Chapter 637
In fact, life is not like this, in the face of various challenges, perhaps the reason for failure is not because of weak strength, not because of low intelligence, not because of not thoroughly analyzing the whole situation, but because the difficulties are seen too clearly, analyzed too thoroughly, and considered too thoroughly, so that they will be intimidated by difficulties and make it difficult. On the contrary, those who do not fully see the difficulties are more able to move forward. Chang Shouxin said.
"Life is such a process of winning and losing, and no one is a clever immortal, so naturally he cannot predict and control the unpredictable future. Even if those wrong decisions in the past can no longer be modified today, instead of dwelling on them, it is better to face them calmly, life is a train, there is a new journey every day, no matter what, yesterday's journey and mood have become the scenery of the past. Wang Jingming said.
"People's capacity is actually far beyond our imagination, just like we rarely realize how much potential we have until the critical moment. In the same way, when we are not suffering, we simply do not know how much of a blow we can withstand. Chang Shouxin said.
It is only after a heavy blow that people wake up and re-realize their own strength and tenacity. Therefore, no matter what hardships you are experiencing, do not blindly complain about how unfair God is, or even collapse from now on. There is nothing in life that cannot be overcome, only people who cannot be passed. No one's life can be smooth sailing, if you suffer something that you feel unbearable, even if it is a great misfortune, you must believe that it will pass. Just like the sky is not always cloudy, there will always be a day when it rains and the sky clears. Hold on a little longer, and you'll see the bright sunshine. When misfortune strikes, holding on to it will crush you to pieces and exhaust your mind. But it's also possible to let go. Let it fall to the ground without hurting it in the slightest. It's up to you to grab or let go. The writer Su Hei said that there is never a fate to be unlucky, only the persistence of not letting go. If you refuse to let go, even if it's a trivial wound. Being constantly played with by you will not only not heal, but will accelerate its festering, let go, and no matter how deep the wound is, it can heal.
"I understand the reason, but I can't compare it with it, we had a good life, and there is a way to let the sunny avenue not go. Why do you want to cross the single-plank bridge, why bother yourself, to say something unpleasant, I think we are walking on the single-plank bridge. Li Tiecheng said.
"When it comes to walking on a single-plank bridge, I really walked it, and it was when I was very young, and a slender long log fell down. It's just a soup chicken. Under another sweep of the bridge, a clear river flows slowly. There was a soft murmuring sound, and such a dangerous bridge could be crossed, so I was afraid. As soon as I wanted to lift my feet, the single-plank bridge began to shake and I wanted to retreat. At this time, Dad shouted from the other side: Come on, come on. The first step was taken. Step 2. Unconsciously came to the middle of the bridge, and when I saw the surging water below, I was even more frightened, and shouted: Mom, come quickly, the bridge is shaking again. But my mother ignored her. When I turned around, the children in the back were all laughing at me. I had no choice but to pluck up the courage to walk over. When I looked back, I couldn't believe my eyes, and I walked over like this. Finally succeeded, and walked across the unimaginable single-plank bridge. My whole family praised me and praised me for being a brave man. If it wasn't for the encouragement of my parents and friends, and without my own courage, I wouldn't have been able to get through. Wang Jingming said.
"Life requires courage, and with it, you can go beyond one qiē and achieve success. Courage is the light in the face of adversity and the only way to heaven. There is no impossibility in the world, and the impossible is just not daring to do it, not being unable to do it. Believe in yourself, do what you don't dare to do, and we'll see success beckoning us. Confident, I continue my growth journey, still accepting the test of wind and rain, but in my memory, there is more valuable memories, and in my beliefs, there is more self-confidence. Chang Shouxin said.
A spider weaves a web after a rainy day, falling again and again due to the slippery wall and humid air. But it still has to try again and again until it succeeds, which depends on courage, a courage not to be defeated by adversity, leading it to move forward bravely in the face of setbacks. Life requires courage, and with it, it is possible to go beyond one qiē and achieve success. Courage is the light in the face of adversity and the only way to heaven. A successful businessman has a lot of blood and tears behind him, and why they did not give in, this is a kind of courage that supports them, to get closer to the light of hope, and use this light to make themselves successful, courage is the road sign on the road to happiness, without it is impossible to find an oasis in the desert. For example, some blind people are disappointed, frustrated, and complain about others because they can't see, thinking that they can only have darkness in their lives. They lost their courage, and what they got was really darkness. But some people are different, although they are like a stained piece of paper, however, they see not that little black dot but most of the white of that paper, they do not think that they can only have darkness, but they are glad that they still have ears and noses, and make full use of them, and he surpasses normal people.
"No matter how much distress a person encounters, there will always be happiness to accompany him, it depends on whether you will taste and find, as long as a person is good at grasping himself, can carry out self-psychological adjustment, he can use joy to dispel the troubles in his heart, often maintain a good mood, easy to say, not easy to do, life will inevitably encounter this and that unsatisfactory, encounter this and that unfair, unjust, if you can't get out of the bad mood of the strange circle, you may fall into the mud of pessimism. Liu Shuchen said.
"Life is as plain as water, put a little sugar, it is sweet, put a little salt, it is salty. What you want to make a taste depends on your own state of mind. Chang Shouxin said.
"We should be like a reed, weak but wise, in the face of a strong wind, not trying to fight it, but to bend down, to bend down, to save the day, and more importantly, to gather strength and make an all-out sprint when the opportunity comes. Liu Shuchen said.
"Facing the sea, spring blossoms, let us be the masters of our own mood, many things happen that are not controlled by people, things cannot be changed, but we can change the mood of facing things, let the mood to adapt to things, so that things because of a good mood and in the direction of their own development. Chang Shouxin said.
"Don't let the beautiful youth stumble past in a sound of no-brainer, and when you wake up, your temples are white, don't let your life be idle, step into the road full of thorns and sunshine, let life radiate light and heat, I believe it will make you successful. Wang Jingming said.
"If you have a dream, say it out loud, only those who dare to dream have the opportunity to make their dreams come true, and only by learning to express them will more people walk in and help you realize your dreams." Don't let the pig-killing knife of time erase the original intention in your heart, don't leave the dream that can be realized to the indefinite future, the dream is in your own hands, right now. Chang Shouxin said.
"Life is like a line, as long as it continues today, as long as there is hope tomorrow, we will always be on the www.biquge.info of Biqu Pavilion and always on the road of running. Wang Jingming said.
Don't be afraid of the long road, don't complain that there is no scenery on the side of the road, a person's itinerary, there will always be a lot of difficulties, temptations, helplessness and traps, don't despair at any time, as long as you keep running, those bumps under your feet turn out to be the cornerstone of life, maybe the turning point is at the next corner. There is only beauty in life, and there is no glory waiting for it. There is no beginning in life once and for all, and there is no end that cannot be saved. Even if a single qiē is lost, as long as one breath remains, there is no reason to despair. We may not be able to change the environment, but we can change ourselves. You can't change the past, but you can grasp the present. You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything with your heart, you can't choose your appearance, but you can show a smile.
"So, make up your mind now, take some real actions to improve your life, improve the quality of life, what kind of person you want to become, what kind of career you want to do, what kind of life you want to live, if you are not willing to make up your mind, I believe you will not get a happy life. Chang Shouxin said.
"An old man on a high-speed train accidentally dropped one of the new shoes he had just bought from the window, and the people around him felt sorry, but the old man immediately threw the second shoe down from the window. This move was even more surprising. The old man explained: No matter how expensive this shoe is, it is useless to me, if anyone can pick up a pair of shoes, maybe he can still wear them, optimists are good at giving up, good at seeing value in losses. Wang Jingming said.
"A lot of times, we like to assume that we are very beautiful and in good shape, that we can hold on a little longer, that I marry someone who loves me instead of someone I love, that I don't fail in my first business, and so on, and if these assumptions can be true, then the world will be very perfect, at least as we think it will be. Chang Shouxin said.
Unfortunately, life is just a one-way ticket, and everything that has been walked and experienced has become an immutable fact and history. If these facts are lucky, with blessings, with joy, we are naturally willing to accept them with joy. If it is unfortunate, with hurt and tears, our hearts will be rejected, unwilling to accept it, and we will fall into the trap of all kinds of assumptions, regret, chagrin, disappointment, self-blame, until we are physically and mentally exhausted. Whether you want to accept it or not, this is the truth of life, and it can't be changed in the slightest. (To be continued......)