"This person's popularity is really not good, if you can lend money, you will definitely not lose so badly, it was a good card, but the result was a failure, it is really unimaginable. Li Tiecheng said.

Therefore, everything must be credited, words must be believed, deeds must be fruitful, a gentleman is difficult to chase after a word, and must treat people with sincerity, and others will repay with sincerity. Chang Shouxin said.

People are mixed in the rivers and lakes, and their personal power is small, and they need the help of friends in everything. As the saying goes, the more friends there are, the easier the road to walk, one fence with three piles, and one hero with three gangs. Life in the world is always inseparable from friends, and the friendship and support of friends are indispensable. Because many problems in life are often impossible to solve by one person, and can only be completed with the cooperation and help of others. However, people are emotional animals, and no matter how good a relationship is, it can't withstand a little thing. Because of a small thing, relatives will never interact with each other, and friends will be estranged from each other. Only if you treat others with sincerity will others treat you with sincerity. To improve your relationships, you should start by changing yourself, you should treat others as you would like them to be treated, and don't expect a close friend to give you what you need. With the acceleration of the pace of life, the impetuousness and utilitarianism of society, there are too many people who can't distinguish between right and wrong, and there are fewer and fewer real friends, and even think that no one is trustworthy. As a result, there is a fear of friends, which requires winning the trust of the other party in order to establish a true friendship.

"I think the most important thing to socialize with friends is to be sincere, to be tolerant, not too utilitarian, to eat a little loss as a fool to have a fool's luck, everything is better to empathize, although this sometimes tiresome, but it is easy to mingle with everyone. When you encounter a problem, I will try my best to help you solve it, and my favorite sentence is. One for all, all for one. Pan Xueliang said.

One wants to have something to gain. You have to give something first, and it is impractical and impossible to always want others to pay for you first. It is not easy for everyone in this society, and most of the time people are involuntarily, so even if they are hurt by others, they must try to learn to think positively and optimistically. Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes, think about it from the perspective of others, some actions are indeed hateful. But there is also pity for the hateful. How to live is often not a choice for oneself. It's the persecution of fate. At the same time, everyone has something you should respect and learn from, look at people from the perspective of development, and don't look down on others because you have something.

It is important to know that man is not isolated in society, and that his existence is the result of the action of various relationships. It is through guò that people interact with others to develop themselves and realize their own values. Interpersonal communication is an indispensable part of human society, and many of people's needs are met in interpersonal communication. If interpersonal relationships are not going well, it means that psychological needs are deprived or the desire to satisfy them is frustrated, resulting in a feeling of isolation or social abandonment. On the contrary, they will get psychological satisfaction from having good interpersonal relationships. Only with integrity can we stand between heaven and earth. Integrity is like the axis of the earth. Although it is invisible, it can support the whole earth. The most important thing in making friends is sincerity, only with a sincere attitude to interact with others, others will return with sincerity. Don't hypocritically make friends with others just because they are useful. Doing so can make your relationships weak and break down easily.

"The most important thing in interpersonal relationships is sincerity, which is the foundation and premise of friendship. Xu Feng said.

Only sincere and trustworthy people in the relationship, in order to win the trust and friendship of others, if you do not pay sincerely, how can you ask others to return your true feelings, and to be sincere from the heart, sincerity is an invincible sword in society. You should take it with you everywhere you go, otherwise you won't be able to move an inch. It's like the guy I just said. It's because I don't have credit on weekdays, and I can't borrow a penny. As a result, you lost a chance to win in vain, and you should really reflect on yourself and why you have fallen into this situation.

"Of course, this is just a joke, gambling itself is a bad thing, you have the right to listen to it, you can't take it too seriously. Pan Xueliang said.

However, through this incident, it can be seen that honesty is very important to a person, and good integrity is an intangible wealth. I often hear the stories of many successful people, and a large part of their success is due to their good reputation. Even when he is very depressed and difficult, he can make the people around him willing to believe in him and help him. On the contrary, there are many people who were quite successful, but suddenly disappeared silently, also because of integrity. Because he usually doesn't pay attention to credibility in life and things, when he encounters difficulties, no one is willing to lend a hand, and even stepped forward, which accelerates his fiasco.

