cpa300_4();“ The rules are made by people, and the rules are made by people, and they have great flexibility, and the leaders of many things know very well what is going on, and they will make it clear to him, and they will not hold anyone accountable. ●⌒, everyone has a mistake, especially in our line of work, the loan can not be a mistake no, it is also impossible, if you don't make it clear to him, then it is not good, a sentence according to the regulations, the final bad luck can only be yourself. Zhang Jian said.

"Therefore, you have to be cautious and careful in everything you do, and you can't end up like Lao Bao, it's really embarrassing, so what face do you have to do in a business bank. Chen Zihao said.

"You are different from Lao Bao, it was all his own fault, not to mention, relying on the previous relationship with the old president, not taking anyone in his eyes, especially with President Shao, there are many contradictions between the two, how can President Shao swallow this breath, so it is a matter of course for him to do it. This is also to use him as a target, one is to kill his arrogance, and the other is to establish his own majesty, let the following open their eyes and see, who dares not to listen to him, this is his fate. Zhang Jian said.

"Lao Bao also doesn't know the level of his eyebrows, since he has changed the leader, he should see the wind and rudder and go with the flow, otherwise it won't be this ending. Qian Xiaolong said.

"It's too late, it's not a matter of a day or two to think about him, and finally I have a chance, and I can't let him go. Lao Bao is also unpopular, and everyone who does it will relieve his hatred, it can't be said that President Shao has no level, and he has just the right grasp of the heat, and no one can say anything. Zhang Jian said.

"It's too ruthless to do this, and even the old governor doesn't give face, as the saying goes. Don't look at the face of the monk and look at the face of the Buddha. Years of subordinate relationship. How should you take care of it, if you want to do it, you should do it slowly, you can't see immediate results, the first one to do is the old bag. Qian Xiaolong said.

"This is called an iron fist, you can't have the slightest personal feelings, you have to be surprised by everything, you can't let people have a chance to breathe, otherwise you won't get the desired effect. Lao Bao's ending is good, if it weren't for the old president's face, he would have been dismissed on the spot, and the ending would have been much worse than now. Zhang Jian said.

"It's not bad, look at his pitiful strength, how can there be a little shadow of the original, he is simply down-and-out, there is no human appearance, but he also deserves it, who made him have a bad heart. In order to become the director, secretly fix your black materials. So that you have suffered a lot of grievances, if I absolutely can't swallow this breath, and help him to settle things, I won't do anything to kill him, just take the opportunity to completely defeat him, so that he will never be able to turn over. Qian Xiaolong said.

In life, when getting along with others, do not take extreme ways to expose and attack the disadvantages of others, but in line with the attitude of forgiving and forgiving people with tolerance to tolerate, so that the other party is ashamed of the better, will be grateful to you for saving face for him, maintain his dignity, will be grateful to you from the bottom of my heart. Otherwise, it will only hurt both sides, ruin their own reputations and damage the relationship between both parties. It's not a big deal, it's forgiving and forgiving, and you have to know how to be reasonable and give three points. Traditional Chinese virtues talk about forgiveness, pay attention to self-esteem, do not do to others what you do not want, so it is also a virtue to be tolerant and forgive others. Zhang Jian said.

That is, you are magnanimous, regardless of previous suspicions, ordinary people really can't do it, which is worthy of everyone's admiration. Chen Zihao said.

"Being generous is a virtue, but also a kind of great wisdom of being a man, there is no deep hatred between people, there is no big conflict, occasionally some small friction is inevitable. At this time, you only need to face these small contradictions with a tolerant heart, so that your popularity index can become more and more prosperous. Zhang Jian said. In life and work, we often fight for some non-principled issues and small or superficial problems, and no one is willing to bow to the upper hand, and when we say the next sentence, we will talk about it more seriously, so that we have to decide whether to give up. As a result, Yan zhòng's big fight, or a troublesome breakup, chickens, flying dogs, and jumping affect unity. The more such people are, the more they look down on those who are willing to bow down. To use a popular phrase nowadays, play deep. In fact, playing a little deep is showing the graceful demeanor, the competitive and competitive may not be able to grasp the truth, and the humble person, originally looked at the outstanding, not to mention a little argument about right and wrong, it is not worth being called the champion at all, the more you are reasonable, the more humble you have to be, often able to show a person's mind and cultivation.

