Chapter 1080: Everything is well
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When Tang Xiaolian said this, she smiled slyly at her mother-in-law, and at the same time secretly changed the topic:
"At the wine table, four women, one is unwell, the mother of three children, Nian Yue and Yafu don't drink because they are still breastfeeding, but I'm not, I've already given Xinyi no milk, but vanity is weird, I feel very inferior when I hear the two of them say that the milk is very sufficient, so I also pretend to be feeding the child. ”
Tang Xiaolian originally intended to avoid her mother-in-law's questioning, but after talking about it, she felt bitter, if she wasn't so blind and strong all day long, wouldn't she have lived so hard?
"It's better not to drink alcohol, so that you can take care of your body. Lan's mother comforted with understanding, she knew best how hard her daughter-in-law had worked and how much suffering she had suffered in order to give milk.
As long as she heard about a new method, no matter how difficult it was to do, how disgusting the food was, and how difficult it was to swallow, Tang Xiaolian would follow the test, and she would admit whatever she was asked to eat, but unfortunately it didn't play any role, and there was still a little bit of milk, which was never enough for Lan Xinyi to eat half full.
The most hateful thing is that later, as Lan Xinyi grew up, her appetite became better and better, and she couldn't eat half full, but she added new problems.
Especially in the middle of the night, it was hard to coax Lan Xinyi not to cry, Tang Xiaolian was like before, holding her with one hand to eat breast milk and one hand to make milk powder, as a result, after she finished eating breast milk, as soon as her mouth drank the milk powder, she was anxious, and she cried again, saying that she would not eat milk powder anymore.
Later, Tang Xiaolian tried a few more times, but it was still the same, and she almost couldn't sleep all night, because Lan Xinyi was still hungry after enough trouble, and she couldn't eat much breast milk, so she naturally refused to give up.
There was no way, when Lan Xinyi cried enough, Tang Xiaolian directly made milk powder for her, not to mention, it was really because of the change of taste, when she couldn't eat any breast milk, she actually recognized it.
So, during the day, Tang Xiaolian discussed with her mother-in-law to wean Lan Xinyi, she had the right to call the shots about the child, but she always put her mother-in-law first, and she was always used to saying hello to her mother-in-law before doing it.
Of course, the main reason is that Tang Xiaolian understands her mother-in-law's temperament, a very kind old lady, but she is a little nosy, perhaps because she has been widowed for many years, she is extremely picky about everything about her son, which involves the growth of her granddaughter, Tang Xiaolian does not want to cause unnecessary contradictions.
Mother Lan naturally heard the howl of her granddaughter Chengsu during that time, and she also came over to help a few times, but unfortunately it had little effect, and she couldn't think of any other good way, so she had to agree.
Today, when I heard my daughter-in-law mention the matter of giving Lan Xinyi jealous milk, Lan's mother didn't feel good in her heart, and finally felt a little sorry for her hard work, and couldn't help but sigh faintly and said:
"Xiaolian, now there are more children without milk, I went out to buy vegetables a few days ago, and I met the child's grandmother in the opposite ward who was hospitalized with you, she said that her grandson is even more pitiful, since birth, his mother has no milk, and he is simply fed with milk powder.
Our Xinyi has been eating for so long, yes, and she has grown up, as long as our complementary food can keep up, she will grow up well. ”
"Well, I think so too, you see that now, Xinyi's physical condition is getting better and better, and when I took her to the hospital for vaccination with the Navy last week, I found that compared with other children of the same age, she is no longer small.
The doctor who gave Xinyi an injection every time also said that she didn't look like a premature baby at all now. When it came to her daughter's condition, Tang Xiaolian also became excited.
Recalling the conversation with her daughter-in-law, Lan's mother, who was sitting in the car, comforted her, and she couldn't help but sigh to her son:
"Navy, I often think, I don't know if it's the blessing I have cultivated in several lifetimes to get a simple, kind, and generous daughter-in-law like Xiaolian.
But, after all, I'm old, how long can I live with her? Isn't the main thing you? Can you stop ......?"
"Okay, Mom, I know!" Lan Haijun frowned, interrupting his mother's words in annoyance, and then, quickly realizing that his attitude towards his mother was too tough, he immediately explained in a gentle tone, "The snow is getting heavier and heavier, I'll send you home first!"
"Good. Lan's mother pursed the corners of her lips and responded simply, she understood that her son had been stubborn for many years, and it was not easy for his attitude to loosen up, the long road of life, and the days to come were still long, she believed that such a good Tang Xiaolian would definitely be able to influence him.
After Qin Yafu walked alone in the snow for a while, she finally shared a taxi with others and finally arrived home smoothly.
