"The difference of outstanding people, they have all encountered more unimaginable tribulations, but they all have a correct ideological outlook and values, always keep a clear head, no matter how big the turbulent waves, will strive to grasp their own direction of progress, so as to be invincible. Xu Feng said.

Everything in the world is relative, there are good and bad, there are advantages and disadvantages, and there must be a positive and a negative side to a thing, so if you want to reap, you are destined to pay. If you don't pay, don't blame yourself for not doing well, because this is something you master, and if you don't pay, don't blame yourself. It's the same with tribulation, it can give people blows, pain, it can also make people strive to mature. Since ancient times, there have been many hardships and hardships, and almost all outstanding figures in ancient and modern China and foreign countries have experienced setbacks and failures. It won't grow stronger without some wind and rain. Life is not the same, a smooth sailing life is like a glass of boiled water, there is no taste at all, and the ordinary life will only fade away with the passage of time. It is precisely those traces of suffering that remain in the depths of the soul that will never be erased, and what reason is there to complain about suffering, it is suffering that teaches people to never be discouraged after failure, to sum up the lessons, and to start all over again. It is the suffering that teaches rigor and pragmatism, strengthens perseverance, and moves step by step to the peak of life, and it is suffering that makes the soul stronger, makes the body stronger, and opens up a sky of its own while tempering.

"But I feel a little tired, it's better to be happy every day. Wei Dahai said.

"As long as the soul is satisfied and you do what you like, you should be happy with the people you like. Xu Feng said.

When a wish comes true, it should be happy, a person is working in the field, sweating profusely, but he feels very happy, he is happy. The other man was walking in the garden, but he felt that he was unhappy, and he was unhappy. In fact, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart. Life is like a blank slate. Describe your own destiny, since you have come and gone, it is better to let yourself live a meaningful life and do something you like. Let your life be full, live every day happily, and life can be beautiful.

"An ocean without waves is never a real ocean. A life without twists and turns is never a real life. Life is like a ship that sails far away. In the ocean of life, there are often unexpected twists and turns, and after each twist and turn, there will always be ripples. Enterprising people never complain, but take these twists and turns as a gas station on the road of their life, so that they can generate new and infinite motivation in the process of moving forward, and then throw off the big stride and continue to move forward. Pan Xueliang said.

"The mountains are no higher than the soles of the feet, the sea is wider than the navigation lights, and the face of a life full of thorns. Facing tribulations and failures. We should not be afraid and rise to the occasion in the face of difficulties, because tribulations are also a beautiful scenery in life. Life is full of contradictions, happiness and pain, happiness and sorrow, success and failure. We don't want hardships in the journey of life, and everyone wants the road of life to be free of thorns. There are no ups and downs, no failures and setbacks, but you can always have happiness and success. But did you ever think that suffering can temper people's will and enrich people's talents? Makes people strong. Xu Feng said.

In life, you not only need friends, but also opponents. Without friends, lonely, alone, life is lonely and boring. There is no opponent, and he sings a one-man show by himself. There is no way to stimulate the fighting spirit, it is difficult to tap the potential, and it is difficult to reach the height of one's life. Those who like to play chess must find an opponent of the same level in order to kill heartily, and those who love to play must find an opponent with comparable skills in order to have fun. Career needs more opponents, throughout the ages, all vigorous careers, impressive history, are the result of the fierce collision of powerful opponents, the process of mortals unimaginable.

In real life, whether you want it or not, life needs opponents, and a life without opponents is an incomplete life. Because the opponent can stimulate the sense of competition, make people unwilling to be mediocre, unwilling to lag behind, the opponent can spur people not to slack off, refuse to relax, and always forge ahead. Opponents can make people maintain a sense of crisis, always have worries, sublimate themselves in the fierce competition, and realize the value of life. If a person does not have an opponent, it is likely to be the beginning of backwardness, without an opponent, he will be arrogant, become a frog at the bottom of the well, no opponent will be happy, there is no tiger in the mountains, and the monkey is called the king. If there is no opponent, it will be short-sighted, and if there is no opponent, it will be stagnant, get by, and finally be abandoned by the times.

Therefore, if there is no opponent, you must take the initiative to find an opponent for yourself. You can find it around, you can find it thousands of miles away, you can find it among today's people, you can find it among the ancients, you can find it at home or abroad. It can be a real opponent or a virtual opponent. In the final analysis, it is to find a role model to catch up, to find a competitor, and to find a goal that can motivate you. First, you can find your own shortcomings, perceive your own gaps, and compare with him, you don't dare to slack off, and you have to be very energetic to face the battle. As soon as I think of him, I am full of energy to not admit defeat, and I am eager to compare with each other and win or lose. If you have such an opponent as a companion, you can establish a strong sense of opponent, always motivate and spur, and struggle for dozens of years, even if you can't become a great man and celebrity, you won't achieve nothing, even if you won't be famous in the world, you won't waste your life. In the continuous competition with opponents, they will grow and mature, become good and beautiful, and move towards the glory of their own lives.

"I understand all these truths, but when I get to myself, sometimes I can't turn the corner, as if I have fallen into a dead end, I can't figure it out, and I can't even sleep. Chang Shouxin said.

"If you want me to say that you think too much, the psychological burden is too heavy, there is no need to compete with yourself, this is not to get along with yourself, try not to have pressure to do things, the heart wants to open some, there is no use with pressure, the days still have to live, why not relax a little, and there is everyone's help, as the saying goes, three stinkers top a Zhuge Liang, the boat to the bridge is naturally straight, there must be a road before the car to the mountain, everything will be solved, don't be so worried. Wei Dahai said.

"You are not standing in his position, you must think about things a lot, so many people and things are not considered at all, his mood is understandable. In addition, there is a franchise store to open, which is also a new thing for us, without any experience, so I have to grope and take my time, I am a little worried in my heart, and I have no bottom in my heart, let alone him. Li Tiecheng said.

"Anyway, there is something going on, and there will be a solution after all, so if you want to open some, why do you always have trouble with yourself. Wei Dahai said.

"You don't have a backache when you stand and talk, you know how to eat with a big mouth, the barbecue square is also a group of dozens of people, what you say is good, there are thousands of family members, one person in charge, and he has to take care of a qiē thing, if you don't know how expensive firewood and rice are at home, it is impossible to have no pressure. How can it be like you, holding the country's money, and worrying about nothing. Xu Feng said.

"Who said that I don't worry, the barbecue square will affect my heart for a little thing. Wei Dahai said.

"That's right, how about you being a consultant. Li Tiecheng said.

Xu Feng's mobile phone rang, Yizihao's mobile phone number, and then connected the phone, and after learning that he was in the barbecue square, he told his second sister to come to check the work today, and asked him about it by the way, and he was relieved when he was discharged from the hospital, and President Shao was also very happy when he knew. Because the second sister can't go back on official business, she gathers together in the evening, one is to pay tribute to the leader, and the other is to congratulate him on his recovery and discharge, I want to invite everyone to a meal, Zhang Jianqian Xiaolong Qiu Weiqiang also participated, they are all old people in the office, plus they haven't gotten together for a few days, and the brothers still think strangely, just get together together.

"I'm at the barbecue square, you guys come together. Xu Feng said.

"Okay, let's go over later, and let Shouxin prepare a table. Chen Zihao said.

"Okay, I'll tell him in a while, don't worry, I promise to entertain you big leaders. Xu Feng said.

Xu Feng told Sù to be trustworthy and said, "Be trustworthy, Director Chen's second sister and several leaders of the branch came over and asked you to prepare." ”

"They came just because they couldn't ask for it, we must entertain them well, Tie Cheng, hurry up and arrange it. Chang Shouxin said.

"Order, I'll arrange it, they are all distinguished guests, so we have to arrange it better. Li Tiecheng said.

"That's right, Xu Feng, you renovated the house at home, everything moved out, and there is no place to live at night, so it's better to live in my house, eat dinner together, and send the second elder back tomorrow morning, you live in the barbecue square if you have nothing to do, you haven't been together for a few days, just get together and chat for a while." Chang Shouxin said.

"I don't have an opinion, my parents' opinion. Xu Feng said.

"I'll arrange this, you don't have to worry about it, you must let the second elder eat, drink, and rest well during the renovation period. Chang Shouxin said.

"I'm in charge of the second elder's affairs, you don't have to worry about it, I'll send someone to send the second elder to the trustworthy house in a while, and I'll send it back tomorrow morning." Li Tiecheng said.

"It's my brother, he thinks more than I do, and you're in charge of it. Chang Shouxin said.

"Big boss, please rest assured, as long as you say a word, I will arrange it. Li Tiecheng said.

"How meticulous the letter is, it can be said that it is not leaky, which is worthy of admiration. Pan Xueliang said.

"I really can't do this, I will forget about my own affairs, let alone other things. Wei Dahai said.

"So there won't be a big profit, and I can't catch up with this, so I can only do some ready-made work. Li Tiecheng said. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )