Chapter 525: The Business of Marriage Therapy
Xie Jingzhen is a strange person. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
Maybe Xu Shuangchuan has not seen many people, the world is not wide, and I don't know that there are actually many people like Xie Jingzhen.
Xie Jingzhen is a staunch unmarried.
When he and Xu Shuangchuan were traveling, the two sat in the same row and lived opposite the door, although they gradually got acquainted and traveled together in a group, but the exchange always stayed politely on the surface. After Xu Shuangchuan approached him for consultation, the two did not meet, but the online conversation was more real.
What Xie said made Xu Shuangchuan still shocked when he was mourning his marriage. He said that there are many people who do not marry these years, and there will be more and more in the future.
Xu Shuang was puzzled, but she also wiped her tears and felt a little relieved, the group she was about to join was quite large, and she would not be too lonely psychologically in the future.
It's a trend. Because when a man and a woman get married, like particles in pairs, they will be subject to the co-dance track. And now people have their own energy running at high speed. If struggle is something that can be done by one person, then why should two people be involved?
Xu Shuangchuan thought about Li Tingting who was urged to marry, Lin Yu who was ruined, Gu Yiwei who was chased for marriage, and then thought about herself, only silence. She thought that Xie Jingzhen threw out such a concept to pull her into the gang, but in fact, she found him because she also wanted to ask if she was having a good time after joining the gang.
Xie was stunned, but he started to be a marriage therapist seriously.
This is his authentic profession, and of course, as an emotional counseling specialist, he provides counseling with a wide range of businesses, school anxiety, work anxiety...... All kinds of anxieties would be comforted by him, and he even took an order and asked him to interpret the dream, insisting that he associate the dream with the fortune.
But there are many men and women, don't look at the current life. Therefore, marriage problems have become Xie Jingzhen's main income business.
Xu Shuangchuan couldn't figure it out, how could Xie Jingzhen, who was not married, talk about marriage.
Perhaps, people who stand outside of marriage can analyze the defects of the communication mode between husband and wife from the perspective of getting along with people purely geographically, after all, husband and wife are still subordinate to the interaction between one individual and another in the end. Xie said that he does not necessarily persuade peace, sometimes he also persuades to leave, most of the time he does not persuade anything, but just guides the customer to decide for himself whether to deal with it or not.
This business experience, Xu Shuangchuan can't understand.
But it didn't matter, she felt a little better to have someone to talk to her during such a time.
Now, she and Chen Chi have nothing to say.
Since Wednesday quarreled, Chen Chi slammed the door and went out, he didn't come back for two consecutive nights, Xu Shuang fell in the night, it seemed that he was not waiting, he wanted to make a noise without arguing, biting the corner of the pillow and not allowing himself to be entangled, but his mind was always entangled about where he would live. So what, the night passes away, and the sky is bright. She cooled down and died down, and went back to her parents' house as usual on Friday, telling her parents that Chen Chi was very busy.
Xuan Chunhua always didn't listen to Xu Shuang, and chattered to call Chen Chi by herself, and Chen Chi also said that she was very busy. Maybe he spoke with a good attitude, Xu Shuang shrank in the corner of the sofa, secretly looked at her mother, and prepared two sets of coping plans in her heart, but she didn't find anything from her mother's face. She still ate and drank with a smile open, and hid in her boudoir behind closed doors before she lost sleep. On Sunday evening, she was urged by her parents to go back before it was dark.
Xu Shuangchuan struggled all the way, opened the door, but was silent for no reason. There was a black hole in the room, and a cold breath seeped out, which was even more lonely than the air in the dim light of the corridor.
Squeak, the door next door happened to open too, and the bright light of a hole leaked to the door, stepping out of the male neighbor, he glanced at Xu Shuangchuan, and half-turned around to lead a woman: "You don't need to turn off the light, I'll be back in a while." ”
This person's voice is warm and shallow, but he never greets Xu Shuangchuan, a close neighbor, he went in and out to see Xu Shuangchuan, his eyes were slanted to each other for a second and then moved away, very indifferent, just like the attitude of being as far away as possible if there is nothing to do. If the aunt next door talked about the tenants who kept changing like a flowing stream was a clear precaution, then the newly renovated male neighbor saw Xu Shuang is secretly alienated, and they all looked at the tenant's neighbor's look at the authentic house.
Xu Shuangchuan had long been used to it, and he wasn't ready to greet them, but he was just surprised, this male neighbor didn't know when he had a female partner, and he had never seen him when the house was renovated.
She silently walked into her door, her eyes open in the darkness, outside the door, the footsteps of the two people next door passed by, the crunch of women's high heels mixed with the muffled sound of men's running soles, kicking and crackling, staggered. It's the warmth of another home.
The footsteps were far away after a while, and Xu Shuang came back to his senses and groped for the light.
There was no change in the living room and kitchen, the door of the small study was open, Xu Shuang looked in, the folding bed was not closed, it was still in the old position, there was a thin quilt and a blanket that Chen Chi used to sleep on the sofa before, and there were a few shirts on the chair.
The bank card and flower cake she had placed on the table were gone, and now there was Chen Chi's computer and water glass, and he also used a glass as an ashtray, and several cigarette butts fell from the bottom.
The small study is full of traces of habitation and is slightly messy. It seems that Chen Chi came back after she returned to her parents' house, and before she left without occupying the big bed, he automatically moved to the bedroom to sleep, and now he has picked up the small study as a base.
Xu Shuang landed at the door of the small study and looked at it in a daze for a long time, and entered his bedroom.
When dealing with emotional problems, be sensible. Usually what you suspect is not necessarily what it is, but what you say, it may really be what it is, do you understand what I mean?
On the chat page, Xie Jingzhen's golden and jade words about marriage flashed bright blue, which was very eye-catching.
I know. You're saying that there are some things that can't be broken.
Exactly, in the beginning, there are some things that you can't wake up to.
Can't wake up, in case after waking up, he will realize that he knows true love, and he refuses to settle with the dregs anymore, is that what it means?
Drink a glass of water and be quiet.
I've ordered it and I'm still still.
It was almost eleven o'clock at night, and Xu Shuangxia, who desperately wanted to sleep but always had insomnia, heard a sound outside, and these rustling sounds quickly moved to the small study next door.
She closed her eyes and lay motionless under the covers.
Tuk-tuk, tuk-tuk. The door rang softly, and after a while, Chen Chi's voice sounded: "Have you slept? I want to get some clothes." ”
Xu Shuang suddenly opened his eyes and looked at the ceiling in the darkness.
Tuk-tuk.
She reached out and turned on the light, got up, wrapped herself in a thick dressing gown, and went over and opened the door.
The two looked at each other for the first time since Wednesday. Chen Chi couldn't see anything, at least not like what was shown on TV, and the quarrel at home immediately accumulated dust like an empty bag that no one cared about, and it collapsed into a decadent Tang Dynasty. His face is refreshing, black clothes and black pants, not sloppy at all, the slim-cut black shirt wraps a strong strong masculine temperament, and he is more and more upright and capable under the light, and he has stepped on a pair of black socks on his feet, and he shows a little more homely elegance in addition to Yinglang.
Xu Shuang fell sideways and stepped aside.
"......" Chen Chi's gaze fell on her face, and he said for a while, "There are many things tomorrow, I have to go to work very early, and I have to take my clothes first." ”
Xu Shuangchuan nodded slightly, and when he came in, she dodged out and poured a glass of water in the kitchen.
Chen Chi looked back at her back and didn't say anything.
Outside the kitchen window, the huge billboard in the distance is still bright and dazzling. Xu Shuangchuan held the cup, vaguely recalling, this family's advertising space seems to have occupied for a long time, why can't she be replaced, I don't know if she will see the new pattern. She heard the sound of the cabinet door closing, and was not in a hurry to go back to the room, but raised the cup and blew it, and carefully took two sips.
The glass window reflected her upper body, the string hair tie loosely tied her hair at the back of her neck, she forgot to take it before going to bed, and several handfuls of her pillow arched or scattered, loosely messy, and a few long hairs fell off the shoulders of the pink nightgown, twisting and twisting the hair fibers, which looked very obvious.
Xu Shuang glanced at the glass window expressionlessly, slowly poured the remaining boiled water into the sink, rinsed the cup and put it away, and then turned off the kitchen light.
Chen Chi stood at the door of the small study, watched her pass by, and said, "I have a business trip on Wednesday, go to Italy, and come back next Friday." ”
"Hmm. Xu Shuang stopped.
"Are Mom and Dad alright?"
"It's fine. ”
Xu Shuangchuan walked into the bedroom, didn't look back, and closed the door with his backhand. Her previous habit was that Chen Chi rummaged through the wardrobe by herself, and she would not worry about going over and sorting out the wardrobe again. Chen Chi's mother said that he was always not so meticulous, so Xu Shuangchuan was like a little tail, behind him, touching the places he had moved again, and meticulously for him.
Now she stood still, doing nothing.
Across the door, there was silence.
It's the time to sleep at night.
Xu Shuangchuan moved her feet and went back to bed.