"As the saying goes, there are hundreds of people, all kinds of people, and the same rice grains in the world raise thousands of people. Zhou Jun said.

As he was talking, Ke Liang's mobile phone rang again, and as soon as the phone was connected, someone still wanted to invite him to dinner, but Ke Liang said: "I'm sorry, I'm with friends, I really don't have time, I have a chance to talk about it." ”

"Why talk nonsense with him, it's not over if you refuse a word. Huo Guangming said.

"To put it in my heart, some people I don't want to answer them, but such people can't be hurt too badly, after all, they are all people who are mixed in the world, and they will inevitably have the opportunity to meet in the future, maybe they will be able to use him, don't talk to death at any time, don't do things absolutely, it is a classic of life, leave three points of leeway for others, that is, leave three points of leeway for yourself. Ke Liang said.

The so-called endless road to heaven, even heaven will leave a turning point for everyone. In life, whether you are a person or a worker, you must learn to leave room for it. Don't be full of words, you can't do things. Leaving no room for a stalemate is like a chess stalemate, even if you don't lose, you can't go any further. To leave room for others is to leave a way out for yourself. The tongue is like a sharp blade, and it hurts a man with a knife or a spear. The sword has only one edge, but the tongue has a hundred edges. He will not burn incense to offend God, nor will he speak to offend people. Mosquitoes are swatted just to hurt people in the mouth. Don't talk short in front of the dwarf, be cautious when joking, and don't hurt people when you say it. If you say the same, you can say it in two ways, no matter how long you have your eyes, the topic will not be in the minefield. If you don't have to talk about it, you have room to maneuver. If you talk too much, there is no way back. Ambiguous language that can be attacked and defended. Deliberate misinterpretation. Get rid of each other's entanglements. Difficult question to answer. Just find a way to dodge, express your position carefully, and don't leave people with a handle. Humorous language, turn hostility into jade silk, if it is not easy to say clearly, it will be conveyed implicitly, and there is something in the words, so that the other party will retreat. It's not too high to say. If you get it back, you can call it high.

"Being born in the world, talking and doing things, it can be said that each of us is born with the ability, but it is not everyone who can grasp it well if we speak clearly and do things clearly. Speaking and doing things is an art of life, which is easier said than done, and the difficulty lies in how to be measured. That is to say, we must know the importance of words and deeds, and at least have a degree. If you master this degree, you will be able to stand up in society and become a master of communication. Zhou Jun said.

"Use your brain to speak. Be sensitive, and talk too much. The mouth is just a speaker, and you must pay attention to the supervision and control of the FM knob and sound control switch, otherwise it will bring you a lot of trouble. Ke Liang said.

Don't just talk about the momentary pleasure, thinking that people are giving you a smile is appreciation, and endlessly tell all the words that dig out your heart, and as a result, people will thoroughly find out the details, so that they can deal with you. Therefore, don't rush to conclusions, even if you have an answer, you have to wait, maybe there is a better way to solve it, there are different answers from different angles, you must learn to empathize, especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait and rely on it, many times not only the trouble is resolved, maybe good luck is also coming. In a person's life, he will come into contact with all kinds of people, encounter all kinds of things, and it is purely normal for love and hatred to appear. But everything has a cause and effect, there is no love for no reason in this world, there is no hate for no reason, and there is no free lunch, and the pay and gain are always equal. Just be sure. The reason for the so-called coffin closure is simple, but some people are in a hurry. No one has a theoretical basis to distinguish between good people and bad guys, in fact, it is a matter of interest relationship.

Everything in the world, all kinds of situations in the world, daily life should be commonplace, but it is difficult to tolerate the psychology of snobs, but you have no way, you can not come and go in life, but you must be in contact at work, which is a kind of pain and helplessness in life. A villain is a person who is cautious and small-minded, and loves to play clever and make small calculations. If you are small-minded, you can't fit the affairs of the world, but only your own affairs, and you can't pretend to be big things, and there are a lot of small things. The heart is small, the small is not big, the big thing is not the big thing, the big thing is only the small thing, and the long-term is only. Such a person focuses on everything small, stares at small things, calculates, uses small brains, is smart for a while, and is confused for a lifetime. First, the gain and loss of interests are the basic criteria for dealing with the world, and if it is advantageous, it will be up, and if it is not profitable, it will be retreated. Snobbery plus villains are people who see profit and forget righteousness. For the sake of their own interests, today they can call you brothers, even before and after the saddle, tomorrow they will say that you are useless and turn against each other. In order to achieve their own goals, they will do whatever it takes, talk about right and wrong, and even lower their own personality, nodding their heads and waists, and shaking their heads and tails around the powerful. For the sake of the so-called dignity of oneself, regardless of the impact of the work and the interests of everyone, this kind of person has no righteous deeds, only profits, no friends, only opponents, even today's friend relationship, in his psychology also prevents your conflict of interest with him.

