Chapter 343: Pan Da Shao
In his previous life, Zhang Junyi could often hear a sentence, that is, if he didn't go to Beijing, he didn't know that he was too young to be an official, he didn't know that he didn't have a bad car in Guangzhou, he didn't know that he didn't have a good car, he didn't know that he didn't have enough money in Shenzhen, he didn't know that he didn't have less money in the Northeast, he didn't know that he didn't get married in Chongqing, he didn't get married early, he didn't know that he didn't go to Shanghai, he didn't know that he didn't go to Hainan, and he didn't know that he was in bad health.
But in this era of Xiangjiang, it is also appropriate to paraphrase this sentence, that is, if you don't go to Xiangjiang, you don't know that there are fewer second-generation people in Xiangjiang.
In this era, to be honest, there are really a lot of second-generation people in Xiangjiang.
However, these second-generation people are not all gentlemen, to be honest, from his own personal point of view, Zhang Junyi thinks that most of the second-generation people in Xiangjiang are of good quality.
Of course, if these second-generation people are really more serious, they are no longer at the same level as Zhang Junyi, and with Zhang Junyi's somewhat withdrawn personality, they basically have nothing to do with them.
But to say that there is no contact at all, it is not all right, in addition to the son-in-law of the charter king, there is also a second generation who can speak in front of Zhang Junyi, that is, Pan Disheng, the son of the famous clock king Pan family in Xiangjiang.
After all, Zhang Junyi is still more willing to associate with the second generation of people like Pan Disheng, who are well-born and talented and willing to work hard, but there are too few such people in Xiangjiang, and the second generation who can have such a family background and be willing to start a business on his own, and at the same time can run his own business, is definitely promising in Zhang Junyi's view.
And according to the memory of his previous life, Pan Disheng will also achieve a considerable level in the future.
Although the quality of the second generation of Xiangjiang in this era is not bad, it is just good, at most they have more than enough to defend the city, but if they are allowed to start their own businesses like Pan Disheng, hehe, Zhang Junyi really didn't find it.
Of course, the entrepreneurship mentioned here, the kind of petty Zhang Junyi is not counted.
And Pan Disheng has one thing that Zhang Junyi particularly values, that is, although he also likes beauty, he definitely pays attention to your love and my willingness, as the saying goes, it is romantic but not obscene.
How can I say it, including myself, is there any normal man in this world who is completely immune to beauty, anyway, others Zhang Junyi doesn't know, he can't do it.
From this point of view, Pan Disheng's style of doing things in this regard, Zhang Junyi feels that he is quite compatible with himself, and he is very polite to girls and quite gentlemanly.
If you have to use one sentence to describe it, Zhang Junyi feels that Pan Disheng is a bit in line with the famous people on Taiwan Island, a character portrayed in the works of Gu Dada, yes, it is Chu Liuxiang, the son is accompanied by flowers and loses beauty, and the handsome man walks on the moon and stays fragrant. Not to mention the neatness of the battle, the picturesque artistic conception alone is already refreshing. At the beginning, the wonderful passage "Wenjun has a white jade beauty, carved with wonderful hands, extremely graceful, and yearning for it." Tonight, when I step on the moon to get it, Jun Su Yada will not make me go back and forth in vain.
Of course, the treatment of women is only a small aspect of Zhang Junyi's willingness to associate with Pan Disheng, and the more reason is that Zhang Junyi thinks that Pan Dashao works hard enough, yes, it is hard work!
Zhang Junyi likes this utilitarian world because it acknowledges everyone's efforts.
After going around in the mortal world of his previous life, Zhang Junyi was thinking about a miracle in this life, so that he could change his fate in an instant. But after a journey, I found that I could only bring back one sentence: because I have nothing, I have to fight.
Why does Zhang Junyi work hard, or to put it more appropriately, why do he work so hard?
Some people are born with the wealth that you can't get in your life, and some people are already pulling you several streets in terms of appearance when they are born.
No way, that's the reality.
It is also these realizations that let Zhang Junyi know his situation and way out in this life: he has no choice but to work hard, and he has no way to escape.
Because Zhang Junyi doesn't want his golden finger to live up to his ambitions!
