I love to hear this sentence, the old man is like this to everyone, no matter who it is, as long as it is reasonable, it can be done absolutely without two words, so it has won everyone's trust. Zhou Jun said.

"You don't know how the old man behaves, and he is very humble in his words and deeds. Li Jinghe said.

"So he has a good popularity, no one says that he is bad, and this time he was elected as the dean, and it can be seen that everyone's wishes. Wang Baoguang said.

"This is the heart of the heart for the heart, four taels for half a catty, it can also be said that the heart of the heart for the heart, the loess into gold, good people will have a good reward after all. Huo Guangming said.

It is necessary to believe that although planting beans does not necessarily lead to beans, there will always be returns, provided that you always maintain a good and sincere attitude. It is not denied that there are many villains in this world, but there are still good people, and harmonious interpersonal relationships need to be managed with heart. People need to exchange hearts and minds, how much you give, how much you get, want to take advantage of others more and return less, that kind of interaction is hypocritical, insincere, fruitless, and what will be left after separation will be lonely. Don't think that others owe you a lot, but always think about whether you owe others, how much you owe, and how you can pay it back. Don't always think about what to do if you don't get a return, don't always think that you will never get a return, don't always think that you will suffer, then don't get a light, don't get a light, take someone else's, you have to return it to others. Feelings are like sowing crops, sowing seeds can be harvested, and sowing seeds with heart can have sweet harvests.

"Pingshui meeting is fate, distant relatives and neighbors are a family, everyone collects firewood and the flame is high, it is difficult to form a single filament, it is difficult to make a forest alone, the ups and downs are always spring, and the grievances and grievances are resolved by the bell man. Laughing at the wide world of life, drunk and drunk, loving and knowing, true feelings for true feelings, and hearts for hearts. Wang Baoguang said.

"The old man's way of being an official is not to hurt people. Everything is done satisfactorily, so it has won the hearts and minds of the people. Li Jinghe said.

"Everyone says that officials are easy to do, but they don't know that it is difficult to do a good job as an official, being an official is a university question, being an official is the first thing to be a person, and the knowledge of being an official is actually the knowledge of being a person. If you want to be a good official, you must first learn to be a good-hearted person," Mr. Wang said.

"Be a person in the world, don't be too public, and shouldn't be too low-key. We must not only be able to afford it, but also be able to put it down, be shrewd in the big place, be confused in the small place, grasp the balance between advance and retreat, grasp the direction in the way of the square circle, understand the world with a pair of discerning eyes, and behave and do things with a wise heart. Zhou Jun said.

If people know how to do things. Life is very different, how to behave in the world is the art of life, and those who master this art are not arrogant in good times. Adversity can be flexible, and you can be like a fish in water in life, and you can cope with it easily. Learning to live wisely in the world is a lifelong task for everyone, and it is also a sign of maturity. To be a person in the world, we must be well-versed in current affairs, and if we can be square, we will be round. It is both square and round, and integrates the strengths of hundreds of schools. The sky is round. Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement. The terrain is good, and the gentleman carries things with virtue. It can be seen that Fang Yuan's strategy in dealing with the world is the great wisdom of the heavens and the earth, and conforms to the great law of the endless growth of all things in heaven and earth.

In reality, if a person is too square and angular, he will definitely break his head, but if a person is exquisite, sleek and smooth, it will give people a flashy feeling. Therefore, being a man must be square and round, and use both rigidity and softness. People who are round on the outside and square on the inside, have the spirit of forbearance, have the mind of letting, have the wisdom that seems to be confused, have the sobriety of being crazy and stupid, have the crying with a smile on their faces, and the right that seems wrong on the surface, Fang Yuan is a man, and everything goes well.

"The old man is usually very low-key, unlike some leaders who are high-flying and domineering, which is the most rare and valuable place. Wang Baoguang said.

"Low-key is not inferior, not blindly forbearing, nor is it indisputable, but a kind of wisdom that surpasses others, a kind of offensive technique to advance by retreating, and a strategy that is won without fighting. Zhou Jun said.

The golden mean is not to follow the crowd, not to turn a blind eye, not to be sleek and sophisticated, but a balancing technique. It is a non-conservative and non-extreme attitude, and it is a kind of survival wisdom that is precious to oneness and harmony. To keep a low profile is to be humble, and learning to keep a proper low profile at the right time is by no means a sign of cowardice, but a form of wisdom. Being a man to be humble, putting down the shelf, not being ostentatious, and not being arrogant is not only an attitude, but also an action. It is not only a taste of life, but also a state of life.

