In the evening, Liao Shulan came to Yuan Yuan's house and learned that Yuan Yuan and Li Jinghe were dating, so they talked about the marriage of Yuan Yuan and Li Jinghe. Although I am working farther away for the time being, I am guaranteed to be able to transfer back, which is very reassuring. Since there is no opinion between the two children, the work is settled again, and there are no worries, now we can talk about their family affairs. Li Jinghe's parents are very satisfied with Yuan Yuan, as long as they agree to this family business, any conditions can be met, the room has already been cleaned up, and they are waiting for them to get married.

Yuan Weihua has no opinion, as long as the children are willing, they can do anything, but the marriage can't be too extravagant, the simpler the marriage, the better, after all, they live for a lifetime, and they can live a better life by saving money, there is no need to make a fuss about it. Liao Shulan nodded again and again after hearing this, or the teacher was born to understand things, unlike some people who are short-sighted, have no foresight, only care about immediate interests, regardless of a little reality, the wedding is a big deal, and as a result, a lot of money was spent in vain, and even in order to get married to save face, he owed a lot of famine, I felt that it was beautiful, but it took a lot of money, only unwise parents would do this, and people who understood things would not do it.

"It's not easy to be a parent, as long as the children are happy, we don't have to ask too much, and we respect their opinions. Yuan Weihua said.

"You're right, it's Jinghe's blessing to meet an old man like you. Liao Shulan said.

Xing Yanfang glanced at her husband, and her heart was really straight-tempered. Say whatever you want. Talking doesn't turn a corner. You can't show all your thoughts, but you have to leave some room for yourself. Her thoughts are different from those of her husband, although she agrees to this family business, but she can't listen to their family, she has to discuss it with her children. Since you still have a house, it is best to move out after you get married and prepare all the qiē, which is also for the sake of the children's future. When will it be when you will struggle on your own? After all, I got married to someone else and became someone's daughter-in-law, I am not familiar with the temperament of my mother-in-law and father-in-law, and I don't understand my living habits. Especially in a cadre family like this, they are used to managing people outside, and they always think that they are right. I don't listen to other people's opinions at all, and I have a bit of a temper big and small. His daughter is pampered, she didn't suffer a little grievance at home, she can't be angry with her mother-in-law when she gets married, if you make a fuss, everyone is not good, saying that no one is it, since this is the case, they simply don't live together, and they don't have to worry about going out alone.

"What does he mean at home?" Xing Yanfang asked.

"Since both parents and I have no opinions, I think ten must be pro, you meet together, even if you are married, get married on New Year's Day, the children are not small, they have already reached the age of marriage, the children are married and become a family, and the parents are also settled, my opinion is agreed by their family, now it depends on the opinions of the two of you, as long as you agree, this matter will be decided, what to do Listen to me, it is nothing to run more legs for the child. Liao Shulan said.

"We have no opinion on the time, wait for Yuan Yuan to discuss it with her when she comes back, and we will discuss the specific details, after all, it is a lifelong event for the child, and we must not be sloppy at all. Xing Yanfang said.

"Okay, parents should be thoughtful, now the man has no opinion, listen to your arrangement, it's hard to find a sympathetic parent like this, I will agree to anything for the sake of the child, and I, the matchmaker, am also easy to be. Liao Shulan said.

"Don't worry, we won't have any unreasonable demands, and we can't do that for the sake of the child, then again, we are such a girl, we must make her satisfied and happy. Xing Yanfang said.

"If you have any requirements, you can't say anything, let Yanfen come to me, and I will help you do it. Liao Shulan said.

"It's still thoughtful, I'll leave it to you. Xing Yanfang said.

After Liao Shulan left, Xing Yanfang and her husband said their opinions, if Yuan Yuan agreed, it was okay to get married, but they had to go out to live alone, his father was the vice president, and his mother was also a cadre, so he was used to calling people outside, and he must have a certain temper, and he had to look at their faces when he lived together, and no one would be involved when he moved out, and he would not make trouble because of family trivialities, if he really blushed, he would not get along well in the future.

"Not as strict as you say, although his father is a vice president, he must be stricter outside for work, it can't be like that at home, parents who don't think about their children, they won't put his official shelves, and then there is a child at home, it's not good to move out and live, and it doesn't seem harmonious if you don't live together, although it's a little unaccustomed at first, it will be fine after a long time, even if there are unpleasant times, you can tolerate each other, and everyone will be safe. Yuan Weihua said.

"You think too simply, we are just an ordinary family, it can be said that the door is not the right household, their family deals with people in the officialdom all day long, and there are people who come and go for a long time, unlike our family, there are no guests all year round, there must be a lot of etiquette rules, Yuan Yuan honestly won't say anything, and it can't do anything, if you don't say it in person, there will be a gap behind it, and the child doesn't want us to think about it. Xing Yanfang said.

"You see people as too complicated, no matter how big the official is, he has to live, although his status is higher, his own conditions are better, they are no different from us in life, how can there be so many things together for a long time, as long as they get along in harmony. Yuan Weihua said.

"Do you think that people are like you, you will not beat around the bush when you talk straight, you can say whatever you want, his father's management position is not low, it can be said that he has been on the battlefield for a long time, he has not met anything, and his heart and eyes are much more than yours, as the saying goes, the official has a long temper, and he has a style when he is an official, otherwise he can't be a big official, he doesn't have a smiling face all day long, he must not be in contact, or live alone, out of sight and out of mind. Xing Yanfang said.

"I don't think it's necessary to go out and live alone, to take care of each other together, once you have a child, it's more convenient to take care of the child, and you don't have to pick up and drop off the child. Yuan Weihua said.

"I've thought about this, it's because I have children in the future that I go out to live alone, it's convenient for us to go to see the children, and I have to see people's faces when I go to his house, and I have to accompany the smiling faces when I'm unhappy, and I have to accompany the smiling faces when I am unhappy, according to their words, we can't do this, although we have become in-laws, it's better to see each other less, and it seems to be affectionate when we meet each other in the eighth year," Xing Yanfang said.

"It's okay for you to think about it, everyone has seen the world, and it's not that kind of person at all. Yuan Weihua said.

"What you're saying is, I don't think about whom, this is our daughter, we have to think more, it's definitely not okay to marry and get angry. Xing Yanfang said.

"Now it's not as feudal as it used to be, and the relationship between people is equal, and whoever gives it to whom. Yuan Weihua said.

"His family is powerful and powerful, if he doesn't come in secret, what can you do. Xing Yanfang said.

"Wait for Yuan Yuan to come back and discuss with her, what to do to listen to their opinions. Yuan Weihua said.

"Yuan Yuan has no backbone, we have to arrange it for her. Xing Yanfang said.

At this time, Yuan Yuan came back, saw her daughter's happy appearance, and knew that the two were having fun, Xing Yanfang told her Liao Shulan's intention, Yuan Yuan didn't say anything, knowing that she agreed in her heart, she said her thoughts, after getting married, she must go out and live by herself, so that it is more convenient for everyone, Yuan Yuan felt that what her mother said made sense, nodded in agreement, and obeyed her mother's arrangement. Xing Yanfang then talked to her sister on the phone and said her request, Xing Yanfen agreed, there are a lot of family rules like that, the most annoying thing is to deal with guests during the New Year's holidays, there is a good saying, no one asks about the poor on the street, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, in order to tie up his family, relatives and friends must be indispensable, married and become a daughter-in-law, it is impossible to do nothing, the mother-in-law's guild is unhappy, just the hospitality is a headache, it is best to do this, lay the foundation from the roots, and save conflicts in the future.

"It's inconvenient for me to say this, so it's up to you to say it. Xing Yanfang said.

"There's no problem, I'll go and tell Liao Shulan, if you don't agree, you have to agree, otherwise you don't have to talk. Xing Yanfen said.

Xing Yanfang muttered about the matter to her husband again, Yuan Weihua disagreed, she couldn't make such a request, she wanted to get their consent, she couldn't be too reluctant, it would hurt the hearts of her parents, that parent didn't want her children to live together, and the children and grandchildren would be happy, so that life would be fun.

"I want to be with them too, but what can their family do? It's better to do it this way, it's convenient for both families. Xing Yanfang said.

"But Chinese tradition is like this, no one can change it, in fact, it is the same in everyone's house, as long as the children are filial, the heart of the hometown is happy, and they are willing to endure some hardships. Yuan Weihua said.

"I don't care about others, our daughter must go out to live when she gets married, this is my ultimate bottom line, and no one can change it. Xing Yanfang said stubbornly.

Because he is angry, his voice is much louder, his husband is too angry, he will always talk about his big truth, what is the use of just talking about big truths, others don't tell you this, as long as he is suitable and happy, he doesn't care whether he is reasonable or not, and he is reasonable, it depends on whose mouth can say, who can refute whom, and who will prevail in the end. Before a woman gets married, she can be used as a bargaining chip, but once she gets married and becomes someone's daughter-in-law, she can't decide some things by herself. If you don't insist at this time, it is tantamount to compromise, and you will definitely think that it is easy to bully and will not take yourself seriously.

"I think it's better to discuss with each other, and we can't have differences because of this, and it's not good to stiffen the relationship, and it's not good to get along with them in the future. Yuan Weihua said.

"I am in charge of my daughter's affairs, and his family has to agree if he doesn't agree. Xing Yanfang said. (To be continued......)