Chapter 1014: Laymen also
"The result is not the ultimate goal, the experience of the process is the most true understanding, only the life that has experienced the wind and rain is the perfect life, and the ups and downs of life can enrich their experience and understand the true meaning of life. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info," Xu Feng said.
When I think back to when I started my business, I often locked myself in the room to think, constantly reflecting on what I didn't do well, what could have been better, and whether there would have been a better choice. I used to think it was a simple question, but after talking to many people, I found that it was not easy. Because few people are willing to face their denials, the process is painful and requires constantly abandoning their past selves. All the things you have experienced are actually your wealth.
"It's not difficult to do this, but it's hard to have a clear mind when you're confused or tempted by something, and lose your rationality, and once it's against the trend and the general trend, no matter how strong your ability is and how much effort you put in, it won't help. Li Chunhua said.
"On the issue of right and wrong, and major affairs, we must always be a wise man, and never be a fool. Xu Feng said.
In the competition, they all want to be strong, but the competition is a ruthless knockout, even if it is the elite and the best, only a few people can stand on the top of the tower. If you want to not be completely eliminated in the competition, the only way is to face up to the reality, carefully analyze and weigh your position in the competition, and give yourself a new position. Persistence is necessary, but it depends on what it is insisted on, sensible persistence is persistence, and unwise persistence becomes stubbornness. The goal of life is often not achieved in one step, and there will be many detours. Life goals are constantly changing, and some goals cannot be achieved for a while, so we must adjust them in combination with reality and grasp what we can grasp first. Just like Cao Cao, when he was young, he just wanted to be a county guard, and he didn't have a bigger goal, but with the change of reality, he also had to readjust, from the general of the expedition to the west to the establishment of greater achievements, step by step, and finally contributed to the realization of the ultimate goal of life by constantly formulating phased goals.
"Life is like a big wave of sand, some are left behind and become gold, and some are ruthlessly washed away by the flowing water and disappear without a trace. Li Chunhua said. It's easy to become sand, but it's hard to become gold, the difference between the two is not luck, but depends on your own weight, some gold doesn't necessarily shine at first, and some doesn't necessarily shine all the time. Gold comes from sand, but it takes a long time to wait and experience for sand to become gold. A moment of sparkle doesn't mean anything, and only by keeping this light and letting it shine brighter and brighter can you prove that you are a piece of gold.
"The human body is full of my personal stage, there are countless roads in life, the key is just a few steps, I am willing to keep every step. Xu Feng said. The mobile phone rang, and when he looked at Wei Dahai's phone, he said with a smile: "This guy may be doing something, and he wants to drink again." Then he answered the phone and said, "Well." ”
"What are you doing, I don't know if the branch will open tomorrow, why don't you come over quickly. Wei Dahai said.
"We are sealing a building, we haven't even eaten, and we are rushing back. Xu Feng said.
"It's really not a matter of care, we've all arrived at the branch, and it's up to you. Wei Dahai said.
"There's no way, you can't go if you want to go now, you can do it yourself, anyway, it's not the first time to open, what to do is familiar to you, it doesn't matter if I go or not." Xu Feng said with a smile.
"Excuse, I want to hide from Qingjing, don't I want to drink tomorrow's wine? Wei Dahai said.
"That's two different things, let's talk about what you're talking about, when did you pay attention to it before, it's not that our brothers are busy, who says anything about you. Xu Feng said.
"What's the matter, hurry up. Wei Dahai said.
"You don't look at the time anymore, it's not midnight to rush over now, you guys are busy, I'm driving, don't talk nonsense, bye." Xu Feng said and hung up the phone.
"The barbecue square has opened another branch, and the business of keeping promises is getting bigger and bigger, and I am really happy for him. Li Chunhua said.
"If it continues to develop like this, it will not take a few years to become a famous brand. Xu Feng said.
"I didn't get admitted to the civil service at the beginning, I didn't find a job, I started an individual, and I was so successful, it can be said that there is no way out, and there is no way out. Li Chunhua said.
"This is all forced out, as a man, it is impossible to do nothing, and it is impossible to rely on Lao Tzu to support him for a lifetime, so that he will not be ridiculed, what is the point of living. Xu Feng said with a smile.
"Who doesn't want to make a difference, but the reality is so stressful that it's easier said than done. Li Chunhua said.
