Living in a hotel in the provincial capital, I had to call Lu Tao three times every morning, noon and evening, asking if Yangyang had eaten or if there was any crying or something, everything was normal for the first two days, but at noon on the third day, Lu Tao said that Yangyang was all in the kindergarten, I asked why, Lu Tao said that Yangyang wanted to live in the kindergarten and refused to go home with him. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

As soon as I heard that Yangyang was suddenly entrusted to the kindergarten, my heart began to feel uneasy, and I always couldn't concentrate during the training class, so that I had to find Wang Xu to copy notes after class every day. To say that the children in the kindergarten are in full care, there are many children of the same age as Yangyang, and some are even younger than Yangyang's age, but those children have been trained before full care, and they are only fully entrusted after learning to dress, eat and go to the toilet, but I have not helped Yangyang make these preparations, at home, or I help him dress, I feed him, in this case, can I leave him in kindergarten all at once?

Fortunately, the week passed quickly, and on Friday afternoon, I returned to Taigu. Unexpectedly, after getting off the train, I saw Lu Tao riding a bicycle to pick me up, and in the past, when I came back from outside, I usually walked home by myself, and he never took the initiative to pick me up at the station. Wang Xu was going to send me home on a motorcycle, but after seeing Lu Tao, he said hello to Lu Tao and left first. Sitting on the rear stand of a weighted bicycle, the road is uneven, and the butt will be bumped very painful, which is far less comfortable than riding a motorcycle. The back seat of the motorcycle is a sponge pad, and the body is low and the speed is stable, and I don't want to ride a bicycle when I sit on Wang Xu's motorcycle.

"Let's buy a motorcycle, too. "I said to Lu Tao on the way.

"You don't like bicycles when you first get on a motorcycle? It seems that you are also a person who likes the new and hates the old. Lu Tao's words are purely a play on the topic, and there is a real character in the joke, it seems that he cares a lot about Wang Xu. To say, this is a good thing for me, which means that Lu Tao is starting to care about me, although his cautious eyes are very annoying.

"I found that I can't talk to people like you, as soon as I speak, I will go online, you see how many motorcycles are running on the street now, and even private cars have appeared several, but we only have bicycles, don't you think we can't keep up with the times?" I said, sitting behind Lu Tao.

"Okay, what's it to buy a motorcycle, let's buy it tomorrow, isn't it just three or four thousand yuan?" Lu Tao has really changed, he can make sense as soon as he says it, and he will no longer give me a lesson in remembering bittersweet things.

Lu Tao took me directly to the kindergarten with a bicycle, at this time the kindergarten has been out of class, and we saw that a large number of parents who have gathered outside the kindergarten gate to pick up their children, inside the gate is a large group of children waiting in line, and there are several teachers on duty standing around. However, there are also some naughty children who do not wait at the gate of the park, but play in the park, scattered on the slide, in the swivel chair, or on the swing frame, and some run all over the garden, chasing and playing with each other.

Lu Tao and I didn't see Yang Yang in the queue waiting at the door, so we began to look in the garden: there was no him on the slide, no on the swing, where did he go? At this time, I saw the swivel chair in the distance turning rapidly, and the speed had reached the point where I couldn't see the face clearly. As I got closer, I noticed a slightly older boy sitting in a swivel chair and pushing the ground with one foot, pushing the swivel chair faster and faster.

"That's too dangerous, isn't it?" I saw that there was a gap between each seat in the swivel chair and between it and the ground, and if the kid fell out of the seat and got twisted into the swivel chair, the consequences would be dire.

"It's okay, that's how I played when I was a kid. "Lu Tao felt that my worries were unnecessary. But I don't think it's superfluous at all, the danger is imminent! I don't think this because I didn't go to kindergarten in the countryside when I was a child, and I didn't play with a swivel chair.

"Stop, stop!" I shouted at the boy who was spinning the swivel chair, and the boy was obedient enough to stop kicking the floor and let the swivel chair slowly stop.

I didn't see Yang Yang on the swivel chair, only a few strange children who were dizzy and couldn't get off the swivel chair for a while.

"There is no teacher to take care of it. I said.

"It's like this every day in kindergarten, you can't hire a teacher to guard the swivel chair, right? Lu Tao said.

I ignored Lu Tao, bent down and said to the boy who was kicking the swivel chair: "Little friend, don't pedal so fast in the future, it's very dangerous." ”

I don't want the boy to smile and say, "It's not dangerous." ”

"Quick, let's go, don't worry about other people's business. Lu Tao got impatient and pulled me up and walked towards the children's dormitory in the backyard. Yang Yang is not in the yard, then it may be in the dormitory.

But when we came to the dormitory, the door of the dormitory was locked, and when we looked through the glass window, dozens of small beds were empty, and there was not a single child in sight. We were about to turn around and leave, Lu Tao suddenly saw something from inside, he approached the window, put his face on the glass and looked in carefully, and then pointed to a small bed inside with a finger and said to me:

"Look, isn't that Yangyang's schoolbag?"

I walked over to see that there was indeed Yangyang's schoolbag inside, "Where did the schoolbag go?" I said.

"Is it in the classroom?" Lu Tao thought of the classroom.

So we went around to the front yard again, went up to the second floor of a small school building, and found the classroom of Yangyang's class, but immediately found that we had run away in vain. The door to the classroom was also locked, and the inside was just as empty. The two of us hurried to the principal's office without worry.

Before I entered the door of the principal's office, I heard a child crying inside, listen carefully to the voice, it was Yangyang! I trotted a few steps, and broke in without knocking on the door, Yangyang stopped crying when he saw me, first showed a very surprised expression, and then understood that it was the rescuers who arrived, he boldly left the penalty site, walked towards me from the root of the wall, and called "Mom!" in his mouth, and suddenly cried loudly when he threw himself into my arms.

"Your kids pinch other girls' butts!"

Hearing someone talking to me, I turned my head to look and found that there were several people in the principal's office, in addition to the principal behind the desk, there were also Yangyang's teacher and a man and a woman, the man was thin and the woman was thick, and the woman was holding a girl as big as Yangyang in her arms, and her face was the same as her mother's Yuanhe fat. Among them, the one who spoke to me was Mr. Dong, Yangyang's homeroom teacher.

"Pinch a girl's ass?" I didn't seem to understand, and asked repeatedly.

"Yes, when the teacher bathed the children collectively, Yang Yang pinched our Juanjuan's buttocks, look, they were all black and blue!" Before Teacher Dong could speak, the fat woman had already peeled off her daughter's pants, revealing a white and chubby little buttocks. Seeing Juanjuan's meaty ass, not to mention my son, even I want to go over and bite at this big white bun-like ass!

But since I want to have my wound examined, I have to take a closer look, I almost put my myopic 0.8 eye on Juanjuan's buttocks, and take a closer look, there is indeed a blue spot the size of a fingernail on the big white bun.

"If this is really Yangyang's pinch, I will apologize to you now, we need to go to the hospital and we will accompany you, and we will pay all the medical expenses, but Yangyang is not sensible, he has no malicious intentions, he must like Juanjuan too much. I straightened up and said.

"Yes, yes, my son is usually kind, he must want to play with your children. ”

"Look at the two of you, if the child makes a mistake and does not criticize the education, but also tries to cover up and excuse the child, can this educate the child well? This will only make the child learn more and more!" The principal began to lecture us.

"Actually, our family is not bad, children, it's normal to play. I continued to explain to my son.

"Isn't it bad? It's like this at the age of three or four, so what will happen to your children when they grow up?" Juanjuan's father, who had been silent, spoke.

"How do you speak? Is the problem as serious as you said? Do you still have to call a policeman over?" Lu Tao on the side was a little unhappy, and said to the other party in a stiff tone.

"Yo, I've never seen you so unreasonable, do you mean it's right for your son to pinch a girl's ass?"

"Okay, don't argue, Yangyang's parents, I tell you, if you think your son is not wrong, then we will deal with this matter by the police, if the police judge that your family is wrong, then please transfer your son to another kindergarten, our kindergarten does not dare to have such a child!"

Seeing that things had developed to such a point, I quickly admitted my mistake to the other party: "It was my son who was wrong, didn't I apologize at the beginning? Now his father and I sincerely apologize to you again, just say what you want." ”

Transferring schools is troublesome, especially for this dishonorable reason.

Seeing that our attitude softened, Juanjuan's parents didn't ask for anything, saying: "You just apologize, we don't want your money, you educate your son well, just don't bully girls in the future." ”

I didn't expect Juanjuan's parents to be open-minded, and I thought they were going to make a lot of demands. In this society now, I am afraid that I will not be able to catch anyone, and once I am caught, I will never let it go easily. A few days ago, a colleague of Lu Tao knocked down an old lady on a bicycle, and there was no problem with taking the old lady to the hospital for examination, and her whole body was intact, but in this way, he was asked to pay 5,000 yuan, which is equivalent to half a year in the insurance company. Thinking of this, I suddenly felt grateful to Juanjuan's parents, and said on the spot that I would definitely go to see Juanjuan tomorrow.

When we got home from kindergarten, we had a good talk with Yangyang, and I said to him:

"Yangyang, my mother told you that you are a boy, you can't touch a girl, let alone pinch, otherwise you won't be a good boy and will be arrested by the police uncle. ”

"Why can't you touch it? It doesn't hurt to touch. Yang Yang said.

"You just can't touch it, because you're a boy. Lu Tao said on the side.

"Does that handle count as touching? When we line up to go out on the street, the teacher often asks the boys to hold the girls' hands!" Yang Yang asked, giving an example.

"You can touch your hands, but you can't touch your buttocks. I said.

"I found that people like you can't speak, what is the hand that can be touched, and a girl's hand can't be touched, for example, if I go out to touch other girls' hands, can I do it?" Lu Tao was dissatisfied with my words and asked rhetorically.

"You are an adult, how can you compare with a child?" I pushed Lu Tao to prevent him from giving examples.

"A girl's hand can't be touched, why can she pull it, is it different from touching?"

"Pulling and touching are not the same, touching is ...... ......"Oh no, I can't explain something, I paused, and then said to Yangyang: "La is allowed by the teacher, but not allowed to touch, so you can't touch it, and you can't touch any place for girls!"

"Okay, I remember. Although Yang Yang nodded in agreement, he still didn't seem to understand this complicated truth.

When I went to bed at night, I found that Yangyang's round-necked underwear was missing, and when I asked him, he said that he couldn't wear it, so he threw it in the trash. It turned out that in the past few days, Yangyang has been wearing a single coat in kindergarten.

"Don't you feel cold?" I asked Yangyang.

"It's not cold!" Yang Yang said, shaking his head.

And we found that Yang Yang not only lacked a piece of clothing, but also lost weight, and the clothes he wore back were dirty, as if he had just returned from wandering on the street. When Lu Tao saw his son like this, he began to hold me accountable again, and said to me with a grumbling heart:

"I told you a long time ago that he usually let him dress and eat by himself, but you just don't listen, look, he can't dress or eat when he goes to kindergarten, and if he stays for a few more days, he will have to be sick. ”

"I wasn't prepared to ask for all Yangyang, you suddenly sent him in, and you came back to complain about me!"

I insisted on helping Yangyang dress and eat because I had to rush to work every day, and if I let him dress and eat by himself, he wouldn't be able to finish it if you waited for an hour. But I'm not going to do it all the time, I'll let him try to do something on his own on Sundays. He is still young, so there is no need to be in a hurry, and as he grows older, he will naturally learn everything, because I will not let him develop the habit of being lazy. Our help to children should be a kind of love and demonstration, so that children can feel warm and learn a lot from you. Caring is very important, and we cannot blindly emphasize the training of children's independent living skills without helping children. I prefer to believe that children who grow up in love are more competitive, and of course, love is not coddling.

The next day, Lu Tao and I bought a carton of pure milk and a carton of egg yolk pie and came to Juanjuan's house, we fully displayed our diplomatic skills, and it only took an hour to settle the old suspicion with Juanjuan's parents, and Yangyang and Juanjuan were reconciled as before.

When I came back from Juanjuan's house, Yangyang told me an explosive news:

"Mom, Juanjuan told me that I could touch her, I could touch her butt and face, as long as I didn't pinch it, she said it would hurt to pinch her. ”

"You can't touch it, baby!" I bent down and told my son.

"Yes, Juanjuan said, you can touch her, I've kissed her before!" Yang Yang raised his voice and argued with me.

"Ah, kiss?" Lu Tao and I were stunned when we heard this, we looked at each other, and immediately turned around and gave the following advice to our son: "Whether you kiss or touch, you have to agree with the girl's consent, no, don't touch the girl if you agree, whether you agree or not, don't touch the girl, remember?" It's not that girls can't touch it at all, they can touch it when they grow up, no, they can't touch it when they grow up, they can touch it when they are in love or married, it's ......"

"Can you keep your mouth shut?What do you want to marry a four-year-old child?" Lu Tao on the side interrupted me.

And the protagonist Yang Yang has long stopped listening to the two of us, and is tinkering with his toys on the side. (To be continued.) )