Chapter 555
"The pressure is like a spring, if you are strong it will be weak, and if you are weak it will be strong. Born to deal with difficulties, or difficulties to swallow cowards, or strong to conquer difficulties. Wei Dahai said.
In today's society, most people are facing such a dilemma, in fact, pressure is when you want to do something, in the process of preparation or implementation, you are afraid that you will not be able to do it and you are afraid that you will not be able to do it well. In this situation, there will be some force to urge the completion of the matter, and this force is called pressure. Such pressure is not a bad thing, a person's probability of success is directly proportional to the pressure he is carrying, that is, the heavier a person's ** for success, the greater the internal pressure he is under. I believe that as long as you work hard and have the courage to pay, you will succeed.
Reality often contradicts ideals, and when there is a contradiction, there is pressure. Maybe there is a guiding light in the heart, but it seems unattainable, tormenting that enterprising heart, every day the pressure of life gradually hits us, if you want to live a full and happy life, you must learn to endure the torture of pressure. There is an idiom called endure humiliation, patience does not mean submission and weakness, patience is the cornerstone of gathering strength, preparing for the next victory, and enduring climbing to the peak. The sudden storm expresses its dissatisfaction in the form of lightning and thunder, ignore it, because without the dissatisfaction of the storm, there will be no rainbow after the rain has passed. There are many things in life that are unexpected, but if you can endure the pressure and get up after falling, there will be a long wind and waves. You will overcome difficulties and reach the other side of success.
There is such a little story that a man who picks a straw makes a bet with a man who takes a straw and goes to the set. The next day, they set out together, and the straw pickers marched steadfastly and soon reached the bazaar. The other straw bearer was absent-minded and made the straw crooked, and when he arrived at the bazaar, his straw was gone. Then. The straw picker thinks that being stressed is not a bad thing, that he can make people motivated.
In ancient times, coal and diamonds belonged to the same substance, but over hundreds of millions of years, they have become two different substances. What causes this is the effect of stress. Due to the different pressures undercut. The direction of their transformation is also different, and the less stressed one becomes coal. And the most stressed became diamonds. Thank you for pressure, pressure is not an absolute bad thing, it will stimulate people's fighting spirit, promote people's growth, pressure can generate motivation, under the effect of pressure, it will eventually become a shining diamond.
"This answer is quite honest, with a certain philosophy, not a white potato head. There's something in my stomach. Li Tiecheng said.
"You think I'm a fool, why have I been in society for so many days, I don't rub sand in my eyes, I understand many things more than you have to know, but I just don't want to say it, don't take me seriously in the future, don't treat bean bags as dry food. If you don't use the village chief as a cadre, you will suffer in the end. Wei Dahai said with a smile.
"It is worthy of being an official who works in a government department, and he has a level when he speaks, which I admire." Li Tiecheng said.
"That is, you and I quarrel and play, if it were an outsider, I would have stopped doing it a long time ago." Wei Dahai said.
", that's how dare I say you. Others who love to take care of you, you haven't heard of it, the praise and criticism are the buyers, and the applause is the idlers, which means that you are still a little useful. Li Tiecheng said.
"You're really bad, the first sentence is okay, and the back treats me as a rag." Wei Dahai said.
"Who do you think you are? Whether it is Qin Shi Huang or Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, these words can be regarded as respectful to you. Li Tiecheng said.
"The words are even more damaged, and they pushed me back thousands of years ago, and I was still in tatters after talking for a long time." Wei Dahai said.
"It's not a tattered thing, at least it's a worthless antique." Li Tiecheng said.
"Yes, this is your territory, I don't have the same knowledge as you, the kid will catch up, don't commit it in my hands in the future." Wei Dahai said.
"What else can you do, I don't want to eat without money." Li Tiecheng said with a smile.
"That's two different things, and I never paid on credit when I ate, and I'm a civil servant of my size, so I will never do that kind of greedy and cheap thing." Wei Dahai said.
"You didn't post on credit, but when did you invite guests, you didn't eat and drink all day, none of us are as good as you, this champion hat will always be worn on your head, and no one can snatch it." Xu Feng said.
"I said why do you always have to worry about me, and make me happy if you have nothing to do." Wei Dahai said.
"You're just a living treasure, and you're not where you can go anywhere." Pan Xueliang said with a smile.
"I am very happy to see you, and my words made me feel a lot more cheerful, and I really feel very confused when I am alone, I feel that it is too difficult, and I even don't know what to do, and I have had the idea of giving up." Chang Shouxin said.
"We must not have this kind of thought, we will encounter difficulties and feel the threat of difficulties every step of the way. Although, neither nature nor society will develop with our individual will, our mission is to transform nature and society. However, in this difficult transformation, we are also consciously or unconsciously transformed by nature and society, and these many contradictions constitute the difficulties that plague the development of our society. Nowadays, everyone living in this society feels the pressure of various difficulties, and some people feel that life is too tiring and difficult. It's hard and really tiring. However, lamenting that it is too difficult and too tiring does not solve the problem, and the more difficult and tired it is, the more we need to calmly consider how to get out of the predicament. Pan Xueliang said.
In the course of a person's life, there are also many difficulties caused by their own reasons, and it is not uncommon to hear many people complain about bad or unfair fate, and in fact the reason why they hit a wall everywhere is largely related to some of their mistakes in prejudice. A person is left out everywhere, and he can't always blindly complain about the society, and there is indeed a situation where self-development is limited due to social reasons, what should he do about the difficulties he faces? One is not afraid, and the other is to overcome it. However, it is not enough to have the courage to overcome difficulties, and it is more important to rationally analyze which difficulties are objective and which are subjective. Objective efforts should be made to overcome it, subjective efforts should be made to avoid. Human energy and life are always limited, and the chances of conflict with difficulties should be minimized as much as possible. In any case, difficulties are never a good thing. In the past, there was a saying that difficulty is a good thing, it can exercise people, and it has a romantic color. Under this excuse, how many people have fallen into an artificial predicament and cannot be extricated, wasting many of their good times. Efforts should be made to reduce subjective errors and to devote more time and energy to dealing with objective difficulties. Some people say that mistakes and failures are inevitable. That is to say, but we must not use this as an excuse to condone our mistakes. We should avoid difficulties caused by mistakes as much as possible, treat all kinds of difficulties scientifically, not be intimidated by difficulties, and do not spin in the traps set by ourselves.
"Talking on paper is always empty, cheer up, face all kinds of difficulties bravely and rationally, try to avoid the suffering caused by human factors, move forward step by step towards the future, and always come to the step of success." Xu Feng said.
"Rory has been wordy for a long time, and I want me to say a word, it's not terrible to encounter difficulties, it's terrible to not be able to treat difficulties correctly." Wei Dahai said.
When encountering difficulties, we must dialectically follow the trough to the peak, walk through the snow-capped mountains and meadows are a flat river, the sun sets in the western mountains, and will rise tomorrow, things are far from being as bad as imagined, we must have a firm belief that as long as we are alive, we will have a chance to succeed, believe that I can do it, don't be arrogant. I can do is a kind of self-confidence, self-confidence is a kind of foundation for success, and having self-confidence is half the success. Success depends on hard work, self-confidence and intelligence and the factors that make up for him, and having self-confidence accounts for a large part of this. The ancients had a will, and things can be done, and now I can, infinite possibilities. Believe that you can do it, and when you believe that you can do it, then you can do it. Because I believe that I can do it, I have self-confidence, and I can overcome any difficulties encountered in life, because I firmly believe that I can do it, no matter how difficult it is greater than small, difficult or easy, strong or weak. Because so it is with life, God chooses only those who are confident to give them success.
"It makes sense, if you want to deal with difficulties correctly, you must first learn to be correct and difficult, you must have the spirit of not giving up until the Yellow River, not crying when you don't see the coffin, not hitting the south wall and not looking back, don't let difficulties grasp your feelings, and do things to the end. I will not give up until the end. Pan Xueliang said.
Believe that difficulties are a tempering of life and a necessary path to success. Don't avoid difficulties when you see them, face them correctly, and get up there when you encounter difficulties, and find opportunities to exercise there. Believing in your own abilities and perseverance is the best way to face difficulties. Don't care about the frustration he brings you, come to the breadth of the road. As long as you work hard, you will have harvest, failure is the mother of success, difficulty is the best fruit of harvest, you can get the experience you want from it. This is the harvest of difficulties, overcoming difficulties, indicating that we are moving towards success. Escape from difficulties, difficulties will be entangled for life, and become a piece of heart disease that can never be gotten rid of in a lifetime. There is nothing immutable in the world, and the perspective of the development of the dialectical view is the change of the individual. The key is whether you have confidence or not, the bridge of hope starts from faith, if you don't have self-confidence, you will never be happy. Remember and believe in the truth that the future is not in fate, but in our own hands. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )