However, has he ever thought that not every woman wants to live that kind of life of wealth and wealth?

Isn't every woman yearning for a position of power on the surface, bitterness and bitterness in the secret, infinite scenery on the surface, but in fact a life of conspiracy and calculation?

Not everyone wants to live that kind of life.

Many people like power and status, that is, it is necessary to pay more hard work and sweat to fight, maybe on this road, will give up more happiness and happiness, but ask for benevolence, if it is what you want, no matter what the result is, just be willing to eat.

The mutual support that Mu Huaifeng wants, in Banxia's view, is similar to respecting each other.

That is to say, feelings can be discussed, but feelings are not the most important, it is best to distinguish when to talk about feelings and when to talk about etiquette, this is the answer to what Mu Huaifeng said to him.

Banxia agrees with Mu Huaifeng's words, in her opinion, the least hard life is what Mu Huaifeng said, you can plan everything within the scope of what you can control, there is not too much bitterness and hardship, and you can still rise steadily, and the life that follows step by step is the best life.

Banxia herself also believes that such days can indeed reduce more groping and pain, and can maximize the clarity of what you want and what you can get, and then work towards the goal, which can reduce a lot of detours, and you don't have to waste your feelings, why not.

But Banxia himself understands that it is one thing, and it is another thing to choose this way.

It is true that a peaceful and stable life is indeed worth pursuing by everyone, but if there are still people who expect a sincere feeling, then the so-called plain and stable is just a comfort that cannot give the best feelings.

Banxia knows too well what she wants, on the surface it is plain, but in fact, her heart longs for eternity.

She wants more and more profoundly, not what she shows it to be, just simply living a good life is the best thing she can do.

Banxia may have caused a misunderstanding to others, probably people who don't know Banxia, they all think that Banxia is really like what she seems, faint, nothing is in a hurry, and she can be content with a calm person.

She's not that kind of person.

In other words, after encountering worry-free, Banxia is not such a person.

Only in the face of worry-free, Banxia will show her whole person truthfully, whether it is like and sad, or painful and entangled, Banxia is in front of worry-free, most of the time, she is slowly sitting back to the truest self in her heart.

And when facing others, Banxia may not feel it, she has always maintained a safe distance.

This is a reassurance for oneself and for others.

There is no doubt that Banxia almost chose the most comfortable way to get along with Gongsun Ying'er, Tao Rushi, and Gongsun Jin when facing them, if she didn't choose this way naturally, and changed to the appearance in front of worry-free, she couldn't be friends with them.

This is the difference between people, and the choice between interpersonal relationships, as well as the distance between each person and each person, determines how close this person can be, which is the best scale.

It's a bit cool to say, but among adults, isn't it exactly this kind of proportion?

Banxia doesn't think she has done anything wrong, and her friends like her very much, which proves that her ideas and practices are correct, as for other people, it has created an illusion for others, and there will be more time in the future, if there is a chance, she will also eliminate other people's misunderstandings about her, if there is no chance, then there is no need to care about irrelevant people, evaluation or opinion of her.

Banxia thought clearly, and looked up at Mu Huaifeng.

Her thoughts only flashed in an instant, and she didn't delay for a long time because of the complicated thoughts in her heart, or let Mu Huaifeng wait.

Even when Banxia looked up at Mu Huaifeng, Mu Huaifeng felt a little frightened, as if Banxia's calm reaction was the strangest reaction.

Banxia saw Mu Huaifeng's nervousness, and smiled slightly: "Don't be nervous, I'll just talk to you casually." ”

After speaking, she said again: "Of course, except for a few of us, there will be no one else who knows today's words. ”

That is to say, no matter what is said today, whether it is wrong or wrong, what is happening today is only known to a few people present today, and it is impossible for others to know.

This may be what Banxia said in order to comfort Mu Huaifeng, but it also revealed a meaning, it is best that Mu Huaifeng himself does not leak today's words, otherwise, it will not be good for anyone, and maybe Banxia will pursue Mu Huaifeng's broken mouth.

Mu Huaifeng felt that he should be crazy, otherwise, how could he hear the threat hidden in Banxia's tone?

"I, I'm not nervous. Mu Huaifeng finally held back a few words, but he still felt that today's performance could not satisfy him.

He also wanted to talk to Banxia generously, not always being suppressed by Banxia, so Mu Huaifeng asked tentatively, "Can I sit here?"

He meant to say if he could sit at the same table with Banxia and them.

"Of course!"

Gongsun Jin, who had been silent, said quite enthusiastically at this time: "General Mu is also a very heroic general, it is our honor to sit and eat with us, how can we refuse." ”

"Don't dare to be, don't dare to be. Because Gongsun Jin was too polite, Mu Huaifeng's head was about to sweat.

He didn't know why he had a strange feeling, as if the Gongsun Jin he knew before was not the most real Gongsun Jin, and now this hussar general who was smiling and couldn't see what he was thinking in his heart was the real Gongsun Jin!

Mu Huaifeng sat down nervously, Banxia immediately made room for Mu Huaifeng, and put the dishes and chopsticks on the table, and the people at the table began to continue eating.

There are not so many customs in northern Xinjiang, even if they talk while eating, no one will feel uncomfortable, but because they have become closer to each other during conversation and laughter, everyone likes to talk about things at the dinner table.

Mu Huaifeng sat down, and Banxia moved his position and got closer to Gongsun Ying'er, so that Mu Huaifeng had a place to sit, and also separated him from some distance.

After all, men and women are not kissed, even if the folk customs of Northern Xinjiang are developed, but Banxia is always Banxia, she is different from the people here, different from the people of this era, she has her own way of doing things, she has her own persistence, after having someone she likes, it is impossible to have an ambiguous relationship with anyone, even if it is a polite performance.