Chapter 1123: Postpartum Depression
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Seeing Yuan Yuan's contented expression, Qin Yafu couldn't help but nod, she sincerely admired her friend's bearing from the bottom of her heart. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
It is said that people can't look good, and the sea can't fight, who would have thought that Yuan Yuan, who looks lively and competitive on the outside, is actually a really elegant and atmospheric woman in her bones?
Originally, your house was not small, enough to live in, but if you succeed because your friends have changed to a bigger house, you will find guilt for yourself, tsk!" Qin Yafu shook her head and exclaimed, "Comrade Xin Ran has a wife like this, it is really a good blessing that he has cultivated in several lifetimes!"
"Come on, don't make me so great, the situation of each family is different, we can't compare with you, if Xin Ran has the conditions of your family's Zihang, I will definitely buy a house twice as big as your family!" Yuan Yuan rolled her eyes and disagreed.
"To be realistic, his brother and brother's conditions are limited, and their lives are not as good as ours, he is not without conscience, and while trying his best to help them, he doesn't want to wronged me, so he let himself go.
Why bother? I just want him to be able to live peacefully, and our family's life is free of worries. "Yuan Yuan's requirements are not high, peace and peace are enough.
"Yes, after a long time, it may be trivial, but we should not only focus on the abundance of material life, the most important thing is the thoughtfulness and care of the family.
Yuan Yuan, I didn't say this out of preference among friends, but you really deserve the reputation of a good wife and mother!"
Qin Yafu's praise for Yuan Yuan was sincere, speaking of which, she was held in the palm of her hand by her mother's family and her mother-in-law's family, and she never worried about these housework!
"Everyone has their own blessings, you don't have to feel sorry for Lin Zihang, the ups and downs between you are what ordinary people can't experience, ordinary has ordinary benefits, and your love has the difficulty of your love, there is nothing to compare. ”
Yuan Yuan is really Qin Yafu's confidant, and when she saw her melancholy face, she immediately thought of her thoughts.
"That's a good word, but I'm not a good wife after all......"
"It's not up to you to decide whether you are a good wife or not," Yuan Yuan looked at Qin Yafu sincerely, "Don't you understand?" For your lover, no matter how bad you are in the eyes of others, as long as he loves you, he thinks that you are worthy of his cherishing and possession, you love each other, where is the world, or something else that can stop it?"
Qin Yafu was slightly stunned, she understood this truth, and after so many years, she could be regarded as accepting Lin Zihang's kindness to her with peace of mind, but she still unconsciously felt guilty about him in her heart, and she always felt that she had a deep affection for him.
Today, Yuan Yuan's words made Qin Yafu re-examine her thoughts, it turned out that in her subconscious, she was still not sure enough about the relationship with Lin Zihang.
"Okay, don't be in a daze, I'm just saying that, how strong am I? As long as Xin Ran is busy, or on a business trip for a few days, he will also be cranky in his heart.
I think this is also a common problem of women, right? Because of deep love, so suffer from gains and losses, but it doesn't matter, it is rare that we meet all those who love themselves and the people they love, so we should cherish them and live them well. ”
Yuan Yuan didn't have any big reason to talk about, she just felt something, and said what she thought of, as for Qin Yafu's thoughts, she had always been sensitive and worried, and she had to resolve it slowly.
Yuan Yuan and Xin Jialin had lunch at Qin's house, and stayed until the afternoon, when Xin Ran got off work and picked up their mother and son.
Xin Ran is a diligent and calm person, his career has been developing well, and his family is even more satisfactory, so he naturally becomes more and more heroic and confident, at this time, he is holding his son with one hand and his wife with the other, sending them to the back seat of the car, closing the door, and then turning his head and waving goodbye to Qin Yafu and her parents.
Qin Yafu responded with a smile, and watched her friend's family leave, feeling extremely comfortable.
Marriage seems to be mainly firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but in fact, it is not necessarily, the grinding of trivial things in life, and the passage of time, have taken away the immaturity and youthfulness of the young man, but also left valuable responsibilities and responsibilities.
Let the family live happily, is the pursuit of men, at the same time, it is also the obligation of women, flying with wings, reflected in all aspects, one party is insufficient, there is another party to make up for it, each other can maintain neither humble nor arrogant, stable and calm attitude to treat marriage, maybe this is the magic weapon of the perfect family to be happy forever.
No matter how stubborn Qin Yafu is, she has learned more and more to grasp everything she has in her hands.
After dinner, Lin Zihang called on time as promised yesterday.
Qin Yafu deliberately went to the idle house to pick up the phone, it was more convenient to avoid her parents and talk to her husband.
After asking Lin Zihang about the progress of his work as usual, Qin Yafu also "reported" to him the performance of the children in her mother's house.
"Yes, my son and daughter didn't embarrass me!" Lin Zihang was proud, and then naturally asked his wife, "How is my wife?"
Qin Yafu took the initiative to admit with a smile, and by the way, she talked about the idea that she had planned for a long time: "Of course, I was thinking, when you return home from Beijing, I will take the children to take a taxi back, and we can almost ...... together."
"No, Yafu, I know you don't want me to be affected, but if you do that, it will only make me more uncomfortable!" Lin Zihang immediately interrupted Qin Yafu's words, and his tone became stern, "I'm outside, I'm already thinking about you, if you make your own decisions again, do you sincerely force me to go back to you now?"
"How can it be so serious? You think again, I'm just a ......."
"You are the mother of two children, not for yourself, you have to think about the children, right? In case they are a little uncomfortable or something on the way, how can you be busy alone?" Lin Zihang was not worried about his wife, so he could only threaten her with the children.
"Why is it so coincidental?" Qin Yafu didn't care, and was forced by his unfriendly attitude, so he had to mutter, "It's just more than an hour away, and I'll be home soon......
"Qin Yafu!" Lin Zihang raised his voice to express his dissatisfaction, but he still tried to persuade with a gentle attitude, "Don't forget that we are two children, when you get in the car, your parents can help you hold one, but what about getting out of the car?
"No, I asked my mother to help me sew a cloth pocket with a child, when I was a child, there was a neighbor in the south, that is, the child was carried on the back, and the free hands in front of me did nothing to get in the way, I left the luggage at my mother's house, anyway, it is not much, it is a big deal to take it away when I come next time, in this way, before getting out of the car, I will carry one first, and then hold the other, won't I get it?" Qin Yafu replied as if it was like that.
"No, there's no need to make yourself so nervous, you won't feel at ease all the way," Lin Zihang still objected, "Yafu, I know you've always wanted to do more things for me, but you have to do what you can, what you can do now is to take care of the children, and even more so take care of yourself."
These things are easy to say, but not easy to do, I have always been proud of your bravery and strength, if you think about anything more, it is sincerity to block me, you are willing to be separated by such a long distance, and let me not worry?"
In the face of her husband's righteous words, Qin Yafu had nothing to say, she admitted that she didn't think about it so much, but at the same time, she still felt a little aggrieved in her heart, "I always feel that I am worthless......
"What else do you want to do to make my two baby waiters so good and healthy? There are more and more people around us who have children, and you say, are the babies the best among them? Isn't this a credit that you have earned with your hard work? What more do you want? and continue to give me a dozen?"
Lin Zihang asked with a hippie smile, he didn't want her to think too much about what she didn't have.
"You just talk nonsense, who can afford to give birth?" Qin Yafu smiled bitterly, but couldn't help but complain, "Whose child is not the best in the eyes of his parents......?"
"Of course, a fool, how can a person who doesn't even love himself know how to love others?" Lin Zihang never felt that narcissism was any harm, for him, he wished that people all over the world would come to praise his favorite wife, so that she would not be able to be stable if she was thinking about everything and suffering from gains and losses.
"It seems to make a little sense," Qin Yafu bit her lip and nodded, then sighed softly, "But you can't do everything well, so that I can't find the value of my existence." ”
"I said, you are my spiritual pillar, without you, I can't do anything, why do you bother to drill the horns?" Lin Zihang suddenly burst into foul language, and he also felt that this topic was too much, and he was a little upset.
However, Lin Zihang immediately realized that something was wrong, and without waiting for Qin Yafu to speak, he changed his words
"Yaf, I know that you are now chained to your children at home, and you love to think nonsense, but there is really no need, I don't know how other people's lives are lived, I just hope that my own wife and children are happy every day, worry-free food and clothing is the foundation, and your real happiness is my greatest wish. ”
"I know, I don't know the blessing in the blessing, maybe it's just too comfortable, but I have more heart. ”
Qin Yafu pursed the corners of her mouth, she didn't feel annoyed by Lin Zihang's words, but she realized that she was stupid again, obviously the starting point was to surprise him and make him happy, why did she make him upset in the end?