"In life, there are often some people who are very domineering, they have to fight for three points unreasonably, and they don't let people do it, on the contrary, some people have the truth in their hands, and they don't say anything, and they also make three points, which seems to be supple and gentle. Chen Zihao said. The former is often an unstable factor in life, while the latter has a natural centripetal force, one lives on Twitter, and the other lives naturally and chicly. Reasonable, unreasonable, forgiving and unforgiving, generally in the field of right and wrong, in debate. Sometimes if you really do something that is not right to people, you feel guilty, you can apologize to others, and people listen to them angrily, which is a matter of course. On the other hand, if someone does something sorry for you, and they apologize, as long as it is okay, don't be unforgiving, not to break it, or even deliberately retaliate. If that's the case, then there will be no reason, and people should be able to stand on a high place and think in the open place, so that they can understand and forgive others. Forgiving people is not the same as nesting, as long as this loss is in the open, it is deliberately noble, and there is nothing to be angry about. It looks like a nest, but in fact, it is the perfect and noble personality, and the sublime beauty it brings is a kind of spiritual enjoyment that is hard to buy.

"As the old saying goes, if a person is not a sage, he can do nothing. When others make mistakes or offend us intentionally or unintentionally, we should be forgiving and forgiving, giving them understanding, care and help, and helping them to mend their ways, so that there will be less resentment, struggle, and frame-up, and more true friends. At the same time, those who know how to tolerate others will also be respected and loved by others. Zhang Jian said.

"So Lao Bao's ending is not good, and it is also a lesson for him. Qian Xiaolong said.

"In the afternoon, I listened to President Shao talking to a certain director, and I was very dissatisfied with him, if my guess is right, it seems that this person is soon, maybe one day it will be taken away, maybe tomorrow. Zhang Jian said.

"Who could this person be?" Mr. Qian said.

"How can I know this, but judging from the tone of his voice, President Shao is very angry, such a person can still work, President Shao has not been in office for a long time, his position is not very consolidated, many people are still not convinced by him, he knows this very well, he must try to establish his prestige. Zhang Jian said.

Leaders need to build authority because leaders are different from the crowd. The general public only needs to do their own thing, and they don't need to rely on their prestige to lead others to do something. Leaders are not, and if leaders do not establish their authority, they cannot play the role of leaders, and they cannot rely on others to succeed. The so-called prestige refers to the ability to influence and change the psychology and behavior of others in social interactions. Prestige is a silent call, a silent command. For a leader to fully exert his leadership function, the level of prestige is a key factor. However, prestige cannot be demanded from superiors or boasted by others, and must be earned by one's own non-power influence. In general, effective leaders tend to be those who have authority. The so-called authoritative leadership means that on the one hand, power makes people feel awe and must obey, and on the other hand, because of prestige, people are convinced and willing to accept it from the heart. Prestige can be said to be the halo of a leader. Without it, even the most capable leader will appear useless, dull and despised in the eyes of others. In order to maintain the governor's position and enhance his prestige, measures will certainly be taken.

"It must be a knife on someone. Chen Zihao said.

"Needless to say, this is the only way to have a deterrent effect. Qian Xiaolong said.

"Now is an extraordinary period, we must maintain a good relationship with the leader, we have a good relationship with each other, otherwise we won't use you, but if you really make him disgusted, a word will be taken away, so the officer must be careful and careful, and he can't let him grab the handle." Zhang Jian said.

"It is said that the companion is like a tiger, this is true, doing things next to the leader, you will feel creepy, for fear of being taken down one day, in fact, it is better to be an employee worry-free, at least not so much thought. Qian Xiaolong said.

"People go to high places, water flows to low places, who doesn't want to have a good future. Zhang Jian said.

"But the reality is that it's so hard to mix and make people feel furious. Qian Xiaolong said.

"In fact, how to treat superiors, say complex and complex, simple and simple, good communication is always the best way out of interpersonal relationships, how to maintain efficient communication with superiors, it is necessary to report diligently, ask for more instructions. In the report and request, find the voice and opinions of the superior, in the work to grasp the direction of the work, and win the satisfaction of the superior. This kind of report and request for instructions, for the superiors, the subordinates show the greatest sincerity and respect their own opinions and opinions, and of course they will be impressed by such subordinates and entrust them with important tasks. Zhang Jian said.

"It's too tiring to think about this every day, and then you will do a good job. Qian Xiaolong said.

"You just became the deputy director, and you don't know much about what is going on inside, but you will naturally know it after a long time. Zhang Jian said.

"You used to be a director, so you naturally know very well what is going on, and how can I know the mystery. Qian Xiaolong said. (To be continued.) )