The open gun is easy to dodge, the hidden arrow is difficult to prevent, the villain who calculates you behind will never disappear, this is Chinese characteristics, the villain can not be offended, and the villain is also unforgivable, this is the eternal truth, in the end, the villain also has a small side, treat this kind of person to be steady and ruthless, you can pretend that nothing happened, the world is peaceful, everything is fine, and then come to a Ming plank road, secretly cross Chen Cang, fight poison with poison, let the kid know that the villain is not something that anyone can do, and it is also difficult to be a good person, and it is also difficult to be a villain.

In fact, in everyone's heart, it is difficult to say that there is no villain's appearance, but I don't feel it. Even if you think the villain is, maybe he thinks he's still a gentleman. Dissecting yourself is the hardest. The human heart is complex and multifaceted, and people can also change. It is not easy to survive, people's selfishness is innate and deep-rooted, especially in this era of extremely cruel competition, we should be careful, observe these villains, deal with these villains, and carefully observe and think about the gentleman's trip, and silently walk on the road of life. Throughout the ages, snobbery has been everywhere. Usually, snobs will hide their snobbish faces in different ways, but when it comes to their own fame and fortune, the villain's behavior is revealed.

People live in groups, and things are divided by categories. In today's materialistic society, it is an indisputable fact that people need to cooperate with each other in order to survive. However, in the course of communication, many unpleasant things often happen between people. There are some people, when someone is proud, they are cheeky and stick to it, and the purpose of flattery is nothing more than to elevate themselves, take the opportunity to sell their reputation, or make personal gains, or get fishy and borrowing, in order to seek their own interests. In the officialdom, villains are light, small groups and small organizations are touted and attacked, and snobbery makes the air full of the smell of acid rain. These villains are afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and they will not hesitate to fall into the well when you are frustrated, and they can't wait to put you to death, so they are happy.

In the face of danger, how to act in order to succeed, first, to be docile and pleasant, not to be pretentious, to be happy and convincing to conform to the way of heaven, according to etiquette. Second, if you want to overcome the danger, you must be in the middle, be frank, have the courage to break through the barriers, and not be affected by the outside world and mess with yourself. Third, the most important thing is to be cautious and fearful. If you don't have enough talent, don't take the risk, and if you're in a high position and talented, don't be lawless and stubborn.

Successful people take the initiative in everything, fools miss opportunities, wise people are good at seizing opportunities, successful people create opportunities, having resources is not necessarily successful, people who make good use of resources will succeed, any successful person, must rely on investing in the head to make money, everything in the shortest time, take the most action, if you want to become a successful person, you must do a little more than your opponent, one step faster than your opponent.

"It is worthy of being a mixed person in the officialdom, and he is thorough. Be cautious in everything, as the saying goes, prudence can catch cicadas, be careful to make the ship of ten thousand years, other people's faces, don't care too much, do what you should do, this is absolutely not wrong. Zhou Jun said.

If you hear more and are suspicious, and be cautious about the rest, you will be few, and if you are cautious, you will regret it. Words are scarce, deeds are regretful, and Lu is in it. It means listening to a lot, keeping the doubts, and saying the rest with confidence can reduce mistakes. If there is much doubt, keep it, and the rest of the parts that are enough to be confident, and implement them carefully, you can reduce remorse. If there are fewer mistakes in words and less remorse in action, you will be able to obtain official positions, which are the words of Confucius, and the content is simple and easy to understand and practical.

There are many people who love to tell the truth in life, and when they encounter things, they often ignore them, just say it, no face, and don't want to speak on occasions, such people are not popular with others. Straightforward words should also be measured, the tongue turns a few more bends, blunt is a sharp blade, hurt others and hurt yourself, don't break through the point, don't be more serious when you should be confused, when you can be confused, confused, be wise and foolish, let yourself jump over the obstacles, don't be too serious, it's more rare to be confused, too shrewd, is the root of trouble, the display of talent should be stopped, open one eye to the world, close one eye to make friends, keep in mind the ancient adage of not asking relatives.

"That's it now, what can you do, can't hurt people too much, as the saying goes, feng shui takes turns, everything in the world has always been a few years in Hedong, a few years in Hexi, a qiē is possible, maybe one day it will be used, you have to leave a way back for yourself." Officialdom has paid attention to the word sleek from ancient times to the present, that is, it can handle things very properly, and no one can try not to offend. Ke Liang said. (To be continued......)