"There is a lot of weight in what you say, every sentence is the truth, it can be said that a word is worth a thousand gold, how can it be like you speak without a little stock." Malan said.

"To be with you is to be a long learner, although I am older than you, but my behavior and deeds are not as good as you, I am really ashamed." Shan Baocai said.

"So you have to learn from them well, so that you can make a difference, otherwise you won't have a big future, you will be full of swear words all day long, scolding people without leaving your mouth, like a second-rate child, and when the time comes, the children will be you, saying that you don't have a vegetarian zhì." Malan said.

"I'm *** just this temper, no problem." Shan Baocai said.

"This is coming without saying anything, I can accept it, and others can bear it." Malan said.

"To be honest, honest and trustworthy, to do things, to work hard, to earn money, to live happily, to be a man to keep to oneself, to do things worthy of one's conscience, clear conscience, so that a man is a man." Chen Zihao said.

"Don't worry about everything, both destroy the situation and damage interpersonal relationships, avoid useless disputes with others that raise the bar and fight for the wind, hurt others and are not beneficial to yourself, don't be rash, hot-headed and easy to cause trouble, don't be reckless and competitive, excessive swagger will only make people disgusted, proud and forgetful, keep a sober and rational mind, dare to suffer small losses, recognize that only by suffering small losses can you have the opportunity to take advantage of big advantages." Pan Xueliang said.

"He's just a hot temper, and he can't control anything at all, so he can't change it." Malan said.

"The most level of dealing with things, say things slowly, say big things clearly, say things humorously, say things cautiously if you are not sure, don't talk nonsense about things that don't happen, don't talk nonsense about things that can't be done, don't say things that hurt people, don't say things that you hate, say things that you don't want to say to people, say things that are happy, don't say things when you see people, and say things carefully about others. Listen to what your heart has to say. Chen Zihao said.

"You don't have to say everything to know people, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some morality with yourself. You don't have to be harsh on others, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some belly for yourself. Talent does not have to be arrogant, leave three points of leeway with people. Leave some connotation with yourself. The edge does not have to be exposed, leaving three points of leeway with people. Leave some depth with yourself. There is no need to invite all the merits, leave three points of room with others, and leave some humility to yourself. You don't have to snatch it all, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some forgiveness with yourself. Pan Xueliang said.

"I have indeed seen a lot in the past two days, and I have also been blessed by misfortune, if it weren't for this matter, how would I have met you." Shan Baocai said.

After drinking and eating, people sent Xu Feng back to the ward. After greeting for a while, he went back and sent Chen Zihao away, only Xu Feng and Yu Jinrong were left in the room, and after washing, it was still early, and it was not yet time for the doctor's rounds, so the two chatted again. The topic naturally talked about love.

"We've talked a lot in the past two days, why haven't I heard of your personal problems, I don't know what your one does." Xu Feng said.

Hearing Xu Feng's question, Yu Jinrong's face suddenly became gloomy, his face was very bad, and Xu Feng felt that he shouldn't ask this. There must be something in this, it poked her in the sore spot, and I feel very embarrassed.

"I'm sorry I shouldn't have asked about it, it hurt your heart." Xu Feng said.

"Actually, it's nothing, it's all in the past." Yu Jinrong said.

"If you can't say it, then don't say it. Let's talk about something happy. Xu Feng said.

"I also had my first love." Yu Jinrong said.

"Finally broke up?" Xu Feng asked.

"Yes, but that was a few years ago." Yu Jinrong nodded and said.

When he was in high school, the boy Gao Fuyou kept pursuing her, and he felt that he was still young, so he didn't promise him, but he was very persistent and always chased after him. After some consideration, the year of graduation, I finally accepted his love, and the two became lovers. Later, he was admitted to college, she was admitted to nursing school, and the two remained in a relationship. After graduating, Gao Fuyou was admitted to the civil service and was assigned to work in the government department, but after graduating from nursing school, she couldn't find a job, so she had to work as a nurse. His parents thought she didn't have a job, felt that it was a bit embarrassing to be a nurse, and disagreed with their marriage, and finally forced each other to die, and there was no way to just break up.

"Then you can't break up lightly, explain that your parents will agree." Xu Feng said.

"Actually, it's just an excuse, and gradually I got a good job." Yu Jinrong said.

"How is he now?" Xu Feng asked.

"After the breakup, we didn't see each other again, and the first days were really sad, scolding him for being a negative man and deceiving my feelings, but as time went by, I gradually forgot about it." Yu Jinrong said.