Because Zhang Junyi wants to have the ability to say no at any time!
Because Zhang Junyi wants the best thing for the person he loves!
Because Zhang Junyi wants the best!
Because Zhang Junyi knows that people are high and low!
Because Zhang Junyi feels that Wuyong is the most pitiful!
Because Zhang Junyi is young!
And Zhang Junyi, who has regained his life, clearly recognizes the reality of this society, if he doesn't work hard, there will be more pressure at the bottom, pressure from all aspects and in all senses.
As the old saying goes: people go to high places, and water flows to low places.
According to Maslow's needs theory, the first layer is physiological needs, the second level is safety needs, the third level is social needs, the fourth level is respect needs, and the fifth level is self-actualization needs.
The division of social classes is actually similar to this, the bottom thinks about how to survive the most, and the more you get up, the more abstract but indispensable you want to achieve.
Social resources are limited and unevenly distributed, and the higher you go, the more resources you have. Therefore, desperately climbing to the upper echelons of society is actually to obtain more social resources, life is easier, there is no need to worry about food and clothing needs, and what can be pursued is closer to the desire itself, that is, to meet the most secret needs of the heart. For example, I want to be respected by many people, and I want to leave my mark on historical achievements. The higher you go, the more resources and freedom.
Secondly, the upper echelons of society also have a very important voice, that is: the people who make the rules of the game. If you want to win forever and be invincible forever, you just need to be the one who makes the rules. Whoever sets the rules will also decide who wins or loses.
It's just that the rise of social class is not so easy, and it really takes a lot of effort to do it, because the competition is more fierce than thousands of troops crossing a single-plank bridge. Of course, the return is also very rich, this return is not limited to material, and there are many things that money can't buy, after all, the higher the level of the thirst for material is not so high, more emphasis on spirit and self-cultivation, as well as essential connections. The sign of entering a class is that you really have this absolute capital, and that you are really accepted by that circle.
The higher you go, the freer you become, this is the reason why Zhang Junyi has worked hard to become an upper-class person in this life.
In his previous life, Zhang Junyi's three friends encountered three different things, which touched Zhang Junyi a lot, and until now, Zhang Junyi has deeply remembered it in his heart.
In his previous life, Zhang Junyi once had a friend who went to the government department to do business, and when he came back, he said to Zhang Junyi, "Look at the faces of those dogs, one by one, as if others owe him 10,000 yuan, they drag things out, kick the ball, fuck, maybe one day I will complain to them." ”
There is also a friend who went shopping in a shopping mall, and then she said to Zhang Junyi, "Do you know how beautiful that dress is, I can imagine how high the return rate is when I wear it and walk on the street. That's right, this friend died the woman who betrayed him in Zhang Junyi's previous life!
The third friend went to repair the tooth, and came back and said to Zhang Junyi, "You said that a broken tooth costs more than 10,000 yuan, what else is planted, can't gold be made?" Lao Tzu is like a porcelain."
Once, too much once......
If you work hard enough, become the upper echelon of society......
If you are a government leader, your friends will do things......
If you are a multi-millionaire, will your woman still struggle for a dress?
If......
There are no ifs in the world, there are their own daily efforts.
Zhang Junyi advocates freedom, but in his previous life, as a member of the bottom, what freedom is there in terms of buying a dish, you have to bargain for the two or three cents when you buy a dish, and you are still thinking about taking a bus In fact, you can take a car without air conditioning in this weather, and you can save a dollar, you take the child out and pass by the door of Pizza Hut, and the child asks the mother what is pizza? What does pizza taste like?, for a person of your level of knowledge, I have never been to the restaurant to sit down, and every time I pass by in a hurry, how can I be free?
Yes, live again, the reason why Zhang Junyi is working hard now is to gain freedom, and only those who become the top few can have enough freedom!
In my previous life, until I went to college, I believed even more deeply: this world is unfair, some rights really need you to be strong enough before you can enjoy, some circles can only be involved after you reach a certain level, when you are not strong enough, you can really only be ignored, can only be "people speak lightly".
