Chapter 291: If you don't agree, you have to agree
In the evening, Liao Shulan came to Yuan Yuan's house and conveyed the opinions of Li Jinghe's parents, agreeing that the child would go out to live alone after getting married, the house had been bought, and was now preparing to decorate. After all, it is the marriage of the child, it is a lifelong event for them, and both parties are satisfied, Xing Yanfang was very happy to hear it, what else can she say if this condition is agreed, ten must be pro, she has no opinion on getting married on New Year's Day. During the chat, Xing Yanfang asked the address and area of the house, and learned that it was opposite his house, and couldn't help but pounce in his heart, and suddenly felt a little blocked in his heart, he didn't expect Li Youde to do this, the official's heart is too much, what really can't get around them, how can he buy the house opposite, it stands to reason that it is impossible, and it is impossible to be so coincidental, he must have heard that he went out to live alone after getting married, worried that it was too far away from them, and thought of buying the opposite house. Fools will understand what is going on, in fact, it is not to buy it at all, but to directly change the house.
Li Youde is the vice president of the court, powerful and powerful, who dares not to listen to his words, it is too late to convince him, he must be very willing to change rooms, but she is unwilling in her heart, it is just a door apart, what is the difference between this and living together, it is just living separately. It's better not to live elsewhere, now that the house has been replaced, what else can she say, and then she doesn't agree to appear that she is a little unreasonable, and intends to embarrass the man, but the practice makes her disgusted, obviously fighting with her, and she is speechless after knowing.
Liao Shulan seemed to see that she was a little unhappy, and said that the old lady really had a lot of things, and what a good thing it was for the two to get married, a solid and wealthy family. After getting married, you don't have to worry about eating and drinking. I also found a good job. It's hard to find a lantern, and it's a blessing for Yuan Yuan to find such a person, and she can't make excessive demands, if you annoy the old man, you don't care what you do, you can't be too harsh for the sake of the child, it's not good for everyone to be too stubborn.
"I think that's good. The two sides can take care of each other, especially after having a child, they can take care of it without going out, which is convenient for everyone, or the old man is thoughtful and can buy the house opposite, and only he can do it. Liao Shulan said.
"That's good." Xing Yanfang said with a wry smile that what else could she say, at that time, she proposed to go out to live alone, and did not ask where she had to buy a house. As a result, people have taken advantage of the loophole, and you can't say anything. What if you don't agree. If you have the ability to buy a house for your child, a sentence will be blocked, and this breath must be swallowed, and if you don't swallow, you have to swallow.
After Liao Shulan left, Xing Yanfang was so angry that she was panting, she was so bullying, how could she do things like this, in order to deal with her, she actually adopted this way to change the house opposite, obviously she didn't take her seriously, even if she had such an idea in her heart, she should discuss it with her, she is not an unreasonable person, and she will not refuse for the sake of the child.
"Okay, don't be angry anymore, now that we have a house, we can't say anything more. In fact, there is no need to mention the conditions for moving out, it is not good to live together, and the relationship will be easy to get along in the future. Yuan Weihua said.
"It's all because you don't have the ability, you don't have the right to ask for money or money, if you can buy a house for Yuan Yuan, why bother to be tricked by them, you can't say anything after you get things done, and you have to be angry." Xing Yanfang said with a sip of water.
"Okay, now that the game has been decided, and the children have no opinions, we can't interfere too much, it will seem that we have no measure." Yuan Weihua said.
"They have measurements, and they play with their hearts and minds in this kind of thing, and I can't stand it if you can stand it." Xing Yanfang said.
"Then what else can you do, we don't have that condition, we can't prevent them from getting married, for the sake of the children, we can't make any more demands, let alone make everyone unhappy." Yuan Weihua said.
At this time, Yuan Yuan came back and saw that her mother was unhappy, so she hurriedly asked what was going on, who was provoking her dear mother to be angry.
"Your mother is okay to find her own anger, and she loses her temper for a little thing, and it will pass later." Yuan Weihua said with a smile.
"Who else can it be, it's not because of his family's business, in order to deal with me, he actually changed the house to the opposite door, it's really angry to me." Xing Yanfang said.
Yuan Yuan was amused when she heard it, it turned out that it was for this matter, where she lived was not the same, there was no need to worry about this matter, Xing Yanfang glanced at her daughter, and said reproachfully: "Why is it that I am not married yet, so I talk to them, and I am still a mother in my heart." ”
"Mom, you will always be my good mother, although his family is not doing the right, there must be their reasons, let's tolerate each other a little, the matter will not pass, okay, you have to think about it, you don't have to take this matter to heart." Yuan Yuan said.
"The children have no opinions, let's not care too much about their affairs, as long as the two of them are happy, we can do anything." Yuan Weihua said.