After entering the house, Qin Yafu changed her shoes, shook off the snow on her body, and after saying hello to her mother-in-law and Sister Jing, she took out the mobile phone in her bag, only to find that Lin Zihang had just called her, but fortunately, a few minutes had passed, and she hurriedly pressed the call back button.
Lin Zihang was mainly worried about the ice and snow, Qin Yafu would not be safe when she went home, and when she heard her voice, she reported that she was safe, so she didn't worry about it anymore, so she was busy with work with peace of mind.
After Qin Yafu put down the phone, she came to the bedroom and saw a pair of children sleeping quietly, and her heart was at peace.
She came to the window, looked at the white expanse outside, and couldn't help but feel refreshed, thinking that the winter covered in snow and covered in silver was not only beautiful and purified the dirty air, but also a good omen for the year of Ruixue Zhaofeng, it seems that next year, the farmers' crops should be harvested well.
New Year's Day came soon, and Lin Ziyao's family of three rushed to the provincial capital and had a lively meal with their family.
Lin Zihang and Qin Yafu took their children to live in Lin's house for a few days, and after that, the family of four returned to their own house and no longer let Lin's mother and Sister Jing accompany them at night.
Qin Yafu also felt that she was becoming more and more comfortable taking care of the children, especially when they cried at night and were not fierce, there was no need to restrain her mother-in-law and Sister Jing every day.
So, usually, after Lin Zihang went to work, Lin Mother and Sister Jing would come over to help, cook lunch and dinner, and when Lin Zihang rested, they would inform them that they didn't need to come over, and it was still very easy for the two to take care of the two children.
The days are peaceful and quiet to the end of the year, and there are still ten days to go before the New Year.
On this day, Lin Zihang returned home from work and discussed with his mother that he wanted to go to Grandpa Xu's house during the day tomorrow.
"Okay, let's go, a few days ago, I talked to them on the phone, and the voice was not as good as before, I was thinking, you went over to see it a year ago, and when the year was over, we would pick a good weather as a family and go to their house together." Mother Lin very much agreed with her son's idea.
"Well, the last time I went home, I went there once, and I saw that Grandma Xu's complexion was not very good, and I also wanted to discuss with them in the past, and see if they were willing to spend the New Year with us.
On the one hand, the children are too young, it is very difficult to toss, and they can't stay long, on the other hand, they are really lonely, getting older, and they feel that their eyes are more sad than before. Lin Zihang confessed his thoughts, and he had more expectations in his heart.
"Of course it's better, we've invited them for so many years, and they won't agree, if we can pick them up this year-" Lin Mu said this, paused, blinked quickly, and couldn't help but sigh softly, "It shows that they are really old." ”
Qin Yafu also knew that for so many years, the Lin family had invited Grandpa Xu and Grandma Xu to come to the house every year for the New Year, but they had never agreed.
"It's not that I'm old, it's that my mood has changed," Qin Yafu saw that the atmosphere of the conversation was a little sad, and simply came out to play a round, "Just like Grandma Xu is willing to accept Grandpa Xu home, they are slowly figuring it out, the two old men finally got together, and their mood is getting better and better, plus if they can stay with our Yichun and Yihe for a few more days, I feel that their mentality should be younger." ”
"Well, Jave is right, the relationship between the old man and the child is easier to get closer, they have been lonely for many years, maybe the children can play with the children, if they are willing to live with us in the future, your father's wish will be fulfilled. Mother Lin was a little moved, thinking that her mother had also passed away for so many years, it would be a comfort if she brought this old couple to live together.
"That's a good feeling, I received so much care from them when I was a child, and now it's time to give back. Lin Zihang looked forward to it happily, although he also knew that it was almost impossible for the Xu couple to stay, but he really hoped to have the opportunity to take care of them!
After calming down, Mother Lin smiled and nodded: "In the future, I will discuss with them slowly, and solve the problem of the New Year first, the old lady likes Yafu the most, you go, you should be able to invite them, but if they are still stubborn, don't force it, but they are happy." ”
Mother Lin was afraid that her son and daughter-in-law would be disappointed, so she told the worst result first.
"No problem, just do your best. "Don't look at Lin Zihang's usual domineering and arrogant, but in Grandpa Xu and Grandma Xu, he doesn't dare to play temper with others, he just wants to do more.
Early the next morning, the weather was sunny, although the temperature was not high, but it was not cold at all sitting in the air-conditioned car.
When the car drove to their hometown, they went to Qin's house first.
Although she went to visit Grandpa Xu and Grandma Xu, after all, Qin Yafu's maiden family is still here, and she has never come back since she was in the late stage of pregnancy and her body was inconvenient, of course, she has to take a look at her parents.