The deepest memory is an incident that happened when the roommates in the dormitory went out to dinner together, at that time, because he was just a freshman, in order to get along with everyone, Zhang Junyi worked hard to make a gregarious appearance, eating with everyone, going to the canteen together, going to the Internet café together, shopping together, although it was very tiring for a while, but in order not to let everyone say that he was "not social", but also in order not to be isolated by everyone, Zhang Junyi at that time struggled to support, although Zhang Junyi hated that kind of life. But at that time, Zhang Junyi was just a weak person who protested in his heart, but did not dare to make any changes. Because Zhang Junyi is afraid of being lonely and afraid of being told by others that he is a maverick.
One weekend, the next bedroom and Zhang Junyi's bedroom discussed going out for dinner together, Zhang Junyi had just entered college at that time, and Zhang Junyi, who was born as an orphan, had little money left in his pocket.
Originally, Zhang Junyi wanted to refuse, but in order not to spoil everyone's interest, he went hard. Everyone had a good time that day and drank a lot of wine, which also cost a lot of money, of course, this so-called lot of money was only what Zhang Junyi thought at that time. That day, it took Zhang Junyi a whole week's food expenses, to be honest, it was so distressing.
It's not because Zhang Junyi is reluctant to make that money, but because the money is the money that my Zhang Junyi earns from his part-time job, and Zhang Junyi may be able to make so much money when he is busy all day during the holidays, but he was squandered by himself overnight.
Later, on the way back, Zhang Junyi secretly scolded himself. After a period of struggle, Zhang Junyi went to say yes to them, and if it wasn't for major activities in the dormitory (such as roommate life, annual roommate dinner), Zhang Junyi would not go, and he also calmly told them about his situation.
It was also this incident that made Zhang Junyi know thoroughly that some people really have a gap with themselves, when they can go to a big shopping mall to buy thousands of clothes and shoes, just like Zhang Junyi's idea of buying 5 cents of candy: a piece of cake.
The accumulation of their ancestors can already make them worry-free, and they can also have capital to squander, but Zhang Junyi has no capital and no qualifications. In this race, it is obvious that Zhang Junyi is far from them at the starting line, so Zhang Junyi must work harder to catch up after being reborn.
Of course, in addition, hard work has now become the nature of this life, if you ask Zhang Junyi in the previous life this question, then the answer is probably that I hope to live a rich and happy life. However, in this life, he was reborn in a life, Zhang Junyi felt that a rich and happy life was only the most superficial purpose, and the most real purpose was probably that Zhang Junyi wanted to get rid of the ordinary and pursue a meaningful life.
Schopenhauer's philosophy is a good way to understand the philosophical implications.
Almost every person's destiny in life is work, worry, toil, and trouble, but if all desires are fulfilled as soon as they arise, how will people spend their lives and use their time? If humans live in a utopia, everything will be done automatically, the sky will fly like a roasted bird, everyone will immediately find the person they want and get along with each other without any problems, and these people will die of boredom or simply hang themselves.
Otherwise they will quarrel with each other, fight, murder, and cause more suffering. What is there in life other than the endless cycle of lack, boredom, and lack again? Schopenhauer said that the human condition is the worst, because the higher the intelligence, the more intense the pain.
Since ancient times, human life has been in constant tossing, Zhang Junyi did not understand in his previous life, but now he feels that Schopenhauer's concept is very reasonable.
Imagine that we don't need to work hard to get anything we want, and the daily task is to eat and play. So what's the point, life has no ups and downs, which should be the most tragic thing.
So why Zhang Junyi has to work hard and climb up desperately, probably is to constantly seek a life full of meaning. Only by continuing to work hard can Zhang Junyi continue to gain a sense of existence and value, and can he realize the true meaning and value of life.
It is rare to have a pursuit in life, and it is a life to be ordinary and bland, and it is also a life to be busy. has its own goals, since you can't become a second generation, you can only work hard to make your next generation a second generation.
It is precisely because Pan Disheng can work hard without hesitation even if he has family affairs that are difficult for others to reach, Zhang Junyi likes to deal with Pan Disheng, and he is willing to mention him when he can, and Pan Disheng's style of acting is also in line with Zhang Junyi's temperament, not to mention anything else, at least he has his own bottom line and principles, and he also knows gratitude!