But this will also wronged a lot of people, how do they feel psychologically. Xu Feng said.

"I also feel that there are more wrongs than them, in the eyes of the boss, as a subordinate, you can do what you do, there is nothing to discuss, this is actually a kind of authority, you don't need any reason, let alone talk about any feelings, you have to blame yourself for not having that life. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"But I think we should be realistic, after all, it's all about work. Xu Feng said.

"Naivety, especially in the workplace, you must not have such thoughts, you must know the capriciousness of being an official, always look at the people around you with suspicion, be keen to play with power, play with people, study and set up things every day, find other people's handles, reverse test people, and test the loyalty of subordinates. The employees who work under him never know what he is thinking, and their minds are always in a state of tension, and there is only absolute obedience, no matter whether it is right or wrong, no one can change it. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"It's so disappointing. Xu Feng said.

"Life is a play directed by yourself, and you are the protagonist, no matter which scene you play, you must take it seriously, if once the performance is not ideal, you will lose an opportunity, you think you are doing very well, but in the eyes of others is not like that, right is also wrong, life is like this, no matter what you play, you have to pay the price, pay the effort, only pay, work hard, you will get the so-called harvest. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"It's a rough life, it's incredible. Xu Feng said.

"There are joys and sorrows in life, there are laughs and tears, there are lucky and unlucky, and the leader sacrifices a few people in order to achieve his goal. Qiu Weiqiang said.

A little director is a fart, to put it bluntly, he is a random chess piece in the hands of the leader. I can think of you when it's useful. When not in use, they will be discarded. Don't say that a little director who is not as good as bullshit, even if it is a big official, you have to admit it. So have a good mindset. Use it to dry, no need to pull it down. What's so terrible about returning to the original position, you still have to live, and you don't have to take it too seriously.

"You think quite openly in your heart, you don't take being an official seriously, unlike some people who go around in order to be an official, and do whatever it takes to achieve their goals. Xu Feng said.

"Nonsense, what if you don't want to drive. After all, we are a part-time worker, what do we have to listen to the shouts of the leader, if you don't listen, you will be kicked off, you have no choice, this is the difference between being an official and being a soldier. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"You're not bad, you're a deputy director, and in a commercial bank, you can be regarded as a senior manager. At least I can talk to the leaders, and some ideas can be told to them directly, which is many times stronger than those of us ordinary employees. Xu Feng said.

"What is the deputy director. If you want to say that the director is a fart, the deputy director is not even a fart, it is not worth mentioning at all. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile.

"That's different. Although he is a petty official, he has some power in his hands, at least he can manage one or two people, everyone is willing to be an official, and he is tough to speak in front of people. Xu Feng said.

"Remember, no matter what industry you are in or what position you sit in, after all, you are a part-time worker, and this identity cannot be changed. Qiu Weiqiang said.

If you don't sit in that position, there is no need to talk to the leader about ideas. At best, it can only be whined in private. Only when you sit in that position will you be qualified or the leader will listen to you about your ideas and ideas. Is the world fair. Of course it's not fair, it goes without saying. But many people don't understand these conditions. Treating yourself as a stone and thinking you are a character is actually an egg, and a stone touching an egg is not a headache. After all, there are too many poor people in this world, and the rich have to rely on the poor to feed, don't complain about God's arrangement, don't be afraid of the torture of fate, take care of yourself, and live as well as possible.

"It's good to imagine, who doesn't want to live a good life, but life is not like what they imagined, the gap between imagination and reality is too big, busy all day long, which makes people feel very depressed. Xu Feng said.

"It feels good to spend every day in a busy life, and fatigue can no longer explain a qiē, because this qiē fatigue is for life, in other words, for a better life. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Don't pay too much attention to it when there is a disappointment in life, it is just a part of life, and to live well is to work hard for the happiness of the whole family. Of course, people's life goals will not be the same, but life is like this, to live well is to take care of yourself, take care of your family, and live well is to be able to share the sorrows or depressions of the days for your family. Looking back on the past now feels childish, and so many things are flowing unconsciously in life that I don't notice. But it's not too late, because life has to go on, and it's up to you to go on. The previous qiē is in the past, no one is right or wrong, and there is not much life experience, and the current life is real. When memories hit, don't control them, don't stop them, because the passage of time has taken them away, and the remaining feelings will gradually change in real life. No matter what, remember to live well, this is the true pursuit and portrayal of life.

"In the end, I have been working in the morning for a few years, and I have understood much more than I have learned, and I am called my teacher. Xu Feng said.

"The teacher can't talk about it, just eat salty salt for a few more years, and there is not much achievement, which makes people laugh. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"It's okay, at least it's appreciated by the leader, and it's not convincing. Xu Feng said.

"Work is the stage of our life, and the success or failure of work predicts the success or failure of life. Perhaps, not everything in the world will be able to go according to your heart, and not every job will be suitable for you from the beginning. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Let yourself be happy and take work as a kind of enjoyment, so that life can add more fun and career will become broader and broader. Love your work, feel the fun and passion from your work, and always devote yourself to your work with a sense of ownership. When you develop this habit, you will find joy in any job and over time, you will love your job even more. In addition, always have an open mind to actively listen to the opinions of others and improve their own work. Other people's opinions are the best gift, but if you don't have enough grace and always feel that others are picky, you may lose this good opportunity to grow.

Competition in the modern workplace seems to be a competition of ability on the surface, but in fact it is a competition of mentality. Because everyone's mentality is different, everyone's positive process of putting into work will be different, the effort process will be different, the serious process will be different, and the responsible process will be different, so the speed of growth will be different, the speed of improvement will be different, and finally everyone's ability will be different, and the result will be different. If you regard work as enjoyment, people will actively devote, work hard, enjoy, and experience happiness from satisfactory results, so there is a virtuous circle of hard work, results, and happiness. On the other hand, if work is regarded as a painful process, people will become dissatisfied, complain about everything, perfunctory, and achieve nothing. Therefore, it is very important for a person to have a good attitude towards doing things, and he is afraid that he will not be able to do things well, only in this way will he feel happy and happy, and will not be troubled by the helplessness of life.

"What do you say is happiness, and what kind of person is happy?" Xu Feng asked.

"It is happiness for birds to have a blue sky, for fish to have a stream, for flowers to have soil, for children to play and play, for adults to work smoothly, and for the elderly to enjoy their old age. It's not a lack of happiness in life, it's a lack of feelings about it. As long as we experience and discover with our hearts, we can find it. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"That's too general, to be more detailed. Xu Feng said.

"Happiness is a mystery, if you let a thousand people answer, there will be a thousand answers, in the eyes of the poor, happiness is very simple, as long as three meals are fed, food and clothing are enough. And in the eyes of the rich, having more money is the real happiness. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Happiness is not a single thing, friendship and family affection are all part of happiness. Happiness is the feeling of being content with your present life and enjoying the process of being happy, depending on how you see it. Happiness is that I am hungry, see someone else holding a meat bun in his hand, then he is happier than me, I am cold, see others wearing a thick cotton jacket, he is happier than me, I want to go to the thatched house, just a pit, you squat, you are happier than me.

The source of happiness lies in contentment, non-demand, responsibility, no complaints, dedication, tolerance, gratitude, giving, giving, letting go, and forgetfulness. With this kind of mind, the mind is empty and clear, beyond the strife of fame and fortune, and feels peaceful and satisfied. In a high position, Zhong Mingding eats the palm print of the official mansion, which can be described as glorious and wealthy. People in the burrow, you can tune the piano, read the golden scriptures, tease insects and fish, raise flowers and birds, and be indifferent and indifferent. If you have a regular job, you can feel the peace and ease of life. Hibiscus is like a face, willow is like an eyebrow, and it is an innate pride. The invasion of poetry and writing in the belly can make you stand out from the crowd. Even if you encounter setbacks, you must face the difficulties calmly and sit and watch the clouds surge, which is optimism and happiness. Everyone has a different worldview and, as a result, a different understanding of happiness. To feel the happiness of life is to live a happy life. Many times, simplicity is a form of happiness. There are too many temptations in life, too many pursuits and desires, which will make the original simple and pure life become confused and confused. (To be continued.) )