There is a story about a merchant who was crossing a river and his boat sank, and he grabbed a wooden pole and shouted for help. When a fisherman heard this, the merchant hurriedly cried out, "If you can save me, give you a hundred taels of gold." But when he was rescued ashore, the merchant turned his face and denied it, and he only gave the fisherman ten taels of gold. The fisherman blamed him for not keeping his word and going back on his word. The rich man said that you are a fisherman, and you can't earn a few dollars in your life, and suddenly you are not satisfied with ten taels of gold, and the fisherman has no choice but to go. Unexpectedly, the rich man capsized on the spot again, and someone wanted to save him, and the fisherman who had been deceived by him said: He is the one who doesn't count. So there was no one to rescue them, and the merchant drowned. It was by chance that the merchant capsized twice and met the same fisherman, but the merchant's bad news was expected. Because if a person does not keep his word, he will lose the trust of others. So, once he is in trouble, no one is willing to come to the rescue. Those who lose their trust in others can only sit back and wait for death once they suffer.

"Such a person is indeed very angry, a manly man, a spit is a nail, whoever makes him talk does not count, and he deserves to die, and he is not worthy of sympathy at all. Li Tiecheng said.

"We met such a loan household, his name is Ma Zhongxiang, he runs a paper mill, and he is looking for a loan through guò connections, and in order to take care of the face of the relation, he promised him that as long as he finds a guarantor with financial strength, he can issue a loan, but because he has no credit, no one will guarantee him, and in the end, the loan has to be lost. Xu Feng said about Ma Zhongxiang.

"It's simply not a bit virtuous, you can't give him a penny of loans, it's not that I curse him, such a person can't go on for a long time, and sooner or later he will go bankrupt and go bankrupt. Pan Xueliang said.

"Now the bank on the borrower review strictly, mainly to make the borrower have a good credit, the current loan policy environment is changeable, the borrower's review is becoming more and more strict, if the borrower is overdue, after a certain number of times, the bank will be blacklisted, as the saying goes, it is good to borrow and repay, and then it is not difficult to borrow, the borrower only maintains personal credit, and the loan will not run into walls everywhere. Xu Feng said.

"It seems that personal credit is so important, as a business, the first and most important thing is an integrity, which is also what everyone pursues and hopes to get, this is a kind of moral norms, integrity is not difficult to say easy to say. Chang Shouxin said.

"I'm also a little worried that the stall is getting bigger and bigger, and if there is a little mistake, the consequences will be unimaginable, and the hard work will be in vain. Li Tiecheng said.

"The gradual development and growth of enterprises, this is the inevitable trend, there is no progress without development, low speed is equal to stop, even equal to retreat, to seize the opportunity, now is a good opportunity, I am worried about the loss of opportunities, do not grasp, see the opportunity to lose, time will pass in a flash. Chang Shouxin said.

"It makes sense that the so-called opportunity, opportunity, that is, a factor that appears in the process of the movement of things can be used to promote one's own development, and opportunity is the ladder of things to move forward. Pan Xueliang said.

In good times, there are positive factors that promote development, and in bad times, there are also favorable factors. Opportunity should emphasize its contingency and time is always ticking. The situation is always changing, favorable conditions cannot be eternal, and some external factors are even more difficult to encounter. That's why opportunity, opportunity, is also called opportunity. Opportunities exist objectively, while seizing opportunities has a great relationship with subjective efforts. If you can't perceive the opportunity, don't grasp it, and don't act quickly, you will waste time, and you may lead to failure. Seize the time, take advantage of the positive factors, seize the opportunity, and develop yourself.

"Life is like a countercurrent, if you don't advance, you will retreat, there will always be only forward or backward, there is no such thing as standing still, so even if you don't have a goal, you won't stay the same, you do what you should do, it's a kind of progress. Xu Feng said.

"The key is that we are operating on a small scale, and we don't have so much strength, but we can't help but lose, it's not easy to save some money, once we lose this life, we won't turn over, and we will inevitably have some concerns. Li Tiecheng said.

"There is a little story that will inspire you, someone asked the farmer, "Have you planted wheat?" and the farmer replied: No, I am worried that it will not rain. The farmer replied, "No, I'm worried that the insects will eat the cotton." The farmer replied, "Nothing, I want to make sure it's safe." Come to think of it, it is only natural for a person who is unwilling to give and take risks to achieve nothing. Pan Xueliang said.

"For the opportunities that arise, we must know how to cherish them, but also be able to seize them, think that they will get it, we must strive for it, as long as we are well prepared, evaluate our own ability, as long as we have confidence, we will definitely be able to get it. Xu Feng said. (To be continued.) )