"People can only be motivated by pressure, and a person's growth must be tempered. Xu Feng said. Sometimes, you have to be yourself once, otherwise you will never be able to live yourself. Three hundred and sixty-five days a year, it seems complicated but it is simple, the truth is true and false, and it is difficult to tell the truth. I am not necessarily useful by nature, I may be ahead if I take one more step, spring, summer, autumn and winter year after year, it is difficult to be a good person, and it is even more difficult. People are forced out, they always have to sweat a lot in vain, and the mountains do not turn and the water turns, and they can always turn out of the sky. A person's success depends on various factors such as will, spirit, vision, and ability. However, if a person wants to succeed, he must first learn to persevere, and giving up halfway will never lead to success.
"Every human being has potential, born in peace and dying in sorrow. Therefore, in the journey of life, don't be anxious when facing pressure, maybe this is just a small test of life for you. Believe in yourself and everything can be taken care of. If you are in a hurry, you can go to Liangshan, the times create heroes, the poor think about change, and people will only have motivation if they are under pressure. Li Chunhua said.
"Being forced to change your mentality, being forced to have goals, being forced to prioritize, being forced to act immediately, being forced to move forward, being forced to burst your potential, forcing yourself to find opportunities, forcing yourself to keep moving, forcing yourself to create wealth, and forcing yourself to succeed. Although it is very helpless to be forced, it is also a blessing to be forced, if a person does not push himself, he will not know how good he is at all, everyone has potential, so when facing pressure, believe in yourself, everything can be handled well. Xu Feng said.
"The most important thing is to choose, from the day we are born, except that our parents cannot choose, because that existed before we were born, everything else can be chosen. Li Chunhua said.
"Faith is the surest pillar of life. Xu Feng said. People say that the sky is full of clouds, but they still firmly believe that the sky will be as clear as the Spirit Lake after all. People say that people in the world want to be rampant, but they still firmly believe that human nature will be as brilliant as the stars after all. People say that life is kind and can be bullied, but they still firmly believe that kindness will be as real as the sun after all. People say that life has nothing to look forward to, but they still firmly believe that life will eventually be as surging as the sea.
"Our lives are like the sea, sometimes turbulent, sometimes still like water, which catches us off guard, we can only accept it, slowly adjust ourselves to it. Li Chunhua said.
"Being strong is a driving force, but it also has flaws, and not all people can be a strong person. To be a strong person is indispensable to the ability to live, to do things, the way of life, as a person, to believe in warmth, beauty, trust, dignity, strong these old words. Don't be decadent, empty, confused, abuse yourself, and hurt others. Don't identify with those who pretend to be cool and alternative. They are people who have nothing to do, and they find excuses to let themselves have nothing to do. The real cool is on the inside. You have to have a strong heart. Have the faith that no matter how time passes, you will not be tormented and succumbed. Xu Feng said.
"For many people, due to the lack of necessary cognition and training, they have been trekking in the dark depths of the soul for many years, lazy in fantasies, weak-willed, shy, timid, afraid of contact with the opposite sex, afraid of conflict, low self-esteem, poor psychological quality, and easy to be controlled by others because their hearts are not strong enough. Li Chunhua said.
"Who does not have pain, as long as you are willing to use a master's mentality to face your work and life again, you will feel happy. Xu Feng said. In fact, the difference between people is not as big as we imagined, not so much the difference in IQ, but the difference in thinking. We can't change the rules of this world, we can't change our past, but at least we can change our mentality towards the world, change our view of the past, and face the world again with a new mode of thinking.
When he came to the barbecue square and stopped the car, Chen Zihao's car also stopped, and people got out of the car. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile: "How about it, is there an endless topic for old classmates to meet?" ”
"That's, of course, there's an endless amount of words. Li Chunhua said.
"What did you talk about?" Mr. Qiu said.
"What do you say? Xu Feng said with a smile.
"How do I know this, you have a flamboyant tongue, especially in front of a girl, you can't say anything. Qiu Weiqiang said.
"Don't think about it, people used to be my boss, how dare I make a mistake. Xu Feng said with a smile.
"What you think is too complicated, apart from falling in love between men and women, there is no other topic, and it is really a layman. Li Chunhua said.
"Yes, yes, I'm not vulgar. Qiu Weiqiang said with a smile.
"You're really, it's okay to tease, and it's not for nothing that people can tell you anything. Chen Zihao said with a smile.
"He is a mouse grinding his teeth, he has nothing to say, and he wants to take the opportunity to talk to a beautiful woman, which is purely a bad heart, and his conscience is greatly broken. Xu Feng said with a smile. (To be continued.) )