When Xu Feng heard her say this, he couldn't help but think of him and Yuan Yuan, and remembered the relationship between the two in the past, Yu Jinrong had the same experience as him, if Yuan Yuan's mother didn't agree and blocked it, he wouldn't have given Li Jinghe a chance, but he fell into his trap, so that they had to break up, and he couldn't help but sigh when he thought of this.

"What's wrong?" Yu Jinrong said.

"Nothing." Xu Feng said.

"There's nothing to sigh for, have you also had such an experience, you might as well say it, then your heart will be happier." Yu Jinrong said.

Hearing her say this, Xu Feng's heart was aroused even more, so he told him and Yuan Yuan's experience, Yu Jinrong glanced at it, he didn't expect that he also had such an experience, even more cruel than her, he was plotted by his rival in love, and almost lost his life.

"Whenever I sit in front of the window and look back, I can still feel the pain of the day of the breakup, and I ask myself countless times in the days that follow, why? It's not that I can't bear the hurt, it's not that I don't want to accept the reality, I'm just thinking, in that case, why bother in the first place? If you know that the ending is miserable, why do you pay so much at the beginning? More made me finally surrender, more made me think that the vicissitudes of life were true, more made me at a loss when the result came, and I didn't want to believe that the love that made me unforgettable was just for a gamble, the process was too good, I would rather think that there must be a helpless reason. Xu Feng said.

"This kind of ending is unbearable, and after we broke up, we were indeed sad for a long time." Yu Jinrong's eyes turned red as he spoke, and he missed his first love very much.

"Maybe it's because I'm deliberate, or because it's true, this past has always played out in my dreams over and over again, so that to this day, not only has it not been diluted, but it has surfaced in my heart more clearly again and again. Everything and everyone related to her touches my heart like peach blossom petals in the wind. Xu Feng said.

"But you can't always think about her, after all, it has become an unchangeable fact, and the road ahead will continue." Yu Jinrong said.

"Of course I know that the old things have long been the way, and even if I don't want to, she has changed. Maybe you can only use fate to explain everything, acquaintance is fate, however, fate is too shallow after all, so breaking up is inevitable. There is a hand in the darkness that has already set a qiē, when is tenderness and sweetness, where to part, when you are not ready, God will not send the person you love the most to you. The purpose of breaking up is to give the person who really loves you the most a chance to love you for the rest of your life. In this way, there is no right or wrong. Xu Feng said.

"I admire your open-mindedness very much, Li Jinghe will forgive him to you like that, if I absolutely can't, I won't forgive him no matter what." Yu Jinrong said.

"This is also for Yuan Yuan, as long as she lives happily, I can accept how much I am hurt." Xu Feng said.

Life is full of joys and sorrows, and it is not called life without the feeling of ups and downs. Perhaps everyone often wonders, what is the purpose of human life? Is it for money, or for power? Is it to work all day long, or to eat, drink, and be merry, doing nothing all day? In the journey of life, I believe that everyone hopes that they can be successful, including love, but they will taste the ups and downs. When interpreting success, we will think about where the door to success is. It has been said that life is a battle. It has been said that life is a game. In fact, life is not a kind of waiting, waiting for maybe an ecstasy of an old friend's encounter, maybe an inexplicable sadness of sitting alone in the dusk, maybe nothing. The ups and downs of life need to be tasted and tasted again and again. Please slow down, return to the pure world, to feel the flutter of the heart, to taste the ups and downs, intoxicated by the story described in words, is the emotion released by music, let the light of thought carve your life, let the beautiful melody of youth, ignite a new dream.

"We survived, destined to experience worldly prejudices, but in the twists and turns revealed strength, and when our minds were not fully mature, we went to society. In this ever-changing world, in an unfamiliar city, our souls wander. Always get up again after falling, pat the dust off your body, and continue to walk forward. The uncertainty of the future makes us want to give up this journey, but strong perseverance and faith will still make us endure the bitterness and continue to trek, no matter how muddy the swamp ahead. Yu Jinrong said.

"Only in survival can people truly understand the hardships of life, and in the face of this complex society, we maybe

There will be bleeding in the nose, tears in the eyes, but the head of self-esteem will not be lowered, life is tortuous, it is bumpy, but what can that say, strong people will always live in a tired, but this is a kind of exhaustion in the full, not a reason to complain. Because this is life, survival zài in this society, life is this taste, sour, sweet, bitter, spicy. Xu Feng said. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )