Chapter 995: The Iron Rice Bowl No Longer Exists

"What's the matter with trustworthiness, until now, the wine and food have not come up, even if you buy them on the street. Pen, fun, and pavilion www.biquge.info," Wei Dahai said.

"Don't worry, we can stay a little longer, otherwise where will we find such a quiet opportunity." Li Moran said.

"He's just such a temper, he can't drink and is in a hurry. Xu Feng smiled and said, "Don't work hard to drink today, try to find wine tomorrow." ”

"You're not in a hurry, what are you doing without eating or drinking, and you won't call it back if you wait stupidly. Wei Dahai said.

"This is also a dish, called chatting dishes. Li Moran said with a smile.

"This dish is good, it can bring us closer to the leader. Chen Zihao said.

"In the workplace, communication between colleagues is often limited by the time limit of work, etc. "Therefore, going to lunch or dinner together is a very good opportunity to communicate, in this relatively relaxed atmosphere, you can relax your tense nerves, say something light, deepen the understanding between colleagues, and thus improve the relationship." ”

"Colleague distance is the appropriate relationship between colleagues in the office, and it is necessary to follow the principles of sincerity and friendliness when getting along with colleagues, and appropriately maintain the distance between colleagues, and distinguish the relationship between work partners and friendship. Chen Zihao said.

"Be sincere from the heart, talk to people sincerely, listen to each other sincerely, don't dodge and wander your eyes when talking, look at each other's eyes sincerely, the other party should have an expression on your face when you speak, show concern when you should care, nod your head to affirm or approve when you should agree, congratulate you when you should be happy, in short, make people feel that you are communicating with people very carefully, don't be too flattering when you speak, don't be too formulaic, make people feel that you are hypocritical and unreal, praise others, Concern comes from the heart. Li Moran said.

"That's right, in the process of getting along, we must be sincere to everyone, we must be tolerant to everyone, and we must be enthusiastic to help everyone, whether this person is a leader or a common people, whether it is better with you or a misunderstanding with you, you should be fair, look at people with a fair yardstick, and do things. Zhang Jian said.

"You have to have the courage to admit what you have done wrong, don't pass the buck to others, many things are not a big deal, as long as you are honest, no one will blame you too much, even if others have a misunderstanding with you, or others have done something that is not good for us, but that is the past, should not affect the present, should not affect the principle of our work, we should also talk about things, treat everything and everyone fairly, so that everyone will think that you are very fair, if you really have any negligence in dealing with something, If you don't think it through, everyone will understand you, think that you are ignoring and forgive you, and will not think that you are deliberate, on the contrary, some people are always calculating, always picking on others, and have emotions when dealing with problems, and are not tolerant and forgiving others, then others will not forgive you when you have mistakes, or also deal with problems with emotions, which will bring a lot of unhappiness to yourself. Li Moran said.

"Deceit and hypocritical perfunctory deception are both blasphemy against colleague relationships, sincerity is not written on the face, but from the heart, and the disguised sincerity is more annoying than the real deception. Xu Feng said: "There is a way to love others, people always love them, respect people, people always respect them, no one will accept us for no reason, like us, others like us is often based on the premise that we like them and recognize their value." ”

"In short, you should work hard to create a harmonious environment, your personal external environment is harmonious, there are many people who are willing to help you give you ideas when there are problems in your work, your external evaluation is good, the aura around you is harmonious, and all aspects of your life and work will be more and more smooth. Li Moran said.

"In fact, in order for everyone to be successful, it is not enough to have a strong work ability, you have to walk on two legs, not only to try to do your job well, but also to deal with interpersonal relationships. Zhang Jian said.

"The cultivation of personality is the basis for improving the effectiveness of communication, and it is also the key factor in interpersonal relationships, to put life in the first place, good character colleagues, we are willing to interact with it, itself produces attraction, centripetal force, conducive to cooperation and cooperation, pay love and helpfulness is the most important interpersonal behavior to shape the personality, to remember a truth, to help others is to help yourself, and gradually form your own principles, there is a sentence to remember, what can I do for you? This is the mystery of establishing a good interpersonal relationship. Li Moran said.

"Honesty and sincerity are important foundations for building good interpersonal relationships, and being able to treat your colleagues without doubts and be honest with each other is a trustworthy magic weapon between colleagues. Xu Feng said.

"In real life, the iron rice bowl no longer exists, a person rarely in a unit for a lifetime, hang up a phone to a friend in his free time, write a letter, send an email, even if it is just a few words, friends will be grateful, to enter their own circle of friends to often contact, a phone call, a greeting to close the heart of a friend, such a kind friend, when a good opportunity can not take care of you first, so, success belongs to those who act immediately. Zhang Jian said.

