Chapter Eighty-Nine: Yangyang Suspension of School (3)
My mother-in-law, who hadn't been to my house for a few months, came, and when she entered the door, she was still carrying a lunch box containing Yangyang's favorite stuffy noodles. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
As soon as the mother-in-law saw Yangyang, she started his ideological work, but Yangyang shook her head, but she ate the stuffy noodles sent by her grandmother in a big gulp, and when he finished eating the stuffy noodles, her mother-in-law also said that she was tired. Seeing that Yangyang didn't listen to persuasion, my mother-in-law began to turn to me, and she said to me: "You have to let your child go to school, how can you let him sit at home and play with the computer every day?" ”
I thought my mother-in-law's words were funny, as if I deliberately didn't let Yangyang go to school, and I said, "Who won't let him go to school?" It's him who can't go up to it. ”
"You're going to find a way to get him on."
"I've thought of a lot of ways, but he just can't get it!"
"Then you're not going to let him go to school?"
"Who won't let him go to school? He's not going. ”
"If he doesn't go, you don't care?"
"I can't do it now."
After my mother-in-law and I repeated many of these useless words, my mother-in-law finally decided to end the argument, she shook her head and sighed and said, "Whatever you do, I see what you want to do with your children!" Hmph, don't regret seeing him unproductive in the future! ”
I was about to talk back, but Lu Tao came over and pushed me, glared at me again, and then I closed my mouth. Also, what reason do I have with my mother-in-law? Can you explain it clearly? If you can make a clear statement with your mother-in-law, then the sun will come up from the west. However, my mother-in-law put all the blame on me alone, which still made me feel very unhappy. But then I think about it, who does she blame me for? Is it to blame his son Lu Tao? That's impossible!
After sitting with me for nearly an hour, my mother-in-law left with an empty lunch box. Seeing his mother's disappointed look before leaving, Lu Tao's anger that had been pent up for many days exploded instantly, and he grabbed one of Yangyang's cartoon books and slammed it to the ground. Seeing his beloved book being thrown on the ground, Yang Yang hurriedly ran over, he was about to bend down to pick it up, Lu Tao suddenly went up and kicked the book away, and then yelled at Yang Yang: "What do you want?" If you don't go to school, get out of this house for me! ”。
As soon as I heard Lu Tao say this, I immediately became nervous, and hurriedly rushed to the door of the house, leaning against the door to block the door, only worried that Yangyang would run out of breath.
Yang Yang didn't run out, but changed his way of venting, he stood up and suddenly slammed his fists into the wall, and several bloody fist prints appeared on the white wall in an instant.
Seeing this terrifying scene, I rushed over and hugged Yang Yang, and then cried bitterly, I cried while saying to Yang Yang, "Don't be like this, okay?" You're going to freak out mom! ”
Yang Yang stopped when he heard my crying, but I could still feel his chest with me holding him, I think his mood should be worse than me and Lu Tao these days, Lu Tao stimulated him like that just now, it is indeed a very dangerous thing. But now I can't reason with Lu Tao about this, because as soon as the theory is made, the two of us will quarrel, and in this situation, we must not quarrel in front of Yang Yang, and he can no longer be stimulated by the slightest!
At this time, Lu Tao's mouth was also closed, and he was also afraid that his son would be injured, but he couldn't get down the steps for a while, so he refused to come over to comfort Yangyang, but snorted and hid in the bedroom. I know that this attitude of his is not indifference, but a kind of retreat, and he is defeated in front of his son!
Seeing that Yang Yang was no longer self-harming, I stopped crying and found potions and gauze to hold his bloody hands for him.
The next day, I went to the school to go through the procedures for Yangyang's suspension, which was the only way I had to take at the moment and the only way I could take.
After Yang Yang officially took a break from school at home, I became his teacher and became a general teacher. I made a detailed class schedule for Yangyang, and of course the daily class time was less than half of what he was at school, only two hours in the evening. On the other hand, I take his textbooks with me to work every day, and whenever I have free time at work, I study these primary school textbooks and read them to him when I get home. My colleague was puzzled when he saw it, and I laughed at myself: I'm a primary school student again! Yang Yang only does two hours of homework in the afternoon, and the whole morning is his time to play. In this way, since the classroom was moved into the home, the teacher was replaced by a mother, and the study time was halved, Yangyang regained his lively and active nature.
Although I also try to persuade Yangyang to return to school every day, Yangyang obviously prefers to go to private school at home, and shakes his head at the mention of school.
Every night after going to sleep, Lu Tao always asks me: "Will Yangyang go to school tomorrow?" ”
Each time I replied, "He doesn't." ”
Then he would be like his mother, and he would reproach me, "You can get used to it, see what you are used to him!" ”
That's when I'm like, "Why don't you send him to school?!" ”
One problem is that every day after Lu Tao and I go to work, we can only leave Yangyang alone at home, because he refuses to go to his grandmother and grandma's house, and he refuses anyone to come to the house to take care of him, and I know that he doesn't want to listen to other people's nagging. No way, every day before going to work, I have to repeat to him that I don't open the door to strangers, don't use electrical outlets, don't look on the balcony, etc., and in addition, after arriving at the unit, I have to call home every hour to make sure that he is safe.
So I can't let Yangyang stay at home all the time, not to mention the missed class, safety is a problem. Besides, I don't dare to be like Zheng Yuanjie, leaving my son completely at home to teach by myself, I don't have as much ability as him. Letting Yang Yang suspend school is just a buffer measure, and the ultimate goal is to send him back to school. After thinking about it, I decided to seek help from a counselor. At first, I directly told Yang Yang that I wanted to take him to see a counselor, but he refused as I expected. Later, under the pretext of taking him to Taiyuan to play, I brought him to the psychological counselor without his knowledge. Because I told Yang Yang that the counselor was my classmate, Yang Yang didn't suspect anything. During this time, I left for half an hour under the pretext of going to the bathroom, so that the counselor and Yang Yang could talk alone. In the end, the plan given to me by the psychological counselor was to enlist the teacher's cooperation and let the teacher persuade Yangyang to go to school. In other words, the bell needs to be tied to the bell. But I know that this plan will not work, because if Teacher Bai had the kindness to help Yangyang, it would be impossible for Yangyang to leave the school now.
After paying 300 yuan for psychological counseling, I led Yangyang back home. I inquired, if you want to transfer to another school, you have to pay a sponsorship fee of 10,000 yuan, 10,000 is 10,000 yuan, I decided to pay this money to change schools for Yangyang. But when I told Yangyang about transferring him to another school, Yangyang still insisted on staying at home to study, and he didn't go there!
Things are at an impasse again. And in addition to continuing to be Yangyang's tutor, I also have to continue to be a sinner in this family, maybe I will have to be disciplined by my family that day, whether it is my mother-in-law's family or my mother's family, they all think that the reason for Yangyang to leave school is that I have no way to teach my son, as if Lu Tao has no responsibility in this matter. In addition to taking on all this, I had to rack my brains all day to think about ways to get Yangyang back to school.
I posted this difficult question online, hoping that netizens can give me an answer. There are a lot of people who want to reply to the post, and I get more than a thousand replies in a day or two. Because children, learning, and grades are hot words in today's society, there are many people who are interested. The answers of netizens are different, some say that they will transfer their children; Some people say that children need to be strictly disciplined, and if they don't go to school, they will be beaten! Some say that they cut off the things that attract him, such as relaying the net, confiscating idle books, etc.; Some netizens joked that it would be sent to a foreign country. I didn't take any of these suggestions, and I don't think they're suitable for our family.
One day, I was working in the unit, and suddenly received a call from Yangyang from home, he said that the computer at home could not be connected to broadband, and asked me to go home immediately and ask someone to repair it, I told him to wait for me to come back after work, he cried on the phone, no way, I had to ask for leave with the director, and returned home.
After returning home, I called the telecom department, and the maintenance worker soon came to my house, but to my surprise, the maintenance worker found out the reason for the broadband disconnection within two minutes, and it turned out that the network cable was broken! There is nothing strange about the broken network cable, but I accidentally pulled it off when I was cleaning the house in the morning, but the maintenance worker said that from the neat break of the network cable, someone deliberately cut the network cable. This makes people wonder, who will come to my house and cut the network cable? Did he come to my house just to cut the network cable? Don't steal money, don't kidnap children? Strange or strange, when the maintenance worker connected the network cable, I didn't think about it anymore.
But two days later, my home network dropped again, according to the reason for the first drop, I checked the network cable, and found that the network cable was broken again! And look at the fracture, it is like someone has cut it off! This time, instead of calling a maintenance worker, I went to the store and bought a network cable to go home and connect it. Then my house was like a ghost, and the network cable broke at both ends in three days. Looks like we have to look into this issue, someone must be deliberately causing trouble.
"Mom, why is our network cable broken?" Finally, one day, Yang Yang asked.
However, in the face of Yangyang's question, my answer was soothing, and I said to him: "The current network cable is of poor quality, not durable, and easy to break. ”
And Lu Tao's answer was: "Because you have been online for too long, the network cable has been burned!" ”
As soon as I heard Lu Tao say this, I knew who the perpetrator was, and it was him! You think, who has nothing to do to cut my network cable for a day? Only Lu Tao would do this! His purpose is to get Yangyang to use less Internet and force Yangyang to return to school! It seems that he adopted the advice of netizens, that is, to cut off what attracts Yangyang! But in addition to provoking Yangyang to cry every day, Yangyang still stays at home and doesn't go to school, and because the network cable is broken, his mood is even worse, and he is restless all day long, which affects me to make up for him at night.
I don't want to transfer schools, and I don't want to buy gifts, so how can I get this child to go to school? Is it really necessary to send him abroad? With Lu Tao's and I earning a few thousand yuan a month, I'm afraid I can't even afford a plane ticket to a foreign country! One day, while I was thinking about it, my eyes suddenly lit up, and I thought that although sending our children abroad is just a joke for us now, we might as well take advantage of this joke, as long as Yangyang can go back to school. I think he'll come to understand it when he grows up.
One day, I called Yang Yang up to me and asked him, "Do you like Japanese anime very much?" ”
He replied, "Yes." ”
I asked again, "Do you want to see more Japanese anime when you grow up?" ”
"Absolutely," he said. He also said: "Not only do I want to watch more anime, but I also want to make my own anime when I grow up, there are too few anime in China, and I want to make more anime in the future, surpassing Japan!" ”
Yo? My son has such big ambitions and wants to catch up with Japan! I grabbed him and said to him, "Then my mother will send you to Japan to learn how to make anime in the future, but the prerequisite is to be admitted to a Japanese university, and the prerequisite for being admitted to a Japanese university is to have a good academic performance, and the prerequisite for a good academic performance is to go back to school!" ”
When Yangyang heard me say this, he didn't react for a while, he was stunned for a while, and asked me, "Mom, are you really willing to send me to Japan to study anime?" ”
I looked at my son and said seriously, "Yes, as long as you are willing to study hard, you will go there to university, and you can go to the United States and the United Kingdom!" ”
Seeing that I didn't look like coaxing him, Yang Yang jumped up happily and said, "Okay, then I will definitely study hard in the future, and I will go to Japan to learn anime in the future!" ”
At this time, I chased after him and said, "Then mom will send you back to school tomorrow, if you don't go to school, you won't be able to go to Japan, Japanese universities require students to go to school for 12 years, and they must have excellent grades." ”
Hearing this, Yang Yang didn't jump or laugh, I thought he still had to choose to stay at home, if this was the case, my son's psychological problems would be very serious, fortunately, he said that it was okay to go to school, and he had to change schools.
Afterwards, I paid a sponsorship fee of 10,000 yuan and transferred Yangyang to another elementary school! (To be continued.) )