At half past five in the afternoon, half an hour before getting off work, Lu Tao called me and said that he didn't need me to pick up Yangyang, he was going to pick up. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoLu Tao offered to pick up the child from the kindergarten for the first time, which made me feel very novel and surprised. Since Yangyang went to kindergarten, I have been the default person who picks up and drops off the child, usually he always says that he is busy, and I generally don't rely on him, when I am busy, I have to take the initiative to ask him to pick up the child, otherwise he will not take the matter of picking up the child on the agenda.

I didn't have to go to kindergarten, so I got home more than 10 minutes early. When I climbed up to the fourth floor humming a little song, I found the star on the other side of the door standing alone outside the house, leaning straight against the wall, as if he was being punished. I asked him why he didn't come into the house, and he bowed his head and said nothing, and I saw that his face was full of displeasure, and I guessed that he might have been disciplined again. Thinking of this, I can't leave him in the hallway and go home by myself, I have to ask her mother what the hell is going on. So I knocked on his door, and Guo Mei opened the door and came out, and before I could ask her anything, she said to me angrily:

"Ignore him, let him stand outside, he has to watch TV if he doesn't play the piano!"

"Then let him watch it for a while, the child doesn't have to be stuck so tightly. "I walked in and whispered to the stars. I don't want Xingxing to know that I'm helping him, in that case, I'm worried that when he sees someone helping, he will increase his efforts against his mother and refuse to compromise with him, which is not conducive to the resolution of the conflict.

"Isn't this all for his good? My father and I have spent all the money we earn on him, and I am reluctant to buy even clothes for myself all year round, but you see how many things I have bought for him, such as books, pianos, footballs, and basketballs, and I don't have that? Even the tuition fees for his second class have to be several hundred yuan a month! Aren't we putting so much effort into him just to think that he will have a good way out in the future, and he won't have to work as hard as we do?" Guo Mei said eloquently.

"But you have to know that many of these things are not what he took the initiative to ask you for, that is to say, he may not like it, and he may not like it in the second class, I don't think the child needs to put too much pressure on him, he can't suppress his nature, he has to follow his interests, don't you say?" I was trying to persuade Guo Mei.

"Because of his interest? His interest is to watch cartoons, can he just watch cartoons every day? If he can't get into college in the future, will he farm or work like us?

"I'm not saying that you don't care about your children at all, but you don't care too closely. I explained it to myself again.

"Your Yangyang may not be able to do it, my star may not be able to do it, as soon as he relaxes, his grades will decline, you don't know that this child's self-control is too poor, you have to stare at it every day!"

I didn't help Chengxing, I had to go back to my house boringly, I wanted to call Xingxing to my house, but I was afraid that Guo Mei would think I was nosy, so I didn't dare to say anything to Xingxing, after all, it's not my child, I can't care so much.

I went home and waited for a few cents and didn't see Lu Tao pick up the child back, so I called him, and he said that Yangyang had a fight with the child and was dealing with the matter in the kindergarten. When I hurried to the kindergarten, I saw Lu Tao, Yang Yang, the teacher, and another family of three arguing about something in the classroom, and to my surprise, Liu Jia's son Kai Kai also took Lu Tao's hand and followed the scene.

"What's going on?" I asked Lu Tao as soon as I walked into the classroom.

"Yangyang beats people. Lu Tao said to me.

"Who did you hit?" I asked.

"It's this kid. Lu Tao pointed to a little fat boy opposite.

I turned my head to look at Yang Yang, and was about to ask him why he was beating people, when I suddenly retracted my words, because Yang Yang's appearance made me wonder, I saw that Yang Yang had a bruise on the corner of his mouth, and a big hole was torn on his clothes!

"Yang Yang beats someone, why is it Yang Yang who is injured?" I asked Lu Tao after looking at the teacher's face and the other party's parents' face.

"Your child hits my child first!" Before Lu Tao could answer, the other party's parents had already spoken first.

"He stole my eraser first!" the injured Yang Yang argued in a loud voice.

"I didn't!" the little chubby boy denied in a loud voice.

Lu Tao and I didn't know who was right and who was wrong for a while, and at the same time looked at the teacher standing aside, I thought that only the teacher was the judge at this time, and I could only listen to the teacher's final judgment.

I don't want the teacher's oral verdict to be like this: "Liu Zihao is the child with the most little red flowers in the class, and he has always performed the best in the class, I have never seen him do anything bad, I don't believe that he will steal other people's things, but Liu Zihao also has something wrong, if there is a problem, he should tell the teacher first, and he should not fight with Yangyang." ”

"Then you think Yang Yang is lying?" I asked the teacher.

"Maybe, your Yangyang has always been full of problems, he doesn't listen to lectures in class, doesn't do homework, doesn't cooperate in games, and always doesn't listen to commands, and he only gets one little red flower in total, which is the least in the class!" the teacher said to me, pointing to a large table full of small red flowers on the wall.

Since the teacher always mentions the little red flower, I approached the table curiously, looked at it carefully, and above Liu Zihao's name, I counted it, there were more than 20 little red flowers, and above Yangyang's name, there was only a small red flower! But can the little red flower show that a child is good or bad? And for children who are still in early childhood, can they be evaluated as good or bad?

"Then you mean that you are not responsible for my son's injury?" I have no hope of waiting for the teacher to deal with this matter fairly, I just want to hear their attitude towards Yangyang's injury now.

At this time, the mother of the little fat boy Liu Zihao spoke to me: "Your son asked for it, if you are not satisfied, you can find the police, if the police say that we should be responsible, we will definitely be responsible, you can pay you as much as you want, everything listen to the police, call 110!"

"Forget it, we won't hold anyone accountable, as long as you think you're at ease!" I said this last sentence and Lu Tao took Yangyang and Kaikai home.

Because I was in a bad mood along the way, I didn't ask Lu Tao why he took Kaikai.

When I returned home, Yang Yang asked me with an aggrieved look: "Mom, don't you believe my words either?"

"Mom believes in your words, Mom will go to reason with them tomorrow, it's not early today, we have to come back for dinner, don't you say?" I squatted down and comforted Yangyang, otherwise he would think that we didn't believe him either, which would hurt him more.

Yangyang's mood was really bad, and he went to bed after eating a few bites of food, and he didn't play with Kaikai.

After Yangyang fell asleep, I also helped Kaikai wash up and let him go to bed early. After the two children fell asleep, I asked Lu Tao why he brought Kai Kai back, and Lu Tao said that Liu Jia had gone back to the village to see her mother, and that her mother was sick again, so she asked us to take care of Kai Kai.

"It's okay to help her take care of the child, but why doesn't she tell me and always tell you?" I asked Lu Tao puzzled.

"She is in the same unit as me, so it's convenient for me to talk to her. This is Lu Tao's answer, and he thinks that a colleague will explain it clearly.

But I always feel that such a colleague relationship is a little close, is it because Lu Tao is my husband, Liu Jia and Lu Tao are so close, or because Liu Jia is my classmate, Lu Tao is willing to take care of her?

I can't think about it so much, Yangyang's matter is enough to upset me, I have to prepare tomorrow's lines, otherwise how to explain to Yangyang, I can't make him feel that even his parents don't support him, right?

"Why don't you change Yangyang's shift?" I said to Lu Tao.

"Is it worth changing shifts for this little thing?" Mr. Lu said.

"In fact, it is not a trivial matter, and if this matter is not handled well, it will leave a psychological shadow on the child. ”

"What is not a shadow, a common thing for children to fight, today is a fight and tomorrow will be forgotten. ”

"It's not a big deal for a child to fight, but the teacher's attitude towards the child is very important, the teacher obviously doesn't trust Yangyang, and this kind of mental damage is far more than the physical damage, so if that teacher doesn't change her attitude towards Yangyang, I won't let my son return to their class!"

Because of this matter, Lu Tao and I discussed it until late at night, so that I didn't sleep well all night. When I got up the next day, I just asked Lu Tao to send Kaikai to the kindergarten, and put Yangyang at his grandmother's house temporarily, and then I went to the kindergarten principal, hoping to change Yangyang's class, and I didn't want Yangyang's teacher to make a small report in front of the principal, saying that Yangyang was a child who was not easy to manage, so the principal said to me:

"It's the same for a child like yours to go to that class, and you can't ask for a change of class because the children are angry about a fight, because it's common for children to fight and get angry, and it happens almost every day, if someone asks me to change the class for the child every day, in that case, our kindergarten will not be chaotic?"

Seeing that the director and the director can not tell a reason, I left the kindergarten in disappointment, Yangyang rested at home for three days, I transferred him to a private kindergarten, and specifically asked whether this kindergarten also uses small safflower to judge children, fortunately, this small kindergarten with only dozens of children does not have a little safflower, and never judges the quality of children, so I can rest assured.

After Kai Kai stayed in my house for a whole week, Liu Jia came back and brought me two or three catties of wine dates and a bag of sweet potatoes, she said that her mother was admitted to the hospital in the provincial capital, and her brother took care of her in the past few days, and she had to go to the provincial capital in a few days, so the child could only be handed over to us during this time.

Alas, when I heard that Liu Jia's mother was seriously ill, I didn't say anything, but I just felt that she had completely treated our family as her home. However, I am very sympathetic to her who lost her husband, not to mention that I have been friends with her for many years, but now Lu Tao's insertion makes me feel unsteady from time to time. But now it seems, what can I do? We are mixed up like this, maybe the kind-hearted Lu Tao really took care of Liu Jia only out of friendliness, and I was too careful. I hope so. (To be continued.) )