"I'm afraid that Yuan Yuan will be angry in the future, there must be a lot of rules in the family of big cadres, and they won't be satisfied if they can't do anything, it's better to stay away from them, and it's okay to see no one, so it's not the same as living together, and this time I changed the house, I can see their scheming." Xing Yanfang said.
"You think too much, imagine others as too much, live at home, and don't hold a meeting for your subordinates, who has such big rules at home." Yuan Weihua said.
"Anyway, you have to be more attentive in the future, you can't listen to their family for everything, you must have the backbone, otherwise, you will be the one who will suffer in the end." Xing Yanfang said.
"Yuan Yuan, it's not early, hurry back to the room to rest, you can't delay going to work tomorrow." Yuan Weihua said.
"Don't worry, I know what to do." Yuan Yuan said and entered his room.
After Yuan Yuan left, Yuan Weihua felt that his wife's words were a bit excessive, since he became a family of children and daughters, he should live with one mind, and he couldn't have any ideas, so there would be an emotional estrangement, and both parties would not be happy, so he said: "You can't talk about this with your children, you can get married and become a family, what is the heart and not the heart, and live their life better than anything else." Yuan Weihua said.
"I will say these and muddy words, if the real big man arranges the affairs of his daughter, there is a job, a house and a car, we are also tough to speak, and we can make our own decisions about everything, why bother with this nest." Xing Yanfang was even more angry when she heard this.
complained that her husband was a good person, for the sake of the children's future life, she must not be good, she should have her own opinions, stand aside with herself, and help come up with ideas to find a way, sometimes it is not convenient for you to come forward alone. Especially Li Youde, he is in charge of everything in the family, and he has a lot of eyes as an official, knowing that what he is doing is not in line with his mind, he can't go to him in person, which makes it seem that she has a lot of things to do as a mother. It is not possible to rely on matchmakers to pass on the word, now it seems that Liao Shulan is not really talking to them, but deliberately favoring the man, as soon as she speaks for the man, take the matter of changing the house as an example, everyone will understand the man's thoughts, to say something unkind, this is to deliberately not let the mother's family have too much contact, afraid that she will be mixed with the family after marriage. Liao Shulan is a shrewd person, it is impossible not to see it, at this time she should say a word for her, since it is a change of house, it must be a house, Liao Shulan will not know, if it is for her, she should explain what she means, and live in the original house when she gets married. She repeatedly insisted that Li Youde had no choice, but she didn't do it, but said that it was good, it was all for the sake of the child's future, it was pure, why didn't she think about it for her. If the husband can succeed, he will be able to complete the circle with a complete life, and he will not have to throw his head away, and he will not suffer from this nest of gas.
At this time, Xing Yanfen called, Liao Shulan had just found her, and she had already said about the house, since there was no opinion, the child's matter should be decided, and on the eleventh day, Liao Shulan was the man's matchmaker, let her be the woman's matchmaker, and everyone had a meal together, which was more lively.
"I was still angry about the house just now, I couldn't say it in front of Liao Shulan, how could there be such a thing, I actually changed the house to the opposite door, obviously playing with my heart, which made me unhappy." Xing Yanfang told the house again.
"What about Yuan Yuan's opinion? What did she think? Xing Yanfen asked.
"The two of them are doing well now, what can she say." Xing Yanfang said.
"Since she has no opinion and the house is there again, we can't mix too much, after all, they live a lifetime, as long as they are satisfied." Xing Yanfen said.
"But the practice makes me feel blocked, at least you should discuss it with me and ask for my opinion, you can't make your own decisions, let the matchmaker pass the word, and force me to agree if I don't agree." Xing Yanfang said.
Liao Shulan was also a little slippery, she didn't explain things clearly at first, she just said that the house was bought, and she was preparing to decorate it now, and she was very happy to hear it, and finally asked the address to know that the house was opposite his house, and she suddenly understood what was going on, since the matter had been done, what else could she say, it was impossible to change the house back.
"Forget it, don't worry about these things for the sake of the children." Xing Yanfen said.
"It's also to blame your brother-in-law for not having the ability, if you arrange Yiqiē well, we don't have the final say in the matter, and the child is righteous in the in-law's house." Xing Yanfang said.
"My sister and Mrs. are good, although they don't have much ability, but they are honest and loyal to their families, and they are a person who can be trusted." Xing Yanfen said.
"But the child's affairs are difficult, in order to have a good life in the future, I have to pull down my old face and beg others like this, I feel a little ashamed." Xing Yanfang said.
"As the saying goes, go out and walk to see the direction of the wind, dress and eat and measure the belongings, let's just this condition, for the sake of the children is not low." Xing Yanfen said.
"Now it's only like this, and then what conditions are put forward to make it seem that I have a lot to do as a mother." Xing Yanfang said helplessly.
"The matter of marriage is settled, to be honest, the man's conditions are good, it is difficult to find such a family, even if there is dissatisfaction, we must restrain a little, so that everyone can be happy." Xing Yanfen said. (To be continued......)