Respecting others is respecting yourself, because respecting others also respects yourself, and because of this, others also respect you. Whoever can achieve respect will be respected and live a more dignified life. To tolerate others is to tolerate oneself, because those who tolerate others also get the tolerance of others, learn to be tolerant, who can be tolerant, who can get friendship, get sincerity, live more freely, more chic.

The road of life is very long, and there will be a lot of troubles on the way, which will bother people in a big or small way, no matter what they are, they can be seen from different angles. If you can learn to look at everything from a different perspective and learn to empathize, then life will reduce many unnecessary troubles, add a lot of happiness, smile will always ripple on your face, and life will be full of bright sunshine. If you want others to smile at you, you should smile at others, if you want to be hugged by others, you should hug others first, if you want to be friendly to others, if you want to win the support of others, you must first support others, if you want to get praise from others, you must praise others first, if you want to get the care of others, you must first care about others. Do unto others as you would like to be treated.

Life needs elastic bending, and bending is a kind of wisdom. Bending is a strategy, when to bend, when to straight, when to use, is the positioning of life value and the cultivation of life knowledge. Life has to learn to bend. Because of its ability to bend, Cedar resists the weight of snow and survives against the odds. Because they know how to bend, the grass grows vigorously from the cracks in the stones.

Bending is a realm, bending is a kind of flexibility, and it is an opportunity to turn a crisis into a turning point and regain a new life. Bending is a good way to preserve yourself. Bending is the great wisdom of being a man and doing things, people who know how to bend tactfully will be left and right, and people who know how to bend will be flexible and flexible, indomitable, mature and wise. Bending can change the status quo, and bending can change the future.

Let go of pressure, get relaxed, let go of troubles, get happiness, let go of inferiority, gain self-confidence, let go of laziness, get fulfillment, let go of negativity, get progressive, let go of complaining, get comfortable, let go of hesitation, get chic, let go of narrow-mindedness, get comfortable. In the face of complicated life, people who know how to give up will use an optimistic and open-minded attitude to deal with what they have lost, and will spend every day in happiness and pleasure;

Abandonment is the law of nature, abandonment is a way of survival, and abandonment is an attitude. Not all efforts must be rewarded, but if you don't know how to pay, you will not be rewarded, not all wind and rain can see the rainbow, but if you don't experience the wind and rain, you will not see the rainbow. All things are relative, the sky is cloudy and sunny, the moon is full and absent, the day is day and night, there is no sweetness without bitterness, there is no happiness without sorrow. The heart is pleasant and comfortable, the heart is wide and the world is wide, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine, life is picturesque, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple and colorful, everyone depicts different colors for their lives, or understatement, or heavy color splashing ink. Life is like a play, there is no need for rehearsal, everyone is an actor, and they vividly perform their joys, sorrows, and sorrows every day. Life is like a dream, everyone has different dreams, some people have good dreams, some people have nightmares. Life is like tea, bitter and slightly aromatic, and then it is light.

There is a humorous story about a black cat who finally caught a mouse, played with it for a while, but let it go. When the yellow dog saw it, he asked puzzledly: Why did you put it when you had worked so hard to catch the delicacy? The black cat replied, "Of course you won't understand, I was sent here to catch rats with my boss." Now, my boss hasn't even caught a single mouse hair, how can I steal the limelight from it, so I let it go and let my boss catch it.

This black cat is a smart black cat, and it knows that as a subordinate, sometimes making a proper sacrifice for the boss is a worthwhile investment. It chases the rat to exhaustion, then lets it go, making it easy for the boss to catch it. The boss got the credit, and he must have understood what was going on. Although the black cat did not catch a mouse, it got a greater benefit than a mouse, that is, the trust and promotion of the boss.

In real life, we can often see that many cadres attribute their merits and achievements to the wise leadership of their superiors when making reports, and put themselves in the role of executors. What they grasp is precisely the psychological needs of the boss for vanity, and putting the credit on the boss does not mean that you have no credit, everyone knows the facts. A qualified boss, he won't really take credit from you. On the contrary, he will be very appreciative of your style of doing things. From this point of view, there is really no harm in taking the credit.

In this world, most of the successful cattle people know how to share their good names with others. When he was not successful, he knew how to share the benefits with others, so his friends helped him. When he succeeded, he knew how to take credit, thinking that it was everyone's credit, and he would bear the mistakes himself. Only such a person can bring relatives and friends around him, and only such a person will succeed. To be continued