, to give convenience to people is to give convenience to yourself, don't embarrass others, just point to the end. It is better to block people's financial roads than to make their own financial roads, and blocking people's financial roads is like cutting off people's lives. Don't go all the way to the dark, win yourself, and let others win. Don't go too far in everything, it's no good, moderation is a kind of wisdom, forcing people to keep is a stupid lose-lose behavior, don't torture yourself with high standards. Don't embarrass others. Think more for others and do more smart things. Politeness ensures that you are safe and try to understand others as much as possible without scolding. It is necessary to suppress the self-centered tendency, plant what causes, reap what results, think more about the other party, and do not be stubborn.

It is a good thing to have a long-term vision, and those who can suffer losses will not suffer big losses after all. Suffering is a blessing, hello. I am good, so that we can be good together, speculating in business, always making less and losing more. Don't look at the high hands and low hands, fall on the heels and don't know it, and start with small things with your eyes downward. Don't work small, people who are good at arranging will never shout busy. It may not be really wise, it is more beneficial to be confused, don't be too smart, hide your edge. Qian Jin is not wrong at all, the truth is important, but not everything has to be clarified.

The pursuit of perfection should also pay attention to a degree, perfect people can not be found, grasp the existing happiness, life will be satisfied. Unhappiness is often led by the demand for perfection, and the true color is the most beautiful. You don't need to embellish too much, and doing your best is a state of perfection. The truth is sometimes not affirmed, the straight temper is unacceptable, and the life and work must not be based on selfish interests. Don't be too yourself, everyone can do wrong things, and you can't carry the burden of the soul on the road of life. Everyone fails, the difference is the attitude towards failure, and guilt itself does not change anything. Die to save face and suffer sin, don't pretend to be big for the sake of face, it is a pain to live in the standards and eyes of others.

Don't let forgiveness and forbearance turn into indulgence and cowardice, don't be a weak and deceitful person, forbearance and forgiveness must grasp a certain limit, low-key is by no means a sign of cowardice. Don't get into the problem of putting on a shelf, put down the shelf, start from the basics, and it's easier to get things done with a low profile. A humble posture will make people go along with all the courts, and the bigger the shelf, the lower the level. When the time is not right, don't be too arrogant, when the time is not ripe, you must learn to swallow your anger, when the hair is not abundant, you must know how to give in, and you can't reach it quickly. Don't worry too much about personal gains and losses, don't work just for salary, people and me benefit both, righteousness and profit are mutually beneficial, and suffering losses is taking advantage. If you want others to respect you, first of all, you have to respect others, respect each other's self-esteem, always pay attention to respect for others and speak politely, and respect others to win success.

Letting go of others is equivalent to letting go of oneself, and gratitude and generosity will make people awe-inspired. It is not easy to be friends with people who have hurt themselves, love and forgiveness are the best commemoration of relatives and friends, tolerance of others is tolerance of oneself, and tolerance of people's faults. Pay attention to the way you do things, the effect may be better, beat around the bush and say what you don't want, don't do to others, don't get too drilly, and euphemistic refusal can often receive better results. Don't be too domineering, don't impose your will on others, give others the right to choose, don't deliberately expose other people's scars, expose people's old scars, hurt others and harm yourself, empathetic people will get the love of others, don't grasp the past problems and don't let go.

Greed often causes people to bury themselves, and insatiable greed often makes people lose their sober minds, and they are busy and busy, but they only fight for a coffin. Asking too much can lead to trouble, greed often makes you dig traps for yourself, just eat enough, eat too much often hurt yourself. If you change your thinking, it will be another world, and if you attack hard, you will do bad things, and you will often do stupid things. Pay attention to life, you will become smarter, know how to be flexible, have better results, don't let pickiness delay your life. Don't overestimate yourself in what you do, be arrogant, lose your life and lose your life, it's not difficult to know your opponent, it's difficult to know your confidant. Overconfidence is also a misfortune, the way of the emperor, knowing people as virtuous, self-knowledge as knowledge, and people who know themselves will not lead troops but can control generals.

Don't blow the cowhide out, self-righteousness is often self-defeating. You can't do great things by playing with flowers, and you can't do anything big with real skills. Don't be too good at talking, be careful of scaring others, pay attention to the right sense of proportion when speaking, being overly respectful is equal to warning, compliments are appropriate, and everyone loves to listen. Don't make meaningless arguments, complain again and again, and make people unbearable. It's better to be a little more restrained, low-key is the best coat for the strong, grow silently like a mushroom, don't hold yourself too high.

"There are three realms of life. Pan Xueliang said.

One is the mountain and the water, the second is the mountain, the second is the mountain, the third is the mountain and the water. Mountains and water are pure and flawless at the beginning of life, and the eyes are what they are, and what people tell them is what they are. It is the mountain, it is the water that people have reached middle age, experienced life, know the difficulties, feel that the world is becoming more and more complicated, often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, and they always think that the mountain is not a simple mountain, and the water is not a simple water. People will look at the mountain high, rack their brains, calculate their scheming, and keep climbing, but in the end they find that they have not reached their ideals, and they hold a grudge for life. It is the mountain, it is the water refers to the fact that some people will concentrate on doing what they should do through cultivation, and do not have any concerns with others, it is the nature of human beings, there is no need to deliberately be a human being, the world is the world, and there is no need to be meticulous in dealing with the world. This is the real way to be a person and to live in the world.

"If you want to enter a door, you have to make your head shorter than the door frame, and if you want to climb the peak of success, you have to bend down and prepare. Chen Zihao said.

Low-key is a realm, a kind of bearing, low-key is a kind of mind, a kind of attitude. Low-key people are able to respect other people's different thoughts, speeches and behaviors, respect other people's choices, and give others the right to think freely and live. Low-key people can recognize the meaning and role of others, and can be understood and accepted by others, which is also accepted by the collective. Low-key people can just determine their own goals and principles of life, strive to explore their own potential, try to infect others with their optimism, and win everyone's love and recognition.

Low-key is a kind of cultivation, a kind of realization, self-restraint in dealing with others, when they are in a disadvantageous position, or when they are in danger, they may as well take a step back, which can not only avoid their edge and get out of the predicament, but also find another path and regain the initiative. When stretching out a favorable shape, it is even more important to lower your posture and be cautious.

Low-key can win more friends, in the relationship, anyone hopes to get the affirmative evaluation of others, are unconsciously and strongly maintaining their own image and dignity. If the opponent of his conversation shows too much superiority, then it is an invisible challenge and contempt for his self-esteem and self-confidence, and he is unwilling to associate with him. If you keep a low profile, restrain your edge, and keep your head down, others will not think that you pose a threat to him, and you can create a relaxed and harmonious interpersonal relationship, so that the other party can win self-esteem, so as to gain the admiration and recognition of others. In real life, there are many people who run into walls everywhere because they are young and vigorous, and they love to be in the limelight.

No matter how high a person's status is, how powerful his identity is, how powerful he is, and how rich his wealth is, he must be as restrained as ordinary people in dealing with people and things. The more people who get benefits, the more they must be humble, introverted, and learn to hide their edge, otherwise they will be injured by the dark arrows of jealousy. The original meaning of the edge is the tip of the sword, and the talent revealed in this metaphor is revealed. It is a good thing to have a sharp edge, it is the foundation of a successful career, it is necessary and natural to show it on the right occasion, but the edge can stab others, and it can also hurt yourself, so you should use it carefully, and you should usually insert it in the scabbard. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )