"There are too many villains in the workplace now, it can be said that they are everywhere, hiding in a dark corner is invincible, there is a way that it is easy to dodge with open guns, and it is difficult to prevent hidden arrows, so we must first practice a pair of King Kong indestructible body, so that he is invulnerable, in order to be invincible in the workplace and invincible. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info" Xu Feng said with a smile.

"Do you read too many martial arts novels, I really think of myself as a hero, rivers and lakes and the workplace are two different things. Li Chunhua said with a smile.

"The same, it will make you feel a lot. Xu Feng said: "Life is originally a feast, the most important thing in life is to appreciate life, many times even just a moment, will make you mature." ”

"The workplace is so difficult, much more complicated than you and I imagined, in the face of all this, there is no one to guide me, I can only use the perspective of a student to see this beautiful and dim place, and I am running in a daze every day. Li Chunhua said.

"It can be seen that you have also experienced a lot, otherwise you would not have this feeling, you are now a justice, the power is boundless, and you can decide life and death with a hammer, this is the most enviable profession, why are you still so worried, let alone too pessimistic. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"It's not emotional, sometimes it's very difficult to see, and many things can make people feel helpless, but what else can be done. Li Chunhua said.

"You're much better than me, at least you have your son as the backstage, you don't have to worry about things, unlike me, I purely belong to the grassroots class, or no, everything starts from scratch. Xu Feng said.

"You say the same about me. Li Chunhua said with a smile.

"Slip of the tongue, slip of the tongue, I don't mean that, just an analogy, of course, you are a different matter, everything depends on yourself, the result of your own efforts, which I admire. Xu Feng said.

"Sometimes I really think, is it wrong for me, but what's wrong for my ideals. Li Chunhua said.

"Don't ask for ten points in everything, just ask for dedication, don't talk about perfection, just do your best. Xu Feng said.

As the saying goes, when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, so they are all brain-dead, and they don't have to be in general knowledge. No one can control other people's mouths, but you can look at all the disturbances with an indifferent heart, and only by being calm can you hear the sound of all things, and only with a clear heart can you see the essence of all things. Precipitate your heart and watch the situation change. To get along with others, you need to pay attention to ways and means. There are some things that need to be endured and not angry. Some people, need to be allowed, do not investigate. It doesn't matter if you suffer some losses, life is not a battlefield, and there is no need to compete.

"There are too many rumors, saying that I am powerful and powerful, otherwise I would not come to the court, am I that kind of person, everything was obtained by me through competition, I didn't expect it to be like this, it really makes me so sad. Li Chunhua said.

"Let them say casually, this is called not eating grapes but saying that grapes are sour, life is thirty-six nine, carefully calculated, but sixty or seventy years, but twenty or thirty thousand days, there are many things that do not go well, the future is confused, life sometimes plays tricks on people, so the grapes in the future are also like flowers in the fog, the moon in the water, you can only see, think about it and be unpredictable. Xu Feng said. There are some things that only after working hard can you know your achievements, and only after struggling can you know your potential. The flowers are elegant, the water is true, and the people are pure. To be a man needs to be light, light and fragrant. Not contentious, not flattering, not glamorous, not vulgar. Don't laugh at the efforts of others and don't belittle their achievements. Everyone's worth is different, and there is no need to be dismissive of anyone. What is useless in your eyes may not be really useless. Not a single person, not a single thing. There are always advantages in others that you can't see, and there are always values that you can't find, so there is no need to judge the efforts of others. Right and wrong, disturbed one after another, without looking, listening, or thinking, you can feel calm. Sometimes, it's not because someone else has hurt you, it's because you care too much. Some things don't need to be considered, time will tell, and some people don't need to see, and the Tao is different. The things of the world, the people of the world. Intersensitivity, people self-realize. In the face of injury, a slight smile is open-minded. Ignoring insults is a transcendent. Patience is not cowardice, but tolerance. Let not be incompetent, but generous. cares about the rights and wrongs of life, ignoring one's own tranquility. Calm and calm, everything is at ease.

"How good my dreams were in college, but when the reality turned out to be so bad, the confusion and longing for the future, everything overwhelmed me, I was really tired. Li Chunhua said.

"To put it bluntly, it is jealousy, he has the ability to come by himself, does he have that ability, why talk nonsense, if a person can't find his own goal or can't find his own space at all, it may not belong to this space, as long as he thinks it's worth it, don't care what people say, this is called not afraid of shadows. ”

"For the sake of my career and ideals, I am enthusiastic, I didn't expect such criticism, it's really unreasonable. Li Chunhua said.

"They're all incompetent, jealous of other people's talent, jealous of other people's opportunities, jealous of other people's everything, if they were to be on camera, I think it would be absolutely a disaster. Xu Feng said: "So, don't care about being said. There is nothing to say about the good-for-nothing, the more outstanding the person, the more people will be said, there is nothing in the world that is not judged, and there is no person who is not judged. ”

"It's unimaginable, it almost confuses me. Li Chunhua said.

"It's really difficult to come out and mix, it's even more difficult to mix well, if you're not careful, you will achieve nothing, your career will not succeed, even if you are only eight high, learn rich five cars, you will be reduced to ****, if you have a successful career, even if it is a wine bag and rice bag, you will be touted as a genius, people are warm and cold, the world is cold, this is the cruelty of reality. Xu Feng said: "Now the pressure to survive is too great, if you want to mix well outside, mix a fame, you must let yourself understand a little bit of the rules of the game, life is like a game, people who don't understand the rules of the game, will eventually die ugly, and people who are skilled in the rules of the game can have fun in the game, have fun, and play everything they want." ”

"Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy, everyone must face cruel competition, like a battlefield without gunpowder, although there is no rain of bullets, but the struggle hidden in the shadows is more thrilling, flesh and blood blurred, the soul is extremely tired, it can be said that the heart is brittle. Li Chunhua said.

"You must know that the ideal is beautiful, but the reality is not always so smooth sailing, and there is always a gap between the ideal and the reality. Only by facing this gap positively and accepting this difference with a positive and optimistic attitude can we enjoy a good life. Xu Feng said. The human heart is like a cup, its capacity is always limited, if only let the sadness and confusion fill the heart, then there will be no courage to touch the outside sunshine, only let go of the confusion and sorrow of the past, there will be more space to better accommodate the future. Don't be afraid to face it, the reality is not as terrible as you imagined, and it is also a joy to challenge your wisdom and limits.

When I was a child, I once thought that the distance between the ideal and the reality was only the inevitable transition of time, and the reality was the substitute for the ideal, and the ideal was the shadow of the future of reality. So I often have beautiful dreams and look forward to the colorful future. As the days passed, I gradually understood that many dreams are not hard to do and you will get what you want, giving too many expectations, and leaving behind is ultimately loss and helplessness. Li Chunhua said.

"No matter how much you complain, no matter how unhappy you are, you still have to eat, if you don't eat, you will starve to death, you still have to sleep, you will have spirit if you don't sleep, you still have to do work, no one will pay you if you don't work, in the final analysis, the future will always belong to you. Xu Feng said: "Since you have chosen your own path, go on bravely, even if you are tired and suffering, don't give up, all the pressure is only to be borne by yourself, others will not worry about you anything, rather than have time to complain, it is better to calm down in a down-to-earth manner, improve your basic skills, and prove your ability with facts, so that others will be impressed by you, and you must not be an angry young man who destroys his future because of his bookish anger." ”

"It's not complaining, but the reality forces you to think more, and sometimes you have nothing to do, which is the most confusing part. Li Chunhua said.

"The workplace is like a melting pot, in the workplace, it is not only about earning a bowl of rice to eat, but more importantly, learning the truth of life. If you don't understand even the most basic truths, you will not only not get the respect of others, but also lose more development opportunities. Xu Feng said. All successful cattle people understand this without exception. They understand the nature of society and the unspoken rules of interpersonal communication, know what the other person needs, know what the other person is thinking, if you want to catch a fish, you have to think like a fish, you can hardly see him running around and toiling, but in silence, he has achieved his life goal. What is the secret to their success? It's actually very simple, just four words.

"It seems that you are much more mature, I don't know how many times stronger than me, which makes you very admired. Li Chunhua said with a smile.

"Don't make fun of me, you're the Chancellor now, and I don't know anything better. Xu Feng said with a smile. There is a way that the water is deep and silent, people are steady, learn to calm down, and learn to hold back anger and face dissatisfaction. You can't be too precise in everything, you can't be too strict with others, you can't be too harsh and have no friends. Knowing how to retreat, showing the atmosphere, knowing tolerance, showing generosity. The shortness of oneself cannot be hidden, the more it is hidden, the shorter it is, the longer oneself cannot be raised, and the more it is raised, the less it is. Don't show off when you're proud, don't be discouraged when you're frustrated. Flowers are not red for 100 days, and people are not decayed for 100 days. Three points rely on luck, seven points rely on oneself, just work hard, just do your best.

"Life has to face reality, ideals are noble, but built on reality, although the reality is not as good as the ideal, but it must be down-to-earth. Li Chunhua said. (To be continued.) )