Chang Shouxin brought people up the wine and food, poured wine for the people present, and said: "I'm sorry, I have made you wait for a long time, please forgive me." ”

"It's okay, it's not a big deal anyway, everyone can just talk. Li Moran said with a smile.

"Since you know that the leader is coming, the director is not quick, you can't let the leader wait, you can't do your business yet, you won't do this little thing. Wei Dahai said.

"The leader is here, and we haven't prepared a sumptuous point, so that the leader can eat and drink well. Chang Shouxin said.

"I've told you a long time ago that I can't do this thing. Wei Dahai said.

"You come to take care of the fart in the morning, this is to entertain the leader, I can't remember your time. Xu Feng said.

"He's idle, he's looking for trouble, don't bother with him. Chang Shouxin said with a smile.

"If you do this again, you won't let him come in the future. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile.

"Then I don't dare, don't scold me behind my back. Chang Shouxin said.

"If you know this, if you don't have me, your barbecue square can still open, you have to have me. Wei Dahai said.

"I really take myself seriously, you must know that it is not bad without you, and many things are all mixed up by you. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"No way, I did something wrong. Wei Dahai said.

"Everyone knows this in their hearts, at least how much money will be spent on wine. Xu Feng said.

"Isn't it just to drink some wine, look at the one who makes you feel distressed, the big boss of the people doesn't speak, you are still here to repay the grievances, as for it. Wei Dahai said.

"Not yet, if it goes on like this, my barbecue square will be closed. Chang Shouxin said.

"Be careful, isn't it just a few glasses of wine, as for me. Wei Dahai said with a smile.

"Don't talk nonsense, I don't have time to answer you now. Chang Shouxin raised his glass and said: "Leaders, welcome to patronize the shop, please forgive me for the inconsiderate hospitality, for this, I apologize for everyone with a glass of wine." ”

"It's so polite, everyone is not an outsider, everything is the best. Li Moran said.

"The sea, you see how generous the leader is, how much like you, it's okay to find fault and play. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"A leader is a leader, what am I afraid of as a little soldier, my heart is open, what to say. Wei Dahai said: "Buddies are still called buddies when they play with each other." ”

"There is a good saying, behind a successful man there must be a woman who silently supports and supports him. At the same time, I also think that there must be a handful of people who support him in front of a man, and that is buddies. Li Moran said. A buddy is a person who has something to say, doesn't play with his heart, and is as close as a brother. Buddy will scold you for being sexually and lightly friends when you are in love, and scold you for being like a man when you fall out of love. Buddy is the person who cheers you on and pulls you on when you encounter a setback, and the person who doesn't put a face on your thanks. A buddy is someone who takes the trouble to comfort you when you are discouraged until you are no longer sinking. Buddy is the person you think of when you are in a financial crisis, the person who gives you warmth when you are in the coldest time.

"I love to hear that. Wei Dahai said: "Buddy may be very tactful and treacherous to others, and he has exhausted his skills. But buddies will never be between buddies, buddies are the most straightforward and sincere, buddies can give you a punch and kick when your mind is not clear, but they will never push you into the water, plot against you, buddies can give you quarrels and anger, but they will never take revenge seriously and leave with their hands. One is one between buddies, and two is two, no cover-up, no cover-up, no false report. ”

"Stinky virtue, the leader praised you a few words and dragged it up, insulting Sven and insulting Sven. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"There is no need for anyone to pretend to be sheep, buddies get along most freely with each other, buddies can talk about anything together without having to retain gentlemanly manners, not at all like being with women, but also cautious, pretending to be civilized, for fear of saying indecent words. Wei Dahai said.

"You can't be like you, you can't talk nonsense, it's just nonsense. Xu Feng said.

"I don't know how to be boundary, I never speak outrageously. Wei Dahai said.

"Pull it down, there's not a word to the point. Xu Feng said.

"You're to the point. Wei Dahai said.

"That is, who is like you, talking is not welcome at all. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"You are all in a group, just me as an outsider, naturally I have to talk to him, yes, I can't be dumb when we meet in the future. Wei Dahai said with a smile.

"It's long overdue, there's no right way to talk nonsense, and it's not appropriate to ignore you, I'm afraid it will hurt your self-esteem. Chang Shouxin said.

"I don't have a little conscience, I won't play with you in the future, drink. Wei Dahai said. (To be continued.) )