"It's not that complicated, you are the number one, you have the final say on everything, if you can't let him move places, who dares not to listen to you." Xu Feng said.

"That's arbitrary, it doesn't work in reality, especially a petty official like me, and I can't make a speech." Pan Xueliang said.

There is only one word for the key to relationship with colleagues, and whether you can establish a good relationship with colleagues is the touchstone for testing your character. Although it cannot be said that a person with good character necessarily has good popularity, we can be sure that people with good character will not have bad popularity. As the saying goes, things gather like and people are grouped. A normal person, who is willing to be in the company of people with low character, therefore, the quality of character is the element that determines the quality of popularity, of course, it is also necessary to master some communication arts.

First of all, it is necessary to establish a concept, harmony is precious, in the Chinese philosophy of life, the golden mean is enshrined as the classic way, the essence of the golden mean is to be precious. As a companion in your task, colleagues will inevitably have conflicts of interest or other aspects, how to deal with these conflicts, the first way to deal with them should be reconciliation. After all, under the same roof, in a pot with a spoon, looking down and not looking up, you can't focus on your own interests, you must fully consider everyone's interests, you really have to be selfish, hurt others and benefit yourself, maybe it will be you who will suffer in the future, not others. Because the reconciliation and disposal of interpersonal relationships is not only a need of life, but also a need of tasks and life. You must learn to respect your colleagues. In interpersonal communication, one's attitude towards others often determines the attitude of others towards oneself, thus. If you want to gain the favor and respect of others. It is necessary to respect others first.

As the saying goes, no profit can not be early. The hustle and bustle of the world is all for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is all for profit, never expect pie in the sky, with a free lunch, no matter what you do, you have to pay a certain price to get what you want in the end. Everyone has their own interests, which are indeed inviolable, and once violated, it means harming others. Something hurts. It is difficult to restore, maybe people will forgive you for the mistakes you made, but that gap will always be there, and you can't go back to the original state. Therefore, try not to hurt others, and it cannot be said that others are selfish to protect their own interests. Think about ourselves, if you don't take the initiative to hurt others, and others hurt you, then you will not be very angry. As long as those people protect their own interests, but do not harm the interests of others, it is normal. Don't pay attention to him.

"When you are an official, you have experience, and it seems that you can still climb up. When will you become the director, you will be considered to have survived to the end. Xu Feng said.

"Only by respecting them, can they take you seriously, can they really work for you, how much can it cost to invite them to a meal and drink, now this is the form, eating and drinking everywhere, small eating and drinking, big eating and drinking, not eating or drinking can not do anything at all, no one can change it, and will slowly understand this truth in the future." Pan Xueliang said.

"You who are tolerant are those who have a lot of hearts, pondering relationships all day long, not doing anything serious at all, and earning our taxpayers' money for nothing. It's all earned with blood and sweat, and I can't provide for you in vain. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"If you don't think about it, if you don't think about people, people will think about you, and in the end it's you who suffers, once people enter the society, many things can't be determined by themselves, only by themselves, right and wrong can be identified by themselves." Pan Xueliang said.

Nowadays, many people are good at covering up, covering up pain with pleasure, covering panic with calmness, covering fierceness with smiles, covering bullying with friendship, covering up scheming with open-mindedness, and covering up drilling camp with indifference. On the surface, sweet words seem to care about people, but in fact, they hide murderous intentions, have their own sinister intentions, often provoke relationships between people, create contradictions, break each one, and reap the benefits when both sides are hurt.

Entering the society will deal with all kinds of people, you will find that everyone is different, a person has ten hearts and eyes and eighty-eight reels, society is a big dye vat, and you will slowly change yourself, because only in this way will you adapt to this society, if you do not change, you will not mature, unless you are a good baby at home all day. Only people adapt to society, society does not adapt to people, what happens every day at work is not what you imagine, a day changes, and there are different ideas, so you will definitely change, become good or bad depends on your own mentality, see the poor people on the side of the road, it is estimated that everyone sympathizes, but it is not necessary to show Xiàn on the face, but now many poor people on the side of the road, you don't have to be really pitiful, because they may be better off than you.

Everyone has their own way of life, and in the process of learning and perfecting this way of life, each person finally finds his or her own search for himself, which may be a lifelong process.

"You have a thief's heart, for fear that you will not be able to become an official, you will do everything possible to defend it, and you are still here to excuse yourself, it is really duplicitous, and you don't feel blushing when you say this." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"Everyone is the same, as long as they embark on this road, it is like getting on a thief ship, they can't get off if they want to, so they have to slap their swollen faces and become fat, and stick to it." Pan Xueliang said.

In many cases, it is not up to one person to decide which route to take, and more often than not, people are faced with extremely limited choices, struggling with resistance and compromise. The so-called success science is basically a glorified pseudoscience, and the reason why they are so popular is because the public likes it, the public wants to believe it, and people are always willing to believe what they expect, just like people who hold stocks, always believe that it will rise. Although people's lives are very different, from a broader perspective, there are strong similarities. There is really a limit to what an individual can and cannot do. Either limited by the environment, or bound by one's own nature, internal and external factors combine to create the trajectory of human life. Many times you think that you make a choice, but it is the result of nature and external factors.

It's like a sailboat riding the wind and waves, it's hard to control it if it's not good to control, and being an official makes people incomparably beautiful, incomparably glorious. It is precisely because the more glorious things are, the more risks there are. There are many people who are on the same road, and the road to heaven is dangerous and difficult to follow. In the official career, I know that the difficulty and danger of the career are far from unimaginable. In the official career, it is like walking a tightrope, trembling, like facing the abyss, like walking on thin ice. I always want to keep balance, and only by being balanced can I be safe. Danger is always present, and the balance can be upset at any time. Seeing that a person was still proud of the spring breeze yesterday, he was full of spirits, standing on the rostrum of the conference and talking eloquently. A few days later, it suddenly disappeared without a trace. So there are different opinions and trends, which seems to be a shot in a movie, and it is so close to reality. There is a saying that people are not good for a thousand days, and flowers are not red for a hundred days.

"We don't have as much idleness as you, as long as the income is high, no one has as many ghost eyes as you." Xu Feng said.

"You are a fledgling, you don't know a lot of things inside, as the saying goes, a newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, but when it grows horns, it is afraid of wolves, and you don't know the hardships inside, so you are fearless and dare to say such big things." Pan Xueliang said.

"Then you don't have our freedom, you don't have to be careful all day long, you can run the train with your mouth full and talk nonsense." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"Actually, it's the same thing, but it hasn't developed to that point. Trustworthy can be regarded as a small boss who understands how to use people, and has noble people to help, without the support of the eldest sister and the second sister, there will be no good things now, and maybe you are still worried about not being able to eat. Pan Xueliang said.

"That's right, if I hadn't met them, I wouldn't be where I am now." Xu Feng said.

"So you are a blessing in disguise, thanks to the person who secretly calculated you, without that experience, it would be impossible to meet the eldest sister, it can be said that the eldest sister changed your fate." Pan Xueliang said.

"What you said reminded me that tomorrow is the solar year, and I have to go see my eldest sister." Xu Feng said.

"Of course I'll have to go and see it, drive my car tomorrow and say hello to them on my behalf." Pan Xueliang said.

At this time, Xu Feng's mobile phone rang, and he saw that it was Chang Shouxin's phone, what could he do at this time, so he hurriedly connected the phone, and Chang Shouxin told him, tomorrow is the solar year, and we will go to visit the eldest sister and the second sister together.

"Okay, Xueliang and I were talking about this just now, or the leader was thoughtful, and everything was in front of us." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"The eldest sister and the second sister have helped us a lot, without their support, we would not be where we are today, we can't forget the kindness in this life, listen to me tomorrow, let's go together." Chang Shouxin said.

"Shouxin just said, tomorrow we will go to visit the eldest sister and the second sister together." Xu Feng said.

"This guy is getting better and better, there is water everywhere in his eyes, he can see who is useful, and he will definitely achieve a career in the future." Pan Xueliang said with a smile.

"The eldest sister and the second sister do not help us much, and we don't go to see what to do during the New Year's holidays, and the few gifts are our hearts." Xu Feng said.

"Okay, I'll send you the car tomorrow morning, it's also a sleeping car, and the grade is much better than your broken bread." Pan Xueliang said.

"Then I'll thank you for Boss Chang first, and drive your car for a while." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"How are you doing with your revision, you're going to take an exam when you speak." Pan Xueliang said.

"What else can I do, now it can only be like this, it's all luck to get in, maybe I don't have that life, I have to do this for the rest of my life." Xu Feng said.

"I can't say that I can't do it now, it's better to get in, and try to grasp this opportunity, maybe it will completely change my fate." Pan Xueliang said.

"A qiē is left to fate." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"Good luck, I won't talk to you anymore, and I'm going home." Pan Xueliang said. (To be continued......)