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"Let me be clear. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info because he is a villain, there will be no bottom line. There are no principles, no proportions, and no rules to behave. If there are no rules for playing the game, will the game still be played? Zhang Mingchou explained to Gou Yu.

"I get it. But there's one problem that can't be solved. Gou Yu said.

"What's the problem?"

"What is the difference between a villain and a gentleman?" Dog Leftover asked.

"It's a bit complicated. I have limitations in my age and knowledge, and I am not necessarily right. I think that when great wisdom people work together, they can often seek common ground while reserving small differences. In other words, on issues of principle, everyone has their own opinions, and after discussion or debate, they can always reach an agreement and are less stubborn. They are very good at learning from others and making up for their own shortcomings. Such people make rapid progress and are easy to get along with. Zhang Mingchou said such elegant words, which are also a set of sets, which are a little incommensurate with his age.

"When you say this, I think your father-in-law can be called a gentleman." The dog used Zhang Mingchou's basket to measure the gentleman.

"I also think that my father-in-law is qualified enough to be regarded as a gentleman. In our lives, this phenomenon is often seen. The mediocre gather, in the feelings and righteousness will quickly dissolve, in order to seek harmony for everyone. In such a group, it is taboo to be hurt and angry, and it will be detached from morality, and it will be difficult to get rid of big disasters because of small things. But such a group is short-lived. Sometimes I will worry about trivial things, and finally become enemies. To be a gentleman is to have a mind and a spirit of adhering to principles. With a broad mind, he is good at communicating and exchanging with others; You can listen to all kinds of opinions; The opinions of others can sober you up and make you see your own shortcomings and shortcomings. Correcting shortcomings is progress. ”

"Yes. I often see people talking to people and saying that they wear the same pair of pants, and the two of them chop off their heads to change them, and they can also breathe. Gou Yu added.

"The best thing to say is to breathe and share a common fate, but in fact it is just talking. Villains are generally self-righteous and rejoicing; I can't say it, I can't touch it; Unable to listen to other people's opinions, looking down on people for no reason, and not seeing the strengths of others and their own shortcomings.

When encountering big difficulties, they either walk away, or they are stubborn, and they are not good at resolving the situation and solving them with twists and turns. There are also those who are confused and confused, and they have never been big and happy to covet small profits, and such people are basically fun and righteous together, and they can't last long. ”

"Yes, although I don't have many contacts, I have seen too many people and things like this."

"But gentlemen must know how to stick to their principles very well, which is commonly called: play according to the rules of the game. This is a very high level, it is the accumulation of a certain amount of life experience, and it is not something that those who talk on paper can really do. Because adhering to principles and communication are contradictory, which is necessary for us to do great things. Adhering to principles is a thing that offends people in itself, and it is a serious removal of obstacles that hinder the development of the cause, which is endless; Communication is to let the participants understand the principle of doing things according to the rules of the game, adhering to principles is not rudely excluding dissidents, and communication is not unprincipled accommodation. To harmoniously unify the two, without a broad mind and a sense of right and wrong, a person with a gentlemanly spirit will not be able to do it at all, and will not be able to do it well. Therefore, gentlemen are together, although their opinions and opinions are often different, but they are always able to reach a consensus through communication and struggle, and they can get along for a long time. ”

"Do you have different opinions to say, don't keep them in your heart, and don't complain and shirk responsibility." The dog was inspired and immediately responded to the agreement.

"Another point is that we always like to be confused, and the gentleman and the villain are not absolute, but relative. We say that we read the same book together, and each has its own mysteries. The same essay topic, each of them is good. It's about each side of people, and it's always uneven. There is a saying that the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. Therefore, the gentleman and the villain are not born, nor are they eternal, they can be transformed into each other. The villain has a good heart, can understand the truth of being a man in social practice, learn from others' strengths, make up for his own shortcomings, constantly correct his own shortcomings, and make continuous progress for himself, and the villain will become a gentleman. Those who think that they are old, know a lot, have enough experience, and have a good grasp of their past lives, they are self-righteous, and they begin to teach others by pointing fingers, and they begin to listen to the criticism of others, and their brains begin to become rigid. It should be said that such a person is actually transforming into a villain. There is an old saying that when time changes, so does the Tao. Everything in the world is relative, and we can't stick to the rules, because things are developing and changing, otherwise there is no choice but to go backwards. ”

"There are too many of them.

I have often heard old people say that I can cross more bridges than you walk, eat more salt than you eat, and drink more wine than you drink. ”

"These are all clichés spoken by some people who rely on the old and sell the old."

"Yes, I'm disgusted to hear someone say that. Being older doesn't necessarily mean being more knowledgeable. Otherwise, how could there be such a thing as an old fool? ”

"Our ancestor Confucius once said that gentlemen are harmonious but different, and villains are the same but not harmonious. Gentlemen have harmonious hearts, but they see different things, so they say they are different. The villain's hobbies are the same, but they compete for profit, so they are not in harmony. Harmony and difference means that oneself must have a central idea, be able to reconcile the contradictory opinions of the left and right, and one's central idea is still independent and unswerving. The villain is different, he is easily influenced by others, even if others have influenced him, but everyone has their own aspirations, and when it comes to the stakes, they have different opinions, and they will not get along well, and they will naturally become the same but not harmonious. Therefore, a gentleman uses his own correct opinions to correct the wrong opinions of others, so that everything is just right, but he refuses to blindly follow and agree. The villain just blindly agreed, but refused to express his disagreement. When a gentleman gets along with others, his heart is peaceful, and his opinions are not necessarily the same. The villain gets along with people and often agrees with him, but where the benefits lie, the heart is not harmonious. The gentleman stresses harmony but does not mix with the dirt, and the villain blends with the same stream but does not emphasize harmony. Although there are differences in the above statements, the following points are still consistent: first, Confucius's words are about the difference between a gentleman and a villain; Second, Confucius put forward the cultivation and standards of gentlemen and villains from one aspect; Third, the most general understanding of this passage should be: although a gentleman has different ideas and concepts from others, he can live in harmony with others; Although the villain has the same ideas as others, he cannot get along with others. After Zhang Mingchou finished speaking, he pondered.

Seeing that Zhang Mingchou seemed to be thinking about something, the dog stopped talking, for fear that Zhang Mingchou would be disturbed. In the heart of the dog, he admires Zhang Mingchou very much now.

While the two of them were silent, both of them heard a murmuring sound coming from the walls of the sinkhole